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ikorodureporta:
Source: https://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/headlines/407970-exclusive-people-can-mourn-me-the-way-they-like-when-i-die-obasanjo.html

As far as i am concerned both of them are the same. Obasanjo is only bitter because Buruji helped truncate his third term agenda.

Strepsil91:
You're right Doug, I gat this damaged sh*tter I've been assisting since the coronavirus lockdown started in the country, this pvssy gave birth and did what I don't know to the baby. She literally asked me to f*ck her and I refused. After giving birth, I payed for this LovePeddler's hospital bill when those motherfuckers*ckers who ripped her VJAY couldn't come around to help her get discharged from the hospital. This slowpoke left the hospital and within few days ran into a dude I know and propositioned him for whatever. Oh, i forgot to ask, she probably doesn't know her child's dad due to the fact that many dug in there. She has run wild ever since she left the hospital. There's nothing I didn't do to help this kid grow out of the lifestyle. I have broken every rule in the book to help her. She has asked me to date her and I pretend like I am but i don't and can't date her. She still prostitutes around, yeah, you read that right. Before she gave birth, I'll usually call her even as a total stranger to admonish her. I sometimes give her money to take care of herself and you know what she does? Yeah, she buys skimpy clothes to entice more men. She once used the money i gave her to eat to buy cloths with which she went to seduce a man in his office the same day I gave her the money. Hell no, i took this kid under my wing to help her stand. I tried the best i could to help her see her self worth. You can call me an angel in her life. I let her know she is beautiful and those men she fvcks around with should only be drooling for her body without ever touching it. I make her feel like she's worth more than Melania Trump by calling her sweet names. Men, i have been a father, a hypothetical husband(literally) a provider and a boyfriend. I have allowed b*llcrap from her that even her spiritual husband if she has any cannot ever allow. In fact, i don turn Jesus for this girl, the one that forgives sins and says, neither do I condemn you, go and sin no more. I've been a pastor and a spiritual guide, I pray for this kid yet, she can't change. She has the dumbest mindset of so many people I've come across. She still chases her fantasies and probably wants to catch a rich man who will be fascinated enough by the way she will whip him with her pvssy till he is confused enough to marry her. Damn, I captured it all enough to expose my identity if she comes across this. Only problem is, she is dumb enough never to read news on the internet. I downloaded and installed opera mini to her phone and she uninstalled it. Man, seems this one is made for the dust bin. I tried to build her but she's far gone. Finally, I thought it was simply because of her humble background, I only discovered that she is as vacuous as a goat. She is beguiled by a spendthrift lifestyle far above her begging grade(taa, which pay grade? She dey work?). I only hope she doesn't have the virus. She'll just die without any help. Finally, she is within the age bracket being discussed here, i don't know if that buttresses the point you are trying to make. I have a sister younger than her but smarter than this one. Not all of them are this dumb though. You could make such allusions about men but I have to tell you, I am in my late twenties but never seen any girls pvssy. I wouldn't allow pvssy to rule me. Still a proud male virgin.

Ma nigga!!!

Justice310:
I met him in church one Sunday morning. He sat next to me and I couldn’t help it but recognize the kind of gentleman he was. He was soft spoken and had this shyness on her face anytime he tried to talk to me. During the service, I realized he was finding it uneasy to sing along with the church because he didn’t come along with a hymn book. I shared mine. We both sang from the same hymn book and got closer as the service progressed.

After the last grace was said by the priest and the church dispersed, he turned to me and said thank you. I smiled and asked his name. “I’m Martin,” he said.

“Nice meeting you Martin” I responded. But before I could turn around and leave, he told me;

"Actually, this is my first time being here.” Amid smiles he continued. “and it’s great finding a friend at my first time in church. Do you mind if I called you sometimes?”

We exchanged contacts and left each other’s presence. Truth be told, I was going through the hardest times of my life. The man I’ve dated for about two years just called it quit and I was very devastated. I was nursing my wounds when Martin came along. He kept crossing my mind all week but I resolved not to call him until he does.

