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lhordspy:
Glorifying a criminal. A man who stole anambra state money and put it into his daughter's account. I think you and your peter obi should be behind bar presently.

Blind by hate and tribal sentiment. You are irredeemable.

Welkincollege:
There's this school I previously worked as a Teacher about a year ago. I was asked to stop work because of disagreement I had with the Vice Principal. Now, a year later, the school is recruiting for Teachers with their vacant positions advertised on a banner and I am currently looking for similar positions to apply for.

My question is, will it make sense to go back to that same school and apply for a job?

Faber:
ASUU + FG una don try...these ones supposed dey school now dey run around dey prepare for exams...

If you're a stranded student reading this no let idleness destroy your life. If you no get work to do, try find one learn or you channel your energy to Obi/Datti campaign.
They are not on strike

Faber:
ASUU + FG una don try...these ones supposed dey school now dey run around dey prepare for exams...

If you're a stranded student reading this no let idleness destroy your life. If you no get work to do, try find one learn or you channel your energy to Obi/Datti campaign.
They are not on strike

Gottiii:
Isn’t it shameful to be using car of 2006 (es330) in 2022

Hollybratt:
Just imagine, my neighbour is found of me. She's always calling me for everything. If their dstv signal is not stable, she will call me. The day they want to install their dstv, i'm the one she came to call.
Me and my friend love playing ludo game by her window, but each time she see us, she will call us to come in and watch Africa magic with her. She won't allow me to watch in peace. She will sit beside me and be asking alot of question from the movie, "Frank is a womanizer, isn't it? I will say yes. "That girl was the one that killed the man, do you know that? I will say yes.
Anytime she want to go to the market, she will asked me to follow her, sometimes we even dine together.
Today is the first time i will be seeing her husband. He came home and met me at their sitting room with his wife and children. We were watching comedy that moment, i was just laughing and laughing, he just entered and was like"Who is this laughing gas?"
I can't even faint or cry.
But thank God he met me in a good moment.

chocolateme:
I met him in NYSC camp on the second day of camp, and we became friends but he wanted more than just being "friends" I seriously declined because of fear that it may be infatuation and the normal camp brief hookups and games.
He never relented, he persisted, I stood my ground even though I had feelings for him. Just protecting my heart and emotions. And wanted to know what happens when we leave camp.
I have a family friend from home, we are not close but our parents are and attend the same church. Hardly talks with her but we say hi once in a while. Coincidentally, she was in the same camp as me and we met and still say hi once in a while. A few days later, we started talking small talks starting from church stuff to camp gist.
I was supposed to meet my friend (the guy) on the Bonfire night so we sat together, gist, and catch fun that day. I cooked with my platoon members that night, I got tired but I rushed to the hostel to go and bath, freshen up and come back to the campground. I just laid on the bed to rest for a few minutes and slept off, when I opened my eyes, it was last 7 am the following morning lol. Missed calls from him almost banished my phone.
A few days to leave camp, my friend(the lady) kept telling me about meeting someone on that bonfire night, from her gist, it was love at first sight. She was eager to introduce him to me. Fast forwarded to after camp, we all found ourselves in the same city of the state but at different PPAs, we meet at CDs too. She invited me to her house to come and finally meet her guy. Lol. I went and surprisingly it's my friend(the guy) if you see the shock ehhh!!, He was more shocked than I was. All those while after camp, we communicate but not as before because I still refused to date him, just following my heart but he respected that and stopped pressuring me.
All I observed in their relationship is that she loved him way more than he loves her, she sacrifices all to the relationship but he was just not into her. She tells me everything when we talk on the phone or meet, and I encouraged her too. He doesn't cheat on her but he just doesn't feel the same way. I once called him to meet, I warned him to leave her if he couldn't reciprocate her love, he swore that he is trying to love her the same but it's not working but that he is trying to make her happy. She put a lot of energy into that relationship. We all later stopped communicating, life goes on you know. I never met or spoke with either of them since then till now (10 years later) I never told her that I knew him before they met nor did I tell her that he loved me and was after me before meeting her.
He told me then after we met at her house based on that introduction that he was tired of sitting on the grass waiting for me on that bonfire night, that when he knew I wasn't going to come out after not answering his numerous calls, he got angry. He saw a babe sitting on her own and he felt like talking, he walked up to her and initiated a conversation, then next thing she started calling him nonstop and all that, that he never knew she would fall this much in love with him. She told me the same thing about how they met. She said it was love at first sight for her.
Last year, a number chatted with me on WhatsApp but refused to disclose his identity, about three times. This month, the same number came again with checking up on me, I insisted and he opened up and it is him (the guy) hmmm.
Like 10 years later wow! I inquired about her, he said it never worked and that she is now married with about 3 or 4 kids, wow!! Cool.
Now he has come again. He still loves me and wants me forever. Years have passed you know. I don't know what to make out of this.
Posted for you guys to read and enjoy. I don't need any advice, I know the right decision to make when the time comes. Thanks, family

