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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by MomentMan(m): 10:40pm On Dec 29, 2021
How did she got your number to call that she lost her phone?

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by Snitch24(m): 10:41pm On Dec 29, 2021
Buy ur self a nice shoe instead grin

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by thinkmoney(m): 10:41pm On Dec 29, 2021
dboY1123:
I just met this beautiful girl, and I'm already all over her.. She's not in a relationship but definitely guys are disturbing her even her ex's.

I asked her to come over to my place and she did, we went out together and get some stuffs and we head back home(my place). So, I decided to ask her out one on one in my place and she said NO, she's still finding it difficult to go into another relationship.. When she left my place for her house just two byke away, someone stole her phone from her bag(she called me to tell me) the bag was open by the time she got home.

My question now is, should I ever think of getting her a phone? I still don't know my stand in her life, I really love the girl but ain't acting like a simp whatsoever.. But the fact that she lost her phone after leaving my house is what bothers me.

Please what should I do?
If u decide to buy her one, just know that it isnt dignifying for u to go later and forcefully take back the phone if things didn't work the way u hope. Because she has jejely told u now that she isn't interested oh
Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by kkins25(m): 10:42pm On Dec 29, 2021
She con your house con loss phone. chai!! Whay a coincidemtalist. grin grin grin
Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by cpu2006(m): 10:43pm On Dec 29, 2021
dboY1123:
I just met this beautiful girl, and I'm already all over her.. She's not in a relationship but definitely guys are disturbing her even her ex's.

I asked her to come over to my place and she did, we went out together and get some stuffs and we head back home(my place). So, I decided to ask her out one on one in my place and she said NO, she's still finding it difficult to go into another relationship.. When she left my place for her house just two byke away, someone stole her phone from her bag(she called me to tell me) the bag was open by the time she got home.

My question now is, should I ever think of getting her a phone? I still don't know my stand in her life, I really love the girl but ain't acting like a simp whatsoever.. But the fact that she lost her phone after leaving my house is what bothers me.

Please what should I do?

But the fact that she lose her phone after leaving my house is what bothers you.........lie lie guy, just tell us u want bribe her in other to show her love
Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by eyenogoquiet(m): 10:44pm On Dec 29, 2021
Ocholu:
Let me be real with you OP;

Na person wey go hurry buy her phone now, go begin de shift her pants. Don't come and open another thread soliciting for help if you fail to do the needful.

PS: Avoid redpillers here; they're bitter because ladies always reject them.
E been get when you post say yu were once a simp oo. Wey the owe person 10 million o.
Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by Ybaby: 10:44pm On Dec 29, 2021
SankaraSo:


You are not smart

Your mother wore Arsenal Jersey and Wrapper to church on Christmas day.

But you want to buy phone of N60,000 for a girl who adds NO value to your life.

Be gathering ancestral curses, you hear!

Well! he cannot fcuuk his mother! Can he ?

Of cos he must look after his mum but he must also woo a nice lady who he can plant his seed in and bring his lineage forth (his mum cannot do it for him)

OP buy the phone if you can but do not expect nothing.... continue to try to win her heart and be ready to work hard to provide for her and the kids she may have for you.

Best of luck.

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by obinna58(m): 10:45pm On Dec 29, 2021
dboY1123:
I just met this beautiful girl, and I'm already all over her.. She's not in a relationship but definitely guys are disturbing her even her ex's.

I asked her to come over to my place and she did, we went out together and get some stuffs and we head back home(my place). So, I decided to ask her out one on one in my place and she said NO, she's still finding it difficult to go into another relationship.. When she left my place for her house just two byke away, someone stole her phone from her bag(she called me to tell me) the bag was open by the time she got home.

My question now is, should I ever think of getting her a phone? I still don't know my stand in her life, I really love the girl but ain't acting like a simp whatsoever.. But the fact that she lost her phone after leaving my house is what bothers me.

