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Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by ExudeLoveToAll: 10:12am On Nov 16, 2022 |
Sweetvie: Why wouldn't I allow her? Is she an alien? Life is too short to bear all the problems of this world. When people have the mindset of giving in two dimensional way rather than unidirectional way life is easier and softer for all parties. Giving isn't gender based, all genders should learn the act of giving. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by PaAdu02(m): 10:13am On Nov 16, 2022 |
Shut up olosho…So on a date she wants champagne ontop Ice cream,then 3 meat pies ontop rice and you think that’s sensible?U re just too senseless,I follow ur comments,they ve never made sense.If she’s ordered rice and champagne for the date ,it can still be a pass mark,but her thieving throat want to run the guy local and reverse was the case.She deserves it. And as for you ,grow up and don’t be stupid till infinite Sheistoopretty: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by LordReed(m): 10:14am On Nov 16, 2022 |
CheapHomes1: Has nothing to do with I wrote. Have your breakfast and read it again. |
Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by SMGGroup: 10:15am On Nov 16, 2022 |
Medianna: Your understanding of what he said in the context of the event preceeding it is flawed 1 Like |
Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by StrongAlphMale: 10:17am On Nov 16, 2022 |
Medianna: You're saying complete rubbish. As long as you're not married to a man, he is not responsible of taking care of you whatsoever. It is the duty of your parents to do that!!! The only women God created for a man to maintain is his mother, sisters and his wife. Anything aside this is transactions in which of course you're a prostitute 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by Sweetvie: 10:17am On Nov 16, 2022 |
ExudeLoveToAll:wow! You guys have change! Lol What happened to ego, self respect and being a gentleman?! That's true tho'but that only happens when you date ur caliber... Stop dating a girl that still need urgent 2k |
Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by seunak2016: 10:17am On Nov 16, 2022 |
Abfinest007:imagine what she order? rice and meat pie for take-away. she deserves what she got. op should have just take the idiot to hotel room straight and see greenlight before he pay for ridiculous bill like that |
Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by pelepeleb: 10:17am On Nov 16, 2022 |
Female should learn not to depend on male in situation like this. Be moderate in your thinking and not God brought this today, let me eat it to the bone. That is what that female did without sense. Sheistoopretty: 1 Like |
Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by DimIsaac10(m): 10:22am On Nov 16, 2022 |
Endorsed.
You are now a comrade. 1 Like |
Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by Nobody: 10:22am On Nov 16, 2022 |
Babara1994: You Bleep..Ed up.. reason is because you allowed her chose the meeting point. And not just allowing her, you stood right in front of her when she was ordering those stuff and you were looking.. i can tell the both of you didn't sit and talk for an hour before the ordering.. Person like me , we sit highest 30 minutes before i will call the waiter. And even if i call the waiter, it's whatever i buy for myself that i will buy for her. Will look at their menu, and we will both deliberate on what to order. Nor be this random ordering way she go do for your front and you come here dey tell us say you want make she pay for her own. Note: if i take you go eatery you don't order more than me... This is the reason you have to know a woman in depth before takinng her out. Any way sha, hope she pay her bills laslas |
Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by mystery22: 10:22am On Nov 16, 2022 |
Op you did well, don't listen to those broke wretched bixtches or stupid weak azs men saying otherwise |
Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by StrongAlphMale: 10:23am On Nov 16, 2022 |
Medianna: I just checked your profile picture and I'm not surprised. Poverty has really dealt with you, hence the reason for this entitlement mentality of yours |
Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by CheapHomes1: 10:24am On Nov 16, 2022 |
LordReed: same thing we are saying. since you have had your breakfast, am surprised you cant answer the questions i asked. you obviously didnt read the story. who invited who out? why didnt the lady tell the guy that shes hungry and that she is going to eat like a glutton? |
Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by Sweetvie: 10:24am On Nov 16, 2022 |
Jman06:Lmao... If i go on a date, i pay my bills and you pay urs. That's me, you won't go out telling how much you spend He did Maybe op don dey form for am She com think say na big guy Op didn't like her... Am sure if it a beauty with figure 8 it will be another case entirely Op will even be asking her if that one is enough. |
Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by Faposky95: 10:24am On Nov 16, 2022 |
as much as this is real and that we live in a very confusive space..... my heart still goes out to our sisters who keep feeling entitled in relationships ... i see our sisters hold on to their punannies like a ranson for you to pay.... ....but imagine this...if this country was good enough to take care of its women .....economically..and more (not like America..) most of their goofs may have been curtailed they suffer economically, mentally, physically...and all they're trying to do is to meet up to the kind of men this same environment has morphed MEN into (sadly savages)..... sad...... |
Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by Elsueno: 10:25am On Nov 16, 2022 |
jeff1607: Though I understand where Babara1994 is coming from, He should have informed her B4 they arrived at d location or cautioned her during d order, personally I think he just got turned off by what he saw & decided to end things dat way... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by MNDY(m): 10:25am On Nov 16, 2022 |
Medianna: No SPENDING at all. A boyfriend should only DASH his girlfriend money any amount anytime he feels like. Spending will involve buying her things and giving her money to buy particular things. But DASHING her money is giving her free money anytime for her to get anything she likes and it does not have to be big amount. Una wan finish 9ja guys. E go change very soon sha. There is a serious reorientation going on. 1 Like |
Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by LordReed(m): 10:25am On Nov 16, 2022 |
