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Hanseel1:
You surely won't understand it a bit because you're a feeble minded fellow whose life will expire the day he stops controlling women.

You're a disgrace to civilized men all over the world. Cursed be the day you were born.

You chose the ignoble path of greed over honour and self dignity. That's why you cast a financial burden on your wife.

You called that civilization because you're a mentally compromised piece of human dross.

Cursed be the man who can't provide for his family. You were ordered by your CREATOR to till the ground and work it to put food on the table.

Thou godless cultural vagabond who got seduced like a rural, ill-exposed bitçh.

If you had been a woman biologically, your whoredom would have eclipsed the great prostitutes of Babylon.

Hanseel1:
Like I said earlier.

You should be castrated so that the deadly venom in you won't spread faster to other virtuous and civilized men.

Weak coward who derives pleasure from controlling women.

Be more concerned about your father's legacy that is about to slip through your weak fingers because you chose the inglorious path of cowardice.

Hanseel1:
It's only a matter of time before most African men adopt the "beta male concept".

You're such an ignoramus!


It is only a matter of time before Europe is overrun by Arab immigrants who would turn their cultures and values on it's head and replace it with strict Islamic laws. It's happening already.

They saw an opportunity where their men have become weak and docile. The alpha male will always win.

If Europe couldn't conquer the Arabs culturally who are next door neighbours, I don't see that happening here.

Then if you're still alive, your only value would be to serve as an eunuch because there would be no way you'd be accepted as a bona fide male.

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Hanseel1:
The Rise of the Beta Male
The alpha male, the iconic bad boy, has been making girl’s hearts throb for years. But recently, despite all their chest pounding, attention seeking, in your face behavior, their appeal has been on the decline. .

Who exactly are the beta and alpha males? The alpha male is commonly described as a powerful, aggressive, and dominant man. He exudes confidence and is very physically fit. Alphas display masculine qualities, such as a deep voice, defined bone structure, and muscular physique. They are often pictured as the “ladies’ man.” The beta on the other hand is very introverted, and will avoid confrontation. He is extremely intelligent, thoughtful, capable, and driven. Unlike the alpha male he is smaller in stature and possibly even scrawny. Essentially they are contrasting versions of each other, and society is now favoring the beta version of the male over the alpha.

This preference makes perfect sense from an evolutionary prospective, and is supported by countless studies and centuries of human behavior. Men cannot contribute physiologically to parental investment. Women have to take on the full burden of gestation, child birth, and lactation, so when females look for long term mates they do not necessarily put emphasis on physical appearance, but more so on a man’s economic status or the resources he can provide. Evolutionarily the male’s role is to provide his mate with resources such as shelter and food, because he cannot offer any physical contribution to the development of the child. Women are therefore in a way evolutionarily programmed to desire males who can provide them with these resources. Early on in men’s evolutionary history the physical prowess and domineering behavior of the alpha was important in attaining basic and necessary resources. In today’s society it is financial wealth that is needed to gain these resources, and in this aspect it is the traits of the beta that are more advantageous compared to the alpha. A recent study was conducted analyzing personal advertisements of over 1,100 heterosexual people. The results of the study showed that for every one man who mentioned financial resources as an important criterion for a mate, eleven women did (Putts 190)! Alpha male behavior is on the decline in the business world, it has even been shown to be detrimental to the work place environment. Studies have been done that illustrate “testosterone-choked males” actually struggle to cooperate and act more egocentrically in groups. Bossy, in your face alpha males can hinder the progress of projects and intimidate fellow employees (“Testosterone”). Females will not choose a resource deprived male for long term relationships because they receive almost no benefits from this association. Betas on the other hand are extremely intelligent, capable, and often very successful so they can provide females with the resources they desire.

