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RomanceRe: Lamentations Of A Nairalander by pendo89(f): 10:05pm On Jun 20, 2012
heheeh where did all the smileys go? Cant find any!
RomanceRe: A Man Has Cheated Before In A Past Relationship, Is It A Relationship Stopper? by pendo89(f): 9:55pm On Jun 20, 2012
Somewhat confusing.

You know what? In such an instance,I wouldn't use 'past relationships' as the only parameter to gauge,if I feel an attraction towards him.
I look at individuals as all rounded beings and relationships form only a fraction of their life.
We are only talking about 'cheating here, crucial yeah but it needs to be evaluated alongside other positive attributes of an individual because, c'mmon people trip but if they are ready to change,why not give them a chance?
There comes a time when somebody makes up his mind start a new and if this is the kind of mind he has, I would not let it be a barrier.
Key thing is to go for a test before being intimate.
RomanceRe: Men/is It Love Or Acts? by pendo89(op): 9:27pm On Jun 20, 2012
Beync: sorry to disappoint you, if a man does'nt like a woman even after doing all these she would'nt get any response.
But if a man loves a woman and the woman treats him like king then his love'll be come stronger and bonding.
i'v seen a girl who did everything for a man only for him to dump her for the girl he loves.
I love that. Both ways.
RomanceRe: Men/is It Love Or Acts? by pendo89(op): 9:22pm On Jun 20, 2012
luckgames: Lot of women think you are a fool because you do your best to ensure that they are taking care off
Because you are doing a lot for them , they become selfish and Me, me person
That I believe comes out your personal expe with them.But some men wouldn't agree with you cz what they do is reciprocated by the women in their lives.
RomanceRe: Men/is It Love Or Acts? by pendo89(op): 9:09pm On Jun 20, 2012
You treat women right
Lot of they think that the man is a fool
Did you read the thread a 20 year old opened complaining about his sister's wayward behaviour? yet the husbands treats her plus her entire family well?
Her case is exceptional but hey treat women right cz they are not all equal.

And the fastest way to get molested by your hubby or wife is to make them into an idol....its unfair on them and they know they ain't got such powers , so you then look the fool and is kicked to the curb.
I think so too. I think one loses herself in the process??



A woman in love always wants to do wifey like stuff foe her guy.
Really? I guess it's natural but not all women would.Besides some men wont allow that.

the problem is that many women dont know when to give up. if a man clearly shows you that he is NOT interested in you, then this lady should simply WALK AWAY, rather than lower herself to entice him with stoopid tricks that would make her look like a desperate woman (like many do).
Are you able to differentiate the two? genuine love and tricks?

If a lady attempted all that with me, I'd be disinterested in no time. Why would anyone want to be worshipped? That beats my imagination!
Well some want their ego boosted first to get them into action.
RomanceRe: Men/is It Love Or Acts? by pendo89(op): 8:54pm On Jun 20, 2012
So, if my love for you is evident in my actions, and my actions are evidence of my love,
true

In my opinion a man treating u right is a function of his person; that he doesn't treat u like trash does not mean he loves, he just may not be the brash type. That u do all d right things can't make him love u, it can only endear him to u. But if he makes d decision to love u( cos love is a decision)
I think many of us misunderstand and interpret it to mean love
The secret lies within you. The key word is SIMPLICITY
yeah just be who you are and let him decide.

he will only treat you right if he was raised right, the way he treats people is a reflection of how he will treat you. You cannot make a man out of a dog.
heavy stuff but makes sense.Difficult to mold a grown up.
RomanceRe: Men/is It Love Or Acts? by pendo89(op): 8:48pm On Jun 20, 2012
luckgames: pendo89:
"Finding it hard to digest that.We have many sheep in wolves clothing."
Guess what?
You are one
Ok lets just say ur right. I could even be a bear.
RomanceRe: Men/is It Love Or Acts? by pendo89(op): 8:38pm On Jun 20, 2012
Sagamite: If you are a lady and you are a nice person but yet a man treats you badly, is your fault, you made the choice. YOU picked him.
Finding it hard to digest that.We have many sheep in wolves clothing.

horny4u: And the fastest way to get molested by your hubby or wife is to make them into an idol....its unfair on them and they know they ain't got such powers , so you then look the fool and is kicked to the curb.
mmh.I think ur right dear.
RomanceMen/is It Love Or Acts? by pendo89(op):
In response to the thread 'How to make a man worship you,one man replied and said

If u like treat me like a king,like ur boss or ur best friend if I don't wanna be nice ,there is nothing u can do to change me.but if I am in luv,I will even lick ur feet to make u happy .its beta to be in a relationship with a guy dat trully luvs u

It got me thinking. What would really make a man adore and treat you right?
Some men no matter what you do for them will treat you like trash.
Others will treat you right regardless.

which between love and actions carries most weight?
RomanceRe: Pls Explain Her To Me. I Want To Hear From Ladies Especially. by pendo89(f): 11:42am On Jun 20, 2012
solbil: you do not understand it. i have kept myself to this moment thinking the one i love so much will deserve me new. i did this despite all the factors pushing me to break my vow. it wasnt so simple dealing with those factors. now i have found the one i feel for and she has shown me the "red flag" as a poster puts it. this will surely affect my confidence in 'if i ask, i will get'. the next time i face a woman, i will not be able to help thinking that she is also going to show me the "red flag".
aaaw now u make me wanna cry.

