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Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by Nobody: 12:22am On May 30, 2018
CanineOfJackal:
Livingfree just give your opinion and remember "No insult plz"

My sweet darling daughter, come closer... be nice and life will be nice to you. Be honourable, but first Google the word, and life will honour you. However, if... you get the pattern here?

Basically, drop the dicks and pick up the books! angry
Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by Cynie42: 3:36am On May 30, 2018
Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique diz is really sad that I opened diz thread in a wrong section
Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by Paulpaulpaul(m): 5:15am On May 30, 2018
Dillusionist:
that your best friend will turn to your worst enemy when the chips are down.



countless relationships has ended because of bestie.
any lady,that comes close to my bf as a bestie will hear nwii from me.






Good lady, I don't like bestie nonsense. Why can't she make her bf bestie
Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by rex444(m): 5:30am On May 30, 2018
This must be Nina or Nina's sister

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Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by samyfreshsmooth(m): 8:13am On May 30, 2018
lefulefu:

ehn na to get a good girl wey really love u .at least a good girl that truely loves u will always be loyal.even this op sef..if she eventually dumps her broke boyfriend for this rich wey she dey yarn about..no surprise dat in the future she fit dey go behind this rich guy back go dey meet her ex broke boyfriend 4 endless nacking cheesy.


cheesy cheesy
This one just off me cheesy
Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by Nackzy: 8:34am On May 30, 2018
Your just a cheat and you will remain a cheat cos from all indications you have money so u don't have any excuse whatsoever to cheat on that innocent guy ..that means even wen u marry and ur husband has money the same spirit that posses u now will still posses u in marriage....u need Jesus

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Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by Hotguy27: 8:35am On May 30, 2018
donstan18:
Argh! what are you waiting for? shocked

Say YES to him nh, when you see another closer customer, say YES to him again, If another customer comes close, say another YES and on and on like that.

Just keep saying YES to customers like an OH YES member, even if na mad man, just say YES to him, just keep saying YES to anything that has preeeq, even your neighbor's goat embarassed

Then when they are done pounding your body like fufu, by 40 you'll end up in church, shouting "Satan die by fire" "Die by fire" "Die by fire" embarassed


Nonsense and ingredient! embarassed .....C'omon will you get out of here and go get your PVC embarassed embarassed embarassed

This response no be here ooo. Lwkmd

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Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by Nobody: 8:35am On May 30, 2018
Cynie42:
Fellow nairalanders. I am confused please, i own a supermarket and v been in a relationship with my current bf whoz not yet working after his Nysc, we v been dating for 3 years now and it has been going well even though I v cheated on him twice, but he forgave me, hez nice. My problem now is that I v a customer, we are extremely close to the extent that we do discuss everything together. am even now closer to him than my bf, hez like a bestie.

But hez now asking me out and pple are telling me to answer him saying its advisable to date ur best friend than anyone else and I don't want to hurt my bf anymore and I don't want to hurt this guy too, he has bin nice to me...pls what's ur take on this, what do you advice i should do?

No insult plz
Borehole.
Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by Toks2008(m): 8:39am On May 30, 2018
pocohantas:


Nah, he isn't nice. He is broke and it has obviously affected his self-esteem. Men are not magnanimous enough to forgive a cheat and not bring it up later. This is the reason I would break-up with him, if I were you. You're definitely not going to start a marriage with him, having that in mind. That's me assuming you guys will marry, which is highly unlikely, considering the pressure ladies face and how long it takes a young man to stand on his feet.

You both are definitely going to part ways, LATER.
So, why not now?


If you like the other guy, give it a shot(with your head). It's a vicious cycle. Some young guy has to lose his girlfriend for an older financially stable guy to get married smiley

But this your title sha @ jobless boyfriend. Looks like his joblessness is a problem o. Try not to cheat on your next.
Makes sense.
Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by BlackHatNaija: 8:40am On May 30, 2018
donstan18:
Argh! what are you waiting for? shocked

Say YES to him nh, when you see another closer customer, say YES to him again, If another customer comes close, say another YES and on and on like that.

Just keep saying YES to customers like an OH YES member, even if na mad man, just say YES to him, just keep saying YES to anything that has preeeq, even your neighbor's goat embarassed

Then when they are done pounding your body like fufu, by 40 you'll end up in church, shouting "Satan die by fire" "Die by fire" "Die by fire" embarassed


Nonsense and ingredient! embarassed .....C'omon will you get out of here and go get your PVC embarassed embarassed embarassed
Dude something is wrong with you. You cracked me up grin

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Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by chinwey: 8:40am On May 30, 2018
Meaning you want to eat your cake and have it. You are a slut and unreliable person. You want today and get tomorrow. so go ahead and ruin your life . Please dnt come back her crying for husband . or accusing your late late uncle of bewitching for not getting married. asawo
Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by Nobody: 8:40am On May 30, 2018
Cynie42:
Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique diz is really sad that I opened diz thread in a wrong section

It needs to be moved to the Joke section undecided
Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by Kyllahmc(m): 8:40am On May 30, 2018
donstan18:
Argh! what are you waiting for? shocked

Say YES to him nh, when you see another closer customer, say YES to him again, If another customer comes close, say another YES and on and on like that.