Please what should I do?
It's good she didn't ask you to buy her phone
Ask her if she manage a smaller phone for just calls, she says yes, you get her one. She says not the type she wants then ghost yourself and watch her next action.
If she doesn't get to you let her go.

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by fineboynl(m): 10:45pm On Dec 29, 2021
If you will regrets you action later. Abort the mission..

Follow your innermost voice.

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by capnies: 10:46pm On Dec 29, 2021
dboY1123:
I just met this beautiful girl, and I'm already all over her.. She's not in a relationship but definitely guys are disturbing her even her ex's.

I asked her to come over to my place and she did, we went out together and get some stuffs and we head back home(my place). So, I decided to ask her out one on one in my place and she said NO, she's still finding it difficult to go into another relationship.. When she left my place for her house just two byke away, someone stole her phone from her bag(she called me to tell me) the bag was open by the time she got home.

My question now is, should I ever think of getting her a phone? I still don't know my stand in her life, I really love the girl but ain't acting like a simp whatsoever.. But the fact that she lost her phone after leaving my house is what bothers me.

Please what should I do?

I CAN TELL YOU SHE IS LYING

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by Livelystone01: 10:46pm On Dec 29, 2021
dboY1123:


I've called the number it was going before then switched off till now..
She called me with her sister's phone and was begging me to check my house if it's there she left it, but I knew the phone was gone because sango ota guys no get joy..any smehsmeh your things don go and she be all this ajebutter smh
How long have you known her and how come she knew your number in her head?
Just asking before i make my comment.

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by DavidHarry(m): 10:47pm On Dec 29, 2021
dboY1123:
I just met this beautiful girl, and I'm already all over her.. She's not in a relationship but definitely guys are disturbing her even her ex's.

I asked her to come over to my place and she did, we went out together and get some stuffs and we head back home(my place). So, I decided to ask her out one on one in my place and she said NO, she's still finding it difficult to go into another relationship.. When she left my place for her house just two byke away, someone stole her phone from her bag(she called me to tell me) the bag was open by the time she got home.

My question now is, should I ever think of getting her a phone? I still don't know my stand in her life, I really love the girl but ain't acting like a simp whatsoever.. But the fact that she lost her phone after leaving my house is what bothers me.

Please what should I do?

Don't buy her a phone. She refused to come to go to your house
Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by Nyascobar1414: 10:49pm On Dec 29, 2021
GoodHardDick:


My brother, simps will always be a simp,,, simply because they think with their emotions instead of thinking logically with their goddamned brain.

The OP is even proud of being a simp! Chai angry

Bro let him go astray dont save him..
They are Iredeemable

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by Caleycash(m): 10:50pm On Dec 29, 2021
dboY1123:


She's coming over to my place today, what do you think?
Tell her you've bought the phone and its on its way via jumia and you are tracking it, use fake jumia phone pictures being sent, you can also Google and download phone receipts, this will calm her down, then finally go to the carburettor... if she refuses ur approach you already know the deal except you are a stupid idiot not even a simp!... you have to be very crafty and smart when it comes to women, most just wants to ruin men's life, so first outsmart them!

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by Ocholu: 10:51pm On Dec 29, 2021
eyenogoquiet:

E been get when you post say yu were once a simp oo. Wey the owe person 10 million o.

Bro, these are different case studies.
Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by Tosin17(m): 10:53pm On Dec 29, 2021
From the very short time you met, does she have your number off hand? Or how did she get your number when she had already lost her phone? Somebody is about to be scammed.

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by larula: 10:54pm On Dec 29, 2021
tunjilee003:
you be detective, the babe is trying to suck him,she thinks buying her a new phone really shows Op love her... You better use your head...

I detect any fishy moves from that particular gender.. Not the money o but e pain to be played by Shiba

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by ediko5(m): 10:55pm On Dec 29, 2021
everythinggirly:
Do you love her?
Maybe marry her.

Someone is talking about one week friendship and you're talking about marriage?

Na so marriage be child's play?