He never called until we met in church again the next Sunday. Inwardly, I felt guilty for thinking about him the way I did all week. That’s girlish. But we had another good service together, singing from the same hymn book and making fun under our breath.

After the service, he called when he got home. We started chatting on Whatsapp and grew closer together as the days pass. I shared my story of broken relationships with him and he was kind enough to offer soothing words. He didn’t judge me. He didn’t condemn my actions or sought to give directions as to how I should have handled things. He gained my trust that way and I opened up more.

He told me a little bit about himself. Nothing of note though, but I was happy he was overcoming his shyness. We grew closer and closer until finally, after about six months later, he made it obvious that he wanted us to date.

He didn’t propose to me. I don’t remember him telling me he loved me or wanted to be with me. He loved to act than to use words. We spoke more about it and decided to be in a relationship. He already knew my fears and easily accepted the conditions I laid down for the relationship. I told him; “I don’t want sex now. At least, if it should happen, it should happen after marriage, that is if you have any intention to marry me.” He only nodded and smiled. That day in his room, I remember we had our first kiss.

It was awesome! A lot of things started running through my head. Hey, I wasn’t a nun. I’ve had sex before and kisses this intense usually lead to sex. I remember grabbing him intensely like my whole life depended on him. I was shaking. I wanted something more than the kiss but I held on. He was gentle. The farthest he could go was to hold my head in between his palms, look me in the eyes and kissed intensely. I couldn’t breathe. I gathered the little strength in me and pulled away. I was panting like I’ve been running around for hours. The next words that came out were; “No more kisses until marriage. I mean it.”

For the next two years, we didn’t kiss and we never had sex. The farthest we went was to hold hands, lean on each other and occasionally cuddle. Martin was a good boy and I loved him dearly. We decided to get married after two years of being together. When we started counseling, our pastor wanted to be sure if we’ve had sex before. We had all the pride in us when we answered no. I don’t know if he believed us but we were telling the truth and didn’t care if he did. He only told us to be careful since it’s at this stage that all manner of temptations creep in. We knew our strength. We were sure we could scale above all temptations.

Our marriage arrangement was to have the traditional wedding and then do the church wedding in six months later. We started having troubles. The urge to have sex became greater. After all, we were going to marry so what stops us from having sex? In my mind, I wanted our first sex to be special. I wanted to blow his mind off during our first sex and what better moment to do it than to wait for the honeymoon? this thought kept me going. Two weeks before the traditional marriage, we spent most nights together in the same room and on the same bed. We had a lot of errands and arrangements to do and it was better we stayed together. But sex had a way of creeping into our minds.

I remember one night it turned into a serious scuffle. Martin wanted it. I’ve never seen him so aggressive. He was pushing and struggling with me to allow him to have s*x. To him, we were already married and didn’t see the reason to still cover the cookie. I implored. I fought him. At some point, I wanted to scream. What the pastor said was ringing loud in my ears; “it’s at this stage that all manner of temptations creep in.” Amid threats of screaming and loud prayers, I won and slept in peace. That wasn’t the last. We kept having series of minor fights because of s*x.

Days to the traditional wedding was tough. We could go all day without talking to each other. He was angry and I was angry. S*x was killing the beautiful thing we had together. But we soldiered on.

Finally, we did the traditional wedding. The pastor was there to pray and bless the union. During his sermon, he complimented us for staying chaste all this while and told us to still be strong and keep it till after the church wedding. I could see my husband restless and with a subtle frown.

The night after the traditional wedding we had a fight. Our first fight as husband and wife happened on a night we ought to be happy together. What brought the fight? SEX! Not That I didn’t want to have sex, I wanted to but the time wasn’t right. So I told him; “Didn’t you hear what the pastor said? This is not the real marriage so we can’t have sex. Hold it together. We are only six months away.”

After saying this, my new name was launched; “Madam-We-Can’t-Have-Sex, I hear you but tomorrow, I’ll have s*x somewhere else.” Did you hear what he just called me? Madam-We-Can’t-Have-S*x? At this point, I didn’t care who he would have sex with if only that would make him stay off me till our honeymoon.

