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Robenna:
Hello guys, this is a Nairalander
I know this family can help me with solutions
Abeg no much insult
In the recent 1 year, I met a woman from our church, i was just liking her but all of a sudden i started coming close to her. Shes married, I am close to her children, theyre little tho and her third child of about 5 years is my jokingly best friend.
I know her husband, i do come to her house steady, not far from mine
Her husband is cool and dosent cause muvh problems. The thing is that, now and earlier I took her as my Second Mother aka "Momma"..But in the recent weeks and months, i think this has exceeded a mother to vhild stuff. Although i term her my mother, buh i now feel deeply in love with her.
The affection is much; I Love her so much
Please dont see this funny, Im soon gonna be 18 and she may be around her late or early 30's...I know she loves me too, Ive always seen her jealous of my personal life, like someone who cares a lot. Guys im too close to this woman, same with her.. Not sure how much she loves and cares for me, but guys i need your advice to me.
I havent gone so romantic with her, apart from trying to kiss her at one time, which i later didnt do
Let me know your mind about this feeling

Pleas Admins I need this to be on the frontpage for better suggestions please

she is into u bcus u are given her much attention than her husband is given to her and also she is showing too much care for you more than your girlfriend. Well tell her your mind jokingly and see her reaction...

Billgatessecond:
If you have the chance to jala from Nigeria what are d two countries you have in mind ..


For me I would go to Brasil or south Africa
Wbu

germany or poland

obembet:
I believe everyone has a picture of their dream husband/ wife in their head but sometimes destiny and journey through life might change everything.

It’s always good to marry a wo-man with a good job, but the nature of the job will also determine how effective the woman will be as a wife and as a mother to the children, also how responsible the husband will be.

If you are to marry based on a person's profession, who will you want to marry?

A MARRIAGE THERAPIST

OLABAMIJI99:
That Elrufai is too soft on that infidel is making some of us disliking Elrufai himself..

Well let's allow Obi to enjoy the fame he craves for until the election day


But one thing is certain.

NEVER AGAIN SHALL WE ALLOW A CHRSTIAN TO RULE THIS COUNTRY NO MATTER THE POLITICAL PARTY

JONATHAN IS AND REMAINS THE LAST CHRSTIAN PRESIDENT IN THIS COUNTRY

may it not be well with u

IntelChief:
My elder sister is around 32 years and still not serious with marriage. Her only focus is on making money and she had been very successful in that aspect. She has a well paying job and is not only comfortable but also supports me financially sometimes.

But I just can't imagine why she is not disturbed about the fact that she is still single at her age. A lot of guys I know had been approaching her but she never accepts even a relationship offer from them, talk more of marriage. (And am very sure that she is not a lesbian or any of that).

As a church guy, I have seen a lot of women stock in this not being married thing and jumping from one church to the other seeking for husbands. Some of them, out of desperation, fall victims in the hands of fake pastors and sharp guys. I really don't want my sister to go through such.

Initially, I wasn't disturbed, but right now, this issue is burning not only me but also my aging mother. My mother had even stylishly urged my sister to go get married on several occasions. But she won't.

What really got me mad was when I was discussing with my sister some days back about her future plans. She told me stuffs like planning on travelling abroad for greener pastures, bla bla bla, but made no mention of marriage.

Honestly guys, I am tired. And as a man in the family, I am thinking of changing it for my sister. Am planning on threatening her that if she doesn't take the issue of marriage serious, I will go physical with her and teach her some lessons. But the issue is that she is my elder sister and I have some respect for her. And my action might end up affecting the bond in the family.

Bro are u not happi that your Sis is still alive, if you force her into marriage and something tragic happens (abusive relationship) what will you say. Oga u are of age y u no go marry also if u think it easy. U think marriage is child's play that u can walk in and out? Guy let her be Abeg there is time for everything when the Right person and time comes she will get married..

Pastorjohn2:
You can't live a life of sin and think God will grant you a long life.

After committing premarital sex and so many abominations, God has finally come to deliver his wrath upon him.

Let this server as a strong warning to others!

REPENT

Baba are u a saint(for all have sinned and come short of the glory of God) its of the Lord mercy that you are alive so if you don't have better word to type just shot up Ingrate....

MMWandali:
I did Online application on NIS portal

Passport type: Standard passport
32 pages, 5 years validity
Application fee: 15,000
Address verification: 2,000
Address verification service charge:200
Select gateway/ mode
Gateway payment charges: 600

Total is N17,800
After guarantor form is duly completed with the endorsement of a commissioner for oath
Proceed to Immigration office near you for capture on your appointment date

I did @ Maiduguri office

how online in Lagos is 25k

EmahBoss:
I love that you are finally serving her the same dishes she has been serving you for 8 years.


