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LadyExcellency:
You see it in a childish way.

The Mum is an elder and as such the wife lacks respect and understanding.

From the write-ups, the mum is not interfering in the marriage rather begging to be loves (her birthright).

I dont think so. I never said push the mother away. But to me it seems like he is indecisive whose side to be on. when it comes to choosing sides, lawfully and Scripturally, his side is with the wife. that doesnt mean not to be fair to his mother. Both women should be put in their place at the same time.

nato20ng:
So, an Abuja based man has narrated his experience with a lady that refused to leave his house after visiting. A Twitter user withe handle @Shalomtheo took to the platform to share his experience with a female visitor that refused to leave. The guy narrated how he met the lady on Twitter, invited her for the weekend and how she overstayed her welcome. According to him, he had to feign travelling on an official visit before she packed her bags and left.
Read his post below;
“So I and one twitter sweetheart have been talking to each other for a while. It really did go down in the DMs. She stays in Abuja and I jokingly teased one Friday morning that my weekend would be interesting if she spent it with me at home. She laughed about it and agreed.
I didn’t really expect her to agree so it was a pleasant surprise. I finished work early that day and went home to cook, clean and prepare for my August visitor. She said she would be coming in the evening. I was prepared by 3pm sef. Early bird. Early worm. Early kn*cks.
She came as she promised and to cut the long story short, by Saturday morning, I was already tired of her. But the weekend wasn’t nearly over so I had to enjoy the boredom of her company one more night. She wasn’t really boring, I just think that we had different interests.
By Sunday evening, I thought she would be preparing to leave but babe was not bothered. She was seeing a Netflix series.
I didn’t want to ask her when she was leaving. Didn’t want to give her the impression that I wanted her to leave. Maybe she would leave in the morning.
Monday morning, as I prepared to go to work, she was still sleeping, I tapped her nicely and told her where to drop the keys for me WHEN she was leaving. Fam, I came back home and met her at home, she had even cooked dinner. Hot tears.
Ahh. Baby, you’re still here?? Of course she was and she didn’t reply. I ate the dinner like a married man and went outside to see that she had washed her clothes and they were hanging outside in the line. Her underwear was proudly renting space in my toilet. I don enter.
Ok. Maybe the clothes would be dry by tomorrow morning and she would be gone before I came back from work on Tuesday evening. I came back and the babe had even washed my own clothes. I couldn’t even express my tiredness of her, she was a nice person.
By Thursday morning, she was now telling me things to buy for her when I was coming back from work. As I drove to work, I parked by the road and began to ask myself “Am I dreaming? Did I marry and forget? Am I in love?” I still bought what she asked me to buy because idiot.
So I called my man @mr_ochonogor and told him what I was going through and in his infinite wisdom as a retired Lagos boy, he told me what to do. When I got home that Thursday evening I told her that my company was sending me to Benin for a week to inspect our assets.
So that night, a miracle happened, she packed her stuff because I told her I was leaving via road early in the morning. By 6AM, we were up and I had packed a bag.
I was hoping that she would enter a different vehicle and go her way but she insisted to follow me to the bus park.
Ahan babe, that’s unnecessary but she insisted and I had to keep up the lie. So we took Uber to God is good park in Utako. I was hoping she would go her way with the Uber but she wanted to wait until the bus I would enter had left. Was it love or she dey suspect me?
Fam, I paid N6,500 for the fare and sat down. She came to the window and we were professing how much we would miss each other, she even started crying and I felt something, but fam, my head cleared immediately and I maintained my lie. I promised to call her when I returned.
When the bus got to Giri junction, I told the driver to stop that I was not going again. “I no go refund you oh” the driver said. See you, did I tell you I want refund?? Abeg I Dey go office, I don dey late.
Fam, this happened early this year but I am still in Benin as far as both of us are concerned. My company decided to make me a permanent staff in Benin. “Can I come see you in Benin?” She asked. “I’m staying with my aunty here, dear”

Next time your eye go clear. Make sure you believe in that mr ochonogor hahahaaa and his infinite wisdom loool

Martinez39:
Well, we can't save everyone. It one thing to love the blue pill because that's how one was brought up and it's another thing to love the blue pill despite being given the red pill. There are simps that will become red pill when they encounter the red pill while some simps can't be saved. I used to think the red-pill messages that guys like me and ubunja were spreading were useless until people started testifying and I rescued a nairalander who contacted me on whatsapp. I am sure there are also others who Ubunja's miseducation helps but they don't talk about it.

Dont kid yourself. The redpill thing may not be a conventional lifesaver, but there are aspects of it every man should imbibe for his own good. The Bible puts a man in charge, and says we should be harmless as a dove, yet wise as a serpent. The redpill is simply a man knowing hios God-given place and operating therein.

Kennedyiheme:
How can a prince leave his castle and his duty for a divorced woman who didnt even take his name?.. how can he disrespect the British sacred throne like this... sadly if there are lots of emasculated men like this, these desperate women will ruin this world.... so again we should discuss about a solution to eradicate this bacteria

Its very sad bro. very sad.

