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Health › Re: Do Black Women Get Cellulite? by pendo89(f): 9:38pm On Sep 17, 2011

Yes they do cz its not colour related.Diet,exercise,lifestyle I read, are culprits. etc.
common among smokers and those who wear very tight clothing.

Romance › Re: Petite Girls by pendo89(f): 9:21pm On Sep 17, 2011

This love child of ours lol.Its gonna be the case of Mary,Angel and Joseph. Bad news am size 6. Now if 8 is petite I have no idea what 6 is. My height? 5ft 2. Oops sorry.That is a midget right there so give up on hope

Romance › Re: Petite Girls by pendo89(f): 8:57pm On Sep 17, 2011

^^
I guess your my lost twin. But it has its bad bad side as well. Nothing bad like being mistaken for a teen! I once met some school boys who thought I was a teenager.They expected me to shy off after they whistled. Instead I stopped and gave them some sound advice on the importance of education and girls. I saw the look of embarrasment on their faces as they apologised cz I told them never to judge books by their covers. So many instances I can rem but its all due to size.

Business › Re: 'RUNS' Business In Nigeria: A Multi-billion Naira Industry? by pendo89(f): 7:04pm On Sep 17, 2011

kulutempa:
I am just amazed at some of the stories I have read here. Looks like there is nothing like love or affection in Nigeria anymore and it's all about cold hard cash. As the late Fela Kuti said it's "money for hand, back for ground". However one thing I can't get my head around is that women in poorer African countries like Ethiopia don't behave like this. What makes Nigerians so different?

Ethiopia now is not like we saw during the famine period. I got a nigerian workmate friend called Tokunbo who went to Addis first time for biz,infact he's leaving tomorrow after being there for a week. He told me that he could not believe his eyes, saying that Ethiopia is better than Abuja in so many ways. I have never been to Abuja so I dont know true that is. Some african countries are ahead in development but of course media will never show.

And yeah I 'think' culture has its influence on morals.

Romance › Re: Please help me, im on... by pendo89(f): 4:14pm On Sep 17, 2011

They now call it seed. Nothing wrong with seed but God doesn't do barter trade.
whatevr!

Romance › Re: Please help me, im on... by pendo89(f): 4:05pm On Sep 17, 2011

Lax75:
Sis!

You haven't lived in Naij or attended a Naija church oo. Them peeps come at you from all angles always wanting to know your "prayer requests." That's how they get into your business. And YES! You are correct.

Are people this idle? dont they have work to do like hawking bananas instead of walking on streets searching for prayer requests? This is idleness of the highest order.This is not God at work cz even the disciples engaged in economical activities.Some were fishermen,some doctors.
I would tell one to go work and stop being lazy.

Romance › Re: A Beautiful Lady Devoid Of Manners And An Ugly One With Perfect Manners? Which Would U Prefer? by pendo89(f): 3:52pm On Sep 17, 2011

Lax75:
I would never play you my "lof." This won't be good for the creation of the long-awaited one.

Why

Why would I play games with you when all I want to do is whipser sweet nothins into your earlo, wine and dine you, make sweet "lof" to you from the break of dawn to the early morn.
Search your feelins, you know this to be true.

.

Look at this WAW soldier.You know you just reminded me of some guy called Victor Manuel Galindes in one of these mexican soaps.They love saying that 'oh my love'Like poetry.

We have a war to fight not love to make. grin

Romance › Re: Please help me, im on... by pendo89(f): 3:38pm On Sep 17, 2011

No stranger lays their hands on my head. Call yourself whatever you want including his excellency to create an aura around you but I dont blink because I already know God's promises.Keep ur crazy interpretations to urself but ur arent reaping me off,
That is why even those buildings we call churches have become immorality dens.
What are the gals doing sitted front raw,pantless and with legs open? Its clear what their intentions are.Seduction.
Whatever the case.It's pathetic but hey I dont even give a damn cz people allow themselves to be deceived.
Empower yourself with knowledge and have a fulfilled life.Then you dont feel inadequate.
Shame on wolis.

Romance › Re: Seduced By My Younger Sister Best Friend by pendo89(f): 3:31pm On Sep 17, 2011

^^ well said

Romance › Re: A Beautiful Lady Devoid Of Manners And An Ugly One With Perfect Manners? Which Would U Prefer? by pendo89(f): 3:27pm On Sep 17, 2011

^^ yeah LOL
Now combine that with that MBJs booty contract. And you have the perfect one.

