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Before you ladies respond to this, I'll like to say that most of you are simply cowards. Why waste time making subtle gestures towards a guy you like in hopes that he will read your gestures as greenlights when you can simply just walk up to him and tell him you like him? A lot of us would appreciate you more if you did this. Most guys can't even interpret your green lights and most of you in attempt to show these green lights end up giving mixed signals.

What's the point of giving green lights even? You fear rejection but yet you expect men to overcome their own fear of rejection and approach you?

Why would you have a crush on a guy but expect him to be the one to text or call you first? Why don't you be the first to text or call?

So in leiu or all this, please tell us guys how you indicate that you are attracted to is and explain how you expect us to proceed. How do you show your greenlights? What are those subtle behaviors we guys should look out for?

Take them to a traffic light and kiss them when it turns green.

Zangazanga:
Take them to a traffic light and kiss them when it turns green.

Dry.

It is really subtle, especially if a lady is a church person like me. I gave my husband green, blue, brown even white light before he could understand.

Attack him
Appreciate him
Laugh at his jokes that are not funny
For the spiritual ones. Tell him I'm praying for him
Find an opportunity to talk/greet to him
Second his comment in meetings etc

When you have the cash, I mean lots of it, ladies are gonna give you all the light weather green, blue abi black without hiding it.

At the sight of money, they already started a relationship with you in their minds. When you have the cash, I mean lots of it, ladies are gonna give you all the light weather green, blue abi black without hiding it.

At the sight of money, they already started a relationship with you in their minds.

vickydankal:
It is really subtle, especially if a lady is a church person like me. I gave my husband green, blue, brown even white light before he could understand.

Attack him
Appreciate him
Laugh at his jokes that are not funny
For the spiritual ones. Tell him I'm praying for him
Find an opportunity to talk/greet to him
Second his comment in meetings etc

The bolded is exactly how most men are. We find it hard to determine whether these gestures you mentioned are hints of attraction or just the case of a girl being nice and friendly.

I wonder why green light in 2019 should be encouraged



Where are our regional feminists?

twhy111:
When you have the cash, I mean lots of it, ladies are gonna give you all the light weather green, blue abi black without hiding it.

At the sight of money, they already started a relationship with you in their minds. When you have the cash, I mean lots of it, ladies are gonna give you all the light weather green, blue abi black without hiding it.

At the sight of money, they already started a relationship with you in their minds.

Everything isn't always about money bro. A woman can like a guy for other qualities besides money. What if a girl finds a guy physically attractive and just wants to have sex with him?

Varlfott:
The bolded is exactly how most men are. We find it hard to determine whether these gestures you mentioned are hints of attraction or just the case of a girl being nice and friendly.

I thought as much. You won't believe after we came together, he said he thought I was just be nice. Can you imagine after all my efforts.

By smiling @ dem

Most guys are dat blind....they wont even notice d greenlight.

My brother be at alert I repeat be at alert, the enemies spy is enquiring... Owigina Twamadol Extwa? Malians con fowod...1 2 3 5 no 4

I'm a man not a lady sha, but I'm still gonna share an experience I had at lectures long long time a go. A lady sitting next to me at d lectures started scratching her head so intensely and at a point I felt like maybe she was trying to get my attention but I still didn't do anything sha, even a lady opposite us just kind of looked at both of us sharply as if we both involved in d drama. Was dat a green light or was she genuinely disturbed? Who knows?

Varlfott:
Before you ladies respond to this, I'll like to say that most of you are simply cowards. Why waste time making subtle gestures towards a guy you like in hopes that he will read your gestures as greenlights when you can simply just walk up to him and tell him you like him? A lot of us would appreciate you more if you did this. Most guys can't even interpret your green lights and most of you in attempt to show these green lights end up giving mixed signals.

What's the point of giving green lights even? You fear rejection but yet you expect men to overcome their own fear of rejection and approach you?

Why would you have a crush on a guy but expect him to be the one to text or call you first? Why don't you be the first to text or call?

So in leiu or all this, please tell us guys how you indicate that you are attracted to is and explain how you expect us to proceed. How do you show your greenlights? What are those subtle behaviors we guys should look out for?