E685:
My wife and I have been together for 8 years now, married for 5. I am 33 and she is 30. We now have our first child, a son who is just turning 1. He is everything to both of us. Before our son, our relationship was strong, although to be honest I’ve always been frustrated with my wife’s way of handling issues. I’m the kind of person who is very hard to get angry, I hear people out, and I talk out my issues. I listen to all sides and I think logically before emotionally. I seek therapy when I’m stuck. My wife is the opposite. She reacts with emotions first. She is very quick to be offended by anything. She will shut down and refuse to communicate until she has had time to process. I do all of the work resolving issues we have. I sometimes wonder if I ever stop taking the high road and work through our issues, if anything would ever resolve itself. So that being said, conflict management aside, we are happy. We are passionate, have similar interests, and make each other laugh.

Then there’s my mother. Where to begin. My mother, while seen as incredibly loving and generous to many people, is also a person who has been shut out of so many relationships in her life that I really just feel bad. My father and her are divorced. She has a genuine phobia of being left out - of gatherings, of relationships, of family. She is extremely smart and knows how to manipulate people into doing what she wants. She also widely seen as a “difficult” person. She is difficult in that she finds great offense to issues many people would not notice or care about. If she feels wronged, she will overwhelm the person who wronged her with incessant questions trying to make them feel her side until they cave in. In her closest relationships, her absolute need for the show of love and inclusion and validation cause the very people she is trying to reel closer in to push her away, a self fulfilling prophecy. My Mom, while I love her, is her own worst enemy.

Needless to say, these two, my wife and my mother, clash. At first they liked each other. The very first issue involved our wedding planning. My wife had a very clear plan for the guest list, and my mom asked for a number of her friends to be included on the list. My wife did not want that, got immediately upset and the situation blew out of control. My mom called me nonstop asking why my wife could be so cold, unwilling to see her side, or give in even an inch. My wife felt my Mom was making the wedding all about her, and could not believe she was called cold. She was “done”. My mom wasn’t paying for a cent of the wedding either so this was another offense. In the end I brokered a compromise, much to the dismay of both women. Each held the grudge for a long time.

Occasionally my mother would do something that my wife disliked, and my wife would be pissed at me for not standing up for her. Admittedly I had never stood up to my mother, I always took the time to listen to her side and find reason behind her otherwise inflammatory ways. My wife and mother had a falling out right before the wedding, and forced me to choose sides. I struggled as I found both of them to be at fault. I chose my wife and my mother hated it. Ever since, basically anything that my mother says or does, whether good or not, offends my wife. Even the most genuine attempts by my mother to reach out to my wife are smacked down. My wife has never made any effort to release the past resentment. Over the years my mother has attempted to take the high road, only to be barely acknowledged by my wife. I have always pleaded with my wife to at least pretend to like my mother. She did a bad job of pretending because my mother would always call me and ask why my wife appears to never care or never let go of past feelings. So both saw through each other, my mother would continue to act happy and loving, while my wife never would.

Anyway now our son came into the picture. He is amazing and being the first grandchild on both sides, the grandparents want to be around him every chance they can get. My mother visit every weekend. I told my wife we have to let her do this. My wife dreaded this. I told my mother that one of the weekends, we wanted her to visit on a Sunday (staying over till Monday morning) instead of a Saturday because we had plans that Saturday. In actuality the day was a birthday celebration for my father in law, being held at her parents house. She just didn’t want my mother involved in everything so she put her foot down. My mother wouldn’t take no for an answer and pulled it out of me what we were doing that day. Well she took great offense to the fact that she was not automatically invited, and couldn’t believe how cold, unChristian, and I loving my wife and her family were.

This stuff affects me greatly so of course I share with my wife, and she exclaims she is done with my mother. No longer wants to be nice or pretend, she is tired of how much my mother always wants it all to be her way and then throws out insulting and hurtful words about my wife to get her way. I get messages from my moms friends telling me how I need to see things my moms way, they would never exclude their mother this way, and that my wife is causing all of this.

And so here we are. I saw my mother the next day, and my wife removed herself from the situation by staying out for the day. It was incredibly uncomfortable. I told my mother how mad I was at her for always being so difficult and never just letting it go. I told her my real feelings about how I wished she could stop needing such inclusion and love. Her response was that she is justified in wanting to be included in everything, and that my wife has never shown her any love or effort and it was obvious, so what could she possibly do? I told her my wife is willing to work on this, perhaps in professional therapy. But in reality my wife wants no part of that and has no desire to mend anything anymore. I think she resents me for trying to mend things.

So what do I do? I’m frustrated with my mom for being difficult, always needing more and never letting things go, and saying inflammatory things when she doesn’t get her way. But I see that all she’s ever wanted was peace and love, and my wife never gave her that. I’m frustrated with my wife for getting so easily offended at everything my mother says or does, and I wish she could make any effort to see the other side and let go of such a grudge. My mother is definitely strong willed and manipulative but I think there is love there if only we could work through it. My wife is extremely assertive and refuses to let anyone wrong her twice. Both think the other has always been dead wrong, the entirety of the blame, and will never change. My wife is ok never seeing my mother again, yet my mother says she wants to let bygones be bygones and attempt to work through it.

What should I do? Forever stuck in the middle. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

A man leaves father and mother, and cleaves to his wife. There is a reason for this. You as the man need to put your foot down and state your boundaries of how you want things to be, since it has come to that. Truth is you have to choose a side, and it is with your wife. and this is not your wife manipulating you against your mother. Its the way it 'post to be.

However, be sure that your wife's ,manipulative tendencies do not creep into other artea of things. Thats why it is expedient you state unequivocally how you want things to be, and take charge. Sentiment does not always solve issues.

QueenSuccubus:
Lol..


