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OtunbaGm:
@Pendo89

Pendo is a Badagry name, I once had a girlfriend with this name. Just curios!

Wow I finally found you!! where have you been all these years?
anyway its a swahili word for love. I am a swahili speaker thats why.

I don't know where this falls.

1) Go to Google,and type 'Google Gravity'.
2) Click on the 1st result that appears i.e. Google Gravity
3) Wait 2 seconds. Something cool will happen!
4) Play with it for a while.
5) Then write any word in the Google search box and press Enter. >>type love to make it romantic
6) Wait and see. Something even cooler will happen. Awesome!!

I love it.

CHIMCO:
As for my family, my Mom is on dailies & she needs Money every end of the month fr her drugs, which i have send once for the year & my siblings needs money badly esp the female ones, infact they cannot believe i did what i just did & they cannot hear it.  As for my motive, as i said i dnt plan to marry. Me I did it b/c i believe I'm the only man in her life & i know she is desperate.

I have been so uncomfortable with this scenario cz I felt something was just not right.
If the girl was an Orphan with nobody to help I would have given thought. But look at what you just posted!!
Everything we do however nice must be accompanied by something called wisdom. You cannot get yourself into debt with no idea of how you are going to pay back! That is what God himself calls foolishness.
Let me tell you bro,do not always act out of sympathy.Deal with situations soberly coz we live in a real world with laws and if you are foolish enough to get yourself into a mess cz you sympathised then you got only yourself to blame.

Look at what God says,not me,1st Timothy 5:8

If anyone does not take care of his own relatives, especially his immediate family, ,  for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel.

I feel for your mum and sisters because they depend on you while the gal you have no plans of marrying has people who could have sorted her out.They were just waiting for you to take that burden off their shoulder cz she had spoken well of you to them. Those are mean relatives who cannot help their own bright gal.

Now work hard and pay that debt and make sure you take good care of your mum since the 'gf' was more important than her and your sisters.

your act was good but it was not wise considering the prevailing circumstances.

claremont:
Ignore that lady's "help", you did the right thing by posting your email here!

P.S: The advice of persons who end it with "just trying to help" should be taken with a healthy dose of salt!

u think the op is naive?
Not every lady on nl will c his mail here.It needs to be out there on its own thread in BOLD.

I am not a mod but am sure you know where to post your yahoo mail if you expect responses.
Go to the dating and something section where you will find a lonely female waiting.
make the yahoo mail BOLD and COLOURED
just trying to help.

in a way

^^
Stop insulting please.

Op you want Love but are you telling me you cant find it where you are? your environment? job,school malls,beach its everywhere! where are you at? the space?
Ok you know what I don't want to sound too negative so I wont discourage you.
Open thread in the dating section and ask the ladies to contact you.I told you that you will receive responses for sure.At least 55%.
That should be the risk you are talking about.

claremont:
At least we both agree that if [b]an invisible all-knowing being did exist, then he has clearly proven him/her self to be a raving lunatic by his actions! I always knew I will convince someone someday! [/b]

And who lied to you that 'gods' are invisible?
Go to India and see them gods strewn everywhere,I doubt if they are Omniscient cz they are made out of clay wood or gold and some break and lose their heads when the fall.
You tell the indian that you worship a mug they will create an altar for it and worship it.
Failed to convince.

Cipriani:
Even though you have spoken well, you can help the poster's situation by hooking up with him. Who knows, you might end up loving him.     

Yeah cz am single,ready to mingle,flirt and desperate for online love. Give me a break. Look here its not even the poster I am concerned about,but the 'postees' as well.
Look here anybody could be a wanted criminal,murderer,drug baron,or a 'Madam or love-vendor searching for naive people here.They have usernames like ' child of God' and excellent posts.Why isn't he scared of that?
Gosh ok I wont discourage I am just extra careful but try your luck.

claremont:
Kindly stop discouraging the poster, will ya?! Are you guys not the same people who go around saying that someone can find "love" both online and offline, you and your cohorts almost tore me apart on another thread when I insisted that there is no such thing as online romance! Please let the poster search online, maybe the gods may have been keeping you for him, who knows?!

Yeah if its the 'gods' THEY MUST BE CRAZY.

Is this section only for searching?? If you are unsuccesful out there what makes you think you will woe strangers you have never met here of all places? Why be fooled by profile pics,usernames or posts?
How do u know who is sitting behind that laptop cz Its easy to be on nl from prison or mental facility.
I am very wary of peeps that are searching here cz it seems a bit odd.
My humble advise would be 'go for what you see with your physical eyes cz there are all manner of people with all manner of usernames willing and ready to make a fool out of you.


And note this, its good not to assume that all ladies who frequent NL are single and ready to mingle.
Some are engaged/married/dating.I see those searching opening threads.Why not do the same in that dating section and wait for answers cz am 65% convinced you will receive responses.

