Kenplay:
At this stage of my life when am still on the journey of my dream is when I thought am suppose to find a true lover who will be with me and enjoy the fruit our labour in the future but the opposite is the case because ladies am meeting and dating are all after the here and now, even the ones that pretend to love you will start showing you their real character after few moment in the relationship.
Am not poor, I can provide the basics of my life and even for my siblings but I cant call myself rich for now because am still young and building my future.

I dont think I will ever love or be committed to any woman if I become rich and successful in the future because when I needed true love must have past by. I may just have baby mamas, sex mates but not any lady I will ever call a lover. Even if I eventually marry I wont be committed to her because I know she never came into my life when I was still struggling.

etrange:
Lol... Would you still blame pretty ladies who believe every man is only interested in thier physical appearance? I guess it's human nature. Even me, when I bought my first iPhone, every body became a suspect.

At the end, we shouldn't let whatever we have turn into a source of anxiety. To have peace of mind, trust your partner till they prove not to be trustworthy.

Kenplay:

Thanks, do you wants to have contacts?

Kenplay:
At this stage of my life when am still on the journey of my dream is when I thought am suppose to find a true lover who will be with me and enjoy the fruit our labour in the future but the opposite is the case because ladies am meeting and dating are all after the here and now, even the ones that pretend to love you will start showing you their real character after few moment in the relationship.
Am not poor, I can provide the basics of my life and even for my siblings but I cant call myself rich for now because am still young and building my future.

I dont think I will ever love or be committed to any woman if I become rich and successful in the future because when I needed true love must have past by. I may just have baby mamas, sex mates but not any lady I will ever call a lover. Even if I eventually marry I wont be committed to her because I know she never came into my life when I was still struggling.

MrBrownJay1:


thinking that "true love" is easy to find... let alone in a poor country where people's main worries is to get 3 square meals a day, shows you are still a learner. even with all the billions in the world, you can still find love from someone that isnt after your money. nothing worthy in life is easy to attain...

Chadansi:
Pele

My dear leave this love issues...o
Focus your energy and thoughts on building the future you are striving at.. And what will happen will happen

And besides most Quality Girls are also busy building a future for themselves...

Some people are 'lucky' to meet someone they can build with...Others are not

Moreover when you eventually get to the Top, you'll have better taste in Women and broader circles.So chill out!
If you get to meet a Woman you struggle with you to get there,fine.
But if you don't... you'll still have the choice of being with One who's already there

Mobilecrewnet:


Oga, calm down. You met the wrong people... The lady that has been destined to be with you is coming. Don't rush it.

emmaodet:
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Hmmmm
True but what if he didn't get to the top? Because the so called top, seems like an illusion/ a mirage that just keep giving us this false hope not to give up or commit suicide.
A lot will dream and work towards the top but only a fraction will either get there or get to the middle.

Kenplay:

Am not sure you read the post, you just rush with your mr know it all to expose your silly ignorance.
Am the one that will teach how to love a woman because I know what it entails but the problem is that this ladies are full of self centeredness and greed.
Please next time read before you comment

Chadansi:


True
But then Fantasy and illusion is a necessary ingredient for living...
And the so called Hope is the thin line that keeps our sanity even in hard

Yes,the bad news is:there is no Guarantee of getting to the so called Top or getting
success
But the good news is: It isn't impossible either
It is true that there is a crowd of us that wants or dream of it
but it wouldn't be called the Top if everyone was up there and there was no ground

And at the end of the day,the Top is virtually what we define it to be
It is how far we've come from were we once were

All we can do is Try to move ahead

Kenplay:
At this stage of my life when am still on the journey of my dream is when I thought am suppose to find a true lover who will be with me and enjoy the fruit our labour in the future but the opposite is the case because ladies am meeting and dating are all after the here and now, even the ones that pretend to love you will start showing you their real character after few moment in the relationship.
Am not poor, I can provide the basics of my life and even for my siblings but I cant call myself rich for now because am still young and building my future.