What a very shallow perspective.. Definitely the op's observation is only based on what he see in his village..

#JustSayin'

I dont agree with you. its not shallow. There may be some that succeeded, but the keyword there is 'most'.

Even the bible has something to say about old firewood.
No one should dismiss this, but there can be exceptions.

SaintsSamurai:
Yes they are beautiful but personally, i feel the most beautiful women In the world are Latinas.
From Mexico to Columbia to Cuba etc.

For example take a look at my all time favorite crush.
Maitte perroni is the first ever actress i fell in love with.

Many many years ago in the telenovelas "Don't mess with an angel"

She is a goddess.

Not only are they prettier than the regular Americans, their heads are not stuffed with this equality and feminist thing. Very desirable shawties

EagleNest:
For me I kind of wonder how the ops aggregate all these information. is it based on personal experiences, heresay from family & friends, or projections/extrapolations on what he know already?

Some of the assertion I already know, but many I don't know.

Interesting writeup though!

80 percent of all I wrote here is based on personal contact. There are areas I said there could be some inaccuracy in predicting some certain characters.
People who know, know.

CeterisXVII:
Idiotic assessment that has no basis in reality.

Somebody on NL once said that "Anambra people that are opportunists, materialistic, narcissistic and can do anything for pecuniary gains...." The guy was banned for several months.

You have spent how many words dishing out tribalistic words to describe those in different southwest and northern states, yet the mods have turned a blind eye.

According to you, Okun people in Kogi state "are the most untrustworthy set of homosapiens on the face of the earth in my purview. Never go into a sensitive agreement with them, or else, you will have yourself to blame. They are terrible snitches and can give you away at the slightest loophole of advantage..."

In your view, all the indigenes of Ogun, Oyo, Ondo etc are nothing, but "...hard core sycophants and bootlickers, who can do anything and go anywhere just for advantage. They are also world-class betrayers whom every person should be wary of either baring his life to or planning something sensitive with...." You also called them promiscuous.

After painting your Igbo states and their indigenes in flattering colours, you turned round to spew hate against the Yoruba people.

Can you see how twisted, deceitful, sinister and tribalistic you are?

In fact, let me press the report button, and tell them that you have just broken the posting rules on Nairaland.

They need to take down your post, and ban you for several years.

I don't need to be told where you are from. Challenge me based on facts not sentiment. Plus, there is a disclaimer in the first paragraph that exonerates a certain class of people.

Platini7:
Please i created this moniker to seek advise on this issue.

I got married to my wife in 2018 and there's already an issue that is threatening our young marriage.

We dated briefly 10 years ago before she travelled to the US for schooling. She stayed there for a while and then got into a relationship over there with a guy i know (I wasn't close friends with the guy). I had to move on with my life and got into a relationship of my own here in Nigeria.
Back then, i use to have this silly habit of creating anonymous facebook accounts where i would add people i know and comment on their posts and pictures without them ever knowing i was the one. I dropped many comments back then and one such incident happened to be a time i commented on her close friend's picture, telling her (the friend) she was pretty and how i wanted her. This was almost 10 years ago and i swear i never meant any of those words. It was just a silly joke and i had completely forgotten all that.
My wife returned Nigeria in 2016 and somehow we reconnected and got married in 2018.

Just last week, she stumbled on those posts i made in 2010-2011 and got really heartbroken and upset. Right now, even after pleading with her, she says she wants to quit the marriage. She packed a few of her stuff and travelled home to Abia state from our base in Lagos. So far, what she told her family in the east is that she just came back to visit them for a little while because she couldn't come back during xmas.
Now she's threatening that i won't see my 1 year old son anytime soon cos she's already making plans of relocating abroad for good.


Please my question is this; Do you think this issue is enough to cause this kind of disharmony in our home?
What do you advice?
Thank you

If the unbelieving depart, let them depart. A brother or sister is not bound in such cases.

SaintsSamurai:
My beautiful ladies and handsome gents of nairaland.

What i am about to tell you is a true life story and i feel i should let it out because I've been worried for days now.

Well last December on the 30th, a neighbour of mine lost her husband in a ghastly car accident along Ring road in Benin city in Edo State.

Before then I've been a close friend to his wife and i was very close to the family.

It was wailings and rain of tears in my area and In all my neighborhood.

Well two days later he was buried amidst tears.

The next day, when i went to visit the widow of the dead man, it was chilling because of the heavy harmattan. It was late and lots of people that came to pay their condolences have all gone home so it was me and the widow In her room, there were just two persons in the sitting room.

Well to cut the long story short, one thing led to another and we had sex together.

Note: I'm human and she is too, so please don't blame us.

But what I'm worried is if there are spiritual repercussions for the act?
Because I'm a little bit worried.

Criticisms are welcome.

Cc Dominique mynd44

As a rule of thumb, i do not get close to any girl i know i have nothing in store for romantically, talk more of a married woman. It always ends awkwardly, and is the genesis of most tempting situations most people cant come out of.

Beg God for forgiveness and cut off any ties with the woman, cos, if not, i see it happening again and again.

