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VictorUSA:
Can you imagine?


Please rate me and my girlfriend. Give grade such as A B C D E and F. Thanks.

ur babes is underage na.

dream(s) of becoming the U.S President.[/quote]It not possible bro US is not like your state/country where anybody can be president or governor.i wish u good luck in your post jamb examination.

Franklystein:
He's dating her to spite me, if my friend date my ex I won't be happy talkmore of my brother, it's an abomination in my own point of view but he did it anyway.

your so called brother will soon break up with her. What goes around comes around.

Robb4b:
Taking her out is not the issue at all.
I just hope it's not because she has another guy in her hostel, or she has a guy in that area, that's why she's using her roommate as excuse to tell me I can't come to her place.

Don't b 2 forward with ur suspicious abt her, with time u will kw bt for nw anywhere she says u guys should stay just comply. And watch her body language den u can get d kind of person she is.

Boss na marine babes she be,just day careful of her.

kingamaa:
See boldness

In a country with solders,police, DSS etc

Terrorist and bandits have taken over the government

Who go save Nigeria now?

BAT to the rescue

A vote for BAT is a vote for freedom

A vote for BAT is a vote for economic boom

BAT is the answer. Biko nu

e no go beta for u

NwaAdazzi:
All this Christians here,y can't u allow Muslims practice their religion in peace,must u always attack them,do u think they are happy about the things u people say some bad elements of the religion are doing.i have met good Muslims both hausa and yoruba, very peace loving people..Pls let's stop dis, we can do better

you are sick upstairs why are Muslims so toxic like dis.

Save1soul:
Nairaland family, help a bro here, I had to open another account to post this, pls read till the end.

I have been dating this girl for more than 3 years, I will say that I have been experiencing hell fire in the past 1 year and 6 month. I know no one is perfect but the problem is too much.

She have some good sides every man will cherish, she appears decent and well brought up, but here are the problem.

1. She gets angry easily. This is a problem to our relationship because we can't have a normal conservation without quarrel, like we quarrel almost every 2 days.

2. Recently she talks to me disrespectful: if there is any small argument or disagreement among us, she talks to me like her jnr sister, not minding or caring how I feel.

3. Anytime we have a fight, she gives me the silent treatment for days and I end up apologizing even when she is wrong. When I remember her good side, I want to make peace and beg her.

4. Most times when we argue, I try telling her that I am a man and i won't take some things she does. This statement " I am a man" gets her provoke. She complained against me using that statement.

5. She does not want to be scolded, she doesn't want me to complain about wrongs she does, she believes with complains about her behavior, her self esteem will be affected. She confessed to me of having an ego.

In one of the arguments, she said I make her regret saying yes to me. Just last week, we had a small disagreement; I tried helping her recover something and since I was not able to do that, I told her I will still try and her response got me angry, she didn't appreciate the fact that I was trying, that got me angry.

I uploaded a female friends picture on WhatsApp and wished her happy birthday, my girlfriend screenshot the pic, sent it to me mocking me, calling me immature, saying that I am not mature, that if I post 100 female pictures, it won't disturb her.

This is a girl I have never cheated on for the 3 years we have dated, I respect and tell her virtually everything I do, all my plans, and she knows that I love her alone. She knows that she is the only girl I am seeing and I have promised to marry her, she also know that I am working towards marrying her.

Early this year, she phycologically abused me, she knew that I love her so much, so she was playing games with my emotions, today she will act like she is angry with me and not talk to me, when I beg she will calm to forgive me, tomorrow she will continue same thing, until she stopped when I got her in the game.

I will take all the insults, Nairaland family, what do I do here.

bro u are in a toxic relationship, any body that can not control his/her temper is ready to do worse damage.bro it high time you left dat relationship cuz it not gud to your mental health.

Corn pudding

Corn pudding

Kingsince95:
It was on Monday morning.
After going through the stress of registration and everything.
I was already 3 weeks late from the resumption date for newly admitted students.

I located my class after asking for directions from older students. Since I'm a newbie.(JJC)

I entered my class and everywhere was disorganized...
I asked a guy close to me what happened?

He replied in pidgin English "class rep don give HOD blow for eyes"

... Typing

make class rep try am for sokoto university dem go burn him papa.

ggood:
I met a girl in the bank we exchange contact we started chatting, she agree to fu*ck me and she said I have to give her money I said no problem.

