₦airaland Forum

efewizey:
I blame d dude. Whats wrong with proposing in an enclosed space where if you get rejected you can simply feel the pain alone. I cant even imagine kneeling to ask a woman's hand in marriage. Am a black man with my dignity.

XhosaNostra:
I agree with you on that one. There's absolutely no need for a public proposal. I don't see what the big deal is with kneeling though. Ever since that old man spoke up against it, more guys are coming out of the woodwork, making similar claims. It comes across very copycat-like. If kneeling makes you feel less of a man for whatever weird reason, then the ego must be very fragile imo.

OceanOfJoy:
Coming from a male disguised as a female, you should know all about that.

This is my sister I'm talking about, if i can't speak for her, you can? . She went to Abuja for work for some months, didn't grow up in Naija and not your typical Naija woman chasing married men. One was honest enough to tell her his wife and kids live in the U.S and wanted to date her but she still said hell nah . She's married to a great guy now but the stories I heard about the manhos in Abuja, smh.

eleojo23:
Ha, there is something fishy about the recent fire outbreaks all over the country.

xendra:
ok, it's only your comment I've seen since. the others are just ranting with no point.

xendra:
please apart from dick and money, what other impact does a man add to a woman's life?

asking for a friend

so many mentions yet not 1 thing, guess that's all y'all have afterall, but you want a woman to be everything including a mother, househelp, maid, prostitute, manager and nanny for you. SMH

fidelitystrs:
Is this true presently in the society??

Kind of noticing this now in men.

Hmmm

helinues:
Dont contradict yourself

helinues:
We are not yet matured for Diaspora voting jare...

When we are still yet to organise credible elections locally..

GeneralPula:
Donald Duke

Babatunde Fashola

Yemi Osinbajo

Nigeria needs somebody that understand both local and international laws deeply!



I don’t even think the problem with this country is politics..

Politics all around the world is deeply dirty..

Our problem is we Nigerians..

We are just such an unfortunate humans I should say..

Greediness, selflessness, etc is deeply in about 95% of us! Either one day or the other, we are all suffering from this!

Politicians all around the world will steal by one way or the other, what matter is to care about the citizens and give them the best!

The best is what we are yet to receive ever since!

Don’t trust all this online miscreant paid Pdp and Apc supporters... They are more about what they stand to gain when their party is in power. I’ve been into political meetings before. They’re mostly unGodly fellow! If there are few that cares and disagree to their bullshiit, such would be brought down by allegations!

Confirmedzombie:
Ugly broke shapeless frustrated olosho. Using her puna to make money from married men.

A school drop out who cant spoke or wrote simple grama

shogsman:
Stay in your ducking country and half some self esteem,it is embarrassing when you see millions of people applying to run away from their country instead of staying to fix it,this is the best news of the year.

lilprinze:
Nigerians should stay at home and develop their country.

bmdmixer:
no pawn intended but their language sound like igbo

Freddykrueger:
When countries are donating funds to tackle poverty, improve scientific research, develop technology and help humanity, these head slammers are donating funds for mosques, indoctrinating fanatics and spreading terror all over the globe.

stupidity:
It’s weekend, I don’t work today, so don’t tell me I am jobless. Also pardon some of my post you might have come across that didn’t go well with you.

I just finished rolling weed and smoked some. I was sitting at the balcony watching this married neighbor of mine chyking a fine lady few blocks from my block. I know he was chyking her because I know him too well. He’s married to a beautiful wife and two kids.


So something occurred to me, if you, a married man starts keeping side chicks, let’s accept the truth with facts, your marriage is doomed the moment you start it. Wifey might be getting lazy, getting big stomach, not looking sexy anymore. Etc, but keeping a side chick or moving from one lady to another will worsen it.

Majority of homes tears apart because of a side chick. Fact!! When you start keeping side chicks, your home looses its glow because your heart is else where, you start judging your wife’s every action, her shape, big tummy and her excesses irritates you or doesn’t even bother you. You never want to spend time at home anymore, you start lying uncontrollably to cover tracks.

The worst part of it all is, your wife starts having a bitter and heavy heart because she’s suspecting you of trying to break the home.