For a week, we lived in the same room but talked less to each other. He was always angry with me. What a way to start a married life. I was determined. To me, that was the right thing to do. The church frowns on sex before marriage, not that I also frown on it, I had a different motivation. I wanted the first sex to be unforgettable. I was saving my best for last and for no one but him. So why was he rushing?

Then one night things got worse. Martin came home with a friend. He was too drunk he couldn’t have made it home without the help of his friend. We had spent two arduous months together. I was sad for him. “Is he going through all that because of sex?” I asked myself.

I left him in the coach till he woke up at dawn and came to sleep next to me. He was smelling like a rotten fish. I couldn’t stand it so I woke up, picked a pillow and started walking away to sleep in the coach. He pulled me over and tried forcing himself on me. We’ve been through this tussle over and over again and I always won. I was used to it. This time, something was different. He was stronger and determined.

We struggled and fought for about fifteen minutes. He seemed to get stronger by the minutes while I was losing steam. He managed to tear off my pant and held my two hands apart with his two hands. We were both left with our legs to struggle with. I got tired and realized I couldn’t fight any longer. I kept my calm. He sensed the victory and quickly dashed over to have me. That was when I raised my right knee and unfortunately, my knee caught him in the balls. He fell over and screamed out loud. He suddenly got frozen. I’ve never been scared in my life. I thought I had killed him.

I tried calming him down but he kept whining in pains. Neighbors who heard him screaming started knocking on our door. I rushed to put on a dress and opened up the door. It was very embarrassing seeing neighbors in my room trying to help him regain his calm. After a lot of going up and down, he regained his calm. We were left alone.

The next morning, he packed what he had in the house and left. I didn’t ask him any question. I feared he might hit me. I left to my parent. I kept playing out the incidence in my mind over and over again. I kept asking myself; “Did I take this no sex thing too far.” I believe I did. He never picked my calls for three days. My parent and I went to meet him and his parent to try and resolve the issue but he didn’t listen to a word of what we had to say. All he said was he wanted a divorce. Two weeks later, his parent and other family members came over to dissolve the marriage.

That was it. My marriage lasted for only two and half months. What breaks my heart is the fact that I gave sex to those who didn’t deserve it. They had sex and left anyway. This one—Martin did everything right but I allowed fear to take over my senses. Recently, I heard from another pastor saying that traditional marriage is also marriage and sex is allowed after traditional marriage. If that was true, how stupid could I be? I was married and I didn’t even know it?

Three and half years after our break-up, I attended a wedding—Martin’s wedding with another lady I knew so well. I’m here, still single after six years of our breakup. Guess what, I had a boyfriend. We had sex but the relationship didn’t go well so we broke up. Back to single again.



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phylshan:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/thenationonlineng.net/china-loan-amaechi-challenges-nass-to-publish-terms-of-agreement/amp/

See Amaechi talking like he wasnt in government during Jonathan’s time.

Ninobraw:
I am a guy of 29 years old and she's 24 years old. She is a nurse and she is working and earning good salary. We have been dating for the past 3 years, ever since she came into my life things have been moving forward. Between the space of three years I was able to buy a land and build two flat (almost completed) and also buy a nice car. All this was possible because she was in my life. She assisted me with the money she accumulated before she met me, (2 million naira) gave it to me to add it to the money I was using to build the house, she has really been the best thing that has happened to me. We both have never cheated on each other, I'm very happy having her in my life. During the period of covid 19 my business was shut down totally she was the one that sustained me Althrough and never complained.

She later resigned from her nursing work and started her own chemist shop, I supported her with 300k she rejected it and asked me to add it to the money for house project. She is making some good money from her store any way.

Now we plan to do our marriage by December and I budgeted more than 1 million naira.
the problem is that she insisted that it is too much that I should not spend more than 500k that's been a problem to us but later settle it. because she won't just listen to me she wants me to spend less than that the reason why I wanted to spend more than 1 million Naira was because she deserves it.

