Whatever you do, don't beat her.

Be looking at her until her plans comes to light.


Do not give in to her demands anymore.

She has a plan in the offing.

Let her folks know what is going on.

She was not patient at all. Was also extremely stupid.

Imagine the havoc and chaos we would commit if we could buy or add extra lives to our lives.

Ego and pride and lack of love for one's State is what we are seeing playing out.

Lamabel:
Hi Everyone,

I need your opinion, especially visa gurus in the house. My parents were recently denied their visit visa to come for my graduation in the US.
To put it in context,
My dad has not traveled before; however, my mum has been to the US three times, but her visa expired in 2018, so she could not do Dropbox again. She has applied again twice (alone), and this recent denial with my dad is the third one.
She used 179 days during her second visit to the US, and I think that is why they kept denying her because they always asked what she was doing for that long all three times, she was denied.

I want to apply for them again next year and was wondering if there is anything I can do to improve their chances.

I used almost same number of days in 2018 and when i reapplied in 2023 I got it.

I think if she had replied that she was recuperating from a job stress related job it might sound plausible for her to stay that long a time.


There probably was a red flag in her form hence the refusal.

Or they just didn't want to give as per the quota for the day already filled.

That's why giving the form to be filled by a visa assistant gives clarity. We see stuff you would not ordinarily see as a problem.


Best of luck on your applications for your parents next year.

Ifeuche:
Hello Everyone,

please I need your advice. My parents are planning to visit for my graduation (I'm an F1 student) in the USA. My dad's friend's son is also graduating in May 2024 close to my graduation date. On their DS160, they plan to use his (my dad's friend's) as the contact person in the USA since he's a PR holder and is more financially suited to host them and also since they would be going there first before coming to my state.

My questions are:
1. Is there any risk in doing this?
2. Does he need an invite from his friend or my school to take to the interview?
3. Has anyone (student preferably) had an experience of inviting parents for graduation, and did it go well?
4. Any other advice on this?

Thank you and i look forward to your responses.

I would advise they use you their son as the one whose graduation they are coming for.

Reasonable IMO.

Retirement is better in Nigeria sha ooo.

For those who demonise Nigeria ehn....

God bless and prosper Nigeria 🇳🇬 and Nigerians

LASEPA to da rescue.

Any girl dating a man of questionable character needs to be on her guard constantly.

A love-vendor will love-vendor you one day.


A drug addict or drug mule will lead you into drug addiction or being a drug mule.


A ritualist will use you fit his rituals one day ...

A yahoo boy will use you for either rituals or make you a yahoo specialist.


A thief will make you a thief or an accomplice one day.


A paedophile will turn you into an enabler or a sadist fellow paedophile.


Who you date determines your future and a reflection of who you are.


What you condone is who you are.

yesloaded:
Market leaders needs to take market sanitation very serious

Health is wealth

Exactly!!!!!!!!!

Most of us are just pigs throwing trash anywhere and everywhere.

At the Mile 2 Train Station a guy casually dropped his empty bottle on the floor.. A Train Staff picked it up and reprimanded him.

Not only Market people who are dirty and that is why I wish they had not stopped the monthly sanitation in Lagos State.

It made people to be more aware of cleaning their surroundings.

wilmafrancis:
Hello all,good morning, please can attending a church I watch or should I say attend online be a good reason as purpose of travelling to the United state for Live encounter, that's without invite from the church, just going on my own and also to tour the city,spending just 11days .from u.k to u.s.a ?..

Not a sound reason when being interviewed.
Fill that you are going for vacation and include The Church as one of the places to visit.

udy4real:


Wow,are you for real?
Does that mean I can’t get appointment for around May/June 2024
Thanks dear

You can but you would have to keep checking and pray that a date comes out.

I would advise you to lock down any date you see and keep checking.

That is what I do for my clients and check day and night.

udy4real:


No I haven’t started yet, I am waiting for the invite to the wedding before I fill it out
Thanks a lot for this info

Start right away so you can get a date please.

The dates for Lagos appointment are now November 2024.

wilmafrancis:


Lovely response, please is there a place where I can save the initial spaces have filled when an ready to continue the rest unfilled part ?. Having a date will help me make the right choice of when I want to leave the country and also when to book for a reservation for an hotel and flight ?
Pls do you have idea in the site i can book for a flight ? Ahead.

When you exit the form application, that is you saving the form for the next time.

You do not need to book a flight for The US visa.

Are they the owners of the business for them to assault Government Officials?


Did their Boss give them the order to assault Government Officials and to remove the seal?


Someone asked if there was court order and I laugh.


The ones who complain of lawlessness in Nigeria are the same ones who support, condone and encourage lawless animalistic behaviour.

mercyp001:
Pls, any tips on how to get closer interview appointment booking date?
Thanks in advance.

Prayers and hope.

Not joking or being sarcastic.

fkj950ax:


You CANNOT get an appointment WITHOUT filing DS160.

You need the Confirmation Number that is generated AFTER you submit the DS160 to book appointment.

