flokii: While it looks like blessing to put in all your life savings to acquire Visa, work permit etc. and migrate to obodo oyinbo.. when you get there, the oyinbo people will see you as disturbance and uninvited guest, you won't have friends or people to bond with, loneliness, boredom and feeling of regret would then creep in. It's only married ones with kids that tend to feel loved, not the singles.
If we had good leaders in Africa in general, who would want to run abroad and live in deep freezer? you sef reason am na. As a guy, your penls will start to shrink like it's no man's business out of cold and sickness.
Until the loneliness is enough to make you come back, you no get case.
obembet: The full extent of Lionel Messi's earnings at Barcelona have been revealed.
By the time the Argentine's current contract expires at the end of this season, he will have received 555.24 million euros in total since 2017.
That works out at a rate of 264 euros per minute, so what could you buy with that kind of money?
The most expensive house in the world
If Messi wanted to up sticks and move to Los Angeles, he could afford to buy the most expensive house in the world.
The One, situated in LA's exclusive neighboured of Bel Air, is valued at 430m euros and is up for sale for 453m euros.
The house boasts 9,250 square metres of space, 20 rooms, more than 20 bathrooms, a cinema, gym and infinity swimming pool.
The Azzam yacht The Azzam yacht is widely considered the most expensive and most luxurious yacht in the world.
UAE president Khalifa bin Zayed Al Nahyan purchased the boat for 510m euros and it costs 1,200 euros a day just to park it.
The most expensive island in the world - twice
Located 80 kilometres off the coast of Panama, San Jose island is the second biggest island in the Las Perlas archipelago.
The only things that live on the exclusive island are toucans, iguanas, deer and wild boar. If you want to buy it, it'll cost between 200 and 260m euros.
The most expensive plane in the world
If he's on good terms with the Qatari royal family, Messi could acquire their B747-8 aircraft - the most expensive and most luxurious plane in the world.
The three-storey plane, which has room for 14 guests, is worth 370m euros on the market but could cost up to 500m euros.
Half of the most expensive military plane
If Messi is going to be able to afford the B-2 Spirit - owned by the United States military - he's going to have to sign a new contract at the Camp Nou. It currently costs 1.4 billion euros.
The most expensive jewel in the world - nine times
The 59-carot Pink Rose is the most expensive diamond in the world. It was found in South Africa in 1999 and is valued at 61.5 million euros.
Half of Greenland
After Donald Trump had shown interest in buying Greenland on the United States' behalf, Denmark were forced to come out and declare it not for sale.
Nevertheless, calculations say that, if it were up for grabs, Greenland would be worth 1bn euros in total.
A whole fleet of Bugattis
The title of world's most expensive and most luxurious car belongs to the Bugatti La Voiture Noire at 15.77m euros. Messi would be able to afford 35 of those
Leonardo's Salvador Mundi
Leonardo's 15th century painting of Jesus Christ was sold for 450m euros in 2017, becoming the most expensive painting in history.
Almost 200 bottles of tequila
A bottle of Mexico's Ley 925 tequilo - also known as Diamond Sterling - is sold at a value of 3.5m dollars.
Messi would be able to afford 185 of the 4100-diamond bottles.
[quote author=aryzgreat post=98536844]Murano purchase always end in premium tears[/quote Anything with a Nissan logo, i will not touch with a ten foot pole. I have not heard of a happy ending with any of those cars.
srrrr: If those children do not find it hard to obey elderly strangers then the problem is simply bonding. I would recommend that the family see a therapist. Finally you and your brother should take off that entitlement feeling. At least for now. Stop feeling like the children owe him their obedience because he provides the money. Try to heal the hurt that the children feel for their father first.
Try to understand them instead of picking offense because they didn't wash a car by 7am. If he wants to place value, it should be on the children's emotions righ now not on car washing and errands running. Remember he doesn't stay with them so their emotional accounts is obviously low.
He gave 200k for school fees, that's good. But loyalty has more to do with emotions that funds. You are running the family like a business. That's okay but you guys shouldn't use the wrong capital okay...?