So because of that we adjusted the marriage to three months time since it's just 500k I am spending now my question is can I spend 500k for a moderate marriage? And I wanted to do something tangible for her because she deserve more than everything I have, please what other things can I do for her that will be equivalent to everything she has done for me.

Since we have been dating she has never asked me for big money and also when ever I give her she always tells me that she gat money that no need to give her, in fact she love me so much that she don't even accept money from me unless gift. Now I want to do something tangible for her because since I have been dating her she doesn't allow me spent on her that much, and she doesn't complain.

God help me to be a man that a woman loves. Guy, you dont know what you have. better listen to her

HappyNigerian:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/thenationonlineng.net/breaking-fg-rejects-increase-of-license-fee-for-courier-services/amp/

looks more like they were testing the waters.

Righteousness89:
How I Wish Dapo and Everyone of us will use this Same Energy used in Clearing his Name to Prepare ourselves, Clear our Names from the book of Death and Surrender to Jesus Christ...

How I wish Dapo and Everyone of us will use this Energy to Ensure our Names are Written in the Book of Life..

There is no lawyer or Arguments over there!

It's Either Proceed or Depart!

It's Either Welcome Home my Child or Depart from me ye that Work Iniquity!

Writing your name in the book of life is not done by a human being. God plans and does it. The names were written beforethe foundation of the world. If one's name isnt there, nothing on earth can make him or her repent. Repentance is done because the persons name was there in the first place.

But repentance and surrender to Christ is especially needful, in these dangerous times.

Mayor555:
Kai, just kill it there!

I'm telling him not to rubbish the baga job.
It's more prestigious than using it as a bargaining chip. So, what if he's not military, him no go buy car? If he's cheated, can't he seek redress? Come on, don't be a simp!


See this is my last reply to you....it seems to me, we're talking from differing orientations.

You to me sir, do not worth it. bye

I have a feeling you are apprehensive because its someone you cant cheat without consequences. If you are among the dubious ones, change. Its simple.

Mayor555:
Lolssssss, look at you... Just look at you.

Barrack! Hahahahaha

Some people are the ones in the barracks.
Some people are the authorities in the barracks.

Them dey use big gbola scare old mama?

I'm only trying to set him straight. Do not paint the Army job as measure for settling civil matters. It a job of prestige and honor! A very reputable one. A serious matter not frivolities.

I've been here for sometime, seen any bad report about me?

So if you're not a soldier or have a soldier friend, you won't be able to buy a good car? If matters arise, it can't be ironed out without you taking issues to barrack? Lolssssss...simps.

You're here blowing ofe anyhow.

Boss if na by barrack and using power...........

A well trained officer, won't even let you know he belongs to military. Talk more of bringing military power forward in a deal yet to start. Soo low..

Its not about whether you are scared or not. My worry is why the military part ticks you off. Keeps clarifying your person. See the epistle you wrote because someone said he is in the military.

Mayor555:
Sorry, what are you saying?
I'm trying to set you straight, you're still here talking out of context.

See boss, 600k cannot get you all that you listed.
And don't talk about consequences in barrack. You're being low bringing that forward in deal yet to start.
I'm being honest with you, you can't get what you listed for 600k.

Why do u have an issue with consequences in the barrack if you are honest and truthful? Why does that part of his writeup scare you? He has 600k. If you cant sell, let him go somewhere else. Whats hard in that?

Mayor555:
Barrack man!
Nothing will happen after you've inspected and paid!
Stop downplaying the Army job, to threaten civilians.
That job is full of prestige and honor.



With your budget you're most definitely going to get a bad car.

And I'm sure you're just a soldier or have a soldier friend. You definitely not an officer. An officer would rather apply due diligence.

To threaten civilians that are dubious. People who will tell you one thing and it turns out to be seven things

Kingpele:
Ok, it is important to be matured in your mind b4 u enter marriage life, so if u now marry her and she had to go through surgery to put to bed, considering the funds involved, u will just run off or disown your family... If u are not ready to foot the bill, why propose?... U better relax first and hustle, so that u won't bring children talk to this forum again...

