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ur killing me.

I think I did but I try as much as possible to avoid replying to personal comments cz some very crazy people roam the place and are ready to pick up a well intentioned comment then proceed to rubbish it or make a mountain out of it. Its soo uncivilised and childish.

It's crazy how the gover has been blaming the weakening of the shilling for the sharp rise in fuel costs. Unfortunatley I know nothing about Gej. (not 9ija)
And even though they blame external factors, Tanzania faces the same yet their prices have remained constant at less than a dollar!
Its just policy and formulation. we have gotten used to daily adjustments messing up our budgets.

am lost here. wht d u mean by 3 dffrent earings (one for each ear). A normal human has 2 ears both fitting two identical earings,so which is this other lonely ring?
ok 2 could go to one ear or
it cud be anybodys even his mum's

odiaero:
@Pendo89, if it were to be wine, i do be glad, but for car is no go, i dont feel confortable with it

return  it back. how? i got no idea at all. I hate the idea that she manages ur property even if its just goat.

odiaero:
^^ That charity of a thing is my consideration, but hope she wont take it to another level of i dont want her gift, so am considering back to sender

see your more concerned about her feelings and reaction. Would there be any diff in her feelings if u returned it?
Either way she will think you dont want her gift.A woman's hobby is to think.
See I receive lots of wine esp next week yet I am not a drinker. I never return any and I never care about anybody's motives. All I do is appreciate and hand them over to friends or family.
I know there's no comparison btwn car/wine but am referring to the act of receiving unsolicited gifts.Since her heart was merry while giving u  the car,then she ought not to gt hurt by your 'kind and giving spirit'. ok its just an indirect way of telling her she went too far, but cmmon that car can be put to good use by some needy organisation since she has cash to splash on you.
you both dont need it but smbody does. Nbody needs to hurt here.

Dd u say she manages your property?  whatever u decide to do just do it well to avoid a nasty revenge after uv left the country

Its a gift for u. She wasn't forced to buy it so do the diplomatic thing. Act ignorant of her motive and play gentleman.
Let her know that u appreciate her kind gesture but since u do not need the car, you are going to donate it to charity as a christmas gift (some orphanage or anywhere else) and ur going to do it together, plus her friends are invited. They shouldn't come empty cz its the festive season and therefore snacks should fill the car.
Carry a nice camera for the occassion. I would love to see the pics

I don't understand some christians and yet am one.
Demons are supposed to be cast out not beaten out!! And even if they are stubborn,Jesus himself said they need fasting and prayer
He never said some demons need a beating!! Its not biblical! What is wrong with people.
You cannot beat demons out becz they are spirits! you speak and command them out of the person by God's power.
No wonder some demons like these,become stubborn cz they dont sense the power of God but of the Bishop himself.
So now what? can he be sued?

98% of ladies do this

@kenyans beware!! I have notified State house.Wait for an official goverment statement from u know where.

u have made ma day.

My man up there. Man of the people.Why cant he run for presidency??

Yes let them strike. Washezi!!  I fully fully dance support them and most citizens do,even though its gonna interfere with the usual christmas travels. But who cares,the high fuel cost has made everything go up. Everything is damn expensive!

Infact Kenya is the only country in the East with high fuel prices! and the oil going to those other countries passes through Kenya!!!
Now that is not fair.

Strike and strike good. You have my support!
The doctors did it and the goverment responded
The postal workers are having there's as well.They demand a salary increase. I am sure somebody will reward them.
Now its a people's strike! I am loving these strikes cz they are not violent and the goverment is reacting.

Lets see if its Kimutai vs Atwoli. strike strike strike. The roads will be soo clear.

Well since its original purpose and meaning is lost,I can safely say its just for relaxation after the wedding stress.

All has been said op.

Now go and be desperate no more

food section first.
i think am hungry

Oh boy lets not condemn the guy because it's clear he has deep psychological issues.

He needs to overcome rejection first cz its what makes him cling. Is he even aware that hes a nuisance?

michelin89:
But I don't like dunces who think love covereth all. Makes me want to release my atomic bomb self on them.

I am commended for my analytical abilities but not for my way of transmitting the information I have elaborated, for the simple fact that I don't possess an emotional touch.

That's okay and good. my exact opposite. I on the other hand don't need an emotional person. I run away from such as fast as I can before their emotions connect with mine. But I ask so many questions first. I try sorrounding myself with critics and logical thinkers.The mad people who dont cry when I do.
Emotions bring the balance becz they are all about feelings and people who feel dont spend too much time analysing,In other words, they are moved by what they see and hear before they act. Most women are like that and guess what am one!
The analysts on the other hand take time before they act.One can easily die in the process.

Does love cover stuff? I am critical when it comes to love matters but at the end of the day after all the analysis and logic,your love will determine the course of action.

michelin89:
Pendo, don't you think it's unfair that despite all these qualities someone won't let me be because of my big nose? 