Just keep saying YES to customers like an OH YES member, even if na mad man, just say YES to him, just keep saying YES to anything that has preeeq, even your neighbor's goat embarassed

Then when they are done pounding your body like fufu, by 40 you'll end up in church, shouting "Satan die by fire" "Die by fire" "Die by fire" embarassed


Nonsense and ingredient! embarassed .....C'omon will you get out of here and go get your PVC embarassed embarassed embarassed
Kai.. this guy wan kee me with laugh this Early morning...

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Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by munalight(f): 8:40am On May 30, 2018
Umu Nwanyi ooo...Na God hand our matter dey.
Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by Jethrolite(m): 8:40am On May 30, 2018
Cynie42:
Fellow nairalanders. I am confused please, i own a supermarket and v been in a relationship with my current bf whoz not yet working after his Nysc, we v been dating for 3 years now and it has been going well even though I v cheated on him twice, but he forgave me, hez nice. My problem now is that I v a customer, we are extremely close to the extent that we do discuss everything together. am even now closer to him than my bf, hez like a bestie.

But hez now asking me out and pple are telling me to answer him saying its advisable to date ur best friend than anyone else and I don't want to hurt my bf anymore and I don't want to hurt this guy too, he has bin nice to me...pls what's ur take on this, what do you advice i should do?

No insult plz
Please stop torturing yourself. You are trying to tie yourself to a person you have moved on from. Just make sure the new guy is worth it and won't be a hit and run guy. Your supposed boyfriend is humble and nice because he does not have money and you probably give him a life line. Once money comes, he will most likely abandon you. Play your game smartly, life has no second takes and there's no time to waste.
Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by Codeman01(m): 8:41am On May 30, 2018
donstan18:
Argh! what are you waiting for? shocked

Say YES to him nh, when you see another closer customer, say YES to him again, If another customer comes close, say another YES and on and on like that.

Just keep saying YES to customers like an OH YES member, even if na mad man, just say YES to him, just keep saying YES to anything that has preeeq, even your neighbor's goat embarassed

Then when they are done pounding your body like fufu, by 40 you'll end up in church, shouting "Satan die by fire" "Die by fire" "Die by fire" embarassed


Nonsense and ingredient! embarassed .....C'omon will you get out of here and go get your PVC embarassed embarassed embarassed


Bros u wicked no be small ooo grin she will also say yes to you before she finish selling her pronto , but like seriously she doesn't have a heart, she has a container full of poisonous stuffs, she cheated on a innocent soul just because is passing through a temporary tough period.
Please leave him and let him pick up himself from apiece and move on without rugged olosho.
He will be far better off without unsung heroes claiming to be his heart rob. Go with ur bestie and start distributing pass like iniesta and xavi, mind u those two even get old and retirea

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Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by sammirano: 8:41am On May 30, 2018
Rubbish, they are all the same
Hoes
Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by shugacain: 8:42am On May 30, 2018
my advise is if you love your boyfriend, with your bestie please raise money for your your boyfriend and send him forth, let him start a business now you are morally right to leave him, atleast for compensation for all the dick he gave you
Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by southernbelle(f): 8:42am On May 30, 2018
pocohantas:


Nah, he isn't nice. He is broke and it has obviously affected his self-esteem. Men are not magnanimous enough to forgive a cheat and not bring it up later. This is the reason I would break-up with him, if I were you. You're definitely not going to start a marriage with him, having that in mind. That's me assuming you guys will marry, which is highly unlikely, considering the pressure ladies face and how long it takes a young man to stand on his feet.

You both are definitely going to part ways, LATER.
So, why not now?


If you like the other guy, give it a shot(with your head). It's a vicious cycle. Some young guy has to lose his girlfriend for an older financially stable guy to get married smiley

But this your title sha @ jobless boyfriend. Looks like his joblessness is a problem o. Try not to cheat on your next.

You made a lot of sense.
Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by Postanalyser: 8:42am On May 30, 2018
3 year old dating? God punish Satan.

i can never risk my emotion all in the name of dating.i bleep u and u go,i marry after 2 months of meeting my wife(hope it will be soon shaa)

Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by Lexusgs430: 8:43am On May 30, 2018
Cynie42:
Fellow nairalanders. I am confused please, i own a supermarket and v been in a relationship with my current bf whoz not yet working after his Nysc, we v been dating for 3 years now and it has been going well even though I v cheated on him twice, but he forgave me, hez nice. My problem now is that I v a customer, we are extremely close to the extent that we do discuss everything together. am even now closer to him than my bf, hez like a bestie.