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by Caleycash(m): 10:55pm On Dec 29, 2021
thinkmoney:

If u decide to buy her one, just know that it isnt dignifying for u to go later and forcefully take back the phone if things didn't work the way u hope. Because she has jejely told u now that she isn't interested oh
No be only dignifying na digital... shey na dignity hussle money for m abi!?... make una start to get sense for this country, rubbish forming of manliness. That's why men die earlier, I will even collect pant I bought for her if possible, I prefer to be called stingy than mumu man!!!

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by Lindodo20: 10:55pm On Dec 29, 2021
dboY1123:
I just met this beautiful girl, and I'm already all over her.. She's not in a relationship but definitely guys are disturbing her even her ex's.

I asked her to come over to my place and she did, we went out together and get some stuffs and we head back home(my place). So, I decided to ask her out one on one in my place and she said NO, she's still finding it difficult to go into another relationship.. When she left my place for her house just two byke away, someone stole her phone from her bag(she called me to tell me) the bag was open by the time she got home.

My question now is, should I ever think of getting her a phone? I still don't know my stand in her life, I really love the girl but ain't acting like a simp whatsoever.. But the fact that she lost her phone after leaving my house is what bothers me.

Please what should I do?

Mugun

Senior Mugun
Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by Plesh12345: 10:56pm On Dec 29, 2021
Phone wey he don already buy give her �

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by Mrphylor09: 10:56pm On Dec 29, 2021
No way sad shocked sad

Raju, daju, kanra ,seka

Ma ra phone fun oooooooooo



dboY1123:
I just met this beautiful girl, and I'm already all over her.. She's not in a relationship but definitely guys are disturbing her even her ex's.

I asked her to come over to my place and she did, we went out together and get some stuffs and we head back home(my place). So, I decided to ask her out one on one in my place and she said NO, she's still finding it difficult to go into another relationship.. When she left my place for her house just two byke away, someone stole her phone from her bag(she called me to tell me) the bag was open by the time she got home.

My question now is, should I ever think of getting her a phone? I still don't know my stand in her life, I really love the girl but ain't acting like a simp whatsoever.. But the fact that she lost her phone after leaving my house is what bothers me.

Please what should I do?
Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by jaxxy(m): 11:01pm On Dec 29, 2021
dboY1123:
I just met this beautiful girl, and I'm already all over her.. She's not in a relationship but definitely guys are disturbing her even her ex's.

I asked her to come over to my place and she did, we went out together and get some stuffs and we head back home(my place). So, I decided to ask her out one on one in my place and she said NO, she's still finding it difficult to go into another relationship.. When she left my place for her house just two byke away, someone stole her phone from her bag(she called me to tell me) the bag was open by the time she got home.

My question now is, should I ever think of getting her a phone? I still don't know my stand in her life, I really love the girl but ain't acting like a simp whatsoever.. But the fact that she lost her phone after leaving my house is what bothers me.

Please what should I do?

This type of act almost made me break up with a gal. I don’t like careless people who come up with stories and sad songs every other day.

Wether u buy the fone or not u have seen ur red flag.

Are u her father or mother? Why should u buy the fone for her? Tell her to ask her parents.

Or better yet tell her u will buy her a Fone by don’t buy anything. I know it’s not nice bt hey it’s a jungle out there. grin

Do u think it’s a coincidence u asked her out and she said No and same day her for got missing?? I think not. undecided

She’s playing the romance psychology on u bruh u better not drop the ball. grin

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by justli: 11:02pm On Dec 29, 2021
How did people become this fickle? Simple decision on whether to buy a friend a phone or not, you are asking internet.

If you cannot make simple decisions, how are you ever able to make life changing decisio

You have head, learn to use them and trust your judgement even if it comes out bad...like all things, we get better with practice.

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by Ajmoziz(m): 11:06pm On Dec 29, 2021
SankaraSo:


You are not smart

Your mother wore Arsenal Jersey and Wrapper to church on Christmas day.