I hope this helps
Sir, when we make assertions like this, let us be considerate and empathetic. How would the man have been able to afford 600k per year on school fees alone if he didnt make sacrifices which included possibly being away from home for some time? Now that the wind is a bit gone from his sail, look at the result.
David as at the time of approaching Goliath was barely 19. There are teens foraging a life for themselves in the streets legitimately without parents. A child not having independent sense is not something to be supported or condoned.
As long as there was no infidelity in the picture, the wife should be understanding abeg. Inciting children against a parent is bad. Very bad!
boldx: Washing a car or not washing is not a problem at all.
Most teenagers and post teens need to be reminded to do a lot of things in the house.
Please do not intervene in husband and wife matter though he is your brother.
His children are no longer kids and should be handled wisely.
If they don't wash his car, the man should wash his car by himself. It's no big deal. I wash my car myself despite having big teenagers. They do once in a while though.
I have consistently faced this challenge. Please don't make a mountain out of a mole hill.
I do not know your orientation, but i dont agree with you sir. Having a 20 year old boy in the house and washing a car by myself is not normal please. Its not even something you should say proudly publicly. There is a problem.
iLegendd: All kinds of food and drinks are here, but since morning, I haven't eaten. Food no dey hungry me. Na to play tennis dey hungry me, but I don't want to go out.
thebosstrevor1: Even though it is true that there are paternity frauds in our society, the reality is it is not so much like how social media are publicizing it.
Nigerian dna market is unregulated, dna is your human footprint, your personal data. Dna is not only about testing paternity but it can be use for many things.
I believe there is a plot on Nigerians by some Dna tech companies in Nigeria to raise the discussion about DNA Test in our society because they want to create a DNA bank For Nigerians.
For instance, there is a company called 54gene in lagos that is building an African DNA bank, the company raised almost 15 million dollars from Bill and merinda gates foundation. The company claim that the Greater availability of . African genomic data could lead to medical breakthroughs for the African’s 1.2 billion people.
As far back as 2019, the company has almost 60,000 dna samples of Nigerians in their Bank, in addition, the company is based in Washington DC and Nigeria.
How many of you are concerned about your privacy, don't let social media discussions fool you, some of these dna companies might be the ones sponsoring the discussion so that people can go for Dna test, soon they will gather your data and also sell it to the highest bidder in the United states or to law enforcement agencies.
People should know what they spread online, you might be claiming woke, understand that your privacy matters and that anybody who has control over your dna data has control over you.
We will sign documents that guarantees that my samples will be returned to me after the test.
21cents: nothing but the truth. I'm starting to get bored of sex and nowadays I discovered I need more than a puxsy and bre@st.
the sex will diminish and lose spark the first 5 years of marriage, so what happens after then when she's outlived her usefulness of mere sex?
fact is: my dad has advised me to settle with a pious woman who also works and hustles. telling me it's only the raging testosterone hormones of young men in their early to mid twenties forcing them to make great and naive mistakes with women and relationship. that when the hormones starts declining towards the 30's, we'd want more than pussy and sex. now I'm heading towards my late 20's and I'm starting to see things the way he advised me 7yrs ago.
Sir, while i am not trying to make it look like it is all about sex, but there are important things in a marriage that is hinged on having a woman with as low body count as possible. A woman with high mileage will not be able to bond with you emotionally as her husband, and trust me, you need it, and when that bonding is absent it will show. There is a certain level of assertivenes you need to exercise as a man that can only br possible with a woman whose soul you own, and i do not mean it in any abusive way. A woman who is not bonded well with you will most likely cheat on you at the slightest spark; all it takes is a level of contact with an of her exes-it will happen. A woman who is not well bonded with you is the one who will opt for divorce at the first semblance of provocation whether warranted or not.
Marriage is team work. In a team, they train together, take instructions from the same coach, study together. In marriage something spiritual must bind them togther for proper functioning. When its not appropriate it will show.
okrote4real: Kannywood has reiterated its stand that the embattled actress, Rahama Sadau is not part of the industry, thereby disassociating themselves from her act.
