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mmh funny this new handle.

I have been seeing the same messages even after deactivating my account.I dismissed!
Not so sure now.

But 190,dont you have clues? you know those questions that can aid you in rem.the pw?
Thereafter u can change the pw?

ArQueBusieR: It reeks of honourificabilitudinity.

I still cant pronounce that word.

Not bad but I think av been sleeping of late.

But it's shocking what the fellow did.How dd he lure the other? was he also high or what?
He was a man so why didn't he put up a fight at least? say like bite his arm or something.
How do u just lie still and wait for ur face to be eaten unless ur in coma or something?
I don't know what to say. Its a reall crazy situation.

About blasts here? argh we are just careful.Cowards these terrorists are.
The devise was homemade but people just need to be careful and watch their backs.
I personally shop at odd hours,when there are no crowds,I avoid standing in one place for too long,or being in crowds.
Those small precautions we ignore help a great deal.

2010 thread??

Poster updates? If this is the new girl that blew off your mind, then I wonder how ur girl 'looked' like

Phew I thought u got chewed by the face eater of miami.
But thanks for replying.It must have been posted by somebody else.I just dont know how to do a search .
Now these two are a must watch.
Thank you

What a GREAT and NICE question.

This I love.

mmh.PRIVATE.

Hi Nayah,
It's a guy's questn I understand.
If the relationship ends,then the baby's has just began so why cut it short?
Whether he assumes responsibilty or not, I will do my best for baby cz it was conceived in love.

bukfal: To all,I wish to knw your views about this 'whether there are faithful men Or not'because I learnt that all men are not faithful to their spouse...pls is this true or false.

quite a -ve lesson there. now u can go back to school and learn a +ve one.

[quote author=Mr..Cork]immmigration papers [/quote]LOL

[quote author=Mr..Cork]arrrhhh. what if she hasnt got papers?? [/quote] for?

Because they CHOOSE to get married! jeez.

diff. people marry for diff. reasons, but whatever their reasons are, bottom line is they Choose to.

I think the question you should be asking is 'Which is the nearest police station from my office?

help me trace it, I will appreciate.
thanks

You again Ayanle??
Don't you ever get tired? Why are people even wasting time with you?
Go to the moon and live happily thereafter.

Ivynwa: Thanks dear.
I truly felt for her mother who lost her only child as well as her grandchild. I was angry at how my cousin can just die like that but God knows why it happened, his ways are very different from ours. God has a better notion of death than we humans do. The death of a loved one hurts us as humans but to God it may just be a webline in his action plan.

Thank you Ivywa,I still rem you from Perx thread.
I will tell you something,I lost my younger bro 7 years ago and at one point I was sure I was gonna lose my head.
I was the only person he was very free with,we would laugh, I was with him the day he died,I used to send him on errands,watch movies together etc etc.
When he died suddenly (murder)he took a piece of me with him.I temporarily died!Life lost meaning and I couldn't figure out anything.I wanted revenge,I was angry but I didn't know where to direct my anger.I do not drink but I contemplated doing so cz I wanted to be drunk and forget 24/7.I didn't want a moment of soberness cz my heart couldn't bear it! I got sick and wanted to die.I wanted to just blackout and wake up several years later.I still shed a tear when I rem what he told me the last day.
But you know,the pain is not as intense now as it was after his death and burial. I still can't tell you what kept me going cz scriptures didn't make sense to me,I didn't want encouragement cz nobody understood my pain.I wanted to be alone and it took a heavy toll on me.Infact I toyed with the idea of suicide cz the pain in my soul was more than I could bear.I didnt think I could live another day and not see or talk to him.
I hated sleeping on the bed when I knew he was rotting in the grave.I wanted to stop his body from decaying cz I thought he might come back.
I just wanted somebody to come and tell me 'hey guess what? You had a bad dream,He is here.
I never tell anybody 'I understand your pain even if I have been through that road,Never.
Its good to mourn and shed tears.What helped me was sharing.I talked about him a lot,composed songs in his memories and kept close to family for encouragement.
It's not easy but time eases the pain
Take heart poster.

[quote author=Mynd_44]But most time in this situation, its a matter of time before the woman starts acting up[/quote]Yeah.But the guy is trying.If job doesn't come that fast then for the sake of his ego he can set up a small biz and continue job hunting.
At times it's not really about bringing home the bread but ego. Being seen as a man.

[quote author=Mynd_44]Being picky is all right as long as you don't set unrealistic parameters[/quote]true.
By the way I realised that one it's not easy to find that one person that fits our expectation.Look within yourself and you will see ur shortcomings.
But there are certain standards one may not necessarily have to compromise on. These ones are not physical but behavioural.
For instance.I dislike people who disrespect women so much and have vile tongues but when they approach you they forget that you are one.
They change their attitude and talk immediately they meet you.
Those ones I don't spare time for because I know it's only a matter of time before they start disrespecting me.
If that is a high standard,I will never let go of it.

conyema12: nice one buddy you are quite correct maybe he is not desperate I knw he will pull through, just that he used to be very lively.. But now....he is always cold... Just looking 4 the best line of advice for him

I do not see why you are raising alarm over this. He had a job,he's searching for another and his wife is a lecturer.
Cant people learn to appreciate the small things in life cz this seems to me like a temporary solution anyway.
If this fellow was lazy and just idling around it would have been a different matter altogether. But he has a supportive wife.

Best line of advice? Tell him to appreciate the fact that his wife has a job and can bring home some bread,or else God has a way of forcing people to learn how to appreciate small favours. Yeah and tell him to keep knocking cz eventually one will open.

Buskete: U run d old woman ova with ur car 2 put her out of her miseries (besides she'll eventually die soon),

sorry but I swear ur wicked

Considering it was a job interview,I would rid myself off emotions and relate it to business.

The old lady *read expired project* is about to die. Of what use will an expired project be of benefit to me if I revive it?
An old friend saved my life. Great he was kind,but that is past and we don't live in the past.I am now here with a bright future.
The Perfect woman or man.> Now this isn't the reason am doing the interview?? Perfect job I have been dreaming about? So yea.option 3 is what I would grab and save.

I love Acidosis answer though.

obitobe: I met this port Harcourt Lady, we got talking and along the line she professes loving me but her recent behaviours tells a different thing. She said that i shouldn't come around her place because she is not comfortable with that and she gave me a condition that until i get my apartment that i will get to see her. So in other to respect her wish i was calling her more often but she hardly call me or send text message that is not more than N10,the excuse that she gives is that she hate texting but when we have the chance to see each other she is always chatting away on her BB. Its more like i am a burden to her, Please if you have been in this shoes please i need your Advice desperately. No insult please.

She is testing you. Deliberately provoking and pushing you into acting in an indirect way.Call it arm twisting if you may.
She gave you the apartment as a condition because she doesn't want you to ride on what she has freely,compares you to other guys or thinks it's the ultimate proof that you are ready for a serious relationship.
She's telling you 'If you want my time and attention,you must spend on it. nothing free here.
Are you stingy? cz some ladies behave this way when their boyfriends are stingy.

chamdi,nadi,nandos,chidi,cheetah,italo, efi.
Too many characters am lost.

will read later.

talk to 190.

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