Now, tell me how you’ll have a beautiful, successful, blissful and happy home when your heart is no longer at your home and your wife’s heart is not at peace with you, and the home. When your wife is not at peace with you and you know you are guilty as charged, believe me, it has a negative effect on you and your home in a level you’ll never understand.


Why get married in the first place if we are not really ready to “STAY MARRIED”.

Men are polygamous in nature, Yes we know that, but you see, that is one of the problem that was created along with this world, the creator of this world is very crafty. He created marriage as a union of one man and a woman, which is widely accepted. HE also created men to be polygamous so that the same men that hand picked a woman for themselves and marry, will also use the same hand to destroy the union with his polygamous madness.

There’s no other solution other than to use your brain. You can never have a happy home when your heart is not home and your wives heart is bitter towards you and your home.

There’s no two ways about it, when you start meeting other women, you just open doors to so many problems beyond your controls.

When a man attentions gets divided, it’s a major hit on his home. Larger part of his money starts going out, less comes home, your once beautiful wife no longer matters, you just can’t wait for that time you are going to spend with your side chick, you now see your marriage as a trap and not what you got into it for. Your wife starts feeling bitter, she could wish your car break down when you are going for a business appointment but her heart tells her you are going to meet your side chick.

The union is broken already. It might not prosper

Another alternative is to marry two wives or as many as you wish only if your wife consent to it and you are rich.

But if you are a one man, one woman person, hold yourself and use your sense. This world we live in is a mystery, most problems we face everyday has always been there, it was created from the beginning, it is now left for you to avoid them. Only then you will see the beauty of marriage and a happy lifetime.

Marry wisely, this is the only secret to having a happy ever after marriage and long life.

This post goes to the female folks too.

atiku4President:
Southern officer dealing with his brother; perhaps from the same zone. The CNS must be brought to book. He thinks the man he is dealing with will not one day be in a position to also deal with him?

donstan18:
I want Buhari to order the military to crush and shoot any Amu-otu-eke miscreant caught protesting, so that they'll feel the gravity of fvckery they supported against IPOB.

Nonsense and Amu-otu-eke

Sprumbaba:
Educate me more. Keep feeding people lies.

So, where did you see 17% sales tax in the US?

Another lie. Show me o.

urahara:
Before they start saying that standard of living is good in this countries thats why they can pay large v.a.t. , Rwanda , Togo, Benin , Niger have vat rates of 18 percent.


Ghana is 12.5 percent.

Sprumbaba:
No VAT in the US. Stop lying.

LabDNA:
Does SA and Namibia make the staggering billions you make in oil?

Does US and Canada, have looters who are bent on looting the country to death?

segzysexy:
The minimum wages of the mentioned countries is more than thrice higher than ours besides they set enabling working environment for businesses. So I see no reason why Nigerians envy them. Our government needs to put things in place well before imposing high tax on citizens. Cost of products are getting higher while unemployment and poverty rate is also getting higher. Where and how do you want Nigerians to cope?
FYI don't compare those mentioned countries economically to our country.

segzysexy:
are you for real?

patani:
That is to say DabestDoc should gbenue soun.. Ova sabi somebody

MoonandStar:
. We've done a lot in regards to this can't just talk about something here.

Angelawhite:
When I received my first salary, The first person I remembered was my Dad (mum is late) I remembered his sacrifices and sufferings he went through training me. I remembered his prayers each time he calls for me to get a job. I remembered how he sent me links to job adverts. My dad is like my god, a role model and I love him unconditionally.

Where was my pastor when I needed to pay my school fees ? Where was he when I rode okada to survive the hunger in school? When I dug building foundations and mixed concretes to buy textbooks? Where was he when I needed help the most ?

It’ll be foolishness on my part to ignore the very man who stood by me right from my birth and give a stranger my “first fruit”

When I got my first salary, I immediately sent my dad 10% of my salary, settled all my debts, and from the rest, I gave alms to the beggars. That is the order every sane mane should follow ! Your parents first because you owe them some debts (even though it’s not their entitlement), your creditors and beggars.

I find it more comfortable to help beggars than to help pastors

Bobolaola:
You tried your best man

Richdad50:


The hatred for Nigerians by black south Africans is deeply rooted in low self esteem.

Richdad