Guy, how does a wife in surgery equate to a girlfriend in frivolous and fraudulent need?

generationz:
Why do people think it's impossible? Guys spend more than that on strippers in one night


One of the men recently arrested with hushpuppi gave a slay queen 20m so what's 500k to someone like that?

very good. emphasis on ' one of the men arrested with Hushpuppi'

Confusedgirl869:
Hello everyone. This account is created for this .

This issue has been bothering me a lot and I am very confused on what to do.

We have been together for more than 2 years now and we hardly have issues, infact we are a perfect match or so I thought.

I am 26 while he is 35, we both working and I never disturb him for money, I take care of all my needs myself. He is very calm and peaceful, doesn't hit me and I really admire him a lot. I on the other hand is also good, hardworking, not materialistic and all that makes a good woman.

So after thinking of our relationship thoroughly some weeks ago, I realised that there is really nothing stopping us from getting married this year or next. I decided to hear what he has to say because he never talked about us being or getting married. I also noticed that whenever he sees or hears about bad marriages he felt lucky he is not in yet. This always makes me feel bad because I know myself. I also wasn't a fan of marriage before I met him because of so many bad men out there, but everything changed when I met my guy, he is what I want. The very first day we met, the first thought that came to my mind was 'this is my him' I don't know why I had that thought being our first time meeting.

Anyways, few weeks ago I decided to ask him what his plans are. Are we in on a long thing or not? I got the shock of my life when he made me understand that he doesn't want to be tied forever, he loves his space and the way nobody disturbs him. That he only wants a baby mama, he wants me to be the mother his kids but not in marriage. I was mad and I cried for days. He was even sounding like nothing is wrong with being a baby mama, maybe not but I just can't.

Well, I made him understand that I can't be a baby mama and it will also be hard for me to move on with another person. I've bonded so well with him and all that. And I also hate jumping from one man to another. I told him to talk to people who are in successful marriages and stop looking at the bad ones. Today when we were talking I asked him about it and he is still maintaining his stand on the mama.

I don't want to give birth to kids that have 2 homes, I grew up like that(it took me lots of self discipline not to become useless) and wouldn't want that kind of life for my kids, I want them to grow with their parents in ONE house. At the same time, I don't want to lose my good man and relationship.

I need your opinions please.

At some point you just have to get used to it. You want this, he doesnt.
Baby-mamaism has nothing good to offer, however we look at it.
We just breed ungodly seeds here and there, calling it wokeness.
You may just have to move on dear, if you talk to him serially and he doesnt budge.
Bible says children from unmarried parents are ungodly.

rockstarB:
This is true, but we are hypocrite!
How many men will genuinely date a lady without asking for sex?
Men feels entitled to a woman's body, especially if you happen to be their girlfriend. It wont be hard hearing words like "you're punishing me" "you dont love me" how am I punishing you oga?
Worse off for a lady that has been involved with a guy before, men feel ladies like this do not have a right over their bodies anymore. It doesnt matter to them whether she wants to really get it right this time.

People talk about sexual compatibility, "what if we are not compatible", how many ladies or men will you sleep with before you find the sexually compatible one? What if he is sexually compatible but stingy? Emotionally manipulative, a beater and so on. Will you settle for someone like that has long as "sexually compatible"
Will you even be in your right mind to have sex with a sexually compatible patner that treats you like trash.

Sometimes we need to do a self evaluation, think about all the guys and ladies you have had sex with. Especially men, think about the ladies you intentionally lured to bed in the name of marriage, girls you broke their heart by getting them to be yours through sex; what has it profited you? Okay maybe a little boost of self esteem, but at the detriment of someone's emotional wellbeing. You can do better guys.

I am of the opinion that men and women that are genuinely looking out for partners to get married to do not put sex first, because they are aware that sex doesnt keep a marriage. It takes more than that. With all the premarital sex and sexual compatibility going on, see the rate of divorce all over the world.