But hez now asking me out and pple are telling me to answer him saying its advisable to date ur best friend than anyone else and I don't want to hurt my bf anymore and I don't want to hurt this guy too, he has bin nice to me...pls what's ur take on this, what do you advice i should do?

No insult plz

By the time this customer eats your forbidden fruits, he would dump you like a very hot potato, back on the supermarket shelf......
Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by AkpaMgbor(m): 8:43am On May 30, 2018
My dear OP, don’t mind the hypocritical males here..life is too short! Enjoy your life and freedom..after all it is your body, so do with it whatever you want...
Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by diamond88: 8:45am On May 30, 2018
God knows I can't forgive a cheating partner, not even forgiving twice.
My advice for the lady is to break up with his guy and move on to her new lover

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Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by AkpaMgbor(m): 8:46am On May 30, 2018
sammirano:
Rubbish, they are all the same
Hoes
Because she decides to use her body the way she wants now makes her a hoe? Where is the ‘freedom’ you nairaland males have been championing lately?
Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by holluphemydavid(m): 8:46am On May 30, 2018
Cheerful giver, ur story had bin read, continue cheat, and ur jobles bf will dumb ur dumb ass cos u started it
Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by Nobody: 8:46am On May 30, 2018
OLOSHOOOOOO.COM.NG grin grin
Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by delivryboy: 8:48am On May 30, 2018
When a Nigerian girl says "he's nice" it only means he gives 'MONEY'

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Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by Babyforever(f): 8:49am On May 30, 2018
LifeofAirforce:
I don't abuse people but this OP na Ashewo

She no get levels at all

I pity the man that will marry you because your Toto go don wide like borehole
You're also a love peddler because you date multiple girls before getting the recent one pregnant
Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by braxjay(m): 8:49am On May 30, 2018
CAPSLOCKED:



# YOU'VE ALREADY MADE UP YOUR MIND ON GOING OUT WITH THIS NEW GUY AND CHEATING AGAIN.. FORGET ABOUT WHAT PEOPLE HAVE BEEN TELLING YOU, THAT'S NOT AN EXCUSE CUS YOU ALREADY WANT IT.

# YOUR BOYFRIEND WILL FORGIVE YOU AGAIN, AND ENDURE THE PAIN. HE'S BROKE AND DEPENDS ON YOU.. YOU HAVE A BUSINESS, SOME MONEY.. HE DOESN'T REALLY HAVE ANY OPTIONS THAN TO SMILE IN THIS OPPRESSION.

# HOW DO YOU GET TOO ATTACHED TO A CUSTOMER (YOUR NEW BESTIE) TO THE EXTENT YOU'RE CLOSER TO HIM THAN YOUR MAN OF 3 YEARS?

JUST ACKNOWLEDGE YOU'RE A GAMER AND STOP LOOKING FOR APPROVAL FOR ANYTHING BY CREATING THREADS SEEKING ADVICE WHEN DEEP DOWN YOU'VE MADE UP YOUR MIND.

I FEEL FOR PEOPLE LIKE YOUR GUY.. WHO FORGIVE BETRAYERS MORE THAN ONCE.
IF YOU SAY SORRY AND STILL SCREW THINGS UP SAME WAY THEN THERE'S NO REASON TO STICK WITH YOU.



i agree with most of your points but not totally with #2.
She thinks he has forgiven her, reality is NO MAN EVER REALLY FORGIVES INFIDELITY some may but highly rare.
he depends on her for what she can offer him now (money and sex)
should he get a good job he would remind her of her deeds.
almost too sure he known about her activities with the new bestie but decides to overlook it .

sorry to say but OP you are not a good person the earlier you acknowledge this to yourself the faster the change comes.
Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by Jackipapa: 8:51am On May 30, 2018
You really are a wonder

You are NOT a faithful Lady for relationship. You have lived in dishonesty and its all because of MONEY and Greed.

you are also materialistic (NO MATTER HOW YOU DENY IT, YOU ACTUALLY ARE.)

You have lied to your boyfriend and you feel you are better than him, so why are you still MANAGING him, he no longer appeals to you so leave him... you have HURT him beyond what he can imagine but because he does not know that is why he is still sucking up to u.

The new guy whom u called BESTIE may be the one you should marry (i.e If you wont CHEAT on him too with a new bestie when he gets boring).

You need to realize you will not be YOUNG FOREVER, and you may actually be lazy to WORK on your RELATIONSHIP. You are DOUBLE MINDED.

So pls make up your LIFE by making up your MIND to be FAITHFUL AND LOYAL.

Your bestie MUST always be your LOVER.... So stop deceiving yourself.

THIS IS A BITTER TRUTH, BUT SWALLOW IT AND IT WILL CURE YOU.


Truth. Read all the above twice and you may get sense if you only want.
Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by LifeofAirforce(m): 8:51am On May 30, 2018
Babyforever:
You're also a love peddler because you date multiple girls before getting the recent one pregnant

Please don't you ever quote me to spew rubbish this early morning

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