Romance › Re: A Beautiful Lady Devoid Of Manners And An Ugly One With Perfect Manners? Which Would U Prefer? by pendo89(f): 3:23pm On Sep 17, 2011

Lax75:
Pendo-beauty

You know I'm not a playa. I'm a bed of linen and rose petals. . .

Just come lay on me

Time is running out my lof, we need to get going on this long awaited lof-child.

The chosen one.

The player's lines. grin

Romance › Re: Please help me, im on... by pendo89(f): 3:20pm On Sep 17, 2011

Oh you dint finish.She did an abortion in Jesus holy name.Silly
Its total lack of Knowledge coupled with desperation and lack of self esteem.
Anybody with those 3 will do anything to belong and feel worthy.
The wolis know where to hit.The women cz they get emotional over everything and will do anything a stupid person in higher position of authority asks them to do.
Let us not even describe their acts.It gives me stomach ache.

Romance › Re: A Beautiful Lady Devoid Of Manners And An Ugly One With Perfect Manners? Which Would U Prefer? by pendo89(f): 3:10pm On Sep 17, 2011

Lax75:
Pendoo-love

I am in luuuv wth your intelligence. Can we create a lof-child togetha?

But I hope you have nice features oo

Those are call online love kids.
They last as long as one is online and are born through a printer as well. They bear names like,yahoo,skype,google.
Now what the hague with my features. I know me that's why I never bother what anybody thinks.
Ok are u a player or a _woli? grin

Romance › Re: Please help me, im on... by pendo89(f): 3:02pm On Sep 17, 2011

WAW.Lol

You know I really hate talking about what those wolis do cz its a shame to God.
And to imagine people fall for all that? only desperation drives one there.
Okay here it is. A player is one who comes to you in the name of the Lord.
Am a believer but you dare not approach me using those mad lines cz I will kick your butt in God's holy name.

Romance › Re: Please help me, im on... by pendo89(f): 2:41pm On Sep 17, 2011

wisdom how many times do u fall from chair/cliff/balcony everyday?
Be careful cz you might never stand up at this rate.

Romance › Re: A Beautiful Lady Devoid Of Manners And An Ugly One With Perfect Manners? Which Would U Prefer? by pendo89(f): 2:29pm On Sep 17, 2011

ajekpaks:
Considering my looks I'd rather go for the unpleasant Beauty, even if it is an arranged marriage, I can't afford to put my offsprings through half what I went through cause of my looks, I'm very Intelligent, and naturally good natured but I experieced alot of difficulties because of my looks, don't get me wrong I'm not Ugly per say but there are alot more way I should have gone looks wise, so I told myself I'd rather not have children than have ones that will come and suffer the kinds of poo I did,

If I meet a good chick who is ugly I don't mind getting married to her on the condition I ain't fathering her baby,

Ajekpaks listen. I have no idea how you look like but please do not deny yourself the pleasure of being a Father just cz you fear the humiliation your kids will go through.If God says he created you fearfully and wonderfully who are you to discredit all that. Don't you know that beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder?
Why allow people's perception to influence your life? So what if people call you ugly? they do not feed you or pay your bills for christ's sake.
Your kids could turn out to be the trumps and the gates.If you happen to meet a nice gal,marry her, have your kids and know that their future is not predetermined by you but God himself.
The world is crazy but we learn to take in what is useful and spit out the trash.
listen,even the beautiful or handsome ones get ridiculed if they fail in other areas so go ahead and live a purpose filled life. Walk this earth like it belongs to your Father and always be proud of urself.
If only you knew what God says about you will not utter those words. sad

You are loved.If nobody loves you I do.

Romance › Re: Please help me, im on... by pendo89(f): 10:41am On Sep 17, 2011

No I said chest.
just take your eyes off the chest.breasts r not the only things found on chest. we wear blings. grin

Romance › Re: Please help me, im on... by pendo89(f): 7:32am On Sep 17, 2011

Fink/think undecided

met some dudes who size you up in the first 5 min of meeting you?
They don't care what your middle name is,if you work/school or steal.
Their focus and questions are concentrated around your face,booty,eyes,weight,height,legs,thighs yep.

There's absolutely nothing wrong in complimenting ones physical attributes but hey if you talk about my lips or nose I expect you to also ask something biz related.Its a good balance.

Eyes have a way of communicating. I feel very uneasy if while talking to a man I notice his eyes looking in only one direction,mostly the chest/lips. At that moment I just know am speaking to my ancestors so excusing me is not bad.