And i hope you are not asking for repercussions to know if the road is smooth enough for you to continue. Karma is a hoe.

oboy81:
So yesterday was new year day. it didn't feel like new year to me at all, just another day of the week.
I've been working somewhere around egbeda now for the past two to three months on part time basis.
I have made some "Friends" over time. We greet, smile, play as if everything is alright in The country, you know na normal Nigerian behaviour.
The closest neighbour to me - an elderly landlady - killed two goats and didn't send anything to us.
You know what's funny is that her children and daughter-in-law would carry food in fine china plates to this big homes and comfortable families. who needs food more, upcoming hungry hustlers or Rich people? lol i just kept wondering and meditating on that. What's the real motive for sharing food?
One man like that later sent rice in take away with a very small meat to one of us, for all of us. that was after my guy stylishly begged them.
Lol same thing happened on christmas day
Me i won't be wasting time bothering to greet anybody again sha.
Happy new Year to you Nairalanders and romancelanders. I hope you get all the good things you wish for.

I wanted to talk about being entitled but from the tone of your writing, you agree that no one really owes you food.

Dont worry bro, this is how success begins. Nothing is hard, not to talk of too hard for God. believe in Him and keep up the hustle.
You will be the one sharing chow about.

ubunja:
Sex On Credit.

PROLOGUE.
Women live under many delusions and illusions, but the greatest of these delusions; the sweetest of these illusions, is that sex for them is free.

WOMEN ARE HAVING SEX ON CREDIT.
There is no such thing as free sex. Only dumb Women believe sex doesn't cost them a thing. That it costs only the man. They mock and laugh when a man is broke but burning with passion for they know he has no hope of getting relief. It feels so good dangling sex before thirsty men, cruelly declaring, "there's nothing for free!"

True, there's nothing for free. But it goes both ways. There's nothing for free for women too. In sex, everyone pays, one way or the other. Sooner or later. And the irony of ironies is that sex is cheaper for men than it is for women. Men pay for sex IMMEDIATELY with money. Money they will make again tomorrow. It may seem like they got the short end of the stick. But as economists will advise, it's always cheaper to pay upfront with cash.

But women, on the other hand, pay for sex much later, with something much more valuable and impossible to make again: THEIR BODIES. If it appears as though women are having sex for free it is because women are having sex on credit. Every round of sex recorded in their Account Books and tagged "To pay later". And they're in for a shock on the day they have to settle their accounts.

THE GENIUS OF THE PATRIARCHY.
The Patriarchy was, is and will always be, the greatest idea of all time. It understood this concept intimately. A woman is given her beauty and fertility early in her life and has to use the beauty to get the best man to marry her for her fertile womb. After serving it's duty in the woman's late 30s and early 40s, the Womb expires, taking the woman's beauty with it. The man who married the woman for her beauty and fertility finds that his wife, after menopause, is no longer attractive and no longer productive. He longs to leave her for some nubile early 20s girl. But the children he has fathered with his wife make him stay.

Thus a woman, gives a man her best years so that the man can be there for her in her wretched years.

A WOMAN WITH NO MAN.
Now, remove a husband from that equation.

Meet Sandra, a pretty, fertile young lass screwing her 20s away receiving cash, gifts and favours for her pussy. She imagines men are unfortunate losers who have to pay for what she gets free. It's like watching a movie free and getting paid to watch! Thank God she was born a girl.

But come mid 30s Sandra makes a startling discovery: she has to use more and more make-up to maintain her good looks. Which means one thing: Her beauty is fading! Five more years even she can't stand her morning face and applying makeup is becoming a two hour exercise. Then more bad news. Male attention starts drying up. Where per day she gave her number to no less than two men, she's now lucky if one man asks for her number a week. It's hurting her, because No male attention means no sex and no sex means no cash and gifts.

She starts going broke. How she wishes she had a man to call and unburden on. Someone to lean on. Then the words of her 20s self come to memory, "marriage is not for everyone" , "Marriage is outdated!". She remembers the young men she rejected with those words when they asked her to build a future with them. Oh if she could have that future now. She sees those guys around town. They are married. They have wives and they look happy. Most of all they look Handsome. Gone are the weird looks the men had. They have matured with age, like wine. Time has been kind to them. Unlike to her.

Then Sandra sees the men who used to fvck her giving her cash and gifts. These men have similarly aged nicely and are easy on the eye. And what pierces her heart like a burning sword is this: THE MEN STILL HAVE MONEY. Despite spending on her over the years, they made more. She looks at her body. Years of sex have left their toll. Saggy breasts. Saggy ass. Loose thighs. The dead look in her eyes. The slut face that gives away the hedonistic life she has lived for so long. The dozens of babies aborted that have left her womb more cemetery than life-giver. The dozens of STI cured that have left their mark on her pussy. Envy fills her heart. She approaches those men offering her body like old times, but they reject her. They are running with fresh young ones. Her time is past. Her body is spent.

Envy turns to anger as she realizes she will never again get these men to spend on her.

THE END OF ILLUSIONS.
The illusion finally lifts from Sandra's eyes: The sex all those years was not free. She has paid for it in perhaps the worst possible way: with her body. The only thing of value we all have in this world. The men she fvcked had paid in cash. But cash is recyclable. The men have made more cash to continue fvcking. But she has paid with her body and her body isn't recyclable. It is gone now and it can't make her money because no man will want it. Sandra is hurt.

# MeToo.
But fvck it!! They are still making money aren't they? Those men? She will get them to spend on her whether they want to or not. Even if she has to force them to. There are men who are always ready to help a woman out in these situations. She knows where to find them. Those men are the Police.

And so, one fine morning Sandra walks into a Police Station and lays a rape charge.