Stephenmoka4: I don't know if you like dating outside your race/tribe/countryman don't do of you have a girl here already. Anyways, networking is a strong key too; If you have someone even if the person is a friend , that would be a good lead
Bro i dey find link to any good Christian girl of such citizenship. Any nationality is welcome
Despirado121: Igbere TV reports that Minister of State for Labour and Employment Festus Keyamo says he lost his driver Yohanna Shankuk during the #EndSARS protest in Abuja on Wednesday.
Mr Keyamo said on Thursday that his driver was knocked down by a vehicle which was trying to avoid advancing protesters.
The minister said Mr Shankuk was walking to his (Keyamo’s) private office before the incident occurred at Berger roundabout, Abuja.
neworbit: Hello guys to make things easier, i have decided to make a cool whatsapp group for Lagos car dealers.
Rules of joining this group 1. post is strictly car sales and sourcing. Pls Pls no dumb broadcast messages & only one pictures is allowed per post. 2.Each car dealer must have a form of identity examined by Admin, to avoid issues of selling stolen cars etc. we need to know ourselves. 3. Group chat closes by 9pm and resumes 7am, this is to ensure orderliness in the group and avoid unwarranted pings at odd hours.
genaro2000: wow, you are the first female since I have been reading trp on nairaland that has admitted openly to be true, and I am very surprised, and you have my respect for that
Dont be fooled bro, she is only learning what is being said to reinvent her tricks. But the thing is that redpill is potent and foretelling of every wile
kay9: First of all, no, the topic is not about me. I certainly did NOT save myself for marriage - I had loads of fun jare! The topic is about this guy anonymously interviewed on Zikko magazine (www.zikoko.com). I have copy-pasted the interview contents below. Read, think about it, then tell me what you think in the comments. Enjoy!
One last comment from me: I don't post often and I hate telling people what to do with their lives. But this scenario above is so common, you wouldn't believe it. So many people getting into marriage and hoping God will provide mind-blowing s3x. Sometimes it works, but most times it doesn't. And take it from me, after having plenty money and having a partner who is at least a decent person (i.e. not a complete assh0le or b!tch), having good s3x is the next most important thing to keep a marriage going. You can pray and kabash from now till Angel Gabriel blows the trumpet, but if bros or madam is not getting some good sugar, sooner or later they gon find that sugar somewhere else. Some may not agree with me, but it's ok - it is your life not mine. And as they say, experience is the best teacher.
There it goes, thinking you are still a virgin because you have not had penetrative sex.
What do people take this devil for, sef? some 'youth' like you who can be swindled? una never start.
Devil has been here for 6000+ years and knows every in and out of man. its impossible to trick him.
Fornication before marriage is sinful. People who keep themselves the Bible way WILL enjoy their sexual life in marriage, and its a given.
genkins: You are scripturally bankrupt to think when christ instructed that we should call no one father other than God that he was referring to our earthly father. God is a spirit that makes him your only spiritual father.
Matthew 23 verse 9 .. And do not call anyone on earth 'father,' for you have one Father, and he is in heaven.
If I quote this one for Pastor Ibiyieome now, e go blow hot at me too... god of men - they so hate criticism. Instead of counter Daddy Freeze with facts backed by Bible scriptures, he went the way of emotional outburst.
Apostle Paul had spiritual children he begat in the gospel, thats what Ibiyeomie means.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AJoin6WwyXg According to the priest, Parents should not teach their girl child only to be virgins, parents should teach their boys how to be virgins, if they didn't do so their boys will make nonsense of what they've taught the girls.
According to him, it will take over Randy boy to disvirgin 20 girls. He went ahead to say to the women that virginity is not a gift to their husbands, he questioned if the men who wants to recieve their wifes as virgins whether they are virgins themselves. Virginity facilitates relationship with God he said
Nothing beats chastity and i fear it will serve as a licence for licentuous living for the girls. Sex, which is not rape, is consensual, meaning both the boy and the girl agreed to it. Yes it takes a randy boy, but with a loose girl to lose virginity. Let both the boys and girls keep themselves. Bible says marriage is honourable, the bed undefiled. Saying virginity is not a gift to ones husband is wrong. Its impossible for you to view a lady with numerous body counts and a pristine one the same way. Unless we want to deceive ourselves, which is a choice.