Was it sagonerd that criticised your nose? dont worry thats expected of him.
The first thing I noticed when I peeped at your profile was the warm smile and smooth skin. I dint notice the nose at all.
Now that should tell u that beauty is subjective.Never ever allow anybody to bring u down am sure u are a strong lady. I like saying everybody has a lil imperfection to stop us from boasting too much.
Then I always believe that[b] I am who I believe I am and [/b]not what people say about me. You believe your beautiful? then you sure are!

^ stop shining teeth.Have u taken a good look at michell's skin?? fiiine Ok go hug ur photoshoped mercy again if u disagree
Michel that aint skinny! gosh u look good and have a warm smile.

[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=826417.msg9778755#msg9778755 date=1324046404]Well, I hear what you are saying but at some point male players exposed themselves and the WOMEN CHOSE not to adhere to the warning signs.  It is easy to play a naive, dumb, lonely, and lack of confidence woman than a woman who is sure of herself and PAY ATTENTION to what is going on around her i.e. adhere to the warning signs.[/quote]I like one thing about you.You nail it on the head. I have always believed that greater responsibility lies on the lady.No man can break ur heart,abuse or misuse u unless you allow him to.The only crime he can do to you is rape.
What we ladies are good at is ignoring warning signs.We feel safe acting dumb and allowing everything to cross our paths. Later we say 'he took advantage'.
Of course he did! of ur foolishness.

Now u just reminded me of MBJ'S The Player's book'!

And to imagine u put Amen to that! wake up please.

False. Only the bad ones. Good ones ought not to the reason they are called players.
If u wanna do anything do it well and perfect and avoid getting caught. But my prayer always is > may they get busted like a fool I heard on radio yesterday.
He busted himself!! by trying to play 'Mr.I know the studio call.'

but seriously michelin ,u make me think about an aeronautical engineer + a doctor or a mad programmer + electrical engineer
am sure they will come to a compromise if they are both in love.
It happens.

michelin89:
No, I'm not an/a very emotional person.

okay then if we were to follow Deemains theory you need an emotional man for ur relationship to stabilise. (assuming u r not in any)
or else u keep hitting the wall. do u belive that?

michelin89:
Going by that definition I'm not a woman then. Let's be careful about our generalization. Going by exclusion you're saying men are logical creatures which is also a fallacy.

Absolutism is absolutely abhorred in science!

I had that in mind already. An intelligent woman.But aren't u emotional?? cz I am and I hate to call myself silly.

Look his def of an intellectual person >>(head-person, logical person, high IQ individual)

Emotional person >>(heart-person, emotionally intelligent person, high IQ)

You and I know that any sex can fit into any category but I was using myself as an example. Given only the 2 options above I would say I fit into the second.
Know why? cz am a lady a heart person and very emotional at that.
Now by virtue of me belonging in the second group >>emotional person,if am ever going to engage a lover in argument then it will have to be my opposite(an intellectual man) and the first description fits him well.
I therefore understand why u call it fallacy but that aint it.

DeeMain:
Ever read of Daniel Goldman's Emotional Intelligence? The book is a best seller because many high IQ people (science-inclined, artists, social scientists, business people, artisans) now understand that they have low EQ (Emotional Intelligence). This does not mean it's all.

2ndly: when an intellectual (head-person, logical person, high IQ individual) is in a relationship with an emotional person (heart-person, emotionally intelligent person, high EQ, emotional person) the intellectual person wins all arguments (of course he will, he is a master of logic, facts, justification and analysis). Over the long term the emotional person becomes resentful of being a 'loser' or always being the one at fault, or starts feeling threatened. The effect is he or she sabotages the relationship or goes on the offensive. Conflict ensues. It's self-preservation baby!

Very Interesting pce of info.

Women are emotional creatures and I think I fall in ur second category ( heart-person and emotional) but I meet some very high IQ people (not many) who argue nonstop.They analyse too much. I just give in so that the debate can stop but that doesnt mean I agree with them.
This unfinished biz crops up in another argument and ends up again without answers. In the end one has a pile of unfinished debates or issues and they start feeling like loosers.It never gets solved!
What a tiring cycle! So this logical,high IQd,factual and emotionless people are a pain in the arse. I prefer one having those attributes but emotional as well for us to connect and understand one another.

@ sag.
See why I used sagonerd? because smbody is one. I have 8 kids & expectant so how can I not be married?
[quote author=Godman_n link=topic=825112.msg9777640#msg9777640 date=1324036584]Don't you think what you call smart in the streets can better be classified as frivolities not worthy of attention or that distracts? Intelligent is from God and the uninitiated will never understand it. Geniuses are born not made.[/quote]Okay lemmie be truthful with you here since we dont know each other. You take God out of me and am dead.Simple. I learn a lot here about relationships and stuff. Thing is I try to be balanced not go overboard with my beliefs to the extent that I become irrelevant to the world.
Now I like quoting or referring to real life stuff. So when u hear me say street smart (knowing what goes on about life in general and how to build relationships)its cz av seen both groups of people.The genious and streetsmart.
Both are close friends of mine but one (both a genious and street smart) guides me along. I call him my mentor. The other is the bookworm.
Poor socially,poor in relations,he just cant excel in anything outside books or lab! Wouldnt u rather be knowledgeable in all things