I dont think I will ever love or be committed to any woman if I become rich and successful in the future because when I needed true love must have past by. I may just have baby mamas, sex mates but not any lady I will ever call a lover. Even if I eventually marry I wont be committed to her because I know she never came into my life when I was still struggling.

alwayssparkling:


yes sir. who knows, it may lead somewhere and even if it doesn't there will be no negatives

Chadansi:
Pele

My dear leave this love issues...o
Focus your energy and thoughts on building the future you are striving at.. And what will happen will happen

And besides most Quality Girls are also busy building a future for themselves...

Some people are 'lucky' to meet someone they can build with...Others are not

Moreover when you eventually get to the Top, you'll have better taste in Women and broader circles.So chill out!
If you get to meet a Woman you struggle with you to get there,fine.
But if you don't... you'll still have the choice of being with One who's already there

BlueMarilyn1224:
Nah honey,your brain is just slow in comprehending what he's saying....you're still a kid obviously

Mobilecrewnet:
Oga, calm down. You met the wrong people... The lady that has been destined to be with you is coming. Don't rush it.

Chadansi:


True
But then Fantasy and illusion is a necessary ingredient for living...
And the so called Hope is the thin line that keeps our sanity even in hard

Yes,the bad news is:there is no Guarantee of getting to the so called Top or getting
success
But the good news is: It isn't impossible either
It is true that there is a crowd of us that wants or dream of it
but it wouldn't be called the Top if everyone was up there and there was no ground

And at the end of the day,the Top is virtually what we define it to be
It is how far we've come from were we once were

All we can do is Try to move ahead

Uniquekriss:
you won't blame him, I quite understand his plight cos I was once there, I later decided not to hurry into relationship while building my domain and in the process, love finds you.

Martinez39s:
Kenplay, don't listen to this bluepill nonsense. You can't find true love from a woman because it doesn't exist. All women view men as disposable utilities, and a woman's "love" is based on what she can benefit from you. Women don't care about your struggles, they stay at the finish line and roll with the winners. No matter what you have done for a woman in the past (in the name of love), she will drop you like faeces when you go broke or a higher bidder comes along; they are always on the look out for a bigger and better deal. All woman, even our mother and sisters, are like this. THIS IS THE HARSH REDPILL TRUTH.

You will do well to read these nairaland threads carefully

https://www.nairaland.com/2984609/heart-belongs-highest-bidder-dont

https://www.nairaland.com/5695941/many-memes-redpill-guys-get

https://www.nairaland.com/5150034/boys-get-here-mumu-must

https://www.nairaland.com/4284434/ubunjas-miseducation-story-red-pill

SweetCunt97:
I know a guy who has nothing but has a commuted girlfriend who loves him totally. Why? He was there for her, he broke through her defenses and fear. If it were other guys they would probably leave her or try to make her do what she ain't psychological ready for. You need to have a good friend first, be a good friend too. All this relationships where you think sex validates is B.S.

Kenplay:

Thanks, I think am on the awakening stage of my life which will shape my adulthood.
The world is not as innocent as I imagine it to be. Its a dangerous world, its a jungle.

Kenplay:

Thanks, I think am on the awakening stage of my life which will shape my adulthood.
The world is not as innocent as I imagine it to be. Its a dangerous world, its a jungle.

blackpanthar:


True Love is not about sex.

You are in a wicked world and you just chose to become wicked with it.


Grow up and throw such useless notions from your mind.... Go and learn about relationships.... IT IS WORK... not FUN.


Marry a lady who loves you more than you love her and you would not be distracted. Stop conditioning yourself to be loved. If you LOVE YOURSELF, then it is enough. God bless

Martinez39s:
Lol. Love finds you my foot. The ants simply came for the sugarcane. Once it is gone, the ants will disperse. Use your brain.

Athemisia:
Here comes the Alpha bull dog.....

Abeg tell them ooh... all this simps and betas... too many movies