Alpha males are also often pictured as a “ladies’ man,” someone who can have their way with as many women as they want. In nature the alpha male usually has the sole mating rights to any female he wishes. This behavior has somewhat translated to human alpha male behavior, and can be explained by evolutionary mating choice patterns. Women only put emphasis on physical attractiveness when it comes to one night stands. Women know that the only contribution they could obtain from this man is good genes, and physical attractiveness and masculine qualities are two indicators of good genes (Putts 197). Alpha males can further their own reproductive success by taking advantage of this evolutionary mating behavior of women, and reproducing with as many women as possible. This kind of behavior can be very beneficial to the alpha male, but females will receive no economic benefit. Beta males ,on the other hand, offer females the economic benefits they are looking for and in some cases can also contribute good genes, and are there for a more desirable long term mate.

The image of a desirable mate also began to shift when women started to ardently fight for their rights and equality. women have made tremendous progress in gaining equal rights and opportunities in all aspects of their lives. .

With this movement toward women’s equality females do not want a macho alpha male who acts superior to them; they do not need a man to take care of them any longer. Women comprise 46% of the total U.S. labor force, and women business owners employ 35% more people than all the Fortune 500 companies combined. There are about 9.1 million women-owned businesses in the U.S., a number that encompasses nearly 40% of all businesses (“10 Surprising”). The stereotypical image from the fifties, of a mother in an apron tending to her children and cooking dinner for her husband before he returns home from work is no longer the norm. Women are almost expected to get a job today; it has become the social norm to be a working mother. Women now want an intelligent man who can share in their success and also have success of his own. The beta male is the perfect man for the “new women.” Beta males are successful but are also more reserved and sensitive then alpha males. They are not intimidated by a women’s success. Alpha males on the other hand tend to overcompensate to prove their masculinity. A successful woman could jeopardize their role as the sole provider and diminish their masculinity.

The alpha male’s overcompensating masculine behavior is believed to be due to homophobia. Alpha males displayed such over bearing, loud, dominant, macho behavior because they feel the need to prove there heterosexuality. When homosexuals first started to fervently petition for gay rights, there was little acceptance of their sexuality, and a large amount of disapproval and discrimination. Even in 2001 fifty three percent of the population thought relations were morally wrong. Now fifty three percent of men think it is morally acceptable and fifty one percent of women. If you look at the statistics by generation, the younger generations are even more accepting. Men eighteen to forty nine showed that sixty nine percent think it is morally acceptable and fifty nine percent of women in this age range did as well (Saad). With these present trends, as time goes on homosexuality will only become further accepted. With the acceptance of homosexuality comes the decline in the alpha male behavior. Heterosexual males feel less of a need to prove their sexuality, and do not need to display such exaggerated “straight” behavior. The term metrosexual has also allowed straight males to relax their alpha behavior and display a more beta male behavior. Men can now take care of themselves, dress fashionably, and express a softer more emotional side without being considered a homosexual.

Another social movement that has seriously affected the male hierarchy is campaigns against bullying. Most people do not think of bullying as a problem in the work environment but this has been alpha male territory for years. And as I previously stated, studies have shown that alpha male behavior may actually be counter-productive when pertaining to the business world. Beta males are not interested in dominating others and are more likely to understand the importance of encouragement and motivation over demands and domination. Alpha male behavior does not provide an efficient, healthy work environment. There has also been legislation passed against harassment and discrimination in the workplace to try and prevent this type of behavior. However, the biggest influence on the downfall of the alpha male is the bullying among teens.
Evolutionarily speaking he was always destined to be at the top because of his abilities to provide resources and invest faithfully in his mate, but social practices and behaviors hindered this rise in the male hierarchy. Women have now gained equality among men and no longer need alphas to take care of them. Females are no longer obliged to tolerate the alpha’s oppressive actions, and betas now have their chance to prove themselves as desirable mates. With the growing acceptance of homosexuality, and the establishment of the term metrosexual, men do not have to try and overcompensate to prove their heterosexuality. A male can express a more sensitive introverted personality without being considered gay. The tragedies of the past few years with school shootings, and studies on the effects of bullying have also become a stimulus for the fall of the alpha male. Beta behavior is more appropriate as a role model for impressionable kids and teens. Television shows and movies have taken full advantage of this and have shown the beta is now on top. Females are now drooling over little timid nerds, and boys are looking up to them as their new role models. The beta has successfully risen to the top of the male hierarchy.

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Are you so slow and intellectually wanting that you can't present a coincise version of the meaningless doodles you pasted up there?

