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Ms Drskin

I will take u to visit Waryas relas. you r really bonding

one involves emotional connection
the other is just a fusion of male and sex organs.no need for connection.

it was obvious that SA would get it.

They want us to believe that a 1.95 minute hyperventilation of a bang managed to sway six countries to vote alongside RSA for Keagan?

Seydou's angola voted for keagan? really?

poor guy.

There goes SA for u. lol

[quote author=Lord_Reed]Lust and sexual attraction are two different things. Lust is strongly driven desire and it tends to consumption unlike mere sexual attraction. I advise you not to seek lust from anybody, it usually doesn't end well.[/quote]In this context I refer to sexual lust but I understand you well.
In short a love filled relationship is devoid of sexual lust?
what would u call a strong overwhelming sexual attraction? is it okay to feel it? will you try to suppress it so that it becomes a mere sexual attraction?
Just asking

obitee69: Hell no pendo. I aint desprerate iv got other hot girls as friends but I rily lik dis one. Hw am I a looser?are u normal?

Lol yep very normal.

onila: i have 2 accept the way my life iz.

I try as much as possible to stay around positive people, family or pple who really love me.

when I was less attractive back in high school{i was skinny and frail) I had more girlfriends compared 2 now

now I just have few friends, its hard but I have to try

Onila,

a beautiful heart + a beautiful look = More friends.

Are you saying that you have less friends cz you are beautiful? I don't want to believe that.

You cannot run away from negative people.It's just impossible except you have ur own small custom made world.
A time will come when your family will not be near you.So you need to learn how to deal with negativity,positively without allowing it to wear you down.
Many beautiful people have few friends cz of ego issues.Feeling high and tripping on everybody's toes.Now that type I run away from very fast.

onila: Life can be also challening for goodlooking people
saying life is easier or pple tend 2 treat goodlooking pple better is just wrong

This is what my dear.
Life doesn't care about one's looks.It gives you back what you throw at it, in double measure.
It doesnt treat good/badlooking people well either.It takes what the people give it,refine it and give them back.
That's how I view life.

[quote author=Ileke-IdI]With time, they both may or may not fade and die.
Would you date such person, knowing that when the time comes, it would be hard for you to convince him/her that you want more?[/quote]A good relationship IMO must encompasses both lust and love.
Lust makes you sexually appealing to me.It's more physical than emotional.
Love will make me stick with you when that appeal is lost,In other words it's about an emotional connection.

So,If I want nothing but a fling then lust alone is just fine.
But if am hoping for a lifetime thing,I will look beyond lust and ask myself, what it will take to keep the relationship going on.
That's where love comes into play

onila: I think there are more disadvantages then advantages

The only reason why beauty could work to ur disadvantage is if you allow it to replace your brains.
When you start seeing the world through ur beauty,ul realise that it doesn't work because there is always a more beautiful person than you.
The effects don't last long.
But personality is a treasure that helps you conquer the world

In life there is what we call a second chance.The worst any human can do is to give up.
Look back,see where u made mistakes and learn.That is life.Never go back to vommit if you want to progress.
In short open a new page and write a new chapter which ur kids would be proud to read about.

of course

No I will add advantages
1. Receive compliments every so often
2. Nobody ignores you when you say Hi
3. You are given a moment to express urself
4. There's a confidence that comes with being beautiful
5. It's easy to talk to anybody regardless of position. Beauty opens the door and knowledge keeps you there
6. It's easy to talk to little kids.I find kids get attracted to beautiful faces.They fear scary ones
7. You get served very fast anywhere you go.Forget the motives.
8. Your challenge is how to sift guys not how to woe them

Having said that,beauty lies in the beholder's eyes. My standard of beauty may not necessarily be yours.

lost

ok this is what,

next time you speak, record! talk all the sweet nothings and record.
that will save u lots of airtime.

I see very funny questions on nl nowadys am just left loling.

Yeah are you like 4 real??
seriously?

Boys Z

Ok just hold on for one Onila.

She holds the best answer.

[quote author=ms.anon]He actually broke up with me and told me he was going to have his parents get somebody for him since i didn't want him.[/quote]Ish. I would beg him to go ahead and let me face my studies without pressure.
If a man can't pick a girl on his own,I do not expect much from him.
And listen,God is not a scapegoat for laziness/hardwork. God takes care of our spirit man.Money and hardwork takes care of the physical body.
A hardworking man does what God commanded hm to do.Work and take care of family.
The lazy one hides under scriptures and 'full time ministry'.

