sharpwriter:

Those days when I learned Kaka's wife na singer, I felt that settings wasn't right. With his kind of person (pastor like), he just suppose marry one simple civil servant, teacher, lecturer, medical doctor etc. I think Kaka also wanted to go the celebrity way marrying actresses, singers, models, but of course it seldoms end well.

Dude should have just enjoyed his peaceful life with a woman with his kind of character. A good girl from his church would have been better.

Exactly ! That was Kaka fatal mistake.That lady wanted his fame and money. Brazilian models and singers are very known to behave that way.

OKOATA:
I don't think she meant it that way, I think kaka isn't manly enough, kaka is just a very simple man, guy man na even pastor. Kaka no dey yell for him woman, no dey correct am or be in charge as a man. I think she got pissed about it all. Some women will purposely do something to make their man angry at them or even beat them but kaka will even be the one to say sorry. Need to say kaka is a simp and his ex hate simps..

Kaka is one of the few men any woman will die for.He is a sigma male and not a SIMP. Simps are just undisciplined men that lacked focus.That lady is just a kid in the form of a woman with very low IQ and does not understand the kind of man she has.

josite:
When you get to a point where u don't have a single kobo and you feel suicidal ,it is only wisdom that can help u do things , say things ,that will turn the situation around .

But when u get to a stage where u have billions and no wisdom ,it is that lack of wisdom that will cause u to purchase untimely death for yourself and your family if they also lack wisdom and will go along with you to watch football in America when your nation is mourning and famined.

Wisdom is the principal thing .get wisdom .wisdom can bring money .many in dilemma wil gladly you seek you with good money so they can benefit from your wisdom.

Another wonderful comment. The other comments made me realise that I can never trust a Nigerian with money.They blame politicians but dream secretly to be like them.

Slytiger:
Wisdom. With wisdom, you would make more money
Case study Joseph and Solomon.

Without wisdom, you would lose that money. Parable of the talent and the book of proverb chapter on a fool and his money are soon parted.

This is the only reasonable comment here. Not much words but rich in deep meaning.The rest are greedy and lazy idiots who lust for the opportunity to make quick money.

150k immediately

150k without the SSD.

Remove the SSD. I would get it for 150k

Tynaclem1:


Why not just walk out of the relationship if you feel you're not getting what you want and save yourself the embarrassment of being caught cheating, called a LovePeddler and maybe exposed on social media thereby keeping your dignity as a woman?

You keep talking about what you MUST get from a man, you what are you contributing to his life? What do you have to offer? How are you an asset? To whom much is given much is expected

Your ideology about relationship make men out there see us as nothing but common sluts who can be used and tossed as long as a man can offer you money. It's wrong

Thank you and God bless you sister. I wonder if she just playing sarcasm to get attention or she is just a little kid with serious daddy issues.Poisoning the minds of ladies here.

Sirmwill:
Where has your own high level of English taken you to?

No mind am na commission he dey find for ILETS marketing scheme.

Jovialjune1:



Nonsense misogynistic sexist, go and modify your first comment if you are to be taken seriously.

You just proved my point little sissy.

Jovialjune1:



You are the broken and depressed one so much that you were only able to quote a female that said same thing as other guys here, but of course your selective blindness has made you a useful ignorant soul that refuse to attack guys same way you attacked her.

I quote who I want to quote whether male or female gender.To everyone here,If a broke guy/girl based on your perceived thought comes asking for a relationship. A simple way is to just politely decline and don't mock unnecessarily (Satisfied now! little child !).
Please improve your comprehension skills.I don't give a f**k about your gender wahala.

Jovialjune1:



Where exactly did she insult poor people? Are you blind to other guys here that insulted ladies on this thread, even Op insulted poor women, why didn't you quote them all?

You are really depressed and broken. I can see the signs .You need healing.Don't allow misandry ruin your life and you need to calm down.My comments is not about your perceived gender wahala.

Jovialjune1:


Abi this one is high ni

Is she not supporting what Op said? You nairaland men have selective blindness or what? Abi na only female comment dey register for una brain?