Little wonder you have channelled half of your failings to your wife.

Hanseel1:
I don't believe a woman gave birth to you. Your love for “controlling women is worse than what Arab men have done to women".

You need to be castrated before this deadly venom in you spreads fast into other virtuous and civilized men.

You made a fool's mistake in quoting me.

My purpose is to destroy you psychologically and leave a permanent scar in your psyche lest you roam free like a contagious airborne disease and inflict the young and impressionable.

Should men like you dominate our society we would lose our identity and heritage faster than London, Paris and now Berlin would eventually cave in to the Arab surge.

Hanseel1:
You lack wisdom. Your need more exposure or else with this mentality “you're doomed”.


Weak tyrant whose sole purpose on earth is to put women under control.

You're running out of steam too early. You're an enlightened fool who has traded his nobility with the glossy promises of Hollywood.

Now you've become one of the men whose criteria of seeking a wife is primarily based on her financial pocket.

You're a new breed of emasculated, undercover gigolos.

Hanseel1:
Western books and movies? Do western movies depict feminism in anyway?

I never knew you were this intellectually vacant.

Hanseel1:
You just disgraced yourself man. I refuse to call you bro -a tyrant can never be my brother.

Your father's legacy suffered a setback at the day of your birth. The day you were erroneously counted as a HE -- a protector and the continuation of his struggles. Little did he know you would surrender your noble calling to the persuasive whispers of falsehood and empty promises.

Calling me a brother would have cast a dent on my progeny.

Hanseel1:
And what has submission caused in Africa marriages?

Abusing of women, cheating unhinged by men, doing all sorts of bullshît because they know the women don't have the balls to leave-

Feminism gives women voice -

Reasons why divorce is rampant in sane Clines is because the women there don't fall for the antics of tyrants like you.

They leave because men cheat, abuse and rape.
I don't think western women leave marriages because of other reasons except the reasons given above.

Feeble minded and weak tyrants like you want women to stay with cheats and abusive goats.

Submission has spared children the horrors and nightmares of broken homes. And in return they adore their mothers for the priceless sacrifice. They sit deep within our heart as we treasure them beyond compare.

Submission has given them a gift no one can take away from them -- the joy and fulfilment of being a wife, a mother and nurturer. And they've become the pillars of their homes during turbulent times. They stood like a rock and held the family together like a hen would her chicks during a storm.

Not a wanderluster drunk with ungodly freedom and propelled by the dictates of her clitoral urges.

Hanseel1:
Here you go again spewing bullshit about how I won't share pregnancy with my wife.

I don't think American and European men who share bills with their wives also share pregnancy with their wives.

You're a tyrant who feels he'll die the day he stops controlling women -mindset such as yours is one of the reasons feminism is needed in Nigeria.

No sane and intelligent lady would marry a man who thinks he'll lose his manhood if he allows her to make certain decisions for the family.

I call your type an urban monkey, a black rhesus gorrilla who read a couple of western books and seen a couple of movies and have his whole mindset re-caliberated by a culture he barely understands.

And how has the gender equality and feminism panned out over those climes? The complete collapse of the family value, the devaluation of the sanctity of matrimony, rampart divorce, teenage pregnancy and drug abuse.


Your unwillingness/inability to put your feet on the ground like a man and take control of the situations around you have cost you your place amongst your peers.

Hanseel1:
I don't think any sane woman will get married to a man with a tyrannical mindset such as yours.

The earlier you realize this is 2018 not 1900,the better for you.

What is as tyrannical as a man who expects his wife to be an equal financial contributor when he is not an equal burden bearer during her pregnancy and child bearing?

No, you're not the saviour the modern woman longs for. You're the re-emergence of the old slave driver draped in modern apparel and your sole aim is to get your greasy hands in a woman's purse and scream "feminism all the way"

Your dignity in exchange for an easy life is what you're all about. Even some women aren't this cheap.

Hanseel1:
Stop speaking like a tyrant living in the dark ages. You are alive today not because of the number of women you've or still controlling but because you believe in yourself.