Her story begins something like this, "15 years ago some men raped me... "

By next day her story is trending on Social Media with the hashtag MeToo. A few more innocent men ruined. One more whôré saved from starvation by the TV appearances and book deals she'll get relating her story for the world to sympathize over.
#TheRedPill
#MGTOW

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Only insincere or inexperienced folks will fault this writing. It is an everyday truth everyone should have known by now. But trust the ladies to tag you misogynistic and all them words.
You are a true G, Richard-not just in the way you pick holes in feminine wiles, probably out of live experience or intense study-but in the way your penning skill makes things all the more relatable.
Well done bro.

ubunja:
Sex On Credit.

PROLOGUE.
Women live under many delusions and illusions, but the greatest of these delusions; the sweetest of these illusions, is that sex for them is free.

WOMEN ARE HAVING SEX ON CREDIT.
There is no such thing as free sex. Only dumb Women believe sex doesn't cost them a thing. That it costs only the man. They mock and laugh when a man is broke but burning with passion for they know he has no hope of getting relief. It feels so good dangling sex before thirsty men, cruelly declaring, "there's nothing for free!"

True, there's nothing for free. But it goes both ways. There's nothing for free for women too. In sex, everyone pays, one way or the other. Sooner or later. And the irony of ironies is that sex is cheaper for men than it is for women. Men pay for sex IMMEDIATELY with money. Money they will make again tomorrow. It may seem like they got the short end of the stick. But as economists will advise, it's always cheaper to pay upfront with cash.

But women, on the other hand, pay for sex much later, with something much more valuable and impossible to make again: THEIR BODIES. If it appears as though women are having sex for free it is because women are having sex on credit. Every round of sex recorded in their Account Books and tagged "To pay later". And they're in for a shock on the day they have to settle their accounts.

THE GENIUS OF THE PATRIARCHY.
The Patriarchy was, is and will always be, the greatest idea of all time. It understood this concept intimately. A woman is given her beauty and fertility early in her life and has to use the beauty to get the best man to marry her for her fertile womb. After serving it's duty in the woman's late 30s and early 40s, the Womb expires, taking the woman's beauty with it. The man who married the woman for her beauty and fertility finds that his wife, after menopause, is no longer attractive and no longer productive. He longs to leave her for some nubile early 20s girl. But the children he has fathered with his wife make him stay.

Thus a woman, gives a man her best years so that the man can be there for her in her wretched years.

A WOMAN WITH NO MAN.
Now, remove a husband from that equation.

Meet Sandra, a pretty, fertile young lass screwing her 20s away receiving cash, gifts and favours for her pussy. She imagines men are unfortunate losers who have to pay for what she gets free. It's like watching a movie free and getting paid to watch! Thank God she was born a girl.

But come mid 30s Sandra makes a startling discovery: she has to use more and more make-up to maintain her good looks. Which means one thing: Her beauty is fading! Five more years even she can't stand her morning face and applying makeup is becoming a two hour exercise. Then more bad news. Male attention starts drying up. Where per day she gave her number to no less than two men, she's now lucky if one man asks for her number a week. It's hurting her, because No male attention means no sex and no sex means no cash and gifts.

She starts going broke. How she wishes she had a man to call and unburden on. Someone to lean on. Then the words of her 20s self come to memory, "marriage is not for everyone" , "Marriage is outdated!". She remembers the young men she rejected with those words when they asked her to build a future with them. Oh if she could have that future now. She sees those guys around town. They are married. They have wives and they look happy. Most of all they look Handsome. Gone are the weird looks the men had. They have matured with age, like wine. Time has been kind to them. Unlike to her.

Then Sandra sees the men who used to fvck her giving her cash and gifts. These men have similarly aged nicely and are easy on the eye. And what pierces her heart like a burning sword is this: THE MEN STILL HAVE MONEY. Despite spending on her over the years, they made more. She looks at her body. Years of sex have left their toll. Saggy breasts. Saggy ass. Loose thighs. The dead look in her eyes. The slut face that gives away the hedonistic life she has lived for so long. The dozens of babies aborted that have left her womb more cemetery than life-giver. The dozens of STI cured that have left their mark on her pussy. Envy fills her heart. She approaches those men offering her body like old times, but they reject her. They are running with fresh young ones. Her time is past. Her body is spent.

Envy turns to anger as she realizes she will never again get these men to spend on her.

THE END OF ILLUSIONS.
The illusion finally lifts from Sandra's eyes: The sex all those years was not free. She has paid for it in perhaps the worst possible way: with her body. The only thing of value we all have in this world. The men she fvcked had paid in cash. But cash is recyclable. The men have made more cash to continue fvcking. But she has paid with her body and her body isn't recyclable. It is gone now and it can't make her money because no man will want it. Sandra is hurt.

# MeToo.
But fvck it!! They are still making money aren't they? Those men? She will get them to spend on her whether they want to or not. Even if she has to force them to. There are men who are always ready to help a woman out in these situations. She knows where to find them. Those men are the Police.

And so, one fine morning Sandra walks into a Police Station and lays a rape charge.

Her story begins something like this, "15 years ago some men raped me... "

By next day her story is trending on Social Media with the hashtag MeToo. A few more innocent men ruined. One more whôré saved from starvation by the TV appearances and book deals she'll get relating her story for the world to sympathize over.
#TheRedPill
#MGTOW

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Only insincere or inexperienced folks will fault this writeup. It is an everyday truth everyone should have known by now. But trust the ladies to tag you misogynistic and all them words.
You are a true G, Richard-not just in the way you pick holes in feminine wiles, probably out of live experience or intense study-but in the way your penning skill makes things all the more relatable.
Well done bro.

soobaba:
Hi guys,
So I'll be very direct and summarize this as possible. But please bear with me if I get carried away...