This morning she called me telling me that she is ready, I booked a hotel short time when she finally enter the hotel room , i notice something fishing smelling . The truth is that the girl smell one kind bad odour , she has not take her bath today and her puss*y smells , immediately the urge for sex died down , I can't imagine my self fuckin that kind smelly pus*sy .

I quickly discharge her I told her that am not fuckin till tomorrow , I gave her the agreed amount and she left.

I gave her the money by my self she didn't force me , I just gave her to let
her go.

I wanted telling her that she smells but my mind keep telling that I should not.

She knows that she has fishing odour, she just wan collect moni without sex cus she knows that you will not sex her with a bad odour.

Those guys no get joy na so dem convince me to join thinking say na easy joy na so i use #15k use start o, I trick like mad man if u see me I was looking gud before I joined by wen i started I became black in fact dem teach us hw to beg wen entering bus and also in a restaurant.infact one morning like dat na so i enta bus o everybody cum day pay for TP me just day beg everybody, nobody Gree pay tp for me d driver cum say e remain 1 person way Neva pay me just lock up naso d man cum day change for everybody oo till 1 woman way day beside me cum tell d driver say I Neva pay,naso d driver hand me over to Mopol if u c Hw dem bit me dat day around 7:30am. Dat day i no concentrate for there training and dat was the last day I went.

Brightw278:
Who else is having issues with a clingy girl. I have been in a relationship with my girl for sometime, everything has been going on fine a good girl and all you can desire in a lady.

The issue here is she is so clingy, I mean it’s good to be clingy but I think this one is extreme. The nature of my job make me leave house very early and come back late at night. Before I wake up she is calling me, at work she is calling, when I’m back she would have given me 10 missed calls.

We talk everyday, but sometimes a man just want sometime to himself, and if I miss just a call I will have to Dey/dx the reason for missing that call, not to talk of the explanations. Every missed calls is always a potential cheating scenario to her. She monitors my movement as Bleep, I have to tell her where I’m going, when I’m coming, even if I’m going to the rest room and I did not tell her she flare up.

I don’t think of settling with anybody else as this is only her flaw but how do I reduce this, it’s affecting me a lot, if I’m out with freinds she wants to know them, can’t even speak to femal colleagues at work anymore. How do I go about this m, she is a sweet person.

For the records I have never cheated on her before, she checks my phone from time to time too any chat with a female colleague and she is already suspecting me not until I open up the chats for her to read the contents and see we have nothing together. How do you all handle clingy girls it should not look like I’m overreacting

Bro it time u call it quit,u Neva marry her she Don day suspect u like CID, she is too insecure and people like her usually have secret relationship that u will Neva know abt.just let her go her presence is not good for your mental health.

abobote:
Very fresh and beautiful at 47.
Her freshness de make me reason like say my wife used football age. How can she be 31, but look older than Rita Dominic that's is 47.

Happy birthday forever Young

Na situation of Nigeria na him make you think say ur wife day use football age,bro dat your wife real age it just Nigeria harsh conditions.it is well.

victooman:
Good day nairalanders,,
l met a beautiful and excellent girl during my Nysc, honestly she is everything l need in a woman,
We finish our service last year and started life in Abuja, she live with her sister and doing her own business while l live alone in the same town,, The problem now is that this girl mother is already pressurizing her for marriage,, she is 27 yrs and the mother is already making her looks like she is too old for marriage,, yesterday she came to my house looking all moody and worried,, when l enquired she told me her mom is asking her when the man she is dating will come home for introduction,, l took my time to explain things to her,we can't go into any marriage without been financially stable,l have a business l am running and l am looking at stability of that business in 3-4yrs time,,l told her l wont give you any specific date on when to come see her people ,,but l assured her if she stick with me God knows l wont think of any other woman during marriage,,, she told me her plan is to get married at 25yrs and l told her things dont always work out the way we plan them,, honestly l dont want to lose this girl and l also dont want to rush anything,, what do l do nairalanders...

oga take your time to build your life and busines,if she can not wait let her go. People like her mum will bill you when you come for introductio.

Pride, lie just to feel among the big boys in camp.

maikbanj:
Good morning dear Nairalanders,

Thank you for being there in the past with your timely advise(s). I am here again just to get some more on a case.