Did I mention anything about gender? Misandry has blinded your reasoning.My issue with her was don't mock or insult peasants or poor people you don't know their history and circumstances.Calm down and read my comment again.

Jennyclay:
It’s a general thing for both men and women. Nobody wants to settle for less. You must be extremely rich before you can even be my friend not to talk of being in a relationship with me.

I’m so allergic to broke, poverty stricken, good for nothing church rats wretched men.

If you’re doing dirty work like Keke driver, bus conductor, shoe maker, road side mechanic, carpenter, barber e.t.c and you approach me, I will give you the insult of your life. You’ll regret the day you were born.

Nobody wants to settle for less my dear. I didn’t come to this life to suffer.

If this is truly your mindset,I am very very sorry for you.Nobody wants to be in misery or poverty but life itself is a challenge.Anybody can be rich as Elon musk today and later become the lowest peasant or beggar tomorrow.This is not some Nollywood movie, it happens a lot in reality .It is very foolish and immature to mock,insult poor people you don't know their history.Don't bring misfortune upon yourself naive child.

Vokallond1:
According to the Nairaland Classification model i built, this news is correctly placed in the FAMILY category. I will be posting the tutorial soon of how I built this with Tensorflow which is a Python deep learning library. Give me a follow

My dear friend, That is brilliant....

DyingFetus:
A shy girl that likes to read and stays indoors , has strict parents , probably watches animes or sci-fi , has a wattpad or Goodreads account , must likely into tech or med field .

To be honest, You just described my babe.

maasoap:

Small allowance? How small? Use your sense now! Why did he change his statement then? You're not smart at all

Very very daft ! It is sad there are a lot of them.

Oyindamolah:
Do not walk away if you have no alternative in this economy. Doing a proper report on why it pays to pay tax is the best option. Start looking for a better job in a responsible legal entity. The wrath of the law will definitely cut up with your MD sooner than he expect and he is going to pay.

It's well...how can an Accountant of an entity prepare the Audited Financial Statement of the same entity.....May God help ooo.. They always want Accountant to be doing everything. They dont even want to pay PROFESSIONAL PAYMENT AS SALARY

One man business I guess.Them done show me shege.

Finally tenza! You have achieve your dream goal.Congrats bro !

Flamemignon1:

They are not even forcing their ideologies on anyone yet rather they just want basic rights for them to have autonomy over their own bodies

I am sorry you have been brainwashed.

To be honest, I envy you. My advise is to evaluate how you see the standard of living in the nearest future. Nigeria as an economy is very unpredictable as a result of political instability and lawlessness.One stupid policy in Nigeria is enough to render your remote job useless and stressful if possible you could even lose it.
Don't just rush to US or Canada or UK.It is terrible especially with their unfavourable tax legislations to immigrants.

If I were in your position,I would stay for a while and gather as much money as possible such land assets for rental incomes annually, investments that is very liquid since you are not earning from Naija .Don't spend excessively on ladies or any other unprofitable frivolities.You don't even need a car to waste fuel.These are your backup plan when you decide to Japa and it goes south.

After gathering such financial wealth, I would recommend going to places of low taxes and tax havens with your remote job.Only go on vacations to UK,Canada or US.I would like to connect with you.

SayNo2SmallPrik:

Oh ok 👍🏼 I love being a 304.

Well said !

GreatVocalist:

It's very disappointing that this comment is coming from a man.

How you think it's okay for a woman to leave her man because he opted for something "below his social status" is beyond me.

You never know what opportunities will arise from his venture. Instead of you to advise him to hustle hard and not give up because of the emotional set back, you're here trying to justify the lady's choice.

That's very disappointing, as a man.

You don't have to be disappointed, he should keep his advice for his daughter.

SayNo2SmallPrik:

When are you getting your own napep?

I have no time to argue with a 304.

SayNo2SmallPrik:

just Dey console yourself

The lies of social media have brainwashed this one to no return.I have nothing to say in your case if you can't see clearly.

