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sllay:
I wonder what Chroníque and the several Nairaland guys she duped think about the pseudo-sanctimonious, pilfering, love-scam-scheming philandering OP and her hypocritical thread...

Little wonder people tag most folks who frequent this section fake.

Supposedly Messrs Nice Guy being exposed as brute cultist, 'friendly' girls exposed as paid moles by their brothers, mulattoes who are partly Ukrainian turning out to be fugly, teenage paupers who beg females for money, supposedly pretty, fair-skinned OAPs exposed as darkskinned, fugly insecure females (EstharFabian comes to mind)... They go into hiding for days when exposured then try to blend in like nothing happened.


Shameless dimwits!

saintfellow:
true sir, where hav u been?

saintfellow:
hi oga postmann?

Toks2008:
WEhat on earth is going on here? why all these obayagbon grammar?

No be me create the thread so why bringing me to this? Please free me abeg.

Toks2008:
Why bring me into this?

Young man let me advice you..it is a sign of mental shallowness to curse and abuse on an interactive forum. Infact I ignore people who act as you do cos they are a threat to themselves as the act wricks lack of mental cohesion and good psychological well being.

When you read an opinion of another just learn to calm down and tender yours. Being educated goes beyond the ability to write grammar but it also involves the intellectual prowess to hold up arguments without vulgarity.

Donald trump may never get close to the white house due to this appalling nature you just displayed ....cursing while you should be discussing issues intelligently is a low life atitude.

Please adjust and don't bother cursing me cos you will only be wasting your time..I am too intellectual matured to troll.

Have a great day

joseph1832:
That woman is drunk with delusion.

Berbierklaus:
Thanks for your input,but I think you should dissect the Writeup and not the writer

Berbierklaus:
2)A woman supposedly working as an adult responsibility not a helpmate[/b]


Pre.sVa
Timbou.ktu

Berbierklaus:
Could this be another feminist hullabaloo or she actually makes sense?

lalasticlala

joseph1832:
I don't know what you mean bro, I honestly don't know.

Booyaka!!!.

joseph1832:
Hell No!. They're two very different person. Just like a dick and vagina is different.

See it this way, Lezz, the guy who won't flee when a vagina is show him. Postmann, the guy who would shut his eyes and run like hell when a vagina is shown him.

I'm sure you can tell the difference now, can you?

Lsofdk:
[color=teal]OP 5 too small na
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Wishing a happy new month to these friends of mine… Together we'll enjoy the new Month to its fullest.[/color]

cc: Smellymouth lezzlie Suzan404 Ogorwyne Creamish

postmann Thesonofmark smellinganus xoella khalifasparkles

Vizkiz iykekelvin slyisaac Airsultan obiorathesubtle

Mzpecs Oyind17 milonis Ivvy 4rmthewest

babzilla iamlegend1 handsam makydebbie berlyn

olihilistic jubrealguy naijaboiy cherlene Dino

qhutetomsel vicstar confistified demilagold

FTBOY:
you mean, after he discharge and cum with 'ah!'?

cc- postmann..

StOla:
Why are some people so self-destructive, suicidal and craving for conflict and anarchy?

The Northerners did not misconstrue his intention. They know him to be a hateful Igbo, the likes of which vent their frustration and misery on this forum and other online media. Now an Ipob member who has forgotten he is not in Aba, has met his match in Buhari's tribesmen. Even if the complainant is claiming to have Buhari as his father's name / surname, it is evident that both defendant and plaintiff are fighting a tribal proxy war over President Buhari.

Can he name his dog Ojukwu or Azikiwe? Imagine a Yoruba man in Nnewi naming his goat Ojukwu, or a Fulani man in Aba naming his dog Nnamdi Kanu and parading it around the IPOB meeting centres? That is the suicidal attribute the Igbos are known for. Imagine using such a revered name in a community populated by Hausa-Fulani? Even if he had named the dog Awolowo, I know his Yoruba hosts may find it repulsive, but would not react violently, resulting in the boldness of the Igbo man who then concludes that Yorubas are cowards and are docile.