Lastly, peoples view about marriage are different, there are men and women that do no want to get married, should they deny themselves sex because of this?
Abstinence is for our own good as long as both patner comes out clean, no lies.

Oh well, you can decide not to be married and have sex, only if you arent a child of God. Besides, one of these days we will discover how fool-hardy it is to think that the Word of God is for Christians alone. Its just a short time coming.

Oluromantic:
If you know who teni the singer is, you will know you don't have a problem. Teni will kiss, hug and whine waist for her crew guys and give them lap dance. She's known for who she is. Ppl have called her names...slut, loose girl, shapeless fattie etc. The girl no send, she just keeps glowing. So I'll give u same advice.. ignore them and be yourself.

She is loose. Case closed. A virtuous woman who knows her worth willl not do all of that except to her husband. Being foolishly oblivious is not a virtue.

MichealKin50:
My Fiancée Does This. What Does It Mean?

Good day all.

The lockdown has brought my fiancée and I more closer. She spends most of her time now in my place than hers. While staying with me, I one day carried her phone to make call I discovered she doesn't put password on her phone.

Just few days ago while she was sleeping, I used her phone to Google something online and something pushed me to open her Facebook app. When I open, I realized she deletes chats after conversation. I was looking for the messages I do sent her on Facebook and could not find any.

I can't figure out what this means.

Should we tell him?

Hisduchess:
Low budget atheist go get a life and stop talking nonsense.whenever you see any topic on Nairaland you'll like to show that you are an atheist whether it matches the context of the topic or not.

I CROWN YOU DELUDED KING OF OFF-POINT

You have too much time and energy i can see. Engaging people like that!

Anyone? I would like the older version. Just the game. Even if its without games

noakchukibadan:
Hello,

Please no ethnic banters. One of us is from Ekiti, and the other is from Benue. I am married for 8 years with 2 kids. It has been one problem to another.

I must be very frank, before marriage, my wife had many very questionable characters, but unfortunately we did the marriage counseling in a church were the pastor happened to be her family member. Many of the issues would have been resolved, but when I raised those issues about her character the pastor promised me that everything will be fine after the marriage.
Although this is not an excuse, but looking back now I would have been more patient and taken my decision myself instead of rushing into the marriage. For this I HOLD MYSELF ACCOUNTABLE

There is hardly nothing we do not quarrel about, I have always been the one to initiate settlement. The only way I ensure that there is peace in the house is for me not to complain about anything. Even at that, there is always trouble. If the children do anything wrong, she always says those characters the children are exhibiting are not from her and that she is not surprised that they inherited such characters from me.

She can go for months without talking to me, even if I tried to, I have done all I could do, I have begged, cried prayed. I just feel tired and exhausted from trying to make the marriage work or have peace in the home, the sad part is that she often reminds me every time there is misunderstanding that I should remember that she can stay on her own without talking to any body. Just to add, she is very prayerful.

OTHER INFORMATION.
1. I can say conveniently that there is no money problem at home. Finance is okay.
2. I went to see her father 2 years ago, the man said unfortunately he can not do anything. This is true because she was raised away from her Father, she has no contact with any of her fathers family and her father has a zero say in her life.
3. she has 5 elders ones, non of them is in communication with her because of many unresolved issues. Of her 3 younger ones she only maintains a relationship with the last boy who is just 14 years. .
4. Her mum can not talk to her because she simply dares not. However, behind, her mother use to beg me and she kept saying she understands her daughter's character and that she is doing her best by praying and doing deliverance for her.
5. She is not in contact with her maternal uncles and aunt because she said they supported her elder ones when she had problem with them.

So I am stuck with no one to help call the both of us and resolve the issue.

Every year for 5 straight years, she always forgets my birthday, last year, she forgot also, three days later, she bought me a present and I refused to collect the present and I asked her why does she keep forgetting my birthday, year after year for 5 years. She just said sorry, but I left the present in the room, she never bothered to bring the present to me. Another birthday was gone yesterday 2nd May, and as I write, no happy birthday yet.

