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Igbojihadist:
Good day nairalanders there is this very girl I love so much. I have expressed my feeling to her but she keeps telling me she is not ready yet. It has been four years now and am finding it difficult to move on or love any other girl.

Its ruining me as all i do each day is to think of her, atimes I might decide not to call her again within three days or what she would call me telling me is this the type of love I have for her. I am overwhelmed but she doesn't understand how i feel (please i need advice) plz anyone who would remind me of the present economy should stay off as ur problem is not mine.

HRHQueenPhil:
. Why not? As far as he is truthful and we agree that it shld never happen again

HRHQueenPhil:
Some still see their ex as purely friends so let's stop working with this reprobate mind. As far as u did not see Dem fvcking, give her the benefit of doubt

HRHQueenPhil:
U are the person, he is not matured enof to marry. To have a sweet marriage, u must learn how to forgive. If u can't forgive, den don't bother getting married..
He shld go abroad and join the monastery

Rozcol:
Yes I had to end my friendship with my once very good friend because she saw nothing wrong in dating someone who used to be so interested in me, that I turned him down isn't enough reason for her to date him

There are so many other guys she can date and it shows the guy does not genuinely love her else he wouldn't have come for me in the first place.

I don't think it's cool for a close friend to go ahead and date someone who was once interested in her friend, its betrayal and also a sign that she doesn't know and respect boundaries and that's dangerous to me, such friends are not to be trusted. She can stab you at the back when you least expect.

Now she's telling people that I'm selfish and petty for having issues with her decision to date the so called guy. What do you think?

RadioMOUTH:
I have been dating a girl over a year now, she has been so nice to me over this one year, I was in another relationship before I met her... she was so nice to me that I had to dump the other girl which I dated from 2014 till early (2020... about 6 years)

Right now, I don't know what to comment on my relationship anymore.... she helped me stop crack and other hard drugs which I was taking...(I appreciate that from her)


Before I met her she has a 6year old daughter which is now 7... ever since I met her.. I've been doing my best, I Normally spend my money in hotels and clubs but now it ends in the house... I love her daughter like she's mine, and she knows that... I pay her fees..


BUT HERE IS THE PROBLEM



I'm a hot tempered person, words annoy me rather than action... I destroy things when I'm angry... I'm just 27 years old and she's 28... a programmer by profession..m I own a land and a personal car today...


She's respectful and does what a woman will do to satisfy every man, but most times when I'm broke, there's always trouble in the house... and I feel loved when I have money...


I have never hit a woman my whole life till I met her, now I'm used to beating and shouting... now she's even telling me I talk too much when I'm complaining..

This was never my life...


Please I need options..m what do I do, I've just few hours ago hit her, because I saw her texting someone and she rescued to open her phone... causing damage on her left eye .... please what do I do....


I don't want to kill someone because I now feel I'm obsessed about her... I'm confused


Modified:

My old relationship was worst... I found love and care in this lady...

chatinent:
I have an ebook on that!

mugnmuffin:
Dear Nairalanders,
I have an issue that has been on my mind for weeks now. My fiancé and I have been dating for over three years. I love him and he loves me too. We are physically attracted to each other. We’re both catholic but since I graduated, during my service year I gave my life to Christ, got saved and left the Catholic Church. So I’ve been a Pentecostal Christian since then. He on the other hand is still catholic. I subtly try to nudge him to consider getting saved, i.e acknowledging Christ as lord and savior and becoming born again but he is content with his laidback Christian life.

Earlier this year, he asked to meet my parents and I let him. My parents like him especially because my younger sis is married and they have been waiting for me too. They’re glad I’ve someone. However, after the introduction,I regret it. I’m now certain that he’s not the one. I think about my spiritual life and how lukewarm he is about the things of God, I think about kids and how we’ll raise the, with such differing views about God and I’m discouraged. I feel like I’m settling because he checks all the boxes on the checklist of physical attributes. Another mistake I made is, I didn’t pray about this decision and that worries me because anything that involves him,I just act with pausing to ask God, but I always ask God about other aspects of my life. So it’s like my associating with him is a minus for my spiritual life and that’s a huge cause for concern.

At this point, I want to tell my parents I am not convinced it’s him but I’m afraid of the disappointment this will cause. *sigh* I’ll appreciate your thoughts, comments, criticisms...

CilicMarin:
Mtcheeew! Useless MAN!

Igbojihadist:
Good morning Nairalanders.

Please I need advice on this. I was given fasting and praying which is supposed to end today but yesterday night i was not feeling alright then I visited a doctor who gave me some medications and placed me on drug, I'm suppose to use some this morning but I'm afraid I might spoil my fasting.