Yes, I share bills and will continue to do so. I can't kill myself with burden because of what power drunken males like you would say-even if I'm a billionaire, the bills are shared man.

Things are changing everywhere and people are restructuring their minds but you postmann you still have the mind of an Arab misogynist whose sole purpose in life is to put women under control.


Acidosis must be smiling like a sheep while reading your comments because that's his fantasy.

You're so soft like some fluffy flakes soaked up in a bowl of milk and so have your resolve to hold on and weather the storm of the changing times caved in.

You're one of the conquered, the beta males harnessed from the deceptive bowels of persuasive doctrines. You have become an enlightened fool with a functionless scrotum.

The women find you easy and predictable. To them, you're just another woman with a set of bears and hollow biceps. Add that to your mentality of equal financial responsibility, and it sums you up -- an underbelly, low-motivated and an uninspiring male who cloaks himself with the new fad called feminism to hide away his biological and mental shortfalls.

Hanseel1:
Why do you always foam in the mouth when you see topics like this?

I can't forget the day you insulted me as you if you know me from somewhere because I said I like sharing bills.


Whenever submission and feminism are mentioned, the way Nigerian men speak and behave is enough to justify feminism. You're just so concerned about dictating for another human being.

Aha! Here comes our lazy, single-testicled Nancyboy who is ever so willing to gulp the equality wine because it entails shared financial responsibility.

Funny how my moniker and our brief but impactful encounter found a resting place in your memory. I barely remember you.

You're a long forgotten chapter in the chronicles of my encounters.

Women are known to desire two opposites simultaneously.

The OP excites my curiosity having come to the gender bargaining hall armed with quotes from the scriptures even when it is abundantly clear that GOD requires of the wife to be submissive to the husband in all things like she would CHRIST.

But turning again to demand a slice of the leadership pie isn't just rebellion, it is witchcraft.

Several centuries after the great blunder of their forebear Eve, her daughters are still held captive by that same vice called greed.

Even GOD gives us privilege of choice at times. But that's what it is, a PRIVILEGE. It is within a man's prerogative to decide when his wife's opinion should be adhered or otherwise.

It is not for the woman to step into marriage with a (pre)conceived notion of authority rotation.
To do so is an act of rebellion against divine established principle.

CHoccolaTE:
In what sense are women to submit to husbands?
Thats the sense I am talking about.

You're just a juvenile recalcitrant at worse or an attention seeking female suffering from hormonal mismanagement.

HotMata:
This shouldn't call for talks or raise any sentiment whatsoever because nobody is above the law. If really the police got informations that warranted them to come do that search then why are we here talking all these? The President doesn't have a hand in this, that I know for sure and nobody in his/her right thinking state should try to dent the image of our amiable president by linking his to this that he is using the police to witch hunt top opposition leaders.

With reference to the emboldened, I beg to ask, who are you?

You must be one of his closest aides, or are you not.

sarrki:
Aunty so far you are under federal republic of Nigeria

You must abide either by force or coercion


It is a must

It is by force

Every part of your being has become numb by persistent mental abuse that you have long lost the ability to aspire to a better life.

You have surrendered your hope to a system that is inferior and below the expectations of the enlightened.

You have become a cheap clown to your masters and it pleases your hopeless soul that the keys to your future is secured in the shackles of their imperial clutches.

Fearlez:
waiting for that thread.

Ok, boss. On the way.

ElChidi:
Lagos was the capital of Nigeria thus had federal input.
Abuja is the capital of Nigeria thus has federal input.
Abia is self-made with zero federal input thus is the only one on the list worthy of praise.

Igbo Amaka!!!

Gbamm!!!

Fearlez:
you must be undergoing your monthly excessive bleeding reducing blood and oxygen supply to your cranium case if you could stand before the world and deny the obvious.

Or you could just be a badly programmed AI undergoing test-running.

Or worse, a failed project of gender reassignment experiment experiencing mixed hormonal conflict of gender affinity.

But whatever, you're a dumb person incapable of holding arguments of this sort.

You are requested not to contact me via mentions further as I have elected not to bother with your pain.

You're such a classy bastard!

ireneidiva:
Marriage has provided respect, protection and security to Linda Ikeji and likes rught?