^^ well its great to hear that petite is still marketable moreso in west africa where bigger to them means sexier,healthier,ego and whatever else.
Its like taboo and abomination to be petite cz people think you don't feed well.
ok to all ye men who think petite suffer from malnutrition wake up.

kokoye:
Are we both thinking of the same crazy person?

I guess so and I can see hes already graced the thread.
No mentioning names though

4 human characters,pigs and dogs. Mind telling us who plays what role.

Whatever the case.I feel you.That girl hurt you and made you waste time dating her.
After 1 year 4 months she ought to have moved on but she had strings attached.
You know what?She wasn't yours. It hurts like hell but let her go and start your life afresh.Its possible you know.
If that man treats her bad again she will come back running but hey don't give in.
Delete her from fb,delete her no and get busy with life. Start seeing other girls but don't go the 'I cant love again' way of life.We all get hurt by people we dearly love but we get stronger,wiser and move on.
So take it as a challenge and get living cz all will be well.

And what is the dilemma here? Its clear and straight forward.
Malta gal.

He will be here soon.He uses words like mental sickeness to describe it.
Love is what you think it is my def

otokx:
I will call myself a fool and beg her to insult me again

Please dont tell your story to anybody else.Its such an embarrasment.

Interesting to see nigerian men claiming to like petite ladies yet I see them worshipping and praising extra large here everyday.
what changed?

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=757305.msg9139236#msg9139236 date=1315930660]BUt how can u go on a date in Lagos when they dont even have electricity? do they? (no oofeince) [/quote]Arent u the same one who said that women carry generators in their huge handbags?
well i guess its portable enough to be carried to wherever.

^^ I know you like scrutinising every little detail.
_{My periods are here now thanks to thread ;}

Wankasi:
@pendro, have call 2 apologise but she frustrating my effort!!! Can i still love again?

Pendro? why is such a simple name giving people trouble.Its PENDO. pendro is more spanish jeez.

Can you love again? who cant.You either build a bridge and cross or build a wall and stay in there forever crying you cant love again.
Stop trying and sweating yourself to death.If shes yours she will come.At times you relax and let go cz these fights drain you emotionaly.Keep yourself busy and if you meet a nice girl get to know her.You could be fighting for what was never meant to be yours.Don't you know that some people come into our lives at a particular time to serve a particular purpose and once the period is over the grace goes too?
Do not put a fullstop to your life till God does it himself. Get out there and embrace love.Life is too short.

EfeEkarume:
She hasn't started seeing her periods yet : )

How dd you guess that right? genious.

[quote author=BABE! link=topic=758147.msg9139374#msg9139374 date=1315931650]Excuse me? Define Modern women--[/quote]That was a wake up call to the op to make him understand that we now have variety and so the issue of washing up 'pads' which is just crazy should not even arise.Not every 'modern woman as we understand modern to mean uses tampons or pads. We know the advantages and disdvantages of both.
Its like me saying Modern women use pills for family planning.Is that true? nope its only meant to make you understand that family planning can be taken care of in many ways in these modern days.

_{Gosh this thread can make one have periods earlier than expected.
I need a break}

What you described above is what happens to 2 normal human beings in love.Disagree and make up.
Maturity will determine how you handle your fights but it seems like you went to some crazy extent of calling each other mean names. What to do now?
I have a feeling she will call but there's no guarantee esp if she meets a kind person.
And if you fail to call then you might lose her. Ok better try and fail if you have feelings 4 her. Go ahead and make peace. if you don't make up this time at least you break up decently and start another relationship on a clean page.

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=758147.msg9139174#msg9139174 date=1315930040]Pekondo.  Sweeery dont u have nicer names in NIgeria  like Mary, julie or maggi?  Why pekondo? [/quote] First >>I am not nigerian
Second>>Pendo is swahili for Love.
Third>>its not Pekondo cz u make it sound like gecko.
cheers.

He could be an angel in disguise so yeah it depends on the circumstance under which I meet them.

Cipriani:
BTW, it's TAMPON and not tampoon.

Enough said.Am glad you know.phew

Abstaining from sex doesn't mean you are principled.That word 'principle' is a world.
C'mmon gal dont fall for his tricks.He met a girl slept with her the first day he met her so why isn't he with her if he really respected her.His game is to go look and repeat the same lame story to get what he desperately wants then take off to look for others.
listen gal if you are not ready to be intimate avoid placing yourself in tempting places.
Problem with us gals is we say we don't want sex but we create a perfect conducive environment when we are with our bf.Not fair for them.
Not all guys can exercise self control remember.

Since 2007? The op must be married.
But for those who think people are the same. Well even physically we are not.
Whenever you find yourself having issues with everybody look within yourself cz the problem lies within you.

If you continue with this thread I will post a tampoon here as well and demonstrate how they are used.
This kind of ignorance is a crime in this day.

I think am more shocked by the fact that some cant differentiate between pant and pad.
If pads are washed then its a national crisis.

[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=758147.msg9138658#msg9138658 date=1315925569]Thanks to this post, I just saved $2 USD on Always pads![/quote] I think I should do so as well.