But hey look here.You made ONE BIG ASSUMPTION! Why assume she's not taken?
She could be acting that way because she has a guy u know.
The other thing,stop trying too hard if you want to impress a lady. You may have succeeded in melting her heart but she's playing hard.
Stay off now cz uv already left a mark and concentrate on ur stuff.If she likes you, trust me she will bring herself to you using all means possible.
And please dont claim to have 'found the one'when you haven't even started! True Love is reciprocal.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Ayanle456 Should Be Banned From Nairaland by pendo89(f):
smh
RomanceRe: Guys, How Did U Feel The First Tym A Gf Complained Abt Nt Seein Her Period? by pendo89(f): 9:02am On Jun 20, 2012
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RomanceRe: Guys, How Did U Feel The First Tym A Gf Complained Abt Nt Seein Her Period? by pendo89(f): 9:00am On Jun 20, 2012
pendo89: Curiosity killed the cat! grin So how are you 'seriously waiting for her periods to come?' The anxiety will cause them to delay more!
From what you just described she could be pregnant but only a test can affirm this.
You are knowledgable but not smart.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Ayanle456 Should Be Banned From Nairaland by pendo89(f): 10:11pm On Jun 19, 2012
Ayanle admmit it.You are a very bad racist. I wouldn't entertain you on my forum if you talk trash like you do.
A fellow somali begged you to stop posting ur racist remarks but u ignored him.
Why then are here if you hate blacks?
You are a disgrace to Africa really.The same Africa that hosts and feed u guys.
I save all ur racist remarks for a reason cz people assume u guys are good.
pathetic!
Foreign AffairsRe: South Africa Police Tear A Nigeria Passport Into Pisses by pendo89(f): 9:55pm On Jun 19, 2012
grin grin grin grin grin another funny one!
pisses! grin
Nairaland GeneralRe: Newbie by pendo89(f): 8:34pm On Jun 19, 2012
Karibu

Umetoka wapi sasa? nani amekubring hapa? grin

mimi ni mwenyeji lakini karibu.usiwe mrude cz watablame all.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Saw A Lady Smoking On The Street Today by pendo89(f): 8:25pm On Jun 19, 2012
lemmie get this clear.

what is the diff btwn the woman smoking in private and the one doing it in public?

To me one is posing a health risk to other citizens but talk of morality? call it courage not morals.
RomanceRe: What Does An "Ex" Mean To You? by pendo89(f): 6:45pm On Jun 19, 2012
expired,excommmunicated
Foreign AffairsRe: Young African Leaders Visit The U.S. by pendo89(f): 5:32pm On Jun 19, 2012
[quote author=Afro_Blue]Hi e-wifey, grin funny that.
I have no idea what went into the selection and decision process but am glad the program exist. I'm well aware of grand magnificence of the great nation of Kenya.

I signed up for wazua, posted a few times, went back and had difficulty signing in.
Someone on nairaland posted this website [url]http://kenyanbestforum.com/index.php?PHPSESSID=43de0c5b2749eb39a500a109f8cad9c9& [/url], I saved it but haven't explored it yet.[/quote]What was ur id? cz I also exp.the same problem plus many others.I think it was technical.
I haven't come across this one you posted. Wzua is mostly biz oriented. lots of serious investors in there.
After being on NL for a while I find many others forums somewhat slow. This is one hell of a place and it has so many boards unlike many others.
Will explore.
Hope all is well in Mia.
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Doesnt Allow Me To Hold Her Phone Even For A Second by pendo89(f): 3:41pm On Jun 19, 2012
What do u want to do with her phone?
I dont let anybody touch my phone anyhow
RomanceRe: Attension Of Mod Jaybee!!!! Attension Of Mod Jaybee!!!! Attension Of Mod JaY B by pendo89(f): 2:14pm On Jun 19, 2012
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin @ title!
RomanceRe: How To Make A Man Worship The Grounds You Walk On. by pendo89(f): 9:11pm On Jun 18, 2012
mmh ok thats fine.I only wish that you were writing it as an already married woman.
RomanceRe: How Do You Know When A Guy Is Tired Of A Girl/relationship? by pendo89(f): 8:07pm On Jun 18, 2012
-Well I think he just stops communicating!
-Claims to be too busy and occupied.
-Sounds like a boss not boyfriend
-Keeps the conversation brief.
RomanceRe: My Student Girlfriend Hardly Calls Me But Claims To Love Me by pendo89(f): 1:30pm On Jun 18, 2012
see wahala?
She's ur galfren not girlfriend so stop wasting time on this girl.
Trust me if a girl loves you she will be glued to her phone 24/7 waiting for ur call and will spend more calling you than anybody else.
Stop forcing this cz it aint going nowhere.
Or give yourself a break and see what she does.Reverse psycho works at times.
RomanceRe: What Kind Of A Husband Will He Be? by pendo89(f): 1:14pm On Jun 18, 2012
A responsible man must be able to fend for himself.

A wise mother would encourage the son to go build his own empire so that he can learn the virtues of hardwork

These soft dudes end up very miserable when the money tap dries up because they can't put their heads and hands to use.
They dont know the tricks and how to do stuff becaue mummy has been doing it for them!
It's not about providence here.Its learning how to be a responsible hardworking man that can take care of a family and kids.
And that you learn through practice not theory.
RomanceRe: What Does It Take To Be Romantic? by pendo89(f): 1:04pm On Jun 18, 2012
We are soo different dude.
What appeals to her may not be my idea of romance so just be yourself and you will def. attract a woman.We are soo many you cant lack somebody.
RomanceRe: What Kind Of A Husband Will He Be? by pendo89(f): 12:56pm On Jun 18, 2012
slimyem: at least,you understand the cause of my worry...and there's only little i can say to this friend so it doesnt sound like i'm trying to break-up her relationship.
But she's so dear to me and i just dunno what to do.
How old is this fellow ??

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