₦airaland Forum

hashtagg:
In modern society, men are perceived to be
the cheaters but it doesn’t rule out the fact
that a woman can cheat on her husband or
partner.
According to relationship experts, there are
certain reasons why a woman would break her
vows or commitment to her significant other.
Robert Weiss of Huffington Post , list 5
common reasons why women cheat.
1. She feels underappreciated, neglected,
or ignored. A woman who feels more like
a housekeeper, financial provider, or
nanny than a wife or girlfriend is more
vulnerable to finding an external situation
that brings attention and appreciation for
who she is rather than the functions she
performs.

2. She craves intimacy. More so than men,
women feel valued and connected to their
relationship partner through non-sexual
emotional interaction such as touching,
kissing, cuddling, gift-giving, being
remembered, and most of all meaningful
communication. Women who aren’t
getting their intimacy needs met by a
primary partner may look elsewhere,
trying to meet those needs through
sexual/romantic relationships. Some of
these same women may also engage in
alcohol/drug abuse, compulsive spending,
binge or consistent overeating, etc., to
compensate for the emptiness they feel.

3. She is bored and/or lonely. Women who
find themselves alone at home for long
periods of time, perhaps when caring for
young children or even after children are
grown and gone, can feel that their lives
lack meaning, and they may use casual
sex or deeper romantic affairs to fill the
void. Women who have spouses or
partners who are absent for long periods
of time related to work (military service,
for example) may also turn to sex and
affairs to fill what feels like an untenable
emptiness.

4. She never feels fully loved and
appreciated. Some women have
unrealistic expectations about what a
long-term spouse or partner should offer
them emotionally and in other ways.
Those who are more narcissistic and
emotionally immature may expect a
significant other to meet their every
single need, and also to be a mind-reader
in terms of knowing what those needs
are. When their human and imperfect
partner inevitably fails them, they feel
justified in seeking attention elsewhere.

5. She has an intimacy disorder. Early
childhood trauma and/or sexual abuse
often lead women (and men) in adult life
to problems with addictive sex and/or
serial cheating. Such women repeatedly
seek emotional intensity rather than
relational intimacy. Women with
unresolved childhood trauma as well as
those with emotional instability — women
who carry an uneven and disjointed sense
of self — can seek consistency and
feelings of importance through intensity-
based romantic and/or sexual activity...

source::::;; www.viewngr.com/-5-reasons-why-women-cheat-on-men-they-loveinfidelity/



Add Yours [i]In modern society, men are perceived to be
the cheaters but it doesn’t rule out the fact
that a woman can cheat on her husband or
partner.
According to relationship experts, there are
certain reasons why a woman would break her
vows or commitment to her significant other.
Robert Weiss of Huffington Post , list 5
common reasons why women cheat.
1. She feels underappreciated, neglected,
or ignored. A woman who feels more like
a housekeeper, financial provider, or
nanny than a wife or girlfriend is more
vulnerable to finding an external situation
that brings attention and appreciation for
who she is rather than the functions she
performs.

2. She craves intimacy. More so than men,
women feel valued and connected to their
relationship partner through non-sexual
emotional interaction such as touching,
kissing, cuddling, gift-giving, being
remembered, and most of all meaningful
communication. Women who aren’t
getting their intimacy needs met by a
primary partner may look elsewhere,
trying to meet those needs through
sexual/romantic relationships. Some of
these same women may also engage in
alcohol/drug abuse, compulsive spending,
binge or consistent overeating, etc., to
compensate for the emptiness they feel.

3. She is bored and/or lonely. Women who
find themselves alone at home for long
periods of time, perhaps when caring for
young children or even after children are
grown and gone, can feel that their lives
lack meaning, and they may use casual
sex or deeper romantic affairs to fill the
void. Women who have spouses or
partners who are absent for long periods
of time related to work (military service,
for example) may also turn to sex and
affairs to fill what feels like an untenable
emptiness.

4. She never feels fully loved and
appreciated. Some women have
unrealistic expectations about what a
long-term spouse or partner should offer
them emotionally and in other ways.
Those who are more narcissistic and
emotionally immature may expect a
significant other to meet their every
single need, and also to be a mind-reader
in terms of knowing what those needs
are. When their human and imperfect
partner inevitably fails them, they feel
justified in seeking attention elsewhere.

5. She has an intimacy disorder. Early
childhood trauma and/or sexual abuse
often lead women (and men) in adult life
to problems with addictive sex and/or
serial cheating. Such women repeatedly
seek emotional intensity rather than
relational intimacy. Women with
unresolved childhood trauma as well as
those with emotional instability — women
who carry an uneven and disjointed sense
of self — can seek consistency and
feelings of importance through intensity-
based romantic and/or sexual activity...

source::::;; www.viewngr.com/-5-reasons-why-women-cheat-on-men-they-loveinfidelity/



Add Yours [/i]In modern society, men are perceived to be
the cheaters but it doesn’t rule out the fact
that a woman can cheat on her husband or
partner.
According to relationship experts, there are
certain reasons why a woman would break her
vows or commitment to her significant other.
Robert Weiss of Huffington Post , list 5
common reasons why women cheat.
1. She feels underappreciated, neglected,
or ignored. A woman who feels more like
a housekeeper, financial provider, or
nanny than a wife or girlfriend is more
vulnerable to finding an external situation
that brings attention and appreciation for
who she is rather than the functions she
performs.