If the kitchen is becoming too hot for her, she should leave. Instead of frustrating you.

I get it, is not easy to rise kids alone but she has to learn to adjust and be mindful of the union.

she has been disrespectful to him before she had kids

blazesam:
Bros calm down, am there myself and trust me, the rallie is damn peaceful with the support of the embassy. We got enough security on ground and nobody will come and claim any nonsense.

Are you a Tinubu supporter? I know you hungry, just send me your account, I can help deal with your hunger, that what we the OBIDIENT do.

Baba show ur boi love abeg.

blazesam:
Bros calm down, am there myself and trust me, the rallie is damn peaceful with the support of the embassy. We got enough security on ground and nobody will come and claim any nonsense.

Are you a Tinubu supporter? I know you hungry, just send me your account, I can help deal with your hunger, that what we the OBIDIENT do.

baba show ur boi love abeg

Candidlady:



If it is a girl child kindly take her to the nearest orphanage home.. •••send pm icould help financially•••

But

If it is a boy child kindly pass in peace kos the mum did what's best ... that gender need to be exterminated from this earth of ours

u are an heartless soul

Kizzygentle:
I can't even do this shit.. Heaven knows. If I see any star I don't get star struck even MJ the greatest of all.. The other day I saw uche jombo I was just looking and she was looking at me too with astonishment thinking I would wave or run after her like how some idi.ots did. She felt embarrassed.. Same thing with tuface on brothers birthday at *the place* club. When he entered the vip were we had the birthday party and people were ranting and shouting, I was just sitting and looking. He came closer and I shook him and moved forward.. This people are just like us.. They are not gods and can't give us a future. The only time I can worship any of them is when the person changes my life completely. I come in peace.

the mall where I am working jide kosoko came in with his body guard to get some stuff na so all d staffs day hail am me just great am and walk away.

baralatie:
Of course with aphrodisiac,drugs,binge and heart attack
As I
The dudes dick was still erect even after he has died o

that means there is still life in his dick

Revolution2022:
I am still surprised that no Fulani bandit kidnappers has been arrested and paraded even though there were photos of one of their negotiator,shiek gummi handing over ransom payments worth several millions of naira to them.What is going on here?

boss e tire me o, Nigerian and this tribal games it is well this government is somehow

UYEMDO35:
Hello guys~ my best friend and I live together in the same neighborhood.

I introduce him to were I was working at the moment because he was seriously in need of a job...

Though! He had a job he was doing but the money they are paying him is just token, so when he came for an interview today.

He passed the prescription test that was given to him, and he was made the assistant Boss and I have been working there for long without been given dis offer.

Being his first time of working with us he has started giving out policy in which I don't like, he's trying to change the system for us making it unbearable for us to cope. And to crown it all, his salary his x2 higher than mine and we both have same qualification.

So am thinking of going to my Boss to lunch complain maybe to ask him to renew my contract.

What do you all think about my step....

Should I still go on with it?

That is how I invited my female friend to a job interview, I was invited to the job interview and this my female friend is job hunting so I told her about it, then we went together, at Ikeja local airport. We were 70 people that attended the interview so after the screening the airline company(arik) picked only 5 people. Both me and my female friend was part of the selected candidate then when I got home, I was sent a message that arik airline will get back to me but my female friend did not recive such message. So she started working with them while I am still waiting for confirmation to start work.after 2 weeks my female friend started giving me attitude before you know it she stop receiving and calling me naso she ghost me o. Well it was a painful experience but I learnt my lesson and move on with my life.....

Patience

Dust

fergie001:
SOURCE

How many bandit/hardmen/bokoharam have they sentence. 9ja is just a fvck up country.

LordviccoDaGuru:
Go and blame PDP Ipob Igbo part not Buhari

u are sick upstair

This life is all vanity

neonly:
Really u dey go market thought u do online market

na u give am moni

Militant1:
Doing my laundry is not the problem... I can do it comfortably every weekend with the machine cos am not lazy and I can afford to give office clothes to drycleaner . The problem is that she doesn't do what she ought to do before 9pm for everyone to go and sleep. The sex is something else. I watch videos of pregnant women demanding sex from their husbands but for me, the two kids we have we didn't have sex for like 11months each. We have been married for 4 years and I can tell u confidently that 2 years in that period we haven't had sex.......

for sex she has low libido. Pls did u married her a virgin

Militant1:
I will try to be brief and straight to the point.

My wife stays up late (11pm -12 am) every blessed day.... That's the problem.

We live in Lagos and have 2kids, 3yo and 8 months. My wife was working before but left the job when she gave birth. There is a job waiting for her when the baby is 1y6mnths, therefore she is a stay at home mom.