If u like tall,go for tall,ugly is in ur mind.you could miss a treasure in an 'ugly' package.
Nway,take ur time b4 u jump. lemmie ask,is a relationship a do and die affair?
do u love urself? do u appreciate ur accomplishments,do you enjoy being alone or d u need somebody to fill that gap?
Why I ask is cz, if u feel incomplete as single you will never feel fulfilled in a relationship.
if u need somebody to make you happy then u need to work on urself.friends come to compliment not to fill.
work on ur self esteem first before u become a pain to somebody else

Like seriously?
What d u mean by without a coma? How do fullstop,question mark,exclamation mark, guys look like?
lemmie guess. Sexkillz is a question mark type?
am curious.

oh and just encourage u. it takes a while to build up trust in guys after a let down. but if ur positive u will

get serious poster

Jokes aside.
Seriously,I don't even know what to reply to anymore whenever a thread like this opens.

nairalanders

IZUKWU: so i should do what? By the way marriage is not in my plans for now ,may be in two years time . Just starve working two years ago after youth service. But she is not financially prudent. Seems to spend what ever she makes. She just got a new room and wanted me to help out in either the carpet ,curtains or lent but i just paid my lent then and couldn't help,plus financial burdens from my siblings in school. I have been trying to guide her to manage her finances well but she prefers hand outs and i have only helped where i can and when i can.

This story makes me feel exhausted.
If I had a sister behaving like ur gal God knows how hard I will come down on her.
I can never give handouts to a lazy person who prefers to live beyond her means, who cannot differentiate needs from wants.
You know what to do.Good luck

it means she is twisting your arm.
silly annoying things that make one tired.

like seriously

Ahaa Ethiopia,kenya.congrats.

warya123: bantus never did anything for somalia....somalis have lived in kenya for hundreds of years...matter of fact all of north kenya belongs to somalis and that region is 99 percent somali...

as for u bantus doing anyting for somalia...don't make me laught...bantus are in somalia to make money off of us...they get paid more money fighting in somalia than being in barracks in their country...

stupid nigggggger...

RUBBISH.UTTER RUBBISH. WHOM ARE YOU DECEIVING? YOU KNOW A SOMALI CAN ONLY ARGUE WITH HIS FELLOW SOMALI?
YOU DISPLAY ARROGANCE AND FOOLISHNESS IN YOUR POSTS.

POST THIS NONSENSE ON A KENYAN FORUM.I DARE YOU TOO. YOU A SOMALI REFUGEE RESIDING NOT IN SOMALIA,YET CLAIMING A FOREIGN NATION AS YOUR OWN ON A NIGERIAN FORUM?
THE PEOPLE YOU DISLIKE ARE THE PEOPLE YOU JUST CANT' STAY AWAY FROM? KNOW WHY? CZ WITHOUT THE REST OF AFRICA YOU ARE DOOMED.
WE CARE ABOUT YOUR STARVING CHILDREN AND THE EMACIATED WIVES YOU LEFT BEHIND IN THE CAMPS, AS YOU SIT IN EUROPE SPITTING,SMELLING AND CHEWING KHAT.
HAVE YOU EVER WONDERED WHY THE ARABS THAT YOU WORSHIP DON'T GIVE A DAMN ABOUT SOMALIA? WHY THEY DON'T COME TO YOUR AID? CANT YOU SEE HOW ?? LEMMIE NOT PROCEED.
AREN'T YOU ASHAMED OF LIVING AS REFUGEES IN A FOREIGN LAND AND CLAIMING IT TO BE YOURS?
READ YOUR POST WELL.YOU ARE NOT EVEN POSTING FROM SOMALIA.YOU ARE BEING FED AND HOUSED BY A FOREIGN COUNTRY AND YOU COME TO A FOREIGN FORUM TO BEAT YOR CHEST AND SCREAM SOVEREIGNITY.
WHAT A BIG SHAME AND THAT'S WHY YOU WILL NEVER PROGRESS.WHO IS THE SLAVE HERE? THE ONE WHO FEEDS FROM OTHERS?
IF YOU THINK YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH, PROVE THAT TO US RIGHT FROM SOMALIA,NOT KENYA WHERE YOU BEHAVE LIKE LEECHES OR EUROPE WHERE YOU SURVIVE ON HANDOUTS.
SEE WHY YOUR IQ IS THE LOWEST NOW?

What is wrong with humans?