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My Father Made Love To My Wife —Gbenga Obasanjo

Last View on Sat 28th June, 2008
Last Modified on Mon 14th January, 2008 4:46:16 pm
Author: Posted by Admin Sahara

In what appears to be a messy divorce between Gbenga Obasanjo, son of former President Olusegun Obasanjo, and his estranged wife, Mojisola Olayemisi Amope, the first son of the former president has dropped a bombshell on his father’s alleged sexual intimacy with his wife, Moji. Gbenga not only accused his own father and Nigeria’s former president of having sex with his wife before awarding contracts to her, but also alleged that his wife’s father, Otunba Alex Onabanjo and other men slept with her.

This shocking revelation is contained in an affidavit he submitted to the court in response to a messy divorce case already in court.

There are a lotta other xtics that i would have stated (e.g. wise, loving, submissive etc) BUT i guess God's revelation covers it all. When God reveals him/ her to you, you can't go wrong. At least, i'm speaking from personal experience.

My Father (and my Father in law) Made Love To My Wife —Gbenga Obasanjo

Last View on Sat 28th June, 2008
Last Modified on Mon 14th January, 2008 4:46:16 pm
Author: Posted by Admin Sahara

In what appears to be a messy divorce between Gbenga Obasanjo, son of former President Olusegun Obasanjo, and his estranged wife, Mojisola Olayemisi Amope, the first son of the former president has dropped a bombshell on his father’s alleged sexual intimacy with his wife, Moji. Gbenga not only accused his own father and Nigeria’s former president of having sex with his wife before awarding contracts to her, but also alleged that his wife’s father, Otunba Alex Onabanjo and other men slept with her.

niyooo:
@ Pak as per fear about the stock market crashing. I think you should just relax, it’s just the market re-adjusting to the way it should actually be. One of the reasons for the downturn can be attributed to the directive by the CBN Governor that Banks should stop giving “margin” to stockbroking firms. . . .

JISIDAISY:
YOU KNOW, THERE REALLY MIGHT BE MORE GOOD LADIES THAN THERE ARE GOOD GUYZ. I FOR ONE AM A GOOD LADY. I'VE ALSO GOT GOOD FRIENDS. SINGLE WORKING CLASS GIRLS.(LESS THAN 30 OFCOURSE) ANYBODY INTERESTED?

JISIDAISY:
GUYS, WEN I THINK OF MARRIAGE, I THINK OF THE 2 PIPLE INVOLVED. FAMILY MAY WANNA INTERFER BUT HEY ITS JUST THE 2 PIPLE INVOLVED THAT SHUD MATTER. WHEN I DECIDE TO GET MARRIED(WHENEVER THAT IS) IT WUD BE TO WHOM I WANNA AND NOBODY ELSE. IF MY FAMILY DOESNT APPROVE, WELL I'LL JUST HOPE AND PRAY THAT IN TIME, THEY DO. SHIKENAN.

aniffy4eva:
Well, i don't know how true this is, but i heard that when a woman is single, rich and in her mid-30s, it becomes more difficult to hook up i guess it's all about "knowing your time and season and not letting them pass you by".

Just 2 questions to everyone, _{most especially the silent ones}, can we please know who the "married ones amongst us are?" and "what piece of advice do you have for the hopefuls . . ." ?

aniffy4eva:
About the marriage part. . . well. . . i think it depends on what you want in a lady. Well, from my viewpoint, there are far [b]MORE [/b]good females than good guys. I meet them all the time.

amightyo:
it's always warming coming here to read from you guys, lol.
Just tot I drop in to wish everyone the very best.

Turkey and Germany, is going to be a tough march.

stannesi:
Let me educated u guys a little about what i know about what dey call NPD meaning Narcissistic Personality Disorder

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First of all What is Narcissism?

A pattern of traits and behaviors which signify infatuation and obsession with one's self to the exclusion of all others and the egotistic and ruthless pursuit of one's gratification, dominance and ambition.

Most narcissists (75%) are men.

NPD is one of a "family" of personality disorders (formerly known as "Cluster B".

NPD is often diagnosed with other mental health disorders ("co-morbidity" - or with substance abuse, or impulsive and reckless behaviors ("dual diagnosis". It is estimated that 0.7-1% of the general population suffer from NPD.

Pathological narcissism was first described in detail by Freud. blah blah blah,

The onset of narcissism is in infancy, childhood and early adolescence. It is commonly attributed to childhood abuse and trauma inflicted by parents, authority figures, or even peers.

There is a whole range of narcissistic reactions - from the mild, reactive and transient to the permanent personality disorder.

Narcissists are either "Cerebral" (derive their narcissistic supply from their intelligence or academic achievements) - or "Somatic" (derive their narcissistic supply from their physique, exercise, physical or sexual prowess and "conquests".