Since the Igbo man welcomes bravery and detest the peaceful Yorubas as weaklings, let him celebrate and enjoy the bravery of his Hausa-Fulani neighbours. It is stupidity such as this that was displayed by Igbos in the North, that led to their slaughter in the Northern pogroms as a Northern civilian reaction to the Jan 1966 coup killings of Northern politicians and Army officers.

However, whether the coward directed his friends of hate to eat up his own dog is irrelevant as no case exist here, talk-less of an implication. Nevertheless, the arrested man is safer in that police custody as his bigoted life will be wasted without a second thought, the moment he steps out of police "custodial protection".
We all know the Hausa-Fulani, they don't need to mouth hatred and beat their hollow chest to teach an equally hateful lesson.

See what hate has caused now? His days of peace are over in that community. Except he is released by the police directly at Aba, where his fellow bigoted clansmen will welcome him as a hero who had to runaway from Yorubaland because of Hausa-Fulanis who are his fellow settlers.

After his brain was reset at the police station, hear him declare eternal love for Buhari.

Fairytales:
When does the violation of rule 2 ever justify a 5-6 months ban?

Last week two willing and happy e-brawlers gleefully took to the ring to exchange punches to generate traffic on a dead thread that was avoided like the plague here:

https://www.nairaland.com/3282150/bibliophobia-moribund-art-reading/4#48425469

Yet a mod who was supposed to be an umpire lashed out a 5-6 month's ban for rule 2 against the non-aggressor, lezz while the aggressor and known troll saintsamurai, gets a one week ban.

It of note to say lezz, who is the victim of this
vindictive ban has made an official complaint by mail to the super mods but has not received any correspondence in rebuke or redress.... none whatsoever.


It behooves to ask, don't bans like these portray the office of the Moderators as biased, vindictive, personal and vengeful? Especially as it is a forum wide ban.

Not withstanding the fact that lezz was provoked and lured into the fight. And one keeps wondering why alternates are scattered all over the forum.

Mr. Seun I don't know if you gave your mods guidelines on the length of bans to implement, or if it is left to their discretions ,but I know tribal insults, genocide endorsement and threat to the existence of Nairaland carry lengthy bans, not rule 2 which is bullying and insulting fellow nairalander.

A quick look at lezz's profile will show he's a thread-creator and debator and only trolls when pushed as was the case that happened here that occasioned a 5/6 months forum-wide ban.

Thank you.

This piece isn't written to protest the ban but the length of the ban which portrays a vindictive and punitive act rather than correctional.

MizMyColi:
I don't work for Tecno.
Tecno did not pay me for this post.

bukatyne:
You are welcome and gratitude is a nice attribute

I still believe 'payment' whatsoever especially monetary should be scrapped.

It has lost its relevance.

joseph1832:
And I suppose you're the Architect of Knowledge?

lezz:
The truth is the first victim of war! Do not give in to European journals of Africa's state of affairs during colonialism and slavery; Do not be a willing post-colonial slave of Western propaganda. Africans sold mainly slaves to Europeans as slaves. Slaves of rival communities and tribes from the spoils of war.

Besides, Africans enslaved up to 1.5 million white Europeans in the 14th-16th century in the Barbary slave trade


Only a smattering amount of our ancestors in Calabar did that! Our ancestors in Western Nigeria and beyond worshipped them! Besides did not majority of Europeans burn scientist and opinionated people alive at an institutional level? See ya life?
And the West are so damn ingenious they invented the internet and social media and Yahoo boys are reaping them out in millions of Euros for decades now? Use your head.



You mean like the Pharos? Did not European kings do worse? Were not European kings who ordered and sanctioned the genocide of peoples in Native America, New Zealand, the aborigines of Australia, Congo, Ethiopia? Or the premeditated starvation to death of their own people in Ireland?


Your preconceived submissions are a sharp pointer to one who's a willing victim of mental and psychological defeatism.

Africans are a communal lot who never abandoned thier old parents or relations. Unlike the West where the government are forced to set up old people's home to look after aged folks whose sons and daughters are in the cities enjoying the Kaleidoscope of city vanity.

