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the woman you love tells you she loves you more than some loaded dude but u dont trust her and shes not even give u reason to?
I feel sorry for her cz when a woman is[b] TRULY[/b] in love with you nothing can sway her. not money nor car.
There will always be better guys than you in this life so work on ur insecurity and fear.
And If she leaves u she wasn't urs. Go hunting again. Its a jungle.

Depends on what you value most in life.
Is it worth it,will it last,will it make you happy,give you peace,good health, etc cz there's nothing worse than a millionare who cannot enjoy his wealth due to stress or depression.

Pendo langu.> my love
Mpenzi> my lover

Fort Jesus > Coastal Kenya.

Fort Jesus is a Portuguese fort built in 1593 by order of King Philip I of Portugal (King Philip II of Spain), then ruler of the joint Portuguese and Spanish Kingdoms, located on Mombasa Island to guard the Old Port of Mombasa, Kenya. It was built in the shape of a man (viewed from the air), and was given the name of Jesus. In 2011, the fort was declared a World Heritage Site by UNESCO, highlighted as one of the most outstanding and well preserved examples of 16th century Portuguese military fortifications


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old photo of mombasa in coastal Kenya.

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Enjoy.

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Merry Christmas and a happy new year.

kenyaman:
WE MUST DEAL WITH THE PENDO89 sag problem

Am I a national crisis too??
ooh please I dont want to become a political prisoner. Please don't take me to Hague!!

kenyaman:
Pend 89,

ALL IMAGES YOU USE ARE FOREIGN AND NOT EVEN AFRICANS. WHY? DON'T YOU LOVE YOUR HERITAGE? WHERE IS IT IN YOUR WRITING?

Okay this is yours.Smiile
Merry christmas to you from pendo the black santa.

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Merry christmas EVERYBODY. Have as much fun as possible,dont lose ur head,treat ur partner right and come back in one piece

Be kind to others and share ur joy with the the less fortunate.

Rem many have treated angels unawares

God bless you all.

October this year?? Is the honeymoon over yet or has the pot run dry?
what a pity.

Orinkila people mourn differently.
Shopping could be a mourning remedy to take her mind off the pain.

I need to plan a good good tour round the country.Infact from Jan, I am starting a tour de E.A savings account. I must drive all the way to those Ethiopian highlands and TASTE THEIR COFFEE!!
I think I have my next christmas sorted out. Thanks.

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[quote author=Okija_juju link=topic=830350.msg9815172#msg9815172 date=1324547186]Go and buy her a PVR decoder so she can simply record all the series she wants to watch and watch them at her leisure[/quote]Haha I typed that and deleted cz I thought, if she records a week's series @ taking 2 hours then that is 10 hours of watching.
She works mon-friday. If she dedicates all her evenings to house and hubby, she only has sat and sun free.
Now sunday most peeps go to church till mid-day and after noon is leisure time with family wherever.
So we only have saturday leisure/free time for this woman. You now want her to watch a 10 hour series nonstop on saturday or sunday?
Where does this guy fit in? He will still complain unless they both have something interesting to watch together as they cuddle on sofa.
The guy is lonely!

The answer here is discipline.Any disciplined person can live and own anything but they will never allow the thing to control them.
This is a teenager in a womans body

[quote author=Mr.Bright link=topic=761477.msg9815156#msg9815156 date=1324547068]The poster request for advise not for business transaction,but for enlightenment.And i did replied in that capacity.But im surprise with personal attack of "Trust" and "Joker" stuffs.To pendo 89,im on NL as a personality just like you are,i did not introduce company in my response to the post neither did you.Therefore if you want to know, i head an AIR FREIGHT DEPT. of a reputable clearing and freight forwarding outfit in Lagos with big clienteles that cut across every sectors in Nigeria.If Seun gives a column of feedback on this platform,you hear fellow NLDERS that have consulted or assisted in one way or the other,like export,import and other general advise.Pls if you require my company contact e.g site,or mail.I will do so officially.[/quote]Its okay, I am xtremly wary of anybody who comes in the name of a yahoo address.I am sure you won't blame me for that because not everybody out there is good.The bad people spoil for the serious ones and its not easy to trust anybody anymore unless I have gone through their website and verified everything. I think you have established a good reput.here from your comment so no need to worry about my insecurities.Apologies.

You said you work for a reputable clearing and forwading outfit? I would really love to know the names of reputable forwaders in Nigeria.
Those with muscle,have been in biz for a while,registered of course,good volumes,great facility > warehouse,handling shades etc.
Is there any website where I can check them out?