Getting too touchy too fast.I just met you and you wanna hold my waist, touch booty? ah ah,something tells me its a game uv perfected and its okay with u.

If say I share my story with a guy and the next time we meet he can hardly recall a thing? damn.how bad can it get. But guess what? he can rem the colour of my lipstick or the dress I wore. undecided

If your conversation is only about women. Most often degrading them.If you know nothing else outside the woman's world? makes me wonder what your profession really is.

If the only thing you talk about on calling me is sex related. You only call when you feel h.o.r.n.y.

Do I know a real player? nope I dont cz some know how to play it well and you hardly notice.
So what to call a guy with the above characteristics? probably a loser.

Romance › Re: Is It Every Husband That Deserves A Lady's Virginity? by pendo89(f): 10:38pm On Sep 16, 2011

^^ Thank you deniyor.
True dat.

Romance › Re: 27 Characteristics Of A Loving Man by pendo89(f): 9:49pm On Sep 16, 2011

^^ If a man doesn't posess all those he's still a man on his way to perfection.

claremont:
^^
People seem to forget that human character does not follow a check-box approach,each human being is unique in his/her own way

We are made unique for a reason.
Those attributes listed above are attainable but they don't just fall on a man like manna.
Neither is he born with them.We learn through experiences,so you will never meet a 'ready made man'.
He will fall short in many areas but with time and after a few life's experiences,lil challenges here and there he becomes better/refined and perfected by the day.Most qualities listed up there then start showing.
But since human is flesh,we fail.

Same applies to a women.We are not barbie dolls.Challenges refine us and produce attributes.

Romance › Re: 27 Characteristics Of A Loving Man by pendo89(f): 9:22pm On Sep 16, 2011

27 characteristics of Jesus.
Nah, sorry even JC will not always support your dreams and ambitions unless they are in His perfect will.
If a man/woman is too perfect then hes fit for heavenly and not earthly use.
Iron sharpens iron and that is what makes a relationship exciting.
mine views.

Romance › Re: Unhappy Relationships: Why Stay In It? by pendo89(f): 8:58pm On Sep 16, 2011

^^
But the gospel in nigeria has taken whole new meaning.
I cant believe what I read at times cz its nothing short of manipulation and reaping off.
Its no longer based on the word but fake useless prophecies and even when the word is mentioned its soo twisted to benefit somebody.
Annoying. angry

Nways back to topic.

Romance › Re: Unhappy Relationships: Why Stay In It? by pendo89(f): 8:39pm On Sep 16, 2011

@ Lax75.
What the hague is on that poster? Prophet Dr?what disowning daughter? whatever!
And what is with the long names? or is it more spiritual to posess long names.
I call that extreme madness.

Romance › Re: Is It Every Husband That Deserves A Lady's Virginity? by pendo89(f): 8:26pm On Sep 16, 2011

Can she stop crying over spilt milk and deal with the issue at hand?
What makes her think that her V status was enough to guarantee her a stable marriage?
What about making each other happy?
There's too much fuss over virginity than being a responsible woman/wife and these are the resul

@ sexkillz.

Abusive people are the most quiet and harmless creatures when you are dating them.
Like Rowland said its hard to decipher wolves in sheep clothing.

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Romance › Re: Unhappy Relationships: Why Stay In It? by pendo89(f): 7:53pm On Sep 16, 2011

MRbrownJAY:
@pendo98
what's a WAW soldier?! and pls stay away from the stingy BFs issue, we dont want another 20+ pages on this one!!

War Against Wolis.Infact I learnt that word here.
The guys who spiritualise everything.
They don't know where to involve God and where not to.
They live live,eat,dream and walk prophecy.Common sense died in them looong ago.
That is my understanding of wolis.

Romance › Re: 12 Attributes Of A Good Man by pendo89(f): 12:45pm On Sep 16, 2011

^^^ Great.May God bless you abundantly if its true.

Romance › Re: 12 Attributes Of A Good Man by pendo89(f): 12:41pm On Sep 16, 2011

ah ah.
I would 'wish' to have that kind of man but I know its just a wish cz he can never be soo perfect.
I picked no 5 and 11 as examples.
A good man makes me tick and what makes me tick may not be me seeing him cook dinner.
Each woman has her own description of a good man which may include all or non of the above.
But I said we all fall short of perfection.

Romance › Re: 12 Attributes Of A Good Man by pendo89(f): 12:26pm On Sep 16, 2011

Good.

We have wishes and reality. We must learn to separate the 2.

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