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Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by Nobody: 9:27pm On May 29, 2018 |
samyfreshsmooth:yea she would still have cheated on him but on a more coded levels |
Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by Dillusionist(m): 9:29pm On May 29, 2018 |
LifeofAirforce:oh shut up. stop shielding laziness. for complete 3years,a man like you is busy prancing his streets with dreadlock and empty pocket just like you prance romance section with eggs and milk. the lady didn't even made mention about his hustling ,cos had it been he's a hustling guy,it would have given the op hope,but he's been jobless for 3years. what happened to engaging in teaching job or something and keep waiting for better choice;he just folded his alms to be fed like a baby. cut the crap of ritual cos you don't even know the said customer. I'm not supportive of her cheating on him,but what's the probability that the said bf will still marry her after these wasted years. let's tell ourselves the truth abeg. 11 Likes |
Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by pocohantas(f): 9:31pm On May 29, 2018 |
greiboy: It happens,which is why I don't see need accumulating male friends when I am in a defined/serious relationship. I don't want confusion in my life. The people she cheated with, are most likely someone's BF too. It starts from just a friend, till it progresses to something else. 6 Likes |
Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by samyfreshsmooth(m): 9:35pm On May 29, 2018 |
@dillusionist don't know why i can't quote you but anyways, you didnt have to type your first paragraph cos i aint disputing the fact that anyone can cheat in a relationship regardless of their status or that of their partner i'm only saying a person can also love genuinely (just as he/she can also cheat) in a relationship regardless of their financial status or that of their partner and we dont know and cant say for sure if the said broke guy forgave the lady cos he "loves her genuinely" or not so it won't be wise for us to make assumptions like you did (all in the name to support the lady and perharps make the guy look like the vilian) from op's story, the only thing we can confirm (and not assume) is/are: 1)op is a confused hoe (to be fair, she's a hoe looking out for her future)....... 2) op's boyfriend is broke,....and 3) op likes her new bestie more and feels only pity for her soon to be ex check my posts too, and you'd see i HATE long talks as much as u do!! 2 Likes |
Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by LifeofAirforce(m): 9:36pm On May 29, 2018 |
Dillusionist: I don't read long stories Keep it brief if you must quote me 2 Likes |
Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by Nobody: 9:39pm On May 29, 2018 |
pocohantas:hmmm I guess you are working to avoid it because your are decent A lady that is soliciting for a " bestie customers" like op (op no pun intended) should have worked to avoid it too. The fact that despite his alleged " good boy behavior" the op is still entertaining the idea of cheating on him the third time is alarming 1 Like |
Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by samyfreshsmooth(m): 9:40pm On May 29, 2018 |
lefulefu: well yes, thats highly probable (girls will always be girls afterall) but do you agree he could also have forgiven her twice if he was rich and she still cheated? |
Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by austyn0(m): 9:42pm On May 29, 2018 |
lefulefu:The girl mumu no be here. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by Dillusionist(m): 9:44pm On May 29, 2018 |
samyfreshsmooth seen. yes,sure. but that's if you are sure that it is leading to somewhere. ops bf is very clueless and jobless. I can never trust the love a broke guy,you don't know what the person has in turn for you after he must have made it in life. op knows what's best for her,and ain't supporting her in anyway,I'm just being real. thanks for your points. 2 Likes |
Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by Dillusionist(m): 9:45pm On May 29, 2018 |
LifeofAirforce:k |
Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by Nobody: 9:45pm On May 29, 2018 |
samyfreshsmooth:he would have dumped her long ago if he had dough 2 Likes |
Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by pocohantas(f): 9:45pm On May 29, 2018 |
greiboy: Because you shouldn't forgive cheats. It leads to see finish! LOL @ bestie customers. If you're in a job/business that makes you talk with customers a lot, you will meet lots of temptation. See, OP's boyfriend has stopped being mysterious. There is no respect again and his condition only makes it worse. 1 Like |
Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by Fourwinds: 9:49pm On May 29, 2018 |
donstan18:I don't have anything to say again....you have actually done a proper job 2 Likes |
Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by Nobody: 9:55pm On May 29, 2018 |
pocohantas: @ forgiving boyfriend, Yes, which was why I called op's boyfriend" paper boyfriend in the first place" There's no business that one won't have to interact with people at least once a while, Nonetheless, there's a great difference between interacting and falling in love with a customer There was no respect to begin with that is why she cheated on him twice. He is merely a figure head (insurance) that might lead to something serious in the future, but the op is no longer interested in paying the premiums 5 Likes |
Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by samyfreshsmooth(m): 9:56pm On May 29, 2018 |