But you want to buy phone of N60,000 for a girl who adds NO value to your life.

Be gathering ancestral curses, you hear!
Please how do you know he wants to buy her a 60k phone huhhhhh and
Why are you insulting his mother,if you have nothing to say,keep to yourself
Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by obstead200(m): 11:08pm On Dec 29, 2021
dboY1123:
I just met this beautiful girl, and I'm already all over her.. She's not in a relationship but definitely guys are disturbing her even her ex's.

I asked her to come over to my place and she did, we went out together and get some stuffs and we head back home(my place). So, I decided to ask her out one on one in my place and she said NO, she's still finding it difficult to go into another relationship.. When she left my place for her house just two byke away, someone stole her phone from her bag(she called me to tell me) the bag was open by the time she got home.

My question now is, should I ever think of getting her a phone? I still don't know my stand in her life, I really love the girl but ain't acting like a simp whatsoever.. But the fact that she lost her phone after leaving my house is what bothers me.

Please what should I do?
If u have cash u can give away without feeling the pain, then buy her a phone and consider it as a bet u placed on lotto or betnaija.
U may win, u may loose. So use cash u wont regret losing.

Long ago, I had a crush in similar situation. I was toasting her and she turned me down. Her phone got stolen and she used all sorts of indirect speeches to pass the message that she wants me to buy her a phone.....yet she have not accepted my proposal, she wants to be just friends grin grin grin

Well when I got fed up with the several innuendos she kept passing on the phone matter, I simply laid my cards on the table:
She got the message

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by Danny5050: 11:08pm On Dec 29, 2021
Better be wise... How can you go and buy another phone for her just like dat..

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by spiceadole: 11:12pm On Dec 29, 2021
SankaraSo:


You are not smart

Your mother wore Arsenal Jersey and Wrapper to church on Christmas day.

But you want to buy phone of N60,000 for a girl who adds NO value to your life.

Be gathering ancestral curses, you hear!

Because he wants to fvck the girl.
He cannot fvck his mother.
That's why he is considering buying her the phone

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by obstead200(m): 11:14pm On Dec 29, 2021
Ocholu:
Let me be real with you OP;

Na person wey go hurry buy her phone now, go begin de shift her pants. Don't come and open another thread soliciting for help if you fail to do the needful.

PS: Avoid redpillers here; they're bitter because ladies always reject them.
my dear brother, u could be very wrong ooo.
Most ladies are heartless in such matters

If I were unmarried, I can spend small small chicken change cash on a lady I am toasting....just to water the ground and improve my chances. But it must be money wey no go too pain me if she turn me down.
The day will NEVER come when I will make a major spending (money wey I go feel the pain...... wey go touch me for body) on top a babe wey I never begin dey Knack.......... except that lady is my mum, my sisters or my relatives.

If a girl does not accept u when she is not in need, she is unlikely to accept u just because u solved her need.

Be wise oooo

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Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by HRMK: 11:15pm On Dec 29, 2021
i think she is playing a fast one on u!even if u give her benefit of doubt,its too early to start spending on her!!
Re: Am I Taking The Wrong Move Buying Her A Phone? by Alaganature09(m): 11:16pm On Dec 29, 2021
dboY1123:
I just met this beautiful girl, and I'm already all over her.. She's not in a relationship but definitely guys are disturbing her even her ex's.

I asked her to come over to my place and she did, we went out together and get some stuffs and we head back home(my place). So, I decided to ask her out one on one in my place and she said NO, she's still finding it difficult to go into another relationship.. When she left my place for her house just two byke away, someone stole her phone from her bag(she called me to tell me) the bag was open by the time she got home.

My question now is, should I ever think of getting her a phone? I still don't know my stand in her life, I really love the girl but ain't acting like a simp whatsoever.. But the fact that she lost her phone after leaving my house is what bothers me.

Please what should I do?


It’s ok to get her a phone since she lost it on her way back home, but bro I for like make u bless me with 3k I go really appreciate am

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