I have a girlfriend which I plan getting married to as both families are all involved. My girlfriend has had a bad past. She was once abused and all but then I was able to help shape her when I got into her life. I have been there for her in my own little way but lately, she has not been behaving too well and I am not happy about that fact.I will itemize these:

1. She once borrowed her friend her school fees to rent an apartment with the promise the friend was going to pay her back before exams started. Her friend failed to pay her back and I had to provide her with the money in order not to miss her exams. Note, the said friend is a female.

2. Second semester, her pops gave her school fees which I saw the alert. Yea,she travelled down to see me from Lag and she spent some but then I told her she would not have spent her school fees to come see me. Infact at that time I never knew she was going to come because I was sick but she did. So I told her not to touch her school fees again that I was going to refund her the money. She left and I refunded. I paid her flight back to Lagos.

I later found out my girlfriend didn’t pay that school fees. She spent it and when it was time to pay she kept complaining. I was mad at her wondering what she must have used it for. I scolded her and gave her part of the money.(N100k)

3. I have paid several debts for her as she made some mistakes in her online business and was swindled. The most recent one now, she went to get loans from apps online. I don’t even know what would have made her do that as I try assist her when she’s in need. I have warned her severally against borrowing but she went to borrow and now she’s into debt.

I have asked what she used the money for but she can’t even point to one thing. She said she used the initial loan for her personal needs and when she couldn’t pay back, she had to borrow from another app to pay and all. That’s how she kept borrowing to pay another till she borrowed from over 15 loan apps and her debt is running into 350k as at today.

I honestly can’t pay such an amount as I have my own personal problems to carry. I was mad because in the past I have warned her against borrowing and all. Now she’s in trouble and they’ve been threatening her to pay back.

I have told her I don’t have such monies to pay back and even if I had I won’t pay back. I have advised she talk to her parents and siblings about it but she has been scared. I have that money but I can’t pay back as I have more pressing needs to attend to. Since she has refused to tell her parents, I am thinking of telling her parents. I am very close to her family.

This is someone I wanna get married to but with all I’m seeing, I am already having doubts.

She’s from a very good home. Deep down, I love her and she does too. But why these problems, I don’t understand.

Please I seek your advice on how to handle this as I can’t pay such debts. I have done several in the past

Thanks

This is a red flag bro, if you marry her there is high chances that you will go back to square one financially because she as a woman don't know how to save,she lack saving character. You have asked her what she use money for and she has not given you a valid answer,brotherly run for your life and finance if not sorry will be your name and when she has ricked you finish she will dump you for a richer guy.

Alexgman1:
I and my colleague at work recently got romantic. Shes a single mum but she said it was a mistake. Four years ago her so called ex got her pregnant & told her to keep the baby but after a while he travelled and till date he hasn't return neither is his line going through. She later delivered the baby and with the help of her parent shes taking care of the child and hes going to school.

Now back to us. We got into a romantic relationship & she started disturbing me to sex her because its been years she did it. She came to sleep over one night & after so much romancing she pleaded that i should flex her that she cant endure any longer. I stood up & went to my jacket to get a packet of condom. When she saw it she was displeased & asked me not to use condom on her that she doesn't like it at all. I told her i have to use it because i am not ready to be a father yet. I told her i dont know how to withdraw. We both sat on the bed pleading to each other until she got fed up & slept off. She said i dont love her.

She want to rope u in becoming a father or ask her if she is on pills.if yes then if you love her then you can go ahead,you guys are adults.

Messi1:
I've been feeling an unusual movement that causes severe paine in me....Uncle's wife diagnosed me but said no need for prescription.

This afternoon the sharp pain deteriorated...dunno what's the cause.

go for proper medical check up,dont play hide and seek games with your health.

Lexkenny99:
I dated this bi*ch 4 a year and 3 months. I loved this bae like my our souls were linked together from birth. I even introduced her to my family. As the first and only son, my mother wanted me to settle down quickly. My mum loved her. I really had plans for us, our future. I noticed mid last year that her attitude towards me changed drastically. I go call am, to pick na problem, chat am, no reply. I go buy gift go visit am, she go dey gimme attitude. Only for her to visit me and tell me she's ending the relationship. She said she dated me cuz made a bet with her friends. I narrowly survived that experience. Yesterday marked exactly one year she bitched me 4 an america returnee . Only 4 her to match to my apartment today, crying and begging me to take her back that the guy's a scammer and he duped her of her life's savings. She almost created a scene. Now am in a new relationship. She said she'll kill herself If I Don't just forgive her but take her back and her ghost would hunt me. Wetin make I DO?

na mind game she day/wan play you bro bone her she is not Wat your love. Pls tell me if maybe you are broke nw will she come back to you?