DaveDGreat:
But I still nor know why I nor too fancy this UK

God bless Norway and Finland

udofia234:
I am 30yrs of age and a coming up business man, I have being in many relationships which doesn't last at all! the last two relationship I had was even the worst (this year), the first was a Christian and also a believer and the most disappointing part of it is that she wants us to have sex, but being a Christian I told her that we can only have this when we marry, she kept saying what is I cannot satisfy her sexually, we where on this for so long until that relationship ended abruptly, the second one I also dated this year was very demanding, she wants this and that, which I did the best I could but she said it wasn't enough, she broke up with me simply because I don't have a car. guys this is so frustrating, must I have a car or compromise my faith just to find love. pls I need your advice.

Islandlady:
No doubt Kizz Daniel who's real name is "Oluwatobilola Daniel" is the most handsome cute male musician and he is one of the most successful and talented singer in the country!

He is tall, Dark, cute, physical well built. . .He also have dimples

He has a very wonderful and lovely voice too! Kizz has been giving us hit songs back to back, especially Buga!

This is my opinion. . . You might agree or disagree! Thanks.

Dada4me:
Good evening nairalanders, my daughter is in basic two with a bad handwriting. I have tried helping her by showing her how to handle Biro but no improvement.

Please recommend what to do.

Adetayo41:
My wife has been depriving me intimacy for the past 1 months, i touched her yesternight, she declined, and later in the middle of the night, I caught her using a vibrator, although I did as if I was sleeping,


What should I do house.? I am pained though

Adetayo41:
My wife has been depriving me intimacy for the past 1 months, i touched her yesternight, she declined, and later in the middle of the night, I caught her using a vibrator, although I did as if I was sleeping,


What should I do house.? I am pained though

Lalakas:
Am not happy with my husband's utterances towards me. He unapologetically told me my duties are just 2: to give him se. X and to cook. This guy has really hurt me in this marriage, he seems not to know how to talk.

I work and equally contribute to everything. I dont hide my income and i give him for the building we are both building. I am not useless and i am not a liability to him.

How it all started :
Moimoi or beans is for every other Friday or Saturday ( moimoi could be ones in 6 weeks except my kids specially ask for it) but for a while now whenever I prepare any of the 2 he would complain, regect it. He told me he doesn't like them during the week and I will never prepare them Sunday to Thursday. Friday because he won't be going to work the following day. My kids like eating moimoi very well, infact, it is one their best meals. Atimes, they ask for it. My husband sees moimoi and beans as crap. Guys, he buys it and eat it outside!, my moimoi doesn't purge anyone of us. Even him but he'd keep saying he purges with moimoi, it's just an excuse.

It is difficult to cook 2 foods, i will not stop making moimoi or beans because of him, my kids like the meal so much. For the fact that he buys it out there and this food is what we usually enjoy together before now, i cant stop cooking it.

He has in many ways abused me, he is not someone I should even go the extra mile for, he doesnt sacrifice for me, he doesn't respect me, he doesn't stay close to me except when he wants se. X, always going out. He is very scarce at home. I can't cook 2 foods on days i cook moimoi or beans.

And for telling me my duties are just 2 in his life, I feel abused for allowing him have se. X with me all these while, i feel like a kitchen tool for cooking for him. His intentions and motives about a women are so demeaning.

I am feeling so ashamed of myself. He place no value on me.

yemite100:
She is my girlfriend but we just met not quite long..

All expectations or any thing that will bring in money will hang , at some point I have to beg her and asked her what’s going on , she said she can’t explain too, thou she doesn’t know all this is happening to me , I ask her with style but she said she can’t explain how it happens also

Iamzealousman:
But I am lost opportunities and relationships due to this

Monfeels:
I want to share my problem with you guys in the hopes that maybe I'll get some good advice or at least some insight into my problem.