We live on the mainland but I work on the island so I live home as early as five. In our house we have all the amenities you can think of; 24 hrs light (NEPA plus inverter), running water, gas, 2 washing machines etc to make a home 95percent comfortable but my wife can't seem to cope and it started when we had one child.

She doesn't wash my clothes, my office shirts and suits are given to dry cleaner to arrange while my other laundry I do myself every weekend with the washing machine.

When I get home by 7pm or 8, that's when she now starts rushing to bath the kids and prepare dinner, so we eat by 9 or 10. Before the kids play play and play, by 11pm we are still awake. Sometimes I go to bed by midnight and have to wake up by 4am to go to work again. It's impacting on my health and my work. She will sleep by 12 am and wake up by 8 or 9am the following day.

I have tried to beg and appeal to her. If I eat out and come home to just sleep, she go dey vex. If I just come home shower and sleep the kids who have passed their bedtime will be playing and when madam is ready to sleep they won't agree to sleep. She will beat them, guess who they will come crying to- daddy that just started sleeping and has to wake by 4am, I will now pet and pet till 2am before kids sleep.. I have advised her that kids have a bedtime(8pm). When I man up and off the tv by 9pm and tell everyone to go to bed, she says I am disrespecting her. She reports me to her mum.

Worse still our sex life is horrible... We have sex like once in 2 month.. At 35 I am in my sex prime and can Bleep everyday but she doesn't seem to care about me because she is always tired am I pity her so I don't demand sex so much.

I fully understand stay at home is not easy and I help her when.

I tried to create a schedule for her.

Wake up by 6am
By 7 she suppose don clean finish
By 8 breakfast should be ready for her, kids
9-10am bath herself and the kids
10-12 do any other stuff in the house
12-3pm rest, watch movies, chill
3-5pm... Do whatever she likes
5pm boil water and bath the kids
6pm she don bathe and bath kids
7pm... Food don done... Everything dey freezer
8pm we eat
By 9 everyone goes to bed and we knack 1hr

I throw the trash every day
Na me dey go market buy foodstuff
On weekends I clean the house
I wash my all my clothes
I provide all the finance in the house
I satisfy her on the bed when we naka. She begs me that she's tired
I buy her gifts, drop 3k for her everyday
Why should we have a house help when she is a stat at home mum (for now)

So what's the problem..


Mothers, are my demands too much?
Mothers, please when do you close your kitchen and go to bed?
Are you still awake by 11pm every blessed day.
Am I crazy?

Please advice me.

I have begged her, pleaded, shouted, done everything. Sometimes I intentionally come home late (10-11pm) thinking that the kids have gone to bed but my first child will be watching cartoon.

Please advice me. I am going crazy, Lagos is stressful

sir we can understand your plight and it time you and your wife see a marriage therapist because your wife don't know the role of a wife in a marriage and also with all these habit she has been exhibiting, can affect your mental health. Don't fight her Just see a therapist.

Ablemed:
Can therapy work for me?? isn't it to late at 24years of age?? I just finished calling mum now and accused her of everything that has happened to me, I told her I don't want to hear from her, not anytime soon. I'm tried calling my Dad to but his line is switch off, I just wanna cut both of them off, They put me in this mess that I have to fight alone now

Bro I understand your plight, you are not too old to see a therapist, and also telling your parent to stay out of your life is not a good idea because you might not need them now but I tell you, you will need them in the future and also people telling you not to join the military are not telling you the truth, Bro don't allow people view about you define you ,you can be what ever you want to be if you make up your mind. Give dat military plan a try. And also be positive in your mind it is well bro.

doggedfighter:
Lies !






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try and see

jubrilcastle:
What's there. When Lukaku can speak nine different languages

your father na lukaku abi, guy grow up

SenecaTheYonger:
I tried to, but he said they were doing promo a while ago and it was 5k then, and I should have applied as at then, but the promo has ended and it’s back to 10k.

pls Wat state is it

But I don't understand, is it that his house is not in the area ni, when his body was decaying desnt it has offensive odour that the community can not perceive, cus no mater the distance of his house,the decayed body must smell. It is well with his soul.

NobleStag007:
Past is past

if your family was among those she killed, will you be here to say past is past. Put Irish people and those that have lost their lives and love ones in your shoe then you will be able to feel there pains,.if not you are a fucking heartless bastard.... ��

DaddyCK:
HUH??
brother wot rubbis u talkin sir?how can love be dead while I fall in love almost everyday & i get pucccy anytime.....bro are u a virrrrgin sir?(no ofeinse)

baba yours is not love but infatuation.

08146691395

Ikennaford:
You think you are anonymous, how dare you insult my father, the late great dibia of ezinihitte mbaise,, nairalanders bear me witness,if this op wake up tomorrow morning call me bas tard

go and die with your father, bastard son of a thousand fathers. ����