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SpyGod:
Why are you awake sef

SpyGod:
See this upcoming tout too....Have you stopped hawking boiled groundnut at the bustop?

SpyGod:
Can you just stop screaming like you are been circumsized with a rusted blade?

notoriousDIG:
I see mad people everywhere... Mad people.

notoriousDIG:
You are still not making sense. What you wrote up there can pass off as a dialogue for someone playing the role of a lunatic in a Nollywood movie.



Try harder, you can do it Kid... Find the sanity in you boy.

WHITEWIZARD:
BY 8pm this evening, i will come for mimzy again, with a mind blowing revelation. everybody book a seat.

Lavedaa:
Lol no, Thanks ma'am I prefer a younger guy. *covers face*

reciprokal:
Mistaken! Buzz off!

reciprokal:
Baby, I don't stalk püssy. I smell them when they get moist and damp form dick-farmishment.

I can smell a wet püssy platforms away. Matter of fact I was in Twitter, tweeting away, when my nasal perception brought me to Nairaland.

I smelt you out, your coloured fonts didn't do well to shroud you. Deny you aren't wet!!!

stealth12:
Some months back I was called Do.veda/Newshe.riff/Deck.er by muva and TSOM, Today this frustrated worthless fungus calls me lezzlie.
Of all the monikers in the world, you choose lezz?Your verbosity is exceeded only by your stupidity.

ShaqFu:
Its evening, the weather is cool and nice, perfect time for a debate, don't you think?.

ShaqFu:
[size=22pt]NO![/size]

ShaqFu:
Indeed, if I don't make my own laws, who will make it for me? Society? Bleep society bro!. I don't conform to religious dogma and doctrines. Its my life, and I choose to live it however, and whichever way I see fit!.


Well, its your opinion, I'm entitled to mine.



[q
uote]Even godless fools have better judgment than your sick retortYea right, but the godful genius make a healthy living shagging their female church members, right? Preach on, preacher!.

Whatever rocks your world. I'm just concerned about the kids your lifestyle could raise and what a societal threat to decency they could constitute. Well, if I could train and teach a girl who isn't my own kid, and make her Head Girl in her school that has a reputation of choosing Head Girls from science department, I wonder what I'll do with my own kid.

Food for thought bro.

ShaqFu:
Oh yeah! I believe you have the sole right to decide who is responsible, and who isn't right? I believe you know we humans are naturally selfish, and not everybody share your sense of selflessness, and sacrifice.

So tell me, what happens when a parent sacrifice more than the other, and what happens when that other don't feel the need to be selfless? Marriage isn't for everyone, and any who wants to father a kid, without getting married, should go right ahead. Societal norms and conventions are the major reasons why many marriages collapse today.

ShaqFu:
Tell me, how many responsible men/fathers do we have out there? I personally have seen and know many who grew up without a parent, and they're still very responsible, more than those who grew up with both parents, usually under false pretense and the likes.

ShaqFu:
And any girl who wants to father 3 kids out of wedlock, from 3 different men, should go right ahead, its her life, not yours, and what guarantee do you even have that she won't raise each and everyone of them, as good, moral and upright citizens?.

ShaqFu:
Hai! We see what we want to see brother. You see selfishness, others see non conformist, while others may want to give me a head. Its purely personal.

And I never said anything about not accepting my responsibility, check my number 4 reason, and you'll know for sure.

Mindfulness:
And someone like you expects women to respect him.
You can't get it without being able to lead by example.
And you should be ashamed of making this kind of generalizations. I would understand it if you had no education at all but my tolerance of this nonsense is limited to people who have never seen a school from the inside.



Part of whose marriage? Yours?



I will without you telling me to.

Mindfulness:
If you want to live your marriage feeling that you have to sacrifice anything, good luck with that.
I will much rather live my marriage feeling that it enriches my life.


You can sulk as much as you want. I don't vote for anyone because someone asks me to, you get my vote if I feel that you are worthy of it.
Simples!

glimpse33:
Am Looking For A Mr NL Contestant To Campaign / Promote. Suggest Whom You Feel Is The Cutest & Well Mannered.

drop your suggestions via comment.

Mindfulness:
Well, I don't share OP's views but I also wonder where you got your views from.



I diasgree. For a marriage to be successful each partner has to selfishly care about him- and herself IN THE FIRST PLACE. Selfish, in this context, does not mean that you disregard or disrespect your partner but that you make sure that you are so abundant, in emotional and pragmatic sense, that giving is a pleasure and not sacrifice.

A happy marriage does not feel like hard work and sacrifice, it feels easy and it flows (most of the time) and it is enriching and not sacrificial.




He doesn't want to make a woman his and this is what the thread is actually about. If you want to convince him of the privileges and advantages of marriage, then advertise for it instead of confirming to him the negative reasons why he doesn't want to get married.




It doesn't take any responibility and sacrifice to become a father. It takes a few minutes of pleasure. Being a father is a whole different thing. And no, I wouldn't tell my kids that I had to sacrifice anything to be a parent. I would tell them that it took love and that having them made my life more beautiful and not harder.

Again, too many people make marriage and parenthood look like it is some sort of experience that you need to have strength for, when all it takes for it to be successful is love, passion and joy.

I don't wake up in the morning, saying 'God, give me strength to sacrifice my sleep to make breakfast for my family.' I wake up and I look forward to having my family at one table. I enjoy it.




This is not what he said. He wants kids and not a relationship / marriage and with the way you people talk about marriage, I can understand him.



What about children raised in high-conflict marriages? Are they better off? Anyway, that's a different topic.

DRISKLEF:
I still haven't showed my gratitude to those who been there for us (My humble self and team mimzzy) during the just concluded Miss NL 2016. Those that voted and supported her by my directive and by that of her other team members.

Due to your kind, supportive gestures, Mimzzy was able to stand above all the hate and profanities thrown at her and not only did she survive the storm; she was also able to emerge the 2nd position on a very close shave with the winner.

I believe she achieved this feat not because she's the most pretty of all but because you all stood by her and supported her with you votes and advice.

From my heart, I say thank you.

But there's something else; the Mr NL 2016 is about commencing and I just got verified as one of the contestants. Myself, Drisklef wish to solicit for your vote and support for my candidacy and I believe this time will have us smiling home with the crown.

Thank you as I await your affirmative response. I love you all!

cc

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ShaqFu:
At what expense? The expense of not ever talking to the mother of your child? Or hating her more than you hate the devil? Come on bro, loosen up, no everyone desire to be trapped in the age old contract call 'marriage'.

ShaqFu:
On the contrary, when the child grows up, he'll get to know what it really mean for one to have happiness, devoid of society's expectations and the likes.

ShaqFu:
Remember, I never opined that the child will be left uncared for, or even abandoned, he still have his mother, and hey, he can visit his grand parents and spend time with them, and of course, his father.

Remember bro, marriage isn't for everyone.

ShaqFu:
Yea, I child deserve all that, but what happens when the marriage collapse? Does a child deserve to live in a home where there isn't an atom of happiness? Where there one form of fighting or quarreling almost everyday.

We make plans, and sometimes, that plan doesn't work out. And then, what next?

amtaken:
Am not your follower mos. Check again.

Mxm.

refiner:
Merry new month!!!!!

awww...this is my birth month, a month a REFINER was born!

Merry new months to my lovely nairalanders,my friends and foes..

wishing you all the blessings of God!...

I declare...you will never see death..
you'll never beg for food!
you'll never be carried to the hospital
your heart desires shall be granted!
many nations shall call u blessed....AMEN!

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I love you all...