PLS I NEED ADVICE


Maybe, you will receive sense in the grave! Did you see anywhere in the bible where another person gave the other fasting and prayer?

A sick person should eat FOOD. Eat Oga and continue the fast when you are well.

Una happy sunday

WittyLad:
Yet nah we poor and corrupt pass , of what relevance is a country with big auditoriums, but small jobs?
Big auditoriums, yet no peace

GreenFarmsNG:
Okay


Death to all false prophets

OTHER FALSE PROPHETS

CHRIS OKAFOR
JOSHUA IGINLA
JEREMIAH OMOTO FUFEYIN
RAMSEY MARSHALL
ADEMOLA MOJIGBOTOLUWA ADEBAYO
PASSION JAVA
SHEPHERD BUSHIRI


Read the article in the link on how false prophets get their power, disguise and operate



https://babylon-today.com/2018/12/17/the-secret-evil-life-of-occultist-tb-joshua-finally-exposed/

People who have been intimately involved with TB Joshua [Temitope Balogun Joshua] in his cult community called The Synagogue church Of All Nations located in Ikotun-Egbe, Lagos, Nigeria are beginning to speak out and expose the evils behind the scenes of this known occultist who calls himself a prophet. People have actually spoken out previously against TB Joshua explaining how they were loured to his compound, sexually violated and spiritually manipulated eventually finding themselves on the floor of his church rotating uncontrollably, but unfortunately the Christian community ignored their warnings and many just didn’t believe them. There are several books in circulation currently, one written by Hephzi-bah Bisola Johnson describing how she was trapped through spiritual manipulation, hypnotism and brainwashing for over a decade by TB Joshua abandoning her own life to become his sex slave and servant. Her book details faked healings and other “miracles” fabricated by TB Joshua, and gives first hand insight of a life of secrecy and tricks that TB Joshua used to lure naive people looking for quick fixes and miracles into “spiritual terrorism” and occultism. She narrates how her and the other cult members lived, how they were systemically initiated into the dark world through deceit and were terrorized to swear into secrecy and complete allegiance to TB Joshua and his evil. Ms. Johnson’s book is a real eye opener of the dangers of following man-made religious groups and “pastor/prophet worship,” instead of obeying God and following “The Way” which is a life of absolute holiness and obedience to God.



What most Westerners don’t know about “Temitope Balogun“, born June 12 1963 is that he is really a Muslim, and his real name is Abdul fatai, [which actually means servant of god in Arabic] he renamed himself TB Joshua in efforts to “repackage” himself to make himself more acceptable to the Christian community targeting the Christians to sell his occultic ministry, in fact, his “church” began as an “interfaith” church of sorts with a confused, mixed doctrine of Jesus combined with a falsified version of Islamic beliefs, mixed with black magic but has gradually changed it’s narrative (on the surface) as TB Joshua was groomed into becoming a more appealing typical Pentecostal style pastor who learned to pass his demonic, dark art signs and wonders off as “the prophetic.” It is quite embarrassing how Westerners are so easily deceived and captivated by pulpit magic and deception which oftentimes causes spiritual death, family breakups, the loss of lives, livelihoods and money.



A British lady disclosed that she narrowly escaped from the trap of Joshua’s Synagogue Church For All Nations. She is now married and told the story on video in the presence of her husband how she cohabited with T.B. Joshua for several years traveling with him to various countries in her quest to receive his anointing through sex. Others have came forth with accusations of pedophilia, arranged orgies with children, child rape, abortions and sudden death of those who have left the compound and disclosed TB Joshua’s secrets. TB Joshua is well known in Nigeria but remains a mystery to most Westerners. Because Westerners are not as spiritual as they think they are, they are easily fooled by the tricks of TB Joshua and other church witches believing everything to be an “act of God” or “a miracle”. TB Joshua has been the suspect of many mysterious deaths ( sacrifices) in Nigeria and South Africa and has been taken to court on many occasions for statutory rape but has always escaped being charged due to the corrupt judicial system in Nigeria, he always bribed the the lawyers and judges and has never been held accountable for his wrongdoings.

omolola100:
My mother advice me never to look for a rich man who is well do whenever i'm set to get married.
she said i should marry a man that we will both start our life from the foundation, according to my mum, she said it is better to suffer with man to acquire wealth, than to go for a ready made soup.

Looking at the way things are going now, do you think a woman will now stoop so low and marry a poor man that is trying to make ends meet? Although, money is not love, but why would a parent wish her daughter to marry a poor man, i am begining to see my mum as a bad mother who does'nt wish me well.
Is it advisable i follow my mothers advice? I should stay in SURULERE instead of OLORUNSOGO.