I've been been dating my girlfriend for a year now and we are very serious and I'm even considering proposing to her, but we are not based in the same town.

So I called her with another number last night, she couldn't recognize my voice cause I sounded different, so I decided to play around cause we gist and make fun of each other a lot. So I acted like I was someone who got her number and is trying to toast her.

She asked who was speaking and I said Victor, that I got her number when I saw her in the bank, we were on the same queue, so I copied her number from her teller, she laughed and all, so after all the lines I poured out, she was just laughing and flowing along, so I asked if we could see that night, but she said it was late but I had to persuade her, so she agreed that I instead come to her place to see her. "This is someone she hasn't met before and she agreed for him to come see her at her place, in the night for that matter".

So I asked for her address and she gave out her real address, asked if she has a boyfriend and she said yes but we ain't in the same town.
I got upset and had to open up and ask why she's cheating on her guy? At this point she was mute and ended the call. I called back but she didn't answer anymore.

So I just dropped a message on WhatsApp that I was disappointed.

Her reply was devastating: she wrote;
"keep your disappointment in your pocket.
Don't even get me more angry.
Just do yourself a favor by not ever mentioning me in your mouth again.
Remove everything that has to do with me in your phone and life.
Rubbish.
No be only disappointment.
Grow up.
Comot for my front make I see road jor..."

I haven't replied her yet, don't even know what to say to her right now, thought about calling her but my brother told me not to, that I should just free her. Please guys what should I do?

Moderator please help me move this to front page...

The most annoying is the way they try to turn things around with some feigned anger. Can you imagine?
Is there going to be another generation with the way we are going?

Bursts of a beast
Tears of tricks
Rants veiled
To cage me?
No.

Your tales stick
Only because you think so
Your claims of molestation
Are like glass..
The doctored body count
And the spent body
The foolish version of me
Will be served
For life?
No.

I offered a leaning shoulder
Now its a tick-and dog game
I gave my heart
You weaponized it
Believing you are stronger than my God?
No.

frozen70:
If you want me to accept your comment
Juts tell me where this is written in the Bible

*A man can have two or more wives and make heaven*

This how you men will turn things upside down to suit you guys

My dear, before i say something especially something thats Biblical, i have read it to the best of my knowledge. Some circumstances can cause a man to marry another woman while his wife is alive. the only thing is that he cannot hold any office in the church, according to the Bible prescription of 1 Timothy for church officials like deacons and others. But as for making heaven if he lives right, that one is sure. For example, in Matthew 19.9, if a man because of the fact that his wife did some things with her body, i.e fornication, that she did not confess to her husband before marriage, that man is free to send her away and remarry, if he finds out later and cannot stomach it or forgive her. But according to Romans 7.2, a woman is bound by law to her husband as long as he lives; only death can break that bond, and death alone. Let me ask: is David in hell? Solomon? All of those Jewish kings that lived true to God in the days of old? We both know the answer to that.

A woman can only marry another husband if her husband dies; no other condition. why do you think Job's wife asked him to curse God and die? She was already tired and could not leave the union except he dies!

So please, do not see it as turning things upside down for advantage-i empathize with women at times knowing that even the Bible is harder on them than women. It is the way God structured it to be. The sin Eve committed in the beginning was not a light one-having sex with an animal, and everything is geared towards not giving her any equal playing field to compete with the man or ever have that chance to exercise any form of authority so as not to ruin things any further. Its for the same reason a woman is forbidden to preach the gospel.

A man who knows that a woman is thus constrained will not oppress a woman or exact unjustifiable excesses over her, but show her love and protect her.

victorian:
Audio Christianity indeed.

I'm not like you.

I'm real to the core.. So no need comparing both of us in our faith in Christ and God.
Focus on what u believe in and lemme focus on mine.

E no hard

where did anything about me appear in that comment? Or anything about comparison? Of course i get it, anything to divert the narrative.

frozen70:
Did they ever complain that they are lonely

And who told you that they don't have a man dying for their love

I will like you to erase the mentality of seeing women who are not married as being are lonely

Marriage is not for everyone

Instead of being in a bitter and frustrated marriage, remain single and be answerable to your self and God alone

All those women who died in their so called marriage would have been happier living a single life they had known

If it works for you, that same thing may not work for another

Some men are in their third marriage, just because the previous ones didn't work, yet the clergy men still wedds them

The most recent one is 9ice

That doesn't mean he is not a good guy, it just didn't work

Rich woman or no rich woman, love must be fulfilled, its a natural force

At the risk of making this a gender war which shouldnt, some home truths have to be told. I got interested when you said answerable to yourself and God alone. How exactly? By breeding children outside the sacredness of marriage, becoming a baby mama? If only people knew how God hates that thing. A woman who isnt married but sleeps around with any man she can pay? Or at best, satisfies herself with intimacy gadgets? Come on.

You see this thing called equality, is a paper concept. it is different in reality. A man can have two or more wives and make heaven, but under no circumstance can a woman have two living husbands or he is an adulterer. God allowed it to be so.