Girl, you're the casualty of the times -- the abrasion of sound judgement occasioned by the ancient vice of greed and materialism.

buharitill2023:
Hahahahahahaha,
The jobless aggressive lazy idiotic pigs of Bia-fra terrorist are still looking for the differences, they found none.

Both handshake are the same, the same position,
Even pig trump can't look buhari eyeball to eyeball.

Buhari till 2023.

The emboldened drives home the point that Trump's alleged remark on PMB cuts deep.

We all know it's the truth irrespective of which side of the hypocritical divide we find ourselves.

Butterflyleo:
Good JOB FG.

Some are already calling it INVISIBLE projects of all time nonsense without even going through them to see that a lot of the projects were awarded long before PMB and some awarded during the last regime as well as the ones PMB awarded himself.

He has now taken on the huge task of finishing up on projects which were awarded some 6 to 12 years ago and left abandoned by previous governments as well as handling his own awarded projects.

I suppose those who are already calling them invisible projects are also referring to past governments who awarded and abandoned theirs while PMB is busy cleaning up their abandoned mess.

Bunch of wailing rètards!!!

This is politics and we know deception and insincerity come handy during an election year.

It is only natural for curious minds to be concerned with the timing of these old and new projects And we also know not even half of those projects would see completion by the time elections are over. Like previous administration, this is just another political manipulation.

Butterflyle0:
Read what I wrote again and you will realise that it is the reality on ground.

When a party such as PDP have only criminals, thieves, looters, backstabbers, wanted men, international conmen in their party who are vying for presidency, don't think people would follow party and not individuals anymore.

The reality on ground is that PDP have no credible nature and no credible candidate to offer so they are dead on arrival. Everyone knows this regardless of party affiliation.

That must have been a poll conducted around Duara.

It's not about APC or PDP. Nigeria is bedevilled by self-serving ravenous wolves who call themselves politicians.

No, they're all shameless thieves irrespective of which political party they use as instrument for their purpose. But never has Nigeria been faced with this level of lawlessness and impunity. Never have the lives of ordinary Nigerians become this cheap.

The level of lawlessness in the land is unprecedented in a civilian administration. Only OBJ's tenure comes close to this and they both have one thing in common --- both regimes have as head a man who believes in the power of the riffle than the due process.

Butterflyle0:
Hahahaha look up the owner of the Facebook page who conducted the poll.

His name is Bashir Maru and he is a staunch PDP man with almost everybody on his page being PDP men too.

He conducted the poll hoping to embarrass PMB but it backfired because even his fellow PDP friends and followers voted for PMB.

Out of almost 7000 people who took part in the poll, 82% voted for PMB.

So as you can see its not an "Oluwole" poll. You are the one with an Oluwole brain

You must be a chronic anencephalic newt to base a poll by a Bashir Maru as the reality on ground.

[quote author=Butterflyle0 post=70530890][/quote]Obviously, you're one of the proponents of evil. With your cheap oluwole polls.

The evil that you support will rest on your roof.

I'll bet the OP is a She. No 1 was a simple display of crass ignorance. When would the 21st century woman stop seeing men as just another woman with bears and a pack of muscles?

Who told them a man who loves his woman may not cheat on her? Funny!

IamAllah:
This scam religion at it again, the baby never had any brain tumor just a fake story created by the fraud infested religion they intend using to promote their scam.
Believe this shit you believe anything

Trash!

And your religion is what exactly -- an adulterated copy and paste of the Jewish religion.

trapQ:
Before mentioning me, be sure to bring your brain along. Never at any point did I allude that Bethsheba was raped by David.
She wasn't a prostitute. King David sent for her without having prior relationship with her and slept with her. It is statistically impossible to just send for a woman (who isn't a prostitute) and end up sleeping with her without her being blackmailed or manipulated and moreso without having any prior arrangements with her.

I'm quite disappointed that you took a river of a time to drive home your rebuttal only for you to end short of passing the basic test of simple grammatical comprehension.

