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Wicked yeah cz u entertained her.She just came to you like that Pharaoh's wife and instead of running you welcomed her with open arms.
Get expelled brother.The worst mistake you can ever do is to settle down with somebody you don't love.
What is with some churches anyway? Instead of chastening,forgiving and welcoming people they expel? Are they institutions of learning?
Face the other party and tell them NO. You aren't ready.Accept the expulsion,learn from that and move on to another church.
The future is more important than the present circumstances.

freecocoa: [b]Its like he's purposely trying to make her scared by growing the forest of a beard a[/b]nd that seems controlling to me.

I hate bushy beards as well but sadly that's how fears and phobias are treated.Inurement as AQBSR put it.Sounds cruel and torturous but if I love somebody then I would love to free them from their fears whatever it takes to do that.As long as it doesn't kill or maim,it's good.
But why shave if he loves the image? Isn't that selfish of her?
Its the fear associated with the beard which is the prob here so let her deal with the underlying problem for her sake.
Would love to know if she will be willing cut off her hair at the bf's command
Life is about adjusting and compromising on things which aren't life threatening.

[quote author=mr_man]Don't worry, when u're old enough, the words will come. For now face your studies and be a good boy, don't give mummy trouble.[/quote]lmao ur nasty.

If you try a formula you will mess up big time.No two girls are similar so one standard approach can't apply to all.Do not be deceived.
All I can tell you is, when you are grown up enough,master the courage,man up and tell her straight without beating about the bush.

ArQueBusieR: Very true. You need systematic desensitization/inurement.

spikes C:

This ABCD likes using laboratory words.

systematic> step by step procedure
desensitization> opposite of sensitive
inurement> u subject one to something undesirable through repeated exposure till it becomes desirable.In this case the undesirable object is the moustache.

Its a slow torture but healing.

you have a deep sitted psychological problem you need to address.
Look here,your boyfriend is not the only guy you will face in life.
Suppose you meet a moustache boss,teacher,neighbour etc.You can't keep running away from such people.
Infact start getting used to your boyfriend's so that the fear can be dealt with once and for all.

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ijebabe: LMFAO!!!!

You know that image is having the same effect on me.Laugh everytime I came across it.



@ poster .Well this is the only section where I can laugh my heart out.I don't mind the fights anymore cz I noticed people kiss and fight here.
I post and read elsewhere but this is like a market place.Anything goes.

Nayah: Miss u sooooooooo much my favourite girl on here!! habari ohhh

poa poa.Missed u too.Hope all is well with you?

Where is mamilola/Iyalola.

Are you the lakers Reality or sexsinners?

After 100 posts.

You are not married
You dont have kids
What next?

Poster it's been 4 years now. Are you still together?

[quote author=Mrs.Chima]Why you made me spit out my juice?!!! [/quote] wipe ur screen.

It shouldn't have anything to do with marriage.I don't even see the connection.It's about being comfortable with your hair,body colour and having your partner appreciate all that before the knot is tied.Th hair wont cook or care for him we may say but it's part of a womans beauty,the natural beauty he needs to appreciate every day he wakes up.

Let him see the flaws even if its kinky, so what? he's gonna be your husband after all.
Natural may even look sexier on her than those weaves which make some of us women look like apes.Well not all.

Scam is not b.news but what amazes me is the fact that nl email is not as secure as I thought.
Somebody hacked into mine from G.B and my browser kept warning me abt unusual activity in my account.
I deleted my nl mail for good.

queensmith: Yes compensated for giving birth to OUR child! Thats exactly what I meant. It is a physiological punishment I dont care what anybody says. I will be rewarded compensated pampered cherished etc etc etc.

May I ask why you have this kind of mentality? A couple agrees to have a child and carry the pregnancy together.The woman physically,emotionally while the man emotionally and financially.I have never heard of compensation btwn couples in regard to child bearing.
If a man chooses to pamper you, allow him to do so out of love but don't view it as compensation,No I find it so wrong cz you are trading what is supposed to be the natural order of things in a relationship.
Besides no amount of compensation can equal the joy of having a planned for child.
I think you believe it's punishment cz of the weird stories you may have heard from women? Or what you have seen perhaps.
Wish u luck though.

Hey mrembo.been a while

2sexy: What most do not know is that when the opportunity comes to be with someone that really care about you, and you mess it up, you always end up facing the consequences. Nature never hesitate to punish people for such act.

I really like that. And I take it to heart.

queensmith: When we get married obviously it will be a completely different story, if i'm gonna push out a baby i'm going to be compensated heavily for it, thats a given. til then i'll maintain myself myself!

compensation for giving birth to your own child? You make it sound like a punishment.Perhaps I didn't understand what you meant.

It's good to have a willing paying your bills and stuff.Question is,will you be able to rise up, move on and maintain the same standard once he's out of your life? The reason why I believe a woman needs to be self sufficient is for her own good. Most of us unfortunately as shortsighted.
We enjoy fully today without preparing/insuring the future.
A calamity can strike any min and then what?

Everything the man brings.May not be in balanced proportions but equals.

So Onila there is your guy.He is Youruba not Edo.
And no I wasn't serious about the sudanese bit.Have seen ur pic here before.