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favor914:I am not Igbo doesn't mean I shouldn't feel the pain of fellow Nigerians. You that is talking, don't you comment on the insecurity in the North? Why are you so concerned, when you are not a northerner? Tribalism everywhere, yet you blame the Fulani for the same attitude you are exhibiting right now. |
Many times, even the men are the cause. You stopped all the things you usually did with her when you were newly married. Besides, pre-marital sex is also a huge contributor. When you guys were not married, you were so busy f..king the hell out of each other. Now you are exhausted, after you have legitimized the union. This is very wrong, and should stop. You don't take a car home for testing, before paying for it, so why are you demanding sex from him/her before solemnisation? The Bible says, "Marriage is honourable and the bed undefiled"; Heb 13:4. If we had been doing the right thing this issue wouldn't have become a global pandemic. |
There are better ways to bring up your children than beating them every time they err. I personally don't like corporal punishment for kids, especially the type our moms, and sometimes our dads, meted out to us when we were kids. There are cases where kids have lost their lives, or seriously maimed for the rest of their lives, by punishments meted out by crazy parents. And these parents hardly bond with their kids. The only discussion you see them engaging their kids with is "go and buy this, or that, for me," or "come and eat", or "why did you do this, or that?" which invariably invites a trashing session. A kid usually grows into a good adult based on the ethics drilled into his psyche from childhood, by especially, the father. Many parents have failed in this regard. They hardly sit and discuss life matters with their children, most especially, the corporate ones, who are hardly at home, and hand over the care of their kids to house helps and school minders. I strongly recomend the scrapping of corporal punishments as means of correction in our country. There are much better methods of punishing a child for wrongdoings, and have you bothered having a talk with him/her, over their short-comings? When the Bible says, "Spare the rod, and spoil the child", it doesn't necessarily mean the cane. The rod, in scriptures, is always alluded to words. Most parents simply don't talk to their kids, except on basic issues. |
etrouble:That is your opinion, bro, and I know you are not speaking for all Yorubas. |
Ohanaeze Ndiigbo have totally sold Igbo land to Aso Rock Cabal. Even the Yorubas who we accuse of romancing with the Cabal are beginning to break their yoke off their neck by inaugurating a regional security outfit to combat the Fulani herdsmen menace. Till date, no effort has been put by the governors and political leaders of Igbo land to create any security outfit for protecting lives and properties of Ndi Igbo and strangers living amongst them. Even the one created by Mazi Kanu has been rejected by them. The betrayal of Igbo land by the so-called Ohanaeze Ndiigbo is monumental and frankly disturbing. If not for the so much hated IPOB, Igbo land would have been overrun by these criminal herdsmen, sponsored by Miyetti Allah. Tufiaa! NB. I'm not an Igbo man, neither an IPOB fan, so don't condemn me for stating the obvious. |
Hypocritical doctors. Same doctors that will demand payment first, before attending to serious, life threatening emergencies. They are alarmed that the government might stop their covid allowances, if they see nothing serious in the scamdemic, serious enough to warrant continual funding. Nonsense and NMA. |
But I thought this question was directed at ladies? No wonder we guys are losing our respect from the ladies. We just don't know when to shut up. |
Some of these cartoons are satanic and may contain characters that have demonic undertones. Once your children start exhibiting strange character, especially after watching a particular cartoon or movie, change it. |
Ade3131:They are politicains, with a lot if concern for their safety. Besides, I said I will only travel, after I have made it, and it will be for tourism only. |
Why are they not trying this shit in the Niger Delta? I believe the powers that are in Aso rock have a hand in this. No PDP dominated state is complaining of Fulani herdsmen issue. The APC zombie, lucre accumulating governors and senators, have sold themselves to this filthy rulership. |
mrkunlex:You people thought Buhari was your paddy, when you voted for him a second time, because he is a muslim, or because Osinbajo is your bros, abi? Una betray the south because of one uncultured herdsman, now the results are speaking for themselves. Unless there is a full uprising of the yorubas against fulani herdsmen invasion, with the support of all yoruba elite and elders, these fulani morons will continue to cut down innocent farmers and oppress the day lights out of all you omo yoruba. |
This is the summary of the whole marital crises saga that is currently on the increase. Since the society abandoned Bible-based, and local traditionally instituted marriage practices, our ladies have increasingly turned to social media platforms for advise and help. Many of these platforms have groups of divorced ladies who are looking out for more married ladies to join their ever increasing ranks, and weill therefore, post testimonies of howcp they've been living in peace and freedom since they divorced. They always paint surrealistic pictures of life as a young divorcee, living the carefree life. But, there is always two sides to the story, and the other side is safely hidden. They never tell of the lonely lives, ignominy and disrespect, these divorced women face every now and then, because the strenght of the woman, which is her husband, is no more. They never tell of the insecure lives they lead, and how men would use them for what they can provide, howdc boys, young enough to be their grand-children, would approach them for dating. They will never tell of the insults and abuse they get from their own family members who, at the slightest provocation, remind them of how they messed