2. She craves intimacy. More so than men,
women feel valued and connected to their
relationship partner through non-sexual
emotional interaction such as touching,
kissing, cuddling, gift-giving, being
remembered, and most of all meaningful
communication. Women who aren’t
getting their intimacy needs met by a
primary partner may look elsewhere,
trying to meet those needs through
sexual/romantic relationships. Some of
these same women may also engage in
alcohol/drug abuse, compulsive spending,
binge or consistent overeating, etc., to
compensate for the emptiness they feel.

3. She is bored and/or lonely. Women who
find themselves alone at home for long
periods of time, perhaps when caring for
young children or even after children are
grown and gone, can feel that their lives
lack meaning, and they may use casual
sex or deeper romantic affairs to fill the
void. Women who have spouses or
partners who are absent for long periods
of time related to work (military service,
for example) may also turn to sex and
affairs to fill what feels like an untenable
emptiness.

4. She never feels fully loved and
appreciated. Some women have
unrealistic expectations about what a
long-term spouse or partner should offer
them emotionally and in other ways.
Those who are more narcissistic and
emotionally immature may expect a
significant other to meet their every
single need, and also to be a mind-reader
in terms of knowing what those needs
are. When their human and imperfect
partner inevitably fails them, they feel
justified in seeking attention elsewhere.

5. She has an intimacy disorder. Early
childhood trauma and/or sexual abuse
often lead women (and men) in adult life
to problems with addictive sex and/or
serial cheating. Such women repeatedly
seek emotional intensity rather than
relational intimacy. Women with
unresolved childhood trauma as well as
those with emotional instability — women
who carry an uneven and disjointed sense
of self — can seek consistency and
feelings of importance through intensity-
based romantic and/or sexual activity...

source::::;; www.viewngr.com/-5-reasons-why-women-cheat-on-men-they-loveinfidelity/



Add Yours

jamesbridget13:
they can never respond cause they re partial. anyways dats not my trouble

EverestdeBliu:
Kite!
Its arc-enemy are those wires running along electric poles.

Johnnyessence:
The Vice-Chancellor of the University of Ilorin, Prof. AbdulGaniyu Ambali (OON), has said that expelling students from the University for cultism or other anti-social activities is a painful but necessary action the University management occasionally takes to protect the lives and well-being of majority of other students.

He also said that as a citadel of learning and character - moulding, the University cannot afford to produce bad citizens for the society.

Prof. Ambali stated these last Friday (June 12, 2015), while receiving the new Director of the Kwara State Command of the Department of State Services (DSS), Mr. V. Duru, who visited him in his office.

The Vice-Chancellor also expressed satisfaction with the service the DSS has been rendering to the University in ensuring peace and stability on campus.

Prof, Ambali commended the new DSS Director in the state for his professionalism and clear understanding of the University. http://www.unilorin.edu.ng/index.php/en/2013-09-02-10-18-35/news-feed/4546-it-s-painful-expelling-students-ambali

Pointing out that the nation should be grateful for having such a professional outfit, the Vice-Chancellor said that "the DSS must be commended for showing great professionalism in managing the security affairs of the country”.

Maintaining that it is not easy to manage 35,000 students, who come from diverse backgrounds, Prof. Ambali called for the continued support of the DSS. “Through your cooperation, we have been able to maintain peace on campus and discipline among our students”, he said.

The Vice-Chancellor told the DSS Director that Unilorin has staff from the 36 states of the federation, adding that the University is desirous of improving the access of Nigerians to education without compromising the quality of education it provides.

Earlier in his remarks, the DSS Director Mr. Duru, commended the University for the stable academic calendar it had enjoyed over the years and promised to sustain the cordial relationship between the Service and the University.

Mr. Duru also advised the University on areas where security need to be beefed up, saying that a generally acknowledged peaceful campus like Unilorin is, ironically, a veritable target of trouble makers, who would naturally want to rock the boat. As a result of this, he advised the University management not to rest on its oars.

The Vice - Chancellor was joined to welcome the DSS Director by the Deputy Vice-Chancellor (Management Services), Prof. Yisa Fakunle; the Deputy Vice- Chancellor (Research, Technology and Innovations), Prof. Gabriel Olatunji; the Deputy Registrar (Academic), Mrs. Rebecca Okojie, who stood in for the Registrar; the University Librarian, Dr. Joseph Omoniyi; the Bursar, Mr. Saka Abiodun Yusuf; the Dean, Student Affairs, Prof. Abayomi Omotesho; the Chief Security Officer, Mr. A. Tijani, the Deputy Director, Corporate Affairs, Mr. Kunle Akogun; and the Principal Assistant Registrar, VC Office, Mr. Abdullateef Sayuti.

abbyt:
This issue has been bothering me for few days and I sincerely need good advise please.
My friend is dating my brother-in-law to be and it seems she's cheating on him, I know my brother-in-law is very serious with her.I am feeling very bad about because she kissed another man(a married man) in an hotel room we logged when we went for a function together, she taught I was sleeping when the guy came to say hi to us, and the next thing I heard was kissing sound . I was so angry but I kept my cool and I have not discuss anything with her. I want the best for my brother in law and I don't want to hurt my friend my as well. what do I do please.

Herzumpther:
Odilafta are you saying is right for a man to hit a woman? Pineapp!!!

Herzumpther:
Hmmm....since when did you become a man

lilspiceyy:
It seems u are the kind of man dat beats a woman. mtchewww even if she pisses him off or says hurtful words to him he shldnt raise his hands on her. Period!

Joy1706:
Will you bring her back to life if he ends up killing her? Anuofia! The person that needs assessment and evaluation is her psycho husband