CheapHomes1: You can repeat it as many times as you like and you will get the same answer. Read it again. |
Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by Cullinane: 10:26am On Nov 16, 2022 |
Sheistoopretty:Broke self-entitled bitch like you that can't afford sanitary pad is talking about ordinary ice cream. Please STFU abeg. Calling him a simp as if no be your brother and father be the simps. With your very ugly face when resemble horse yansh. Mumu 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by ExudeLoveToAll: 10:27am On Nov 16, 2022 |
Sweetvie: When it comes to ego, it is far from me. It's not even about dating ladies that are jobless, it is a society thing the orientation of most females from this part of the world. Someone who have that mindset of symbiotic relationship doesn't even need to have all the money on Earth, some have the money but don't have the partnership mindset but a few got it. Stories abound where guys who are even less financially abundant than their partners but still foot all the bills. For me this life is too short to put one in a disadvantaged position of carrying all the problems associated with dating on ones head. It could lead to the man been in the rat race all the days of his life. Symbiotic relationship is the key. I agree with you it's pertinent for people to say within their circle or not too far off while dating but there are exceptions though. Some are givers but lack the means to give in proportionate matter at present. 1 Like |
Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by Slickbishop(m): 10:28am On Nov 16, 2022 |
[quote author=Sheistoopretty post=118423733] Wailings of a poor wretched simp turned Redpiller wannabe so ordinary rice and ice cream is what u couldn't pay for and u are here already giving motivational advises All these BJRAN (Broke and Jobless Redpillers Association of Nairaland) boys sef I have one thing to tell you. GROW UP! [/quo U r very stupid 2 Likes |
Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by Medianna(f): 10:28am On Nov 16, 2022 |
StrongAlphMale:This one you're on top of my matter mentioning everywhere and tryna insult me belittling me and all of that. I just hope at the end of the day. You go and check your mental stability and blood pressure. It will help alot |
Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by pansophist(m): 10:29am On Nov 16, 2022 |
She asked for a date, not you. She also choose an expensive place, instead of a moderate one. Then she ordered things that will be termed expensive and excessive. Champaign, three meat pie, etc. What you did is the right thing. She didn't come for you, she came to bankrupt. A man should always pay for a date, but there are specific rules to follow. Eg a woman showing up with her friends on first date is an exampleexample of a date you must not pay. People are always planning to use you, you prevent it with your sense. You did the right thing. And for that, I crown you with the 'order of masculinity'. A man must always set the structure, and you must not bend it for the convenience of a woman that sees you as a target. 14 Likes |
Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by Unrated900(m): 10:30am On Nov 16, 2022 |
Your sentence thus-: I paid for mine ONLY and told her to settle her bill. It led to an argument and all eyes were on us. I left the place and insisted she settled her debt. You are not a matured guy at all A real guy man no go do wetin u do.. A real guy man go tell am say babe what you are ordering is much.. You went there to Dissgrace ur self And not the babe.. Once again You no be OG at all. |
Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by FashionCookie(f): 10:31am On Nov 16, 2022 |
MNDY:Bros, this is Nigeria. Whether you complain from now till tomorrow, guys will still pay the bills. Come Warri make u come see as e dey play. They even pay for flights for some of these girls. So whether you complain or not there are niggas(plenty of them for that matter ) that are on standby. Ready to spend d cash... Who do you think spoil these girls and give them the entitled mentality? Abegi 1 Like |
Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by Jman06(m): 10:33am On Nov 16, 2022 |
Sweetvie:Well, it's good you pay your bills. You'll gain more respect from guys with that attitude. You're right sha, op clearly didn't fancy the babe. But I believe that even if a girl has figure 8 but she's the one that asked a guy out on a date, the guy should resist every temptation to foot her bills. That's our latest definition of a 'real man' or redpiller |
Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by ExudeLoveToAll: 10:34am On Nov 16, 2022 |
bisiswag: If he doesn't pay for your meal he is a dunce and the lady should move on? What a mindset. You should have stopped at 'let this be a lesson for all girls in the dating pool, take ur cash n order what you can conveniently pay for' 1 Like |
Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by Unrated900(m): 10:34am On Nov 16, 2022 |
Men and guys here Stop supporting bullshit What this guy is totally wrong. U suppose beg for forgiveness Once again you error. A lady choose an expensive place Yet u went there U asked her to ordered which she did Finally u messed her up Tel us this babe na tinder girl Cos na tinder babe Dey do this shit a lot.. Once again a slap for u |
Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by MNDY(m): 10:36am On Nov 16, 2022 |
FashionCookie: Na mumu dey pay bills of girl wey e neva marry. Many guys don dey soji. As e dey go now, very soon the mata go change. In the nearest future, if you wan dey do all dah mumu for babe, your own guy men go begin change am for you. 2 Likes |
Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by kologba: 10:36am On Nov 16, 2022 |
Konjiboii:u talk from both side of ur mouth 1 Like |
Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by doshiyad1: 10:40am On Nov 16, 2022 |
Babara1994: You are the real comrade with the original vawulence iswear. Kai! 1 Like |
Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by FashionCookie(f): 10:40am On Nov 16, 2022 |
MNDY:As it was in the beginning...(help me complete am) You know, my kid sist and I were laughing about this same issue days ago. Guys dey spendddd 4get all these social media talk. I have a girlfriend a guy is asking out(only asking out o) takes care of her sub everyyyy weekend. So what do we call that? It's normal for men to cheat, right? It's normal for guys to spend on ladies. They will just come online to play strong guy. Them dey spend shege for one erima for corner. No be guys again? Hahahaha...abegi |
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