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chuckdee4: For the love of man make e no try am o, JW hasn't got the physical presence or positioning to play that role, whatever happened to Morgan Schneiderlin?

I think he does have it

He has the positioning... maybe not the presence in terms of strength like Vieira
You can say the same fo Inler and even Matuidi

JW can bulk up.. his attitude is his problem not football sense

Godmystrength: I won't want to use strangers now. They can turn around and stab me in the back. yes my brothers. I will just invite them without anyones knowledge and once they are through, they will all disappear and we will all rehearse what to say when hubby calls any of them. we are going to create a VERY STRONG alibi.

You sef na dagbo u be.. u are not soft meat

Not sure i see the connection as Gaza is a political and military issue

Unarmed civilians are casualty of war

I think the focus should be de escalation of tensions in the Middle East

Feminists have their own issues but not sure this is one of it

onegig: Exactly what the story was trying to teach but man in his ego and shortsightedness would want to always question God's ways. The story is just a reflection that we need to dump the physical brain or intellect and garb the spiritual wear before we maybe able to understand somethings. Not everything that happens or instructed should be seen in black and white but shades of grey.


This link perfectly captures, analysizes things and explains the story.

http://simerg.com/parables/the-parable-of-moses-and-khidr-in-the-holy-qur’an-an-ismaili-interpretation/

i read the link and it explains a lot about knowledge, philosophy etc
That one na another day oooo

But i get you .. really we cannot understand God.. thanks for the link

Sissie.. thanks for the explanation

I was actually more interested in the story itself and not its meaning...

Godmystrength: I dunno o. Maybe i will get our conversation recorded on phone and then get some guys to help naked him, i pack his clothes and then lock him up in our matrimonial room. I then call hubby and and give him the key to the room to open by himself. If in-law tries to defend himself, the recorded conversation will come handy. I guess he will also have to explain what he is doing in our room naked.

Don't mind me o. I no get that kind mind. I will just report him to hubby and also avoid him as much as i can.
If he doesn't live with us, then i won't be opening the door for him whenever he comes visiting and hubby is not at home. Before one useless man will come and rape me. And i will also keep my children away from him before he will transfer the harassment to them. And when he comes visiting when hubby is around, the way i will attend to him, hubby sef will know that something is not right.

Are you Male or Female??

Thats a practical measure... using a recorder
The guys own can backfire.. make sure u use your brodas ooo...
I agree with your second statement.. avoidance is best

cococandy: Both. Afterall she took a vow. So abandonment should be a sort of crime.
And the fraud too.

Abandonment is not a crime..
The second is..

bukatyne: Sometimes

I think so.. even the Bible says He does not want to destroy but wants (wo)men to repent

dytbabe: Why not go out, knowingly, hurt a woman that has a pure heart, the one that hasn't done nothing nor wish u bad and watch what can happen in less than a year.


Cococandy, bikonu, let him use the money to look after those kids, feed them well abeg

He shldnt use to do ejo

Many have done it and nothing happened...

cococandy: I'm just wondering is there no law that makes the deed criminal?
Something he can hold onto while pursuing the case.
I know it might be difficult,but I think he'll be willing

which particular deed?,, the leaving or the fraud?
A lawyer is best to provide the time frame but i heard 2 years somewhere...

dytbabe: Am sure not u nor I can say

Do you think God strikes fast.. why u think so

Godmystrength: pictures of me and him ke? never never. that one can backfire o. I will definitely find a way out. The set up is just a back up in case hubby wants to doubt the authenticity of my claims meanwhile i would have informed hubby that something important is going on in our house that i will like him to know..... There must surely be a way out. but no pictures of me and him. NO NO NO.

.. i know that was not possible.. just messing with u

What particular measures will you use.. what if hubby no believe?

dytbabe: One thing I know is women act for a reason, I won't judge

He shld pls channel all the strength on the kids and be a better dad, favour will smile on him soon, if she's the faulty one, she will surely pay in due time.

God of these days strikes faster.

What reason do you think can justify the action of the woman above?


I agree with your comment on channelling his strength to his kids

Do you think God strikes fast.. i think He is extremely merciful

cococandy: Well he's human. I can't say I understand how he feels.
Because she cleaned him out financially before she left.
He sold his shop,the land on which it was built and his car.
Paid the money into an account they were supposed to use on getting there not knowing that all along she's been planning with the agent to get the visa only for herself as against the whole family visa which was their initial plan.

Now he's a bus driver and kids pulled out of private school to public school.
I understand if he's bitter.

Besides she may never come back. When is the right time to file for divorce?

Youcan be divorced on the basis of abandonment after 2 years . i think
Revenge will take his efforts from the prirorities at hand and will alienate people who even will want to favour him
Advise him to move on

very unprofessional company to pay entitlements to family members when records will show he was legally married

Sad that this still occurs in this day and time

What do you think? as a friend of the person

I think he should move on and forget about her

When time is due, legally divorce ..

cococandy: His wife abandoned him with their two kids and traveled abroad.
Hearsay has it that she's hooked up with someone else now.
Although they are not legally divorced yet.
can he influence her deportation back to Nigeria?
Note:he doesn't want to continue the marriage with her just wants to punish her for her wickedness.
Is there a way to get her deported?

onegig: http://www.alim.org/library/biography/stories/content/SOP/7/17/Musa%20(Moses)/The%20Story%20Moses%20and%20Al-Khidr

Pickabeau1 or check that link. Has the story.

Thanks bro.. i had read it but did not get the point
Moses should know that the ways of God are higher than his's

Why argue with God

Sissie: read the post by HOB on this page.

ive read it but still dont get the parable

The guide sunk a ship with people, killed an apostate boy and straightened a wall..

