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Don't ever let anyone subject you to undesirable pressure not even your parents..no two destinies are the same..when you house a lady who you have no intention of marriage soon,you only end up giving yourself undue pressure.the responsibility of that girl will be on your head...yes you will enjoy unconditional companionship and sex but are you prepared?.... whether you can afford it or not always seek to do the right thing..get married probably and have peace not decieving anyone.... remember we will all give account oneday.

Be intentional about leaving right always.

I decree healing upon you and your family.there shall be no loss.stay strong our lord God will see you through.. Amen

Those kids from montessori schools come out very brilliant and extremely smart.you can't play on their intelligence.. it's a very good foundation for kids( if you can afford it o)..

Those kids from montessori schools come out very brilliant and extremely smart.you can't play on their intelligence.. it's a very good foundation for kids( if you can afford it o)..

Go to Benue..the houses are cheap depending on the area.the food are cheap too and you will have peace...but don't go to the villages o....choose the capital (make sure it's the capital)......and Abuja is just 4hrs from Benue so you could touch home sometimes.

I don't understand this your story o. I thought you said you were happy in this new compound, that everyone gave you a warm welcome..so what's the problem now?

What is the landlady doing to irritate you?

Throw more light so people could give you advice

My own is that, does the pastor not want 2022 to open for him?...he should have been the first giver.


People don wise

Instead of you to cancel it in prayers,if you really don't want him to die.you are here saying you are confused...if that guy dies tomorrow how would you feel? because it was shown so you could pray about it..... except you are not a Christian.

Don't confront her, ignore her...shey she will come back to the city and will need another money for business?

No talk anything and watch God fight for you.

You men don't like women that gives you peace and less trouble..you are always looking for the one who will give you unnecessary drama so that you can exhibit your manly character.......men like challenges....I think you haven't met the devil's daughter.pray you don't

You just wanted to tell us that you are handsome.. ok... now we know.


Back to your question......flee from every form of sin....pikin wey go fine na him parents go decide no be neighbors......

Breakfast go plenty this december

What you can't manage and control during courtship,you can't control in marriage.it will grows worse

I blame both the school and the parent.
Firstly the parent..how will your child school call you to come pick up your child that he broke his leg,on getting to the school you were met with how sylvester was looking and you kept quiet? Until the child died you now came out to speak up.all through the term,did you not go to check up on the child welfare? As a prayerful parent God must have shown you that something is wrong but you ignored cos of chasing money for big fees.



Secondly the school....how can a school tell me that they didn't know that students practices cultism inside it premises.how can the school say they don't know this kids? where the hostel keepers, cleaners,teachers etc not hearing the shout and cry of that child when they tortured him?....the school needs proper investigation



And as for those erring kids whom their parents are shielding..the table will turn and they will be the next victims since they couldn't correct their kids.


We will give account one day

This is how kids are to behave..

What I see here is a selfish lady,who just wants her only her ideas to be followed.... marriage is more than this....have you thought of his own family?..

Sister you aren't ready for marriage.

You are not alone.i always feel that way too.its only good children that reason like that.cos some other children no even send,them go dey put pressure for their parent head.

The only thing you should be doing is keep praying for God's help,study hard and come out to get a something so you can fulfill your dreams of making them proud..no follow children of the world,avoid slay queens..focus on God only

Same thing I'm going through..my family wants me to come back to stay with them...but I have made up my mind to stand on my own..... even the bible says,a man should leave his father and mother (doesn't partain to only marriage).you go survive...this parents want to be controlling somebody

If your parent had sold you,I'm sure you wouldn't be here having this kind of thought.

The feeling is heavenly......you do what you like,eat what you like, sleep naked.. sleep whenever you like.your provisions and food wouldnt mysteriously disappear cos you know it's just you alone.best feeling

So are you trying to tell me the husband is faithful in that abroad.....since 2007?.



Abeg leave that woman.


Bringing the man home to live with her and the kids is very bad though.she for just dey run am outside

Not good at all...once you are married,every connection with ex should die..if the ex was that good why him no marry am?..why did she come to you knowing fully well that you are not as wealthy as her ex..my brother correct your wife.


If she founds out you are still in contact with your ex and even collecting gifts,how will she feel?

Not late at all but you need to pray first cos most girls this days are too desperate to be tagged mrs.... especially when they hear the guy came from abroad....talk to God and keep an open heart....no too mumu for love

I don't usually comment but you see this one......the elder brother made a big mistake sef,after slapping that foolish girl he should have beaten his brother too for tolerating such behavior from the girl.

What kind of weak man is this?..op you've really disappointed men..haaa!!!. how can you allow a desperate woman into your home?. your wife will be so unhappy with this bad decision you've made.even your kids have seen the mistake...soon that woman will turn you against your own kids and your children will never forgive you for it.

Get that woman out

I will advice you buy what you çan little by little.you must not get all the items at once.remember you will eat o.and I'm sure the money for food is still part of that 100k you are happy you've got.


if you are working,each month get 2_3 things for the house..small small like that your house will meet your taste.

Ilamina:
They are all bad

that means you have dated over 50k uyo guys

Ilamina:
They are all bad

that means you have dated over 50k uyo guys

Apus:
To begin with that money can't even feed one for two weeks talk less of rent, except he/she lives in the village.

Same country politicians splash what some people earn in their lifetime on cars and frivolities.

if it's even car I will understand but they splash it on dog's breakfast or their children under wears or just a shoe

for the fact you met a bad one does not mean all are the same......humans are different aunty.


if e tire you.quit

wahala no dey finish..op if you are not happy with the relationship mbok quit.... aunty girlfriend if you are not happy quit..stop all this drama.




marriage is team work..thank God you both have good source of income coming in monthly....


there are many girls waiting to collect him within few seconds and mr op there are many men waiting to take her in few seconds.

desperate ladies can do anything to get married...poor innocent woman in the grave wouldn't forgive that lady..God pls take away friends like this from my life