The post below was your allusion that she slept with David unwillingly. Unconsensual sex is called rape. So you alluded ( indirectly implied) that David raped her since she didn't consent to sex with him.

trapQ:
The Bible never said she willingly slept with him. He was a king and a very powerful one at that and everyone knows what Kings of old could do if they didn't get what they wanted.

trapQ:
@bolded, Oh please spare that virtuous woman crap. Why are men too expectant of high moral standards from women, standards which they themselves can never measure up to?

Inside a woman lies the human incubator where life is formed, nurtured and delivered. It is vital for the sanctity of the human species that the incubator be kept pure and clean from every form of contamination, especially from promiscuity, that children born into the world may be free from genealogical ambiguity.

Only a foolish woman compares herself to a man. Why should you? Sex takes place in the inside of you. Your vagina is like an open wound, as naķed as the eye. That's why you get the short end of the promiscuity stick when you allow random dicks in.

trapQ:
So Bethsheba informing David privately meant she wasn't virtuous? What was she supposed to do? Send word to her husband in the battlefield? Or announce with a megaphone on the streets that she was pregnant by a man other than her husband? Knowing fully well it was a crime punishable by death?

You'd make a miserable lawyer if the court room was to be the table from which your daily bread comes.

Isn't it obvious that the ploy to get Uria to sleep with the wife was to pin the pregnancy to him, with the wife keeping a sealed lip. If the wife wasn't part of the plan, David wouldn't have used that option. A virtuous woman would rather face death than have her dignity and marriage defiled.

trapQ:
And men have never been in the habit of getting different women pregnant including their wives relatives with their wandering diicks ?

Can't even read the rest of your bullshit. Schizophrenic people like you have no business in my mentions. Don't bother mentioning me, won't read nor reply.

Which is more repugnant, your insincerity and subpar IQ or the discharge from your trichomoniasis infested cunt?

You're just another frustrated bitçh on socio media with a long history of broken dreams and romantic misadventures.

Fearlez:
She sounds like a spilling tap whose spigot has been broken by nameless numbers of men.

The level of her denial is shocking.

AfroSamurai:
nothing much, just relishing the effect of you and Kay, displaying sublime subtle savagery.

The good old days were fun alright. How time flies.

AfroSamurai:
hey Postmann. its been a while. hope you're good?

Long time, bro. I'm good. Been a while really. What's up!

trapQ:
Do you burn calories by jumping into conclusions? The Bible never mentioned anything of that sort. Anyone who tries to blame the victim other than the suspect is a not only sick but utterly ridiculous.

Not everyone is Joseph. A woman's husband was at the battlefield fighting and could be killed and the king requested his wife, not like they had prior relationship but your warped mind could only think she truly wanted sex with David.

Men have always always always abused power. You have evil dictators like Abacha,
Indi Amin, Hitler who killed millions but can you mention just one woman who did anything remotely close to what the aforementioned did? Keep supporting evil.

True to type your emotions run faster than your cognitive process.

It was alright for you to allude that David raped her, but certainly not alright when I borrowed a leaf from your own book that she was a willful participant.

Bathsheba sent word (secretly ) to David that she was pregnant. She didn't make it public like a truly virtuous woman would. Rather she sought collaboration with David on what next to do. Hence David tried to get her husband to lie with her so the pregnancy could be attributed to him.

Had the husband fallen for the ploy, the child would have been yet another child raised by a false father, like is rampant today. Women have long been in the business of bringing bastards home to their innocent husbands.

"Not everyone is Joseph" you say. Your watery excuse is as slippery as your slimy vagina discharge.

You mentioned Abacha, Idi Amin and Hilter and asked me to mention a woman who did anything remotely as evil as the aforementioned men. And I wonder what female is this who is yet to saturate her feminine lust for fashion, entertainment and gossips and dare put a political question before me.

Queen Mary 1 is your answer. Otherwise known as bloody Mary.

That women have lesser role in leadership doesn't mean they don't abuse power. From the innocent little housemaid, to children of her brother-in-law who aren't allowed access to their uncle's house, to wives of kings like Jazebel, women have shown far more hunger and lust for power and abuses.

Next time be civil when engaging me. I eat rude women for dinner.