Lieu
I push him to the wall and kiss him, that does the trick most times

Ladies don't ever try it you'll be consider cheap and they would use you to count score.......Nigerian men don't understand the word EASY they value it when they hustle to get you.....

Varlfott:
Everything isn't always about money bro. A woman can like a guy for other qualities besides money. What if a girl finds a guy physically attractive and just wants to have sex with him?

Maybe those ones in their teenage years.
A typical Nigerian lady is entering the relationship for Atleast some personal benefits and money always top the list.

Physically attractive
Here in naija if monkey wear suits na fine boy ooo!
Forget that thing.

- some people are shy
- some people are not outgoing
- some people are old-fashioned
- some people dont believe n making the 1st move
- some people dont believe in women approaching men

... and thats ok, to each their own.

Nigerian ladies have no green lights. Mark my words.

Many things men mistakenly count as green lights are false alarms. All men are victims of this.

If you like a lady simply approach her nicely, if she rejects, move on and try the next girl.

Ignore all greenlights if you don't want to make a fool of yourself.

I am not a lady, but having had a lot of ‘green lights’ I’d suggest you take note of these:
1. When a girl smiles sheepishly whenever you make eye contact.
2. Whenever a girl always wants to accompany (or escort) you to wherever you are going or wants you to escort her to where she is going.
3. When a lady is always keen on tasting your cooking or cooking for you. When that’s all she talks about.
4. When she always talks about love or relationships or marriage or sex. Either directly or indirectly.
5. When she always wants to visit or wants you to visit her.

One or more of these things are indications that the light is green. Ladies can I get an amen!

Varlfott:
Everything isn't always about money bro. A woman can like a guy for other qualities besides money. What if a girl finds a guy physically attractive and just wants to have sex with him?

Oga, this is Nigeria. Most of our ladies have been Genitally mutilated (circumcised) and therefore do NOT like sex nor have any urge for sex because their erotic zones have been chopped off during circumcision. That is why it appears as if the only way they can be attracted to you is through your money and other material things you can offer. .

vickydankal:
It is really subtle, especially if a lady is a church person like me. I gave my husband green, blue, brown even white light before he could understand.

Attack him
Appreciate him
Laugh at his jokes that are not funny
For the spiritual ones. Tell him I'm praying for him
Find an opportunity to talk/greet to him
Second his comment in meetings etc

Jw right,,,

My attention is hard to get.....
If I give him enough attention and he still doesn't get...

I move....No time ..

Jodha:
My attention is hard to get.....
If I give him enough attention and he still doesn't get...

I move....No time ..

Keeping on moving till you arrive at Shiloh... See you there

FanOfMyself:
Keeping on moving till you arrive at Shiloh... See you there

I ...my husband and my kids will see yhu there....with a innocent lady's picture that obviously don't care if yhu exist

Jodha:
I ...my husband and my kids will see yhu there....with a innocent lady's picture that obviously don't care if yhu exist

But you didn't say that you are married, sorry oo. So you are married, I no know oooo

FanOfMyself:
But you didn't say that you are married, sorry oo. So you are married, I no know oooo

I'm not married...but I sure will be married by then...

donbachi:
Most guys are dat blind....they wont even notice d greenlight.

some naija babe will give you greenlight and still be acting funny

vickydankal:
It is really subtle, especially if a lady is a church person like me. I gave my husband green, blue, brown even white light before he could understand.

Attack him
Appreciate him
Laugh at his jokes that are not funny
For the spiritual ones. Tell him I'm praying for him
Find an opportunity to talk/greet to him
Second his comment in meetings etc

You did not give any other guy green light aside your husband?

Emodeee:
You did not give any other guy green light aside your husband?

Before him I did, but later found out he was not born again. Then I off the gen supplying the light lol.

Thegeneralqueen:
Ladies don't ever try it you'll be consider cheap and they would use you to count score.......Nigerian men don't understand the EASY they value it when they hustle to get you.....

You are wrong. Maybe some are like that but definitely not all, nowhere near all. So why should you keep silent when you can get what you want?
Anyhow sha, men are always the courageous ones.

Jodha:
I'm not married...but I sure will be married by then...

Okay, I wish you the best

Abcdefghij10000:
Lieu
I push him to the wall and kiss him, that does the trick most times

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