I agree that there can be bad or abusive marriages. But i also strongly believe that the signs were there be fore the knot was tied, but the lady was blinded by some sort of sentiment which could be anything. I dont believe God will hand His daughter to a boxer or vile fellow.


Marriage may not be an achievement in the way people put it, but my dear sister, it is important. If you want to eschew society and the respect it accords married women and want to live on your own terms, what about the legitimacy of sex it offers? How can one live a complete lifestyle in gruesome offence to her Maker? I also recognize that it isnt all about sex in marriage, but it is a fundamental human need, and marriage is the only legal ground for that to happen.

So in essence, i will not say that any woman who does not marry has failed, in its most direct terms, but it is something every woman should look foward to at Gods time, while working assidously to be someone's wife. Same goes for the man.

victorian:
That's your mentality.

For me? My own with Boo with last for many many years to come till old age. You know why? Our wealth and personality is rooted in Christ Jesus .

Christ is our rock! Our wealth is just jara, to make life easy and rosy for us.
That's why I believe and know deep in my being and soul, ours will last forever in Jesus name Amen.

Sure it will. but only if you stay true to that confession. Because audio Christianity will not cut it, which entails submissiveness on your part no matter how much you have, and love on his part

Kennedyiheme:
lies... lol why do you think divorce rate in america has spiked from 10% to 50%... when i say successful women i mean very wealthy, like linda ikeji kinda wealthy, i don't mean average women..... if you say I'm not correct then, successful female celebrities should be an example.. how many of them are married?

the ones that manage to marry are even jumping out

LordKO:
It's quite ridiculous to hear that most women cannot have successful career and successful home simultaneously, even when they abound everywhere - maybe, you haven't heard of something called balance. You've to accept the fact that it's not every woman who's egoistic (selfish, self-centered, or greedy). An altruistic woman, or a principled woman who has altruistic interest towards her husband (a sane husband), will definitely maintain both successful career and successful home.

What's true is that the the more successful an egoistic woman becomes, the lonelier/more unfulfilled she's going to be. So, the only kind of career successful woman who may not be able to marry the caliber of man - successful and sane man - she desires or have a successful marriage with such man, is an egoistic woman.

Also, it's only an egoistic career successful woman (or man) whose definition of "marrying down" is marrying someone of lower financial status who will not marry a man below her financial status.

In summary, one's ethical leanings will always determine their mentality - and through people's ethical leanings you know their character. Spontaneous reciprocation of good character (goodness) is the major mechanism that enables a mutually healthy and happy marriage/relationship.

I think i agree with your submission. it boils down to personal character and principle. It is possible to have a CERTAIN level of career success with a good family alongside. Not the ind of career that would involve late nights, not even knowing your childen, leaving them at the mercy of househelps whose menace we know only to well, or even an emotionally starved husband.

MrBrownJay1:
this issue has nothing to do with religion, get your mind out of the gutter



this issue has nothing to do with the protection a man will give a woman... but all to do with the reason a man decides to marry someone.



if you actually believe that wealthy women are unhappy in their lives and/or cant find anyone to marry (unless he is richer than them) then i suggest you go out a bit more often, and look around you.



there is a huge difference between what is written in some deluded holy book and LIFE.... nobody has authority over anyone. a marriage is a union where two people decide to share a life together. as there cant be two captain on one boat, the man is often "viewed" as the leader but any smart person knows that the woman's views/decisions are just as important for the wellbeing of the union. NO WOMAN SHOULD LOWER HERSELF IN MARRIAGE!!!! the deluded women who do, do so because these men use money/religion/society to control these good for nothing brainless brainwashed women.

its low self esteem men like yourself who actually believe that successful/wealthy women need to lower themselves to get a man...



ARRANT NONSENSE!!!!!
her "life" comes 1st, and if she decides that she wants to place her job above anything else then she has all the rights to do so, just like men often do.... dont be a damn hypocrite.



stop writing rubbish online, its bad for your health.... a successful woman can go all out career wise AND have a great family. it is all down to the man she decides to share such life with.... sadly, most Nigerians/Africans have a issue with such woman because they believe the type of above rubbish you just wrote, instead of focusing on FAMILY. many completely useless women marry wealthy men and thats ok, i dont see any reason why the opposite suddenly should be any different.

Since the holy book is deluded, i have nothing more to say to you.

wizzynuru:
Lol.. And u posted tips on how to make a man happy last year December. Looks like u don't practice what u teach.

You are basing your comments on copy and paste?

Lyydia:
There's this guy that we have been dating for 6 months, we love each other very well and we plan on marrying each other.

Here is the deal, we plan on no sex before marriage due to personal reasons. I don't ask for money also, we do cuddle and kiss sometimes. But not sex!

Of recent, he has been acting strange and wants to go beyond our normal cuddle level. I cautioned him about this and he promised to change! But he still does this.

Yesterday it happened again as I got furious and asked him to leave.

Did I overreact? I called, he has not picked up since yesterday.

You two are not even supposed to be in a room together alone, not to talk of pre-intimacy. You made him feel you are giving it to someone else.

Eviana:
The title is interesting.
The God you have depicted here appears tyrannical, cruel, vindictive, envious and angry.
I would like to respond to the parts I highlighted in your post.

1. That's a grave error for believing someone is spiritual based on all of the things that you mentioned. Be careful using those criteria.

Matthew 7:22-23 (KJV)

22 Many will say to me in that day, Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in thy name? and in thy name have cast out devils? and in thy name done many wonderful works?
23 And then will I profess unto them, I never knew you: depart from me, ye that work iniquity.

