₦airaland Forum

Reminderz:
you've already seen the handwriting on the wall, you already know what to do.. this would be an addition to the cases of wife cheating, so this is not new... and you're saying your child? how sure are you? have you done a DNA test?

before you confront her directly, act as if everything is good... do a secret test on your child, if you confirm that it's yours, take him and hide him somewhere for the time being, maybe in your friend or family's friend home... then divorce the bitchh... but know that you would have to plan if you would be taking your child along or putting him under the care of another who you would be very sure will take care of him... if it's not yours, another heartbreak for you... hope you don't die after investing all your life in the relationship working as an advanced slave...

if the child ain't yours, you already know what to do, send the hoe and her child back to the street where they belong... I don't even need to ask if your story is real because even if you just posted it for cruise, it's what I've seen happen over and over again... men will keep falling victim...

bikefab:
Who remembers the movie 'OGANIGWE' from way back? That's what comes to mind seeing these pictures

Juwessgratitud3:
So marriage could not save her from taking her life?

I thought according to nairalanders marriage and family will prevent loneliness and depression. Why didn't the fact she was married with children prevent her from taking her own life.? Simply shows majority of you here have a warped mentality need reorientation.

Sad and rip to her.

Proudman1:
I can design this for you ma.

Profitability is dependent on how you market it mostly.

From experience if people need something and you show them that they need it, it's profitable.

Contact me make we discuss.

DeLaRue:
But if the Nigerian government made that same statement, people like you would be up in arms and claim the Nigerian government is evil and authoritarian. Some would even demand that the military should take over.

Arise TV would run programs upon programs over at least 2 weeks bringing a long line of publicity-hungry 'experts' to denounce the government and proclaim we are under the most anti democratic government since 1872.

However, if a foreign government (especially if they have a lighter skin than you) makes such statement, you will praise that foreign government as you did in your statement.

Inferiority complex.

Donaldoni:
Piiiiggs don't like good news about Nigeria

More pains for them

Kaybaba5:
Don't worry Chelsea will play you soon
We shall. See who is better
Forget our position on the table

pargelenis:
exactly, Arsenal should just return to London and park behind Chelsea.

ignis:
Selective Justice is Injustice. The person that pleaded guilty and leniency was jailed for 6 months. Meanwhile the person that arrogantly pleaded not guilty with evidences of him being guilty all over the internet was granted bail.

Nigeria my Country.

Nazgul:
I don't subscribe to flogging of students because most teachers abuse such privilege. Some male teachers target female students who don't agree to their advances for flogging. And it becomes a case of if you fall into my trap, I'll deal with you.

Others just hate some students for no reason. Thus taking out their frustrations on the innocent child.

I witnessed first hand of how teachers flog students during my NYSC and I can tell you that it's pure wickedness and has absolutely nothing to do with discipline. Because flogging reduces the self esteem of some kids. It makes them timid and in most cases vulnerable to abuse (sexual inclusive). Some even avoid going to school because of this. They would leave their homes and go somewhere else just to avoid these wicked teachers.

When you see the way some of these frustrated teachers flog their students over unnecessary things, you'll understand why most parents after paying so much money to the school management take necessary steps to ensure that their kids are not turned to animals.

I'm against kids being rude to adults, but as a teacher once you know the kind of kids you're dealing with, just focus on your lectures and let them be. As long as your salary comes promptly at the end of the month, avoid unnecessary confrontations with them.

During my NYSC, I never laid my hands on any student . If you're making noise, na you sabi, if I'm teaching and you walk out of the classroom, na you sabi, I won't even call you back. If you don't do your assignment na you sabi, I'll just mark the ones that submitted and go to the staff office, sit down and press my phone. I'm already a graduate with limited time there so why should I bother myself with stubborn people who aren't ready to learn?

Nazgul:
Please keep your frustrations away from my mentions. Did I ever tell you I'm into teaching, or do I look like a teacher to you. Or have I every posted anywhere that I'm into teaching profession.

I completed my service almost a decade ago and that's the only time I've ever been in a classroom to teach. So if you're a frustrated teacher, kindly look for your fellow teacher to pour out your frustrations on and stay away from my mentions.

Nazgul:
Lol...people like me are the problem of Nigeria?

This statement shows that you obviously didn't serve. If you were thrown into some remote village without electricity, water, accessible roads...etc to serve and you manage to get to your PPA only to be greeted by unserious people who don't care about their future, what would you do? Babysit them?

And note your ability to communicate is extremely limited due to language barrier.

When you teach senior secondary school students in remote villages, you'll understand that it's not all of them that's actually interested in becoming great in life. So you focus on the serious ones and impact them with whatever knowledge you can and leave the unserious ones to their faith. And that's exactly what I did.

You're attacking my post because you're a typical Nigeria always ready to judge and condemn people. And then do exactly what you condemned them for if you happen to find yourself in their shoes.

Racoon:
Aunty Nkem just like Frank Olize Newsline show were weekend delights. I think there were times the late Uncle Jimi Solanke( of blessed memory) also handled the Tales by Moonlight show. Say hi if this show also spiced up your childhood. Mods let the indomie generation learn something.

thesicilian:
When some of you talk it's easy to decipher the stage of life you're in

Mivici:
person weh go cheat go cheat
A woman can still provide for the family and not cheat on you... Especially when her husband looks responsible.
Some women still cheat on their husband that provides for them
Cheating comes in different ways I think.

helinues:


Easy way to become a witch

Just swear to whatever not to see the progress of your own country, lobatan.