I literally cook for myself, and all domestic things I do for myself.

I will end this by saying that in fairness to her, her character was not too different before the marriage and courtship, sincerely only once, that was like one year before the marriage I broke up with her, she came to apologize and promised that she will change. Her mother also came to apologize to me also.

This woman has refused to change or allow peace to hold sway, she is right every time, while everybody around is wrong. Sincerely, I do not know what to do anymore.

I am tired and exhausted. I do not know what to do anymore. I am 42, I was diagnosed of high blood pressure 2 years ago.

I am really sorry for all you narrated. But i will advise you keep praying. If you divorce her, just know you cant re-marry.

ikh777:
IF THIS WHOLE STORY IS TRUE, Then sir, you have tried. you need a clean break.

BAD CHARACTER is like TOOTHACHE... you may have to remove the tooth.

See, the pastor and family deceived you. This is why I hate how marriage is done in Africa, THEY LIE TO SINGLES CLAIMING AFTER MARRIAGE TILL WILL GET BETTER only to marry then they start preaching to you to MANAGE.

In NIGERIA, MARRIAGE = MANAGING.

So, I can not say it is a spiritual matter, but with all you have said I feel you should prayerfully divorce her. And move on with your life lest you die early of HBP.

prayer and divorce do not belong in the same sentence.

IamMichael:
Yes, you have nothing to say!

To people like you.

IamMichael:
Very unintelligent post... Israelites that are the play things of every big empire that ever existed is who is loved by their God?

You guys should stop reasoning like cave men... Germany almost exterminated the Jews save for the rest of the world who decided to save them...same way the world saved Armenia from extermination at the hands of the Othman/Turks Empire... Nothing special.

You guys should stop living in fantasy... Yahweh is just a regional imaginary bloodthirsty god whom the Jews worshipped and fantasized about to save them from captivity when they were the whip boys of their fellow Arab clans... Every informed person knows that that is why the Israelites of yesteryears fantasized about the coming of a saviour, a saviour that will extinguish and kill their captors and set them free.
Something that is very common among helpless captives with no hope of human rescue..

Today, the Israelites know better than to leave themselves to the mercy of imaginary deities... reason why they have put numerous resources into developing highly advanced weapons of mass destruction...

USA, RUSSIA, CHINA, ENGLAND, can all destroy Israel within a blink... Please be properly guided.


Jesus and the new Testament is not part of Jewish religious beliefs and texts.. So next time you want to talk about Israel and Jesus, remember this fact very clearly...


Regards!!!

I have nothing to tell you.

MrBrownJay1:
OF COURSE YOU DUMBOOO BECAUSE A SON CAN BE 5 JUST LIKE HE CAN BE 40.... your father will remain your father till you are 90yrs old, therefore you must always respect your father... so this verse is about the respect between a father and his "son", duh!
BWAAAAAAAH! you religious sheep are amazing...see how you twisted the above verse to fit your selfish agenda....kai! you guys are real DEMONS!!!!

ok no worries, i have plenty more for you (let see what kind of nonsense you are gonna come up with):

Exodus 21:15
“Whoever strikes his father or his mother shall be put to death.

Leviticus 20:9
“‘Anyone who curses their father or mother is to be put to death. Because they have cursed their father or mother, their blood will be on their own head.

again, we dont give a damn if any of such instance has been recorded (or not), thats your master's commandment, you can either follow them or dont, but dont selfishly take only what fits your narrow minded agenda from that evil holybook!

God isnt sentimental. What is right and not worth punishing about insulting your mother and being rebellious to them? You think God wants them to end up like the heathen nations that have no regard for holiness and righteousness?

The people God loves and values He has high standards for. Let me even add. If a man marries a woman who is not a virgin, the father will throw the first stone and the elders will follow suit until she is dead.

You think this Hollywood that has shaped our thinking and value system makes God change or lightens the way He views sin? Think again.