I get the conclusion but not the story

rapmike: A question kishi should answer, because naruto and sasuke could not stand, yet kakashi and obito did

Abi na ' the less the chakra, the lighter you become'? Lol

Tosyn007: You're just trying not to see the real truth..She took them to another dimension entirely...when these 2 fought Madara, they stabbed, struck him in the face, even slashed him in 2 and yet they've not even been able to scratch Kaguya. Aint that enough a feat?

ok ooo...... she took them to another dimension?
Is she the first person who has dimensions... ordinary orochimaru has dimensions not to talk of obito n co

On scratching kaguya.. maybe u have a point there but she seperated them before they had a chance to

Sissie: the story of moses and khidr is not a shut up lesson, or we only follow.
the lesson of that story is we need patience, moses had patience and went through the whole journey with khidr before he answered. knowledge , understanding and wisdom are different things.
moses was knowledgeable, but didn't have the wisdom to understand what khidr was doing until he khidr explained.

I believe most people on this thread explained some of the laws, you either understand or don't, or its not sufficient enough and you go seek further answers.

Can u share this story here..moses and khidr

Godmystrength: I will first give the in-law the warning of his life. If no changes after that, i will set him up.

How will you treat his fockup

Set him with incriminating pics of you and him?

dahmie2013: U wish dear!

Wishes and horses..

dahmie2013: Ny man dat will tell me not 2 work has not been born!

i am here

DONT WORK

True words...ihedinobi2

Tosyn007: Kaguya improve now, una no talk oooo

which improvement... stabbing a clone?...using gravity in her dimension... thats just bansho tensei.... c'monnnnnn

GRIMMJOE: something like this

You gat it.. bro!

seems single moms are raining now last time out it was lazymen/house husbands...

ok oo

^^^^^^ looks effeminate

Ninjas should be scary..

Zakamori: on wat grounds is the man demanding for divorce? has she been a bad wife or an irresponsible mother? or like he said, he doesn't just love her anymore? that is okay though, the court cant force a man to remain with a woman he no longer loves for no sensible reason. The court should mandate him to pay her 10million naira for wasting 10 years of her life; and she should be granted full custody of the kids - since he might wake up tomorrow and not like them anymore. I rise!

JUDGE!

kombats: Finally Naruto will be ending in october after 15 years. Cant wait for the final Movie

About time

The guy had lost focus eons ago

TopsyKrete: Well what can i say? Kudos to Kishi, he deserve my respect anytime i remember those western Cartoon n i feel like puking

He has tried.. but his use of azzpulls is too much
Too much revisionism by his fanboys to explain earlier acts by characters

ok vid


why the twisted mouth from this dija chick . i enjoyed her part better than tiwa autotune savage

I Like korede bello part too

You were always free

They will marry at the end of the day... they will have lost a lot of time.. some dont.. actually most wil not until the child in question is in the teenage or has even left the house

Also there would be assurances that there will be no financial burden on the step dad


I have been reading your past comments and noted you seemed to be downplaying the realities of single motherhood

Lets be real

Sophyrocks: Of course they will face challenges because of the perception of the society aboout having kids outside wedlock [b]But does that stop them from getting married at the end of the day? [/b]The only single mothers who decide not to marry are those whose husbands died and they feel their focus should be squarely on their kids. ABEG I NO FIT REPEAT MYSELF O. you can read my previous comments. No time for debate with you.

Traditionally in Nigeria... Women are identified by their men


An igbo lady has discussed this here too and affirmed the same..

Even your book says the same Read 1,1,2

Stop spreading fallacies

Stillfire: Children are known by their fathers, don't make it a female thing.
Traditionally, men married more than one wife. In Igboland, the apt description of the woman is the daughter of... That is why women can leave their husbands house and go back to their fathers' house. In fact women are buried in their father's place. You are using Christianity to argue.

[url]http://books.google.com/books?id=04VwpwD7R_AC&pg=PA12&lpg=PA12&dq=are+igbo+women+buried+in+their+father%27s+house&source=bl&ots=8SAUZxFU13&sig=P0eNaRveOmzNiJ16bN8yXw8feNg&hl=en&sa=X&ei=G8DPU4arL4yWyASm7YDYAg&ved=0CB0Q6AEwAA#v=onepage&q=are%20igbo%20women%20buried%20in%20their%20father's%20house&f=false[/url]

TV01: Leave them.

Be it begged, borrowed, lent or stolen, it's now a part of the local culture. It's become "tradition". An initiative to change or remove said tradition is fine, but to wilfully subvert, or act contrary to it, for selfish reasons is nonsense.

See someone claiming that a man insisting that his wife take his surname because "she is his wife" as a not good enough reason. We took so many yam tubers, I'm sure her people are still finding creative ways to cook it.

Not only will she bear my surname - exclusively - I reserve the right to re-state her given first name or assign any dimunitive I see fit. For the duration of the world cup she was called "babynho" as she served me beverages and sweatmeats !


All traces of her fathers name and authority have been rightfully erased .


TV

.... at the bolded.. it is however fallacious to claim that women taking their husbands name was due to whiteman
Unfortunately chimamanda also helped in propagating that fallacy

Nashville: Best comment on this thread. Very soon, she would want her children to also bear her maiden name. Or better still, in the spirit of equality, if they have four children, two will bear her maiden name and the other two will bear her husband's name. Isn't that what equality is about?
Then the next fight will be which of the children will bear whose name? But there must be something to fight about because it seems the idea of marriage is to fight endlessly and prove a point.

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