their marriages up, and how they can't even keep their husbands. All in all, the society and the so called civilized standards of living, has massively contributed to the rising cases of marital crises and consequent divorces. Men have never changed through the millenia, and it lies on the woman to reign the men and keep them glued their homes by offering them the best of their care and attention, prayers, sex, etc. Even if the man was a womanizer, your constant nagging and threats will not change him, but rather, make him worse. If you married him as a womanizer, then you learn to live with him, because your nagging can't change him. You knew all along he is a womanizer, but went ahead anyway, so why complain? Our ladies have forgotten how to be submissive, that is why they are no longer finding it funny. One advice; if you know you will never be able to submit to, and respect your husbands to be, please, for the sake of your sanity and that of the man, don't marry him. |
Silly, stupid decision makers. They never declared a state of emergency on hunger, poverty and insecurity that has taken far more lives than a weak disease like covid. Nonsense and political leaders with wrong priorities.. |
I will never relocate to any foreign country if I have that kind of money to pay for visa and travel expenses. I will invest it in Naija and become a bastard millionaire in less than ten years. I will travel when I'm made, for tourism only. |
Hm hm hm hm! Wahala be like petrol and matches. E no dey hard to start. Since women have started overtaking Nigerian men in the business of cheating, they should also be ready to bear the consequencies and responsibilities it entails. |
That is how the Fall of America starts. America has already fallen, and democracy, as we know it today, is over. |
Coronabirus:Did you hear yourself? Atiku a herder? Come on. He may be from fulani tribe, but not every fulani is a herder. |
dammyz101:He is being paid peanuts to talk trash for his APC bosses. |
Exc2000:Fuel at how much in 2020? |
sapphiere:Who paid the money for the wedding? The man has the final say in any matter arising in his house, not the woman. A woman has only as much right as her husband gives her. She cannot go and get preggers for someone else and come and be claiming rights. She leaves the house, if I find out. |
NCDC live scores, as per usual. They heard of second wave in foreign countries, gbam, the numbers also went up in Nigeria. You will just know that something isn't right about this whole thing. Why did the scores not go up, after Edo and Ondo States election? It only started going up after Endsars protest. If anybody here is still calling it a conspiracy theory, even after numerous pointers showing the obvious signs, I wonder when they will learn. |
The only way to help is to introduce him to Jesus Christ. That is the only One who can wean your dad off marijuana usage, because from every indication, your dad is a real niggarrr (in the voice of Slawormir) |
Piano |
anochuko01:Busy ni! He has managers managing his numerous establishments who only give him situation reports. That dude has all the time in the world. |
Perfectsouth:Quietly pick the money and go to the nearest aboki dollar, change it to naira notes and have it transfered to my bank account asap |
Tolexander:Haha haha! Brainimeter! Funny. Nigerians can be so... |
What's the point. He would have just wished everyone happy new year and go about his business of failure. |
Unstable leadership. No wonder the country is heading nowhere. They say something today and something else the next moment. |
BreconHills:What are we defending? We defend nothing but our faith in Christ, which is being threatened by these diabolical maniacs calling themselves globalists. And, unfortunately, members of the deep church are being used to further this agenda. And if you are part of this deep church by the way you are actively defending this whole mess called covid19, I guess you are one of them. I just told you I and my family members, gym clients, even the resident doctor, were infected, and recovered very well, yet you are busy defending what, I don't know. Please, all I'm saying is, they can go ahead and believe whatever they want, but should us to continue with our congregational worship. It is better to worship God and die, than to obey the world. And don't tell me I can worship in my house. If that were the case why do we congregate? There would have been no need for that. And if you are thinking of the tithes and offerings, we could still do it online. And don't even think of those who are poor, who don't have accounts. They hardly give in church. I am saying this because some of you believe the pastors need us in church just for the money. If you want to join the world in attacking the church, you are welcome. But leave us to defend our faith in Christ Jesus. |
IamWonderful:Yeah! Just as the northern leadership has plunged Nigeria into extreme poverty, forcing the already avaricious easterners into crimes, just so they can survive. But they are still better than the equally impoverished northern almajirai, who are hoodwinked into terrorism and banditry to survive their own wicked rulers. At least, an Igbo man will want to make money without killing people en masse, if it can be helped. Don't judge me in any way, because I'm not Igbo. I'm only stating the obvious. |
BreconHills:There is a big difference between Christianity, as practiced by the apostles, from Judaism, as practiced by the faithless and carnal Jews of the old testament. There's also a big difference between the Roman Catholic religion and Evangelical Christian doctrine, as practiced by real born again christians. If they (Roman catholics) have chosen to help these diabolical globalists spread falsehood, propaganda lies, and fear-mongering, let them continue. But it will not stop us from holding our normal church services, period. Why did they not play politics with Ebola? Hahaha! It was too real, and you don't play politics with wild fire. |
Wahala be like okro soup and foofoo. E no hard to pass for throat. This matter no reach anywhere, because the defaulters are government friends. |