Tinubuadvocate:
Okay another one is looming again because I heard ESN gunned down a prominent fulani man this morning in owerri.

sonsomegrigbo:
If na Igbo company Abeg run for your life!


Remember iniobong vs uduak in Akwa Ibom...



Children should stay away from social media. Go and prepare for your jamb exams






But if you must go at all, pls visit Oga Sunday Igboho for fortification.


My one penny

Peacemaker5129:
You can only deceive your fellow pigs not us
why didn't he post it on his twitter handle?

MalcoImX:
Oga you didn't say anything.

Preacher by day Gigolo by night.

Vaughanlanrewaj:
End time pastor.

I really hope this is not true. I have remained resolute in my strong conviction that most of the harshest critics of President Buhari are those whose private lives can not stand scrutiny . One of the loudest critic of PMB was even using hammer to chase his wife,he alleged as being psychotic, around the house and this show of shame was captured on video while he was hiding the hammer behind his body preventing it from being filmed.

They are all unpatriotic hypocrites, corrupt people without legitimate means of livelihood.

I pity those who ignorantly think they have found role model in these hypocrites. Their hate and bigotry against PMB has pushed them into influences by charlatans and men of no character.
For every curse they have placed on Nigeria, that's the same or more measure of blessings they and their descendants will miss from the land. The land will never bless those who curse it .

Many of them are people who you can't link to any legitimate job that they do like FFK, Deji whatever, Reno etc and double as incapable of managing their homes or people who have hidden their families overseas and causing problems and death of the ignorant children of other people. In this category are IPOB terrorist leader, Omoyele Sowore, Sunday Igboho, Prof. Banji Akintoye etc and those who Buhari has not settled like Father Mbaka etc and those who have serious cases of corruption like Olisa Metuh

All the enemies of Nigeria will lose las las. They always lose. God bless Nigeria.

Jsarki:
I begin to loss interest with this platform .fake news are becoming rampant nowadays. The admin should verify any post before approval.

airminem:
Fake governor and fake allegations Very foolishly looking UGLY man indeed

eeetuk:
Governor Udom Emmanuel : “Police Released Armed Fulani Militia We Arrested & Gave Their AK-47s Back To Them. - Gov Udom.”

Foolish rationale!
Governor Udom Emmanuel claim that an armed Fulani militia arrested in Akwa ibom State was released on order from the above showed why he was ill-prepared to lead when he became governor of Akwa Ibom State in 2015 for many reasons.

First, terrible excuse to sell for releasing armed militia. The evidence to put the armed Fulani militia in jail is overwhelming. The arrested guy is armed and he is a known militia. The authority in Akwa ibom State found this militia with a gun—which supposed to be punishable by dead or many years in prison, but let him go free. Hard to believe it.

Second, governor Udom Emmanuel failure to read and understand the 1999 constitution of Nigeria is in full display here. The section of the constitution on 1978 Land act is the most important tool available to state governors to use to protect and save lives of their citizens. Let me be clear, the 1978 Land act of Nigeria gives every governor total power to control who resides in their states. Has governor Udom Emmanuel read land Act law of 1978? The answer is no---and that explained why he let Fulani armed to go free.

I wished Akwa Ibom state was a true democratic state. It is time for lawmakers to impeach Udom Emmanuel. His fitness to lead remained un answered. His leadership is a disaster. Rising lost of lives in Akwa Ibom state is mounting. Citizens of Akwa ibom State are totally unprotected. I know the so-called lawmakers in Akwa Ibom State are not going to impeach Udom, but if Mr. Emmanuel really loves the citizens of the state, I write to ask for his resignation today. Please resign, Mr. Emmanuel! You are not fit to be governor of Akwa Ibom State. You are a total failure. And stop blaming the Fulani people for your own failure.

Anieke39:
Foolish man look at your mouth

Madecure:
Baba you will regret the move. But if you want to help, help the son and Carter for him without seeing him as your son. Simple

FarahAideed:
Buhari and his bandits have overun the middle ....is this how the world is going to watch while a bipolar lunatic and his band of Jihadists carry out a 16th century style Jihad in the 21st century?

FishLaps:
So we started dating ....

Now she is no longer picking my calls because she asked me to Buy Easter Chicken For Her Mother and i open mouth tell her say money no dey ....

If na you abeg wetin you go do !!!

Oh .... Update !!! , She don block me for whatsapp

Queenbeee:
Hello Peedeeasobie I can't access the mail I used on Nl.

Juliearth:
Yes

Juliearth:
RIP sir. For once, I thought you were alive and the news about your death was a farce...not until I checked the date that you made this comment.

skarlett:
It looks too small to be honest and since the guy earns a six figure salary, she probably expected more. She's right to expect more but it looks as if she's accepted it, so who am I to complain?