Jennyclay:
Don't mind the Keke man.

he can't even afford to buy a car for Uber, atleast that would be more reasonable. His girlfriend was even nice enough to argue with him when he made suggestion of being a Keke man. If I were to be in her shoes, I would have left him alone the relationship secretly without arguing with him.

You can leave him no problem but what is wrong with having a Keke napep.Even some extremely rich men have one for side-hustle if you don't know. I guess you are too immature to understand dignity of labour.You need to learn about foresight and wisdom little girl.

Hello People ! Good morning! I need some advice urgently. Is it still possible to apply for any Irish University as at now for september intake? Is there any school that have intakes for January 2024.So as to apply for Irish visa as soon as possible.

LikeAking:
None are good.

That's the worst way to learn..

It's a time waster

It make the most simple stuffs sound complicated..


Why will someone watch a course for a month because they want to learn how to fetch ordinary API.

Something that can be learnt in an hour..


I prefer learning via coding.

It is usually the leading cause of tutorial hell for beginners. I have been there...

Devdevdev:
This thread is for visual learners like me who learn better when watching and coding along, as opposed to reading books. If you prefer books and articles, then this thread isn't for you.

I've wasted a lot of time trying to learn from YouTube and I want you to learn from my experience. YouTube is not a place to learn. Majority of the people that teach programming on YouTube are either idiots who don't really know how to code, quacks that just steal code from stack overflow and chatgpt, or frauds trying to get clicks by posting catchy topics.

The better you get at programming the more you'll realize just how useless YouTube videos are. I'm speaking from experience.

YouTube tutorial channels are massive time wasters that just scratch the surface of a topic and never explain what's actually happening or how the code actually works. They just repeat code they probably copied elsewhere and expect you to follow along. The result of this is that because the concept isn't explained well, you find yourself coming back to YouTube to understand it better, and you repeat the cycle endlessly until you get stuck in the dreaded tutorial hell.

If you want to get better at programming, get a high rated udemy course and follow it step by step. It may be 60-80 hrs long, but it's worth it. And that course is all you need to understand the subject. You can supplement the rest of your learning by reading documentation.

Udemy courses are taught by trained professionals who their job is to teach, not some quack who just feels like creating a YouTube channel to get clicks. The top rated udemy instructors are usually experienced tutors who teach not just those learning but also professional developers in big companies.

Udemy courses are well structured and they take you from beginner level to advanced, and if you are intermediate, you can skip the beginner sections and still learn what you need.

Stop patronizing programming tutorial channels on YouTube who just waste your time. It doesn't matter if they have a million followers.

The only YouTube accounts you should follow are people that are also high rated on Udemy And these guys usually don't even post their relevant courses on YouTube anyways so you are better off just buying their udemy courses.

Instead of Youtube, read documentation. That's a better use of your time. A word is enough for the wise.

It is not rubbish but it is just that it is not beginners friendly as most YouTubers would say to get more views and subscriptions.

ChatterHouse:
If you invest in this country an give this jobless youth Job, They will still come online and berate you for putting food in their table
Bunch of ingrate

What ever an employer do is right as long as its benefits the company and moves it up

Stop whinning and work or Leave it for serious people

So what you are saying is that an employer has the right to treat his employee as a slave since he is paying him right ? Mehn! We always say Indians and Chinese are terrible but I can feel the ego of this narcissistic idiot.Nigerians with just tiny authority,they feel like lord of lords and oppress people unprovoked.

talented321:
And u don't know if i have such experience

Yes ! I may not know of your experience but I saying this from experience I have witnessed.

talented321:
A good girl-child will not hate men because her parents go separate ways unless she is brainwashed by the mother. I am not in support of what happen but the way u people taking this thing is to far just because una want to blame the man.
There are things that bound to happen we gats learn from those thing and not the opposite. She is not the first child from a broken home and majority of children from broken home learn from the mistake of their parents and become a good father or mother.
A child that want to bad will bad.

You haven't face that trauma that is why you can't see it that way.At that age she needs the care and good example of her father to understand men.You are right in one thing, that depends on the mother partially but this is something she witnessed herself at a very young age not that her mum told her and she just lost a brother.She will surely resent her father.