Ezendimmuo:
I feel like hurting my ex
I wanna hurt her so bad
I wanna hurt her for everything she made me go through while we were together...
She's older than me by a year...
She's 26 and I am 25..
She's in her final year...
I noticed she found it difficult talking about how many people she has been with...
I noticed she was always on calls even when I was present demanding things from guys..even when I gave her everything I had
I had to go through her phone..
She was flirting with other guys... denying she had a boyfriend...
I also there was this married guy she was always going to see then...
Whenever I objected...
She'd turn it into a huge fight..
I'd just have to finally let her go see him...
I found out that she has been fucking him and even had an abortion for him 3 times(according to the chat she had with the guy)
This is someone that refuses my own advances because she is either tired or has headache o..
I went through her browser and also saw she has been researching about abortions as well
She was complaining about serious stomach pain saying it's ulcer..it all started making sense
When I confronted her..
She wasn't sorry...
She was angry I went through her phone...
The next morning....
She came and apologized..
I stupidly accepted her back...
There is a particular guy I always see around her in her lodge..
I became suspicious and confided in people I trust in her lodge...
One told me she was always sleeping over in the guys room..
The other stupid person I told when to tell her about it and she got angry??
Do you blame me??
She came into my life and made me insecure...
I was having high bp anytime she doesn't pick her calls (most times, she will tell me she was with "a friend"
I just had to end it all...
For my mental health..
I still love her... that's the annoying part...
I stalk her status...
Today...she posted a picture with a tag "I need a hug"...
That's how cheap she can get...
I hate her for making me love her!!!!
I know I'll get over her soon sha

Guys..
Don't ever let any lady take you for granted...
You are the prize!!

Hmmmmmm it is well, bro just let the past be the past, there is no future in the past, she is already your past so move on with life, I no it is very hard to forget because you love her but trust me let it go(forgive) yourself so that you will have peace of mind.just select anything dat has to do with her from your phone and memory.there is always a light after the tunnel, relate with people I believe there are still geniue ladies that will genially love you for who you are and will be open to you. Just move on bro,she is the one at lost not you.

You Sleep come forget say u get exams.

It is not food, I just want to focus on my life and calling.

It is treatable and also ask her to go for medical check up to be acertain that she is free from the virus,she might not contact it from sex, it might be from toilet and dirty pad etc. And also remember what she has done for you all this years. Note that it is very hard to meet a supportive and caring lady in this dispensation. So don't lose her.

revaultng:
please kindly recommend something for my boyfriend. He's 26 and he can't keep an erection.

It get hard but when he's about to put in it, it gets soft. Other times, once we change position, say Missionary to Doggy, he gets soft.

Also, he comes really fast, like 10-20 secs if he succeeds atall in penetrating.

meet a urologist

themountain:
Please I am in need of advice desperately. I recently resigned from my previous Job, just after receiving my salary. My boss was mean and toxic to me, to the extent that immediately I received my salary I left. I have sent my resignation letter.
I left for another opportunity in another state.
Now, the problem is that the job I left for is not as it turned out to be. I have regretted the move ever since.
Would it be okay if I called my boss and beg for another opportunity to come back?

So far you are in another state I will advice you to be patient and look for a better job there. What is the gain of working with a toxic and mean boss that means he had been playing on your sanity and am sure it has affected your productivity.

imagrg:
This is why I can never trust anyone in this country.

yes but this thing is becoming unbecoming and unbearable especially in the south west.

What is the state government doing about this skull minning

Millimann:
It's a normal thing there

So are u saying e can not go and eat again

After you gave the mad man money do you still see him? And when you where giving him your money how were you feeling? When driving home after he said those words to you,what was your mind telling you? Bro Gud speaks in so many ways,so don't neglect what the mad man said, life can not be compared with that fucking deal you are planning to get.

Losing my mum to diabetics, just crazy, dis month makes it 9 fucking years. Mum may your soul rest in perfect peace. Forever loved.miss u mum