God loves the Jews jealously, thats why He separated them and gave them His own set of rules. Apart from when they sin against their God, was there any time they lost any battle? Even now, can any country of the world match Israel in any ramification of life?

There you go.

yinkaOdutuyo:
This is not a joking matter at all, I'm in love with my babe and she love me too.

But early this week, we had a misunderstanding of which I said if she cant agree to what I want we should quit the relationship, but instead she started crying alone in the room and did a WhatsApp video call showing me a bottle of snipper, she bought in the morning, which she was threatening to drink it and poison herself because I told her am quitting the relationship.

This is the issue that do happen


Bro, the issue that happened between us doesn't worth quitting a relationship, but I just decided..

What is happened is she like making Male friends of which am not comfortable with, of which I use to tell her but she wont listen, she just see it as normal stuff but I dont like it..

And I told her, if she cant do away with those male friend or making male friends, she should go and date them, I can date or keep a girl with many male friends.


I love her too, but she is doing what I hate most in relationship. She is keeping too much of male friends, which I warned her, but she refuse to change.


But after much begging and assurance she didn't drink the snipper, but she said she will keep it till the day I might say am not interested in the relationship anymore and she will kill herself and leave a note.

But she swear her life that any day I call off the relationship she will poisoned herself with the snipper she want to keep for other time.

She is a C&S girl she said, she love me and ready to marry me and she can do or undo to marry me, if truly I would marry her and she will stop making male friends or close male friends.

Pls what can I do about this?

She will drink nada.
This is emotional manipulation.
Why do i feel like you are the side nigga in the relationship?
Emotionally manipulating you with suicide while she frolics around.
What is so hard in dusting off unnecessary male besties if she really wants to be with you for the long haul?.
Be a man and stand your ground. She no get that kind mind.
She has just seen your weakness and is exploiting it.

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Romanoff:
Are you saying that every man that is friends with a woman is going to sleep with her? I've had male friends that I could talk to about my relationship to get a man's perspective on things. I have male friends who are my movie friends or male friends who are my friends from school, mostly post graduate school. I have male friends from church who are even married and they help me pray and grow, especially now that my wedding is coming up.

A friendship can't just end tomorrow, you know this too. I'm sure you still have friends from your primary and secondary schools. Why haven't they ended?

A wise woman selects her crowd. If you have to keep pushing her to make better choices about the crowd she moves with, it's either she's not ready for where you're going, so look for another woman or that kind of crowd is exactly what she likes.

Choose someone who shares the same values as you do. Only God is the potter that can mould man. I've Seen people who try to "mould" their spouses into who they are not regret it terribly.

Pick someone whose values aligns with yours and who you can live with bases on their character or flaws, not based on how you would like them to be.

Nine and a half times out of ten, a man and a woman who get close will roll in the hay. Its biology. People just like an atmosphere of absolute freedom to chase wiles that have hooks calling it fun.

Romanoff:
Are you saying that every man that is friends with a woman is going to sleep with her? I've had male friends that I could talk to about my relationship to get a man's perspective on things. I have male friends who are my movie friends or male friends who are my friends from school, mostly post graduate school. I have male friends from church who are even married and they help me pray and grow, especially now that my wedding is coming up.

A friendship can't just end tomorrow, you know this too. I'm sure you still have friends from your primary and secondary schools. Why haven't they ended?

A wise woman selects her crowd. If you have to keep pushing her to make better choices about the crowd she moves with, it's either she's not ready for where you're going, so look for another woman or that kind of crowd is exactly what she likes.

Choose someone who shares the same values as you do. Only God is the potter that can mould man. I've Seen people who try to "mould" their spouses into who they are not regret it terribly.

Pick someone whose values aligns with yours and who you can live with bases on their character or flaws, not based on how you would like them to be.

I honestly dont buy this male bestie thing. I don't.
Cheating is not just sex. The loyalty will be divided. There would be things the husband will not know about his wife and the best friend would. What kind of thing is that?

But then i agree with the part of move with your crowd. If someone i want to marry has a male bestie, and i talk about it to no avail, that ends it.