Have we bothered to ask why it is that in Bible days, a woman who is disvirgined before marriage gets stoned, while no such requirement was made of the man? Have we bothered to ask why a man could marry multiple wives in them days, but it was abominable for a woman to have more than one living husband, even now?
When it comes to a man and a woman, there is no equality. Its no licence for male randiness but its the truth.
PUSSYHOE: Every guy feels this exciting, joy and enthusiasm before sex but immediately after, it is the opposite of all the feelings before it.
I ain't concluding, it may not be so for other guys. Even so Can someone explain why some of us few like that? Even with the girls I love wholeheartedly I still feel like that with them. is it a biological, psychological or emotional problem? and what is the remedy?
When you are sleeping with a woman you aren't married to, you expect to feel good.
Kiddo01: I've been thinking about this and so I decided to bring it here.
A friend of mine has been having issues with his wife for some time now. He said that the Parish Priest has advised both of them but without positive result.
But I keep wondering, is it that both parties do not want to settle their differences or is the reverend father actually giving the needed council? Is the reverend father who has not married before qualified to give advice on marital crisis? What do you think
manos: Note: it's a bit long... I could have summarized but I want those contributing to get a crystal clear picture of the situation, so that they can give better and specific advice.
The major problem here is that she mixes up things to be done in the kitchen with things done only in the toilet.
I have been married to my wife for over a year now (no kids yet) and there are certain unhygienic habits she has been displaying, since we started living together. I have been seeking ways to help her improve on it, but a calm correction from me always leads to a bitter argument between us. (She claims I complain too much whenever I point it out)
For example, she always clears her throat early in the morning and spits in the kitchen sink. (despite the fact that we have 2 toilets with wash hand basins; one in the room and also a guest toilet, with a wash-hand basin which is basically 3 steps from the kitchen). Then she goes to the bathroom, gets her toothbrush and comes back to the kitchen to brush her teeth, while doing several things with toothpaste and saliva drooling from her mouth all through.
The other day, she prepared breakfast (spaghetti) for both of us with the drooling toothpaste mouth and i refused to eat from it. I didn't complain to her either, until she asked why I didn't take my portion of the spaghetti from the pot, later that evening. I mentioned to her that, as always I find it disgusting to eat spaghetti, seasoned with toothpaste drool and saliva. The response I got from her was a hiss and then she said that, next time I should inform her if I am not going to eat the food she cooked so that she would not cook for me."
I let that slide but I felt she missed the point. The next day was her birthday and I decided to prepare breakfast for her. While I was in the kitchen cooking, she came in with the same drooling toothpaste mouth to take a kitchen Scissors in order to cut something on her pants, even though we have another scissors in the room for such purposes. In the process of trying to pick the scissors, her hands which were covered with toothpaste drool had to cross the pot which I was cooking with. I mentioned to her that I was not comfortable with that and she just hissed as usual, still picked the Scissors and left the kitchen while angrily saying that I am just a complainer. I lost it at this point and proceeded to give her a lecture in anger about basic hygiene and why I can not keep quiet over these things because we live in a shared space and how her actions have a direct effect on me. It ended in a shouting match till she kept quiet, without accepting she was wrong.
This is the pattern almost everything takes when I try to correct her. The worst part is that I would still have to be the one to apologize for shouting at her because if I don't, I might be subjected to a week long silent treatment which I dread.
There are other more unhygienic things that are done by her, which I might not be able to post here due to the fact that I am not completely anonymous and she is still my wife but I hope this information is enough for someone to understand my frustration and profer a solution.
Sir, you just need to keep up with the correction. The idea of going to beg her does not sit well with this at allllllll..however you look at it.
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