2. David confessed, asked for forgiveness and forsook his sins...Who David had been "before" he comitted that heinous sin....and what he did "after" he acknowledged it, thus made him a "man after God's own heart." Acts 13:22 (KJV).
Paul (after his conversion) was one of the fiercest soldiers for the Christ.
The challenge that Paul prayed would be removed from him, was NOT a direct result of who he was when he ignorantly slaughtered so many Christians.
That challenge could have also caused Paul to rely on God all the more.
Actually God was extremely merciful to both men by NOT striking them dead for their sins.
Yes, they repented...BUT that does not mean that consequences will be erased for some actions.
Consequences, oftentimes, are the results of "our" actions. Because we live in a world ravaged by sin, challenges are guaranteed...unfortunate situations occur. Consequences happen...even if one is forgiven.
Ex. A Christian woman could have had a baby out-of-wedlock with a man she never married.
She committed sin...or had been living a sinful lifestyle.
However, she cofessed her sin repented, and no longer lives in that lifestyle.
The consequences of her actions resulted in a child. Now she is a single mother and life is extremely difficult because the father is not in the child's life. God has forgiven her, BUT the fact is...she has a child she has to be responsible for.

3. God is a God of mercy and justice.
Psalm 86:15 (KJV), Psalm 89:14 (KJV) & many more..
We do not receive what we really deserve...death with no chance of being reconciled to Him.

4. Comparison between earthly romantic ties (based on jealousy) and God's "desire" for restoration and reconciliation to a fallen people..is faulty.
We humans, tend to nurture a jealousy that's derived by sin...
God's "jealousy" is moreso a "longing"... Jeremiah 31:3 (KJV)
God loves His creation that much that He desires to spend eternity with us! He wants to spend time daily together. How can you know someone if you don't do so? When we sin, it separates the fullness of joy that we "could" have with Him.
But God is a God who allows us choice and freewill. If we run away from Him, He will try to "woo" us back, but He will never force us.

5. The point of blotting out of sins in people is the fact that no sin will ever rise again in the universe. Children of God must confess, ask for forgiveness and forsake the sins.
1John 1:9 (KJV)

If not, then the sins remain and the person has chosen "death" rather than "life".
No one will be on the top of the chain (not quite understanding what you meant) on earth except the Lord.
However, those who have surrendered and are obedient to the Lord...will have the priviledge of living eternally as sons & daughters of the King of Kings.....Revelation 3:21 (LJV)

For the most part, you simply repeated what i said in other words. But i appreciate your input.

MrBrownJay1:
bro stop writing rubbish online, it makes you look "unintelligent"....
here is a clue: wealthy people dont NEED/CARE about marrying wealthy people, they would instead simply marry anyone they fancy. its only poor people that believe that a wealthy person MUST marry another wealthy person. again, a wealthy person does NOT care about money, they already got it.

only an insecure low self esteem man would look down on a wealthy woman, because she makes more than him.

The Bible cannot lie. Keeping of the home and raising children is HER lot. i dont care how many people think otherwise, forget this 'millenial' thing people think they can cheat nature with.
Being rich and'fulfilled' is a veil, supposedly, women use to cover the fact that there is a need for a man in their lives. The veil has holes, too many of them.
There is a difference between the protection a man will give you because he loves you, and the protection he will give you because he is paid for it. It cant be the same.

No matter how much we try to feign it, the statistics are there...how many wealthy career ladies are actually happy in their marriages, or are even married at all?

It isnt about insecurity. Even the men who feel they are 'secure'as they put it, are not telling you of the things they see within the walls of that union but cant do anything about. A man's place is a place of authority and taking charge, and when the picture isnt set that way, issues are unavoidable.

Remember that the issue is not about being a working class lady, but about being family-oriented. A woman can be successful and still be family oriented, in that her family and her wifely duties come first.

So at the end of the day, for the woman its about one of the two choices-go for the career all out and forgo family, or do the needful.

Kennedyiheme:
is rihanna married?... beyonce was singing in destiny's child when she met jayz, she wasn't as successful

Jay Z made beyonce..whether remotely or directly

victorian:
The reasons are not baseless o.

Yes alot of ladies will pray to be in her shoes but not every lady would want to be in her shoes.
For example : all through last year, suitors were coming but they all. Wanted me to close down my company and be a full time house wife.

Why? They were scared men will keep wooing me even after marriage and it's best to lock me up and not work. Just eat, fucvk, drink and breed babies.

Sighs
I was virtually crying to one old man who's my friend at my office building. I told him why are men like this?

Why should I close up what makes me happy, give me joy and keeps my brain working. And Just stay at home and be watching telemundo day in day out! But why are men this selfish!
Why must I shut down this part of my life, just because I want to marry!

It's not fair! I rather remain single ,keep running my company, meet people everyday than marry and just seat at home and keep getting fatter everyday with kids running around. Why cant I have both!

Guess what the old man said?

Nine times out of ten, if someone looks at you, loves you and thinks you will cheat, and brings up some of these conditions, its not a baseless assumption. There is something he is seeing.

Not to talk of throughout last year...meaning its up to three or four people or even more!

Its one of two choices. Run your company and remain single, then scratch the itch by illegal means, or do a holistic assessment of yourself and your character and your tendencies.

The busybodies wey no dey let us hear word are not half as pretty as this na. Kai. This is terrible.