How can some people do just because their principal loss in a contested election, the person wey come third oo and ever since they never wish the best for the country.

helinues, this particular one is a witch in purdah. Very stubborn Ninja Witch! She will get her comeuppance soon for hating on the country.

It's time for FG to consider banning any association with the name of Obidients.

We can't continue to be shying away about their bitterness, hatred and their evil wishes towards the progress and development of Nigeria

Nazgul:
I don't subscribe to flogging of students because most teachers abuse such privilege. Some male teachers target female students who don't agree to their advances for flogging. And it becomes a case of if you fall into my trap, I'll deal with you.

Others just hate some students for no reason. Thus taking out their frustrations on the innocent child.

I witnessed first hand of how teachers flog students during my NYSC and I can tell you that it's pure wickedness and has absolutely nothing to do with discipline. Because flogging reduces the self esteem of some kids. It makes them timid and in most cases vulnerable to abuse (sexual inclusive). Some even avoid going to school because of this. They would leave their homes and go somewhere else just to avoid these wicked teachers.

When you see the way some of these frustrated teachers flog their students over unnecessary things, you'll understand why most parents after paying so much money to the school management take necessary steps to ensure that their kids are not turned to animals.

I'm against kids being rude to adults, but as a teacher once you know the kind of kids you're dealing with, just focus on your lectures and let them be. As long as your salary comes promptly at the end of the month, avoid unnecessary confrontations with them.

During my NYSC, I never laid my hands on any student . If you're making noise, na you sabi, if I'm teaching and you walk out of the classroom, na you sabi, I won't even call you back. If you don't do your assignment na you sabi, I'll just mark the ones that submitted and go to the staff office, sit down and press my phone. I'm already a graduate with limited time there so why should I bother myself with stubborn people who aren't ready to learn?

Yugoslavia247:
See what you will do?

Increase her workload?

Change her position to the most difficult tasks.

Give her more work.

Increase the deductions for her salary.

When that is done.

Or simply pay her off. Take leave for 3 days.
Sack her by instructing the gate man to never allow her in or lose his job.

Let he gateman hand her the sack letter.

Over.

Pleasure is pleasure.
Job is job
If she thinks because of sex she can misbehave she will get sacked.

Better make make the warning clear. Tell her what is wrong with her.

Dem no dey waste time for this kind thing.

Na knack you knack.

If she no fit be matured show her the way out.


Dont be timid to her ooooo

Many gals here will support the gal because most of them don't think.
They feel sex means I can do anything.

Bro give am suspension. 2 weeks.

If she come again and do anyhow give am 1 week extra.

Because she will do same to you if situation was reversed.

If I am the owner of the company I can sack you not because you had sex but because you can't get your shit together. You should know what to do. You no rape am na.

Nigerian women really weaponize sex ooo.
To them na tool of control.
Manager you timid
Wey you for change for am.
Madam I bought you drinks. I paid for the whole stuff. You agreed now it is over. You are not acting well again. Better change or else I will treat you as disgruntled staff.


Staff that you vetted and employed. You toast am she gree. I am sure you gave her money.
No whine me oo. She wants to be able to determine how others are. I know the thing she wants. She wants to be able to sack her colleagues and show them that she is in control. Lool

Isolation
Isolate her from the group
Anyone found with her gossiping
1 week suspension straight.
They will avoid her like plague
Her power is in the group
Now no one will want to be a part of her plans or whatever she wants to share.
She will know you mean business.

Finally avoid your workers pussy

Connoisseur:
These days, the only connection needed is money😀😀

Connoisseur:
I align with his story, similar experience.
I think it has to do with the fantasies from those novels.
Up till this old age, if there are no emotions (even faked), count me out.

ItisWell22:
Face the hurt head on and move on like they never happened.

Like sonno mentioned up there, before the breakup, there would have been signs that the ship was wrecking and sinking. I think, that’s where the hurt starts.
By the time the main breakup is happening, you already know what’s up and healing is already taking place.

But if the relationship was still going seemingly well, and that happened; that would hurt like mad.
There’s nothing that won’t cross your mind, including suicide or showing up there to cause a drama…

NorthernersSuck:
Agbero Tinupoo Lagos don turn to Sodom and Gomorrah where men dey fvck their fellow Agbero men

helinues:
What brought Apc into this, someone just accused you of being incoherent on threads.

Why are you always incoherent?

DiskJokeyManic:
Nigerians never learn,,,,, wit all the stories about this particular Ikeja phone village,,,, still yet, una get mind go there dey buy phone.....

Awof u do dis one!!!!! Serves u right......😐

okeyley:
Wahala no dey finish

RIP to the fishermen


May the ragtag head slamming mohammedians die a painful death for putting misery upon these families

Nemesis0147:
No be davido get song na.
Na Chris brown song….so he should tell Brown when and not when to release his song?

MMWandali:
Obi has done well with the numerous private donations and goodwill
let those criticizing him show their own donations