I know you are wondering why I ask.I will tell you. I am in the Africa Development department of the Logistic Co, I work for. Our work involves setting up partners all over Africa. Now we already have one in Lagos but I cant mention his name since hes into oil and gas and who knows,if you are working for them!! If you partner with these big international co.then you could be our rep.in Nigeria,who knows.
Anyway the poster seems a bit clueless. Air ticketing and Reservations is nothing close to cargo handling.I know IATA regulations extend to both professions but Cargo is complex.
Many people assume all you need is cargo and the plane or ship and voila its shipped!.

I even forgot the war is still on. There's peace in the country and enough security so far.

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Just sell the TV and the GEN
let everyone stay darkness
and she dares not go to her neighbours place else she sleeps there
[/quote]lol,so everybody suffers cz of one person? Doesn't make sense to me.This type will go watch tv at the neighbour.
If you disconnect anything she will get somebody to fix it,no? And please she's is not the only one watching tv in that house.
Dont use child''s tactics on her cz she's grown up!
Treat like like she doesnt exist.That gets into any woman like nothing else.

MBG4Real:
My annoyance is that whenever she settles to watch these episodes every other thing that needs her attention in the house suffers. She sleeps off as soon as she lies down. She barely wakes on time to prepare for work in the morning.
She doesn't care how much fuel she burns watching with Generator.

WHAT DO I DO TO STOP MY WIFE FROM THIS HABIT WITHOUT PUTTING AN UNNECESSARY STRAIN IN OUR MARRIAGE. HELP

Those are danger signs.Did she forget she is a married woman with added responsibilities and that it takes sacrifice for marriage to work?
How can a grown woman behave like a teenager in the house really.just thinking what if you had kids? Who will get down to housework and who will watch tv? You know what? she really needs to GROW UP and start acting married.
If you sell that box? with her immature attitude? she will camp at the neighbour's to watch.
Suppose you ignore her for a while. Carry work at home and act too busy to care about her.Treat her like she doesnt exist AT ALL.
Then watch her reaction.If she says a word, let her know that is exactly how you feel everytime she ignores you.
Damn whatever works try.

Interesting piece. The Gullah.
What is their apprx. pop and can they be found in other parts of Africa as well? I am from the East and I never heard of them.
christmas greetings from beautiful Kenya.

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He is back this lef,but ad rather read this than some threads!

[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=829309.msg9811474#msg9811474 date=1324487809]If that is the case, I would be described as Cruella from 101 Dalmatians.    [/quote]lmao! u know somebody dated a cannibal! flesh eater or something!
But seriously,nobody dated a nice ex? dd we all date monsters, wizards,witches,snakes and beasts? what was wrong with us? I think that explains the behaviours of some of us!!

And we are here giving advise on relationships and calling posters mugus and mumus 

_{I know I know we learnt lessons}

^^ you sound errm *different*

And to Imagine these fellows described here are dating other persons! wow I hope they changed. But what if they describe us the same way.

[quote author=Mr.Bright link=topic=761477.msg9810825#msg9810825 date=1324481288]That is my business i can help out,but i major in air freighting,now that clearing is 24hours process,it pose a challenge to other established freight forwarder now.Anybody with sound business mind can make it in big form.My contact is gbengabright@yahoo.com or 08036434082[/quote]If you are a indeed a serious forwader dont you think you ought to have a company email and better still a co. website where somebody can verify everything in detail?
why personal mails and digits? only a joker can trust you.

In the Mara watching the lions mate and listening to the hyenas laughter while having bbq with family.

^^ you are in Virginia you should know better.

oh boy I hope you are not a 50 year old married man

Agree with you iice

If one is does not free to communicate ANYTHING with somebody they claim to deeply love then they cannot have freedom in that relationship.
It becomes an act/play because they will be trying hard to Impress.Sooner or later they explode and all the ugliness shows.
I think relationships are like a ladder. One grows from stage to stage and each stage is a school. I worry whenever I find stage one issues disturbing somebody who is already in stage 9. It means they haven't grown or learnt a thing.Its like an old man in diapers.

Nl may offer advise.But fact of the matter is,you are the captain of that relationship and it doesnt matter how much advise is given.
If one fails to apply the basic principles and treat relationships soberly and with respect then all is in vain.

orinkila what are u on about?
which crazy father competes with baby for bosom milk
lol!!
But yeah God gave us great organs followed by brains

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