Yes you can.

Once you start filling your form, you get a DS160 number and use it to get your interview date.

You do not need to submit before you get an appointment date.

I do this for my clients always.

Those that preached abstaining from Sex and watch how God will bless you with all the goodies of life are meant to be blamed for this faulty thinking.

New Wife ? At 67yrs

NorthernAgender:
He called on the Nigerian government to take sincere steps to end the crisis and expressed solidarity with Palestine.

You see food eat that's why you are doing rally for ordinary Arabs people that hate black. Shame

God bless you for this comment.

I should be more bothered about what happens in my country and continent ..

And these too....

If she was on her way to an event, she could have worn a more appropriate outfit to The Police Station and then changed on her way to the event.

Her and her stylist are tone deaf and did not read the room.


Even it was meant to get people talking, still inappropriate.

dynamic006:
Visa Gurus in the house, kindly advise me on what could be a read flag in my application or reaponse to the consular recently

Me : Good morning
Consular: Good morning

Consular : what's your purpose of travel to the U.S,
Me : I will be traveling to the U.S for a conference organized by ...........,

Consular : why do you want to attend the conference.
Me .: The conference provide a platform to share and gain knowledge for expert from around the world on........ Okay ... consular cut me short

consular: Have you ever travel out of Nigeria
Me : yes , I have been to Kenya for a conference, sychelles and Barbados.

Consular: Are you married .
Me : yes, I am hapilly married with a beautiful.....she cut me short

consular : have you been on a vacation with your family
Me . No,

consular : Why
Me : I have no dead spaces in the last 5 years, I got my job inthe pursuit of my Masters degree so I managed work and masters together . there is no time at that moment.

Consular : when did you get married .
Me: 2014

Consular : so you see.....
consular : initially looking at white paper and latter issued blue papper and that's all

My question: Can I get a date to reapply, what will be my chances of getting it if I reapply for this same conference. Date of conference is 16th of oct. won't it look despirate if I get a date to reapply before this date.

kindly advise Mr accordingly. Thanks

Are you married?

Yes should be your answer.



Have you gone on vacation with your family?

Your response: Yes to Obudu, Abeokuta, Ikogosi all in Nigeria that you would not need to show evidence of.

He is not being fair to you.

Stand your ground that it would not be possible for him to stay a few days in the week .

You might lose a friend in him but you have forestalled any future issues him living with you can bring.

tydi:


Probably he's high on his stuff.

lolz.

Godly contentment is key.


if he had stayed focused on his shoemaking, he could have stayed out of this mess he has entered into.


Drug peddling is EVIL.

tydi:
Where my oraimo cord make I wipe any tribal bigot here

I heard this man walked into the airport with another skunk for export when his freight agent was arrested.

He did??😳😳😳😲
Didn't he realise that it is an offence?

shineeye1:
This is how they deceive the gullible and those who ask no questions that they are fellow builders of the "house of God" when in actual fact they are building their personal companies and business empires. Woe unto these penterascals!

Suddenly, Jimmy who never found any attraction in the "work of God" is called to become the head of the table of a multibillion naira spinning company. Jimmy answers to the money call . Lousy fellows who have Americanized the gospel . In a matter of time, the dreadlocks of Jimmy will become the way of the company staff . They are empty vessels making loud noises that signify nothing. They are hollow pipes that have nothing of divine value to offer. Theirs is the vainglory of materialism.

He has always been preaching. He was a Youth Pastor when I was still a member and that was 10yrs ago.

VinnyBaba:


This Guy that acted one TV soap Opera where he Steals from his mother (Gloria Anozie).🤔

He looks too RUGGED to be a Pastor.🙁😕

He resembles a GIGOLO. 😒

He is married with kids.

Been a Pastor for years...

Looks like a gigolo is funny. it's hilarious

He is educated ooo.

We need to let go of our biases .

May he be returned ALIVE LORD!

A very , very nice neighbour he was.


Father Lord, let these kidnappers have a change of heart and release him asap in Jesus name I pray.

Every woman and man in a relationship must partake in the bills paying of a home they co-habit in.



That is why a man should not prevent a woman from working or being ambitious for any reasos whatsoever so that when it comes to bills being paid it won't become a problem in the future.


That is why marriages crash when they get abroad.


Both genders must work and contribute even if the other party is wealthier.

It takes a lot to marry a single parent.


Great amount of time needs to be given to communication, patience and therapy for the adults and the kids involved.

I would honestly advise any single mom not to remarry or marry.

Have a longterm partner .

Date but marry after your kids are in the university.

Or if you marry stay separately.


It takes great maturity and patience plus teamwork to have a successful union with single parent of either gender .

My exact same sentiments!!!!!


An Economist thinks of making things better and not profiting for a select few like Banker Meffyboy was doing.



That being said, an enabling environment is also needed to reduce the effects of inflation.


Decades ago, we should have been planning how to ensure that businesses are birthed and thrive in Nigeria.


I pray the anointing and spirit of an Economist falls on the new CBN Governor.