Dillusionist: we don't know if he's clueless................,....we only know he's jobless (according to the op) but like you said, in the end, only op knows what she wants and what's best for her @bolded...............you do have a valid point........ it's just like how i can't trust a broke girl who claims to love me cos i wont know if it's trully me she loves or my bar and thanks for "being real" 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by samyfreshsmooth(m): 10:01pm On May 29, 2018 |
lefulefu: ahan! if "he would have dumped her long ago if he had dough", how are we now sure or now assume that she would still have cheated even if "he had dough" or are you saying THE girl would have rtill cheated girls (or the op is/) are naturally promiscuous and would cheat regardless of how rich or poor their male partner is? 1 Like |
Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by Fourwinds: 10:02pm On May 29, 2018 |
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Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by djgrafiti(m): 10:17pm On May 29, 2018 |
@Op I hope ur definition of ur said customer being nice is not because he gives u money and material gifts,a rich guy can give u heaven and earth just to get what he wants as long as he can afford it....marriage is a different ball game don't get carried away by niceties. |
Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by Nobody: 10:18pm On May 29, 2018 |
samyfreshsmooth:abegii its not about weda her guy is broke or rich.some girls are just natural cheats..its in their blood.even if they get married to bill gates they will still cheat but codedly.its only when such ladies are with broke jobless men that they are confident in flaunting their cheating ways at him knowing there"s nothing he can do and if he also has low self esteem.all these sugar mummies that fuk small small boys and have lovers....hope u know most of these sugar mummies are married to senators,rich top class business moguls etc.they collect hefty sums of money from their wealthy husbands and lavish it on their younger lovers .ur money cant stop a woman cheating on u.she will only do it discretely to avoid ur wrath . 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by Draei: 10:19pm On May 29, 2018 |
pocohantas:Oh really, is that the best you could come up with for the male gender? Speak for the male folks underneath thesame roof you came out from. At times, the way some of you NL teletubbies make hasty generalization bothers me. 4 Likes |
Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by Cynie42: 10:22pm On May 29, 2018 |
Lalasticlal Mynd44 |
Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by IamPlato(m): 10:23pm On May 29, 2018 |
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Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by Draei: 10:26pm On May 29, 2018 |
Cynie42:You are obviously taking advantage of the fact that you are more financially capable than he is at the moment. Hence for smooth sailing towards simultaneous cheating. I really don't think you need any advice, you've done it once, twice and the third is loading already, please what fuckinq advice you need again? Just feel free and continue with your chosen pattern of life style since you now see a new customer as a bestie over a 3 year old bf of yours. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by samyfreshsmooth(m): 10:31pm On May 29, 2018 |
lefulefu: wow! see revelation thank you boss for this timely unveiling of the truth wetin man go con do now cos man must still marry later.............................or make we just ahbolish marriage? 1 Like |
Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by pocohantas(f): 10:34pm On May 29, 2018 |
Draei: What's the generalisation there? Isn't he broke? With no self-respect? If you wanna speak for your brothers, by all means do. I ain't gat time for this dude... 3 Likes |
Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by Draei: 10:42pm On May 29, 2018 |
pocohantas:You can stay all night long asking me what you generalized in your comment alright...go back and read up your post. Just like I said, if those you grew up with ''male folks'' don't and find it hard to forgive cheats, then it's your family's business. Stop bringing that here, painting 'men' the way you just did. It reeks ignorance of the male world. That's all I've got to say to you. Ciao! 4 Likes |
Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by antidisestablis: 10:57pm On May 29, 2018 |
Cynie42:You are already cheating, you are having emotional affair , I don't just know most of these ladies we have now a days cannot set boundary for themselves. The only advise I have for you is to leave that poor guy now because u will effectually break his heart. I just pity the poor guy, women are the most confused being on earth. |
Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by Nobody: 11:05pm On May 29, 2018 |
pocohantas: but erm . . .i thought you were an advocate of hoarding? 1 Like |
Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by Nobody: 11:24pm On May 29, 2018 |
samyfreshsmooth:ehn na to get a good girl wey really love u .at least a good girl that truely loves u will always be loyal.even this op sef..if she eventually dumps her broke boyfriend for this rich wey she dey yarn about..no surprise dat in the future she fit dey go behind this rich guy back go dey meet her ex broke boyfriend 4 endless nacking . 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by CanineOfJackal: 12:05am On May 30, 2018 |
pocohantas:You are always mouthed. Fire on 2 Likes |
Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by CanineOfJackal: 12:08am On May 30, 2018 |
Cynie42:Livingfree just give your opinion and remember "No insult plz" |
Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by CanineOfJackal: 12:12am On May 30, 2018 |
pocohantas:I'm taking this to the bank. |
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