Narcissists are either "Classic" or they are "Compensatory", or "Inverted" u can read more on that,

An all-pervasive pattern of grandiosity (in fantasy or behaviour), need for admiration or adulation and lack of empathy, usually beginning by early adulthood and present in various contexts.

Five (or more) of the following criteria must be met:
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[li]Feels grandiose and self-important (e.g., exaggerates achievements and talents to the point of lying, demands to be recognized as superior without commensurate achievements)[/li]

[li]Is obsessed with fantasies [/b]of [b]unlimited success, fame, fearsome power or omnipotence, unequalled brilliance (the cerebral narcissist), bodily beauty or sexual performance (the somatic narcissist), or ideal, everlasting, all-conquering love or passion[/li]

[li]Requires excessive admiration, adulation, attention and affirmation - or, failing that, wishes to be feared and to be notorious (narcissistic supply)[/li]

[li]Feels entitled. Expects unreasonable or special and favorable priorit[/b]y treatment. Demands automatic [b]and full compliance with his or her expectations[/li]

[li]Firmly convinced that he or she is unique and, being special, can only be understood by, should only be treated by, or associate with, other special or unique, or high-status people (or institutions)[/li]

[li]Is "interpersonally exploitative", i.e., uses others to achieve his or her own ends[/li]

[li]Devoid of empathy. Is unable or unwilling to identify with or acknowledge the [/b]feelings and needs of others[/li]

[li][b]Constantly envious of others or believes that they feel[b] the same [/b]about him or her[/li]

[li]Arrogant, haughty behaviours or attitudes coupled with rage when frustrated, contradicted, or confronted[/li]
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FIVE DON'T DO'S [b](How to Avoid the Wrath of the Narcissist)[/b]
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[li]Never disagree with the narcissist or contradict hi[/b]m[/li]

[li][b]Never offer him any i[b]ntimacy[/b][/li]

[li]Look awed by whatever attribute matters to him (for instance: by his professional achievements or by his good looks, or by his success with women and so on)[/li]

[li]Never remind him of life out there and if you do, connect it somehow to his sense of grandiosity[/li]

[li]Do not make any comment, which might directly or indirectly impinge on his self-image, omnipotence, judgment, omniscience, skills, capabilities, professional record, or even omnipresence. Bad sentences start with: "I think you overlooked , made a mistake here , you don't know , do you know , you were not here yesterday so , you cannot , you should , (perceived as rude imposition, narcissists react very badly to restrictions placed on their freedom) , I (never mention the fact that you are a separate, independent entity, narcissists regard others as extensions of their selves, their internalization processes were screwed up and they did not differentiate properly)[/li]

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blah blah blah blah blah

A narcissist is someone better-looking than you are. ha ha, lol
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Take notes of d words i stressed (either bold or italics)

niyooo:
Hi All, I think I'm finally up to speed not that I read everything but at least after browsing through I think i have an idea of how things have been.
Opoks is still ruling the waves. Though your words were a bit strong but I must confess I'm much more sympathetic to your views than to those of Kuwena's.

Kuwena once again has left the thread, ( I'm sure he'll keep quiet for a while and then come back to post again), but Kuwena not to worry, we'll be expecting your next post whenever you decide to post. I'm not willing to go into what the bone of contention has been but Kuwena as I think I've advised you before, be careful (wary) of what you post or put out in the open, so that it doesn't come back to haunt you. I know that right now in Nigeria, peeps get away with all sorts of atrocities, that's why you have peeps that have stolen and done all sorts of horrible things to this nation being recylced year after year and nothing is done to them but I can assure you a time will come in Nigeria that such stuff will no longer be acceptable (because i know that some day, we'll get it right because there's just no way we can continue like this), now just imagine if tomorrow or something you have the opportunity to actually hold an important position in Nigeria and all these XXXXXXXX words you've been uttering are brought up. You think anyone's going to be in a hurry to support or express belief in you? Anyway a word they say is enough for the wise.

Alfa, Happy Birthday in arrears.

Aniffy, Stan, Pak, Jisi, recent posters. How una dey?

Kenosky last time wey I post, I dey ask if u still dey send your early morning, late night one-liner, now I see say even that one sef, u no dey do again. Abi white man don wise up start to dey kidnap blackman too? Anyway how u dey?


Gotta go now, work beckons.

opokonwa:
Good morning o!
Nnoo nu o!


Speaking of which, I have you noticed that your posts often takes this trend:
My day was rough , I had a very rough week . . . work and stress wan kill me . . . and then . . .
God or Yahweh steps in and heals the day.
I appreciate you man.
Not a bad flavour . . . not bad at all!