When people first meet me their impression of me is that I'm good looking, cool and intelligent. Most girls usually assume that I have a girlfriend or a legion of side chicks that I Bleep whenever I want to.

The truth about me is that I've never been in a proper relationship with another woman before. All I've had is sexual partners that I stop talking to after I have sex with them, and girls I get intimate with just to control them and get them to fulfil my desire of having a female to own, please me and do my biding, and then I get bored of them and cease contact and move on like I never knew them.

The reason for this behavior is that I don't possess the emotional resources needed to engage in a healthy relationship with another human being. I have no empathy and I usually feel no guilt or remorse for my actions. It's impossible for me to care genuinely for another person. I don't feel people's pain or suffering and I'm not moved by the death of family members or friends. I simply do not care for any other person but myself. I've been this way for a very long time. I lack the ability to maintain relationships with people hence why I lose friends often. Relationships are usually a means to an end for me and when that end is met, I become irritated by the person I've gotten close to.

Despite the fact that I don't see the point in relationships, I still find that I get jealous of couples in healthy relationships. It's not like I want to experience what they experience, just that I am envious of the fact that they are participating in something I can't participate in.

When I find a girl that I want to get close to, I'm usually consumed with jealousy over her previous relationships, and over any current relationship she has with any member of the opposite sex, even if it's merely platonic. All I want is for her to devote all her time to me and shower me with attention and love. The problem with all this is that I don't want to reciprocate this behavior. In fact the idea of devoting attention to, and showering affection on someone else irritates me. It's all pointless, but I enjoy when it's done to me.

Another weird side to all this is that I don't just want to control the girl, I also enjoy making her feel bad, but in a way that makes her crave for me more. I enjoy poking holes in herself esteem, making her second guess the presumably good qualities she thought she possesed, making her not feel wanted by me, and making her do more to please me.

I don't love women, I only become obsessed with them. Obsessed to the point that I'm constantly tortured by thoughts of them being sexual with another guy especially when it's someone she has dated before. I want her all to myself and even if she had sex with someone before I met her or before we became close, I am filled with anger and jealousy whenever the thought crosses my mind, and I want to punish her for that. It's like I want to erase her past and replace it with me. I want to be all she's ever had. I don't want anyone else in her life and I don't want anyone else in her past.

All this must sound crazy to you guys but this is my reality and it's eating me up. I need advice.

Iamtana:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I am confused and I don't even know why?.
I don't know what else to call this! I am so scared of my partner!. This is someone I so much love with my whole heart! He's someone I so much cherish and wouldn't want to loose him for anything... Of a truth, I know I have made some stupid mistakes in the past, due to my disobedience and stubbornness! But above all this, yet he still loves me and cares for me.. I noticed I'm always very scared/afraid to talk to him, and each time he looks into my eyes to talk to me, I can't look back into his eyes. I am also more scared of making any mistake that will lead to him leaving me.Eventhough he will always tell me he's going no where and he not going to leave me..
But to make matters worse, it's like this fear suddenly grew more than before! Now, I can hardly even look into my partner's face to talk to him! and whenever he raise his voice to correct me about something, I suddenly begin to shake! Please what do I do?
Like I'm.more scared and afraid of him..
You might want to ask if it's a toxic relationship? No it's not a toxic relationship! & My partner has never laid his hands on me...
So please help.me out Nairalanders
What could be the reason behind this fear!?
PLEASE Y'all what do I do!.

udede:
in the christian religious denomination i belong, polygamy (polygny) is normal and we know how to practice it peacefuly, she can't harm anyone because everyone has their own spaces.


As for divorce, she simply refused to go (actually I'm a husband material with good looks , without being a simp,) in our church you can't divorce any woman without an evidence of adultry or witchcraft. More over she is very harmless and likable, i even have her permission to marry a second wife

Profperfect:
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No sir not what you think. The thing is I won't lie too, I will be very honest she has been very very nice , she was all there for me in my darkest and lowest times , ever supportive , wanting to see me make it , she can sacrifice her grain to see that I make a tree or even a forest , its just this aspect of her. You won't believe she is all am saying if you meet her for the first few times in person I am the only one who knows her secrets

TheLordofHost:
She has been staying with me since the beginning of ASUU strike, almost 6 months now and we have been having sex without protection. I don’t even pull out.

I don’t think she is on birth control. I love this girl but I think she is infertile.

Is this normal with some women? Because I don’t want to take the relationship serious anymore .

MODIFIED: To those down there accusing me of being impotent. I AM NOT.
If you check my previous posts you’d see I have a child already. 2 other girls have gotten pregnant for me but ended up aborting .

I would not be posting this if I didn’t love this girl and plan to marry her later on.

emmanuelbrown26:
Better join her na, we all live to die and d earlier every living soul understands dis d better.
After all, if na say na baba die, won't aunty be jumping from one prick to another,

abobote:
RIP beautiful.

Two years after, does it mean, he hasn't find another woman to marry

VeryWickedMan:
Don't help him.

If he can be making Bs while struggling, it means he will make Ds or Fs once he is relaxed and no longer has to worry about tuition.

Jarod247:
I am so distraught right now. 3 years ago, my kid sister who is now 24 years went to Lagos to work.
Well, we spoke to the woman who she was supposed to work with and we all have our consent to it.
Let just say this girl has been an issue . She is the last kid . She is very stubborn but fears me Alot. I couldn't bring her over to stay with me cos I was in school trying to lift my head up. So her leaving to go fend for herself was a relief to me so my mum can rest from her wahala. That woman is suffering and it pains me so much.

While in Lagos,I keep tabs on her and she was doing well . Depsite that she works and earn money, I keep sending her monthly allowance.
As of last month, I sent her some money and we also spoke on phone .

My elder sister called me yesterday that my kid sister called and told her that she gave birth.
That sound like a joke to me cos How?

Well, from the information gathered she actually gave birth to a baby girl all alone at Home. The guy responsible has absconded.

I am battered emotionally with this news . Pregnant for nine months , didn't tell anyone till she has given Birth. What if something has happened to her .

This girl has hurt me walahi. I warned her seriously about getting pregnant. This her action is a threat to my effort to rise financially cos how are we even going to take care of that baby.
The money I earned isn't enough to take care of myself and mum. I know Alot of stuff I have given up just to make sure my mum and siblings are a bit okay including getting married . I am 34 years.
I was even planning on sending her to Uni next year.
Her next destination is going back to the village to stay with my mum, this will put more burden on that woman.
I am yet to speak with her cos I am so angry with her. My elder sister said I shouldn't talk to her angrily hence I trigger a toxic hormone that will affect the baby.

I don't know what to do. Seriously I am devastated. This girl want to kill me . Can't even think straight

Faithntruth:
my quest to learn fashion design drove my thoughts far as to how to raise the needed amount of money to pursue my dream, due to my family background I knew the only way I could achieve it is to look for a small job and save from there. few months ago I was linked by a friend to a man who needed a secretary in his establishment, having attended an interview I was given the job and placed on 20k monthly pay, little did I know that was the beginning of a new chapter of problem. at first I was very comfortable with the environment not knowing the man I work for is a devil.

my boss abuses me at will and does have time correct me when I make mistakes, I tried talking to him that it is my first time of working as a secretary and I am open for corrections.my first month pay was 14k instead of 20k with an excuse that I waste paper and data which of a truth I only use them in line with the job.
he suddenly started being friendly(giving me transport and buying snacks) which was surprising but knowing who I was dealing with I was also cautious until he opened up one day that he likes me and want a secret romance which I turned him down(he is older than my late father) and the real devil came alive. I was sometimes pay 13k monthly and had to endure series of harrasment that I sometimes wakeup to cry at night knowing what I had to go through at work. while my search for another job yielded no result I had to endure the torture. on Friday while I was typing a document he gave me the previous day,he came in and started shouting at me and stretch his hands and touched my breast,I stood up and pushed him to the ground and went straight home and later returned with my resignation letter. Terrible experience I will never forget in my life. THANK GOD

Savageman:
she know i have the money, because she usually sees me collecting money from customers in my shop. She's always stay in my shop like everytime, because it's in a busy area

OkoYibo:
Out of the top 5 richest Nigerians, Yorubas are 3 Fulanis are 2 Igbos are 0.

The 3rd richest Yoruba is Modupe Alakija. She is richer than all Igbos living and dead.

No Igbo man dead or alive has ever made the Forbes richest list in Africa. In fact, as at today, there is no Igbo man in Nigeria who is worth up to 1 Billion dollars.

Arthur Eze is the richest Igbo man. Adenuga will buy half a dozen Arthur Eze and put them in Shoprite nylon and still collect change.

My brother, Yorubas no be your papa mate. Even your deities in Igboland are hawking in Lagos. Amadioha is selling keke parts in Ladipo.