Folks die and are buried with strangers at funeral rites....damn!

Why don't you paint yourself with native chalk to be white....It's cheaper than the path you tread.

5minsmadness:
I hear u
There's a 99% probability that with all this your making mouth, your family will still give a list to your fiancee and you will blush with pride when he fulfils it all


I left the other 1% out for the sake of statistics

byvan03:
You and physical /spiritual realm are like 5 n 6 . In that case, the biblical method of serving the girl's father for a few years will suffice, am sure there won't be any cow required afterwards.

byvan03:
I can't wait for every damn thing to be scrapped, let's see what is there to hold onto. You totally got the drift. The koboko method should be the bride price, since they need something to win, money is too disposable . I doubt any man will subject himself to that without being blind,deaf and crippled in love. This method certainly will be more preserving for the institution. When you want behave like the devil's sanitary pad and remember how many strokes you endured to win her, you comport yourself.

cococandy:
Surprisingly guys are the one who want to uphold the practice of bride price. Even though they sometimes claim it is exorbitant.
And not surprisingly you're the ones who bring it up when you want mock women. "After I paid your bride price" bla bla bla. Most guys I've come across in this forum bring it up as avenue to mock women whenever the issues of equal treatment being discussed.

Does it take Einstein's IQ to deduce that the only reason why men want it continued is so that you can have something to hold over the woman for the rest of her life? Not that you care so much about culture. You only care about culture when it's the one that massages your egos and put women in a secondary position.

You and OP and the rest of you dudes should spare us your pseudo concern for 'our culture'. We know what you really care about. your fragile egos.

bukatyne:
@Bold:

The Bible says a man will leave his father & mother and cleave to his wife....

Isn't the husband the one to leave his family? Shouldn't women be the ones paying their husbands? At least, we have such in India and Britain (till it was cancelled).

@OP:

I really agree with byvan03 though we don't collect money and the wife's family present some gifts to he hubby's family and hosts the ceremony.

The term 'price' connotes a transaction.

omakay:
The bitter truth is that people are beginning to use this harmless traditional rite as a commercial means to an end. People now see the bride price rite as an opportunity to extract money and valuables from others all in the name of keeping tradition.

If we are really to go back to the original bride price requirements, we would truly discover now that 'padding' did not just start in the federal sector. It has being actively practiced in the traditional marriage sector too.

#PovertyIsAVirus

SalomonKane:
Can we see a link to the facebook age, OP? And verify if the story is accurate?

Lalasticlala, Dominique, please take note.

byvan03:
"Unclad wisdom" really? I can't even begin to punch holes on their "Unclad wisdom", too tired for that. The only thing returned is the token monetary price, what happens to every other thing on the list which they also accepted in cash or material? Why should the father be appeased? A culture mostly driven by greed and too much want. My opinion is born out of careful consideration and not prevailing circumstance. What do you think about the entire list being scrapped and the token itself which is always between 5-20k maintained? Don't you think it will make the process less commercial?

byvan03:
Why is it that your threads never escape a showdown? People end up cursing out themselves .

byvan03:
The assertion that the ancestors are full of wisdom is only for those that refused to think beyond norms and chose not to question conventions .

byvan03:
You said it means a lot to men, I suppose the same feeling you get when you buy an expensive car. The matter at hand has nothing to do with a woman's placement , whether out caste or free born, as a matter of fact totally unrelated.

byvan03:
There is nothing honourable about being priced, a woman's true worth should be priceless. A symbolic item would have made more sense than the long list and a few coin. Do you know that bride price is haggled? What's respectful about being priced like a commodity?

byvan03:
Being a requirement doesn't change the fact that it is monetary , humans should be priceless. It's hardly different from being sold.

byvan03:
Okay ooo, to each his own. A symbolic item like calabash, cowries e.t.c will serve as better price. I don't see anything symbolic about goat, yams, kolanuts and a few change. The term " price " is even worrying, very commercial . One will have to stick it out for this life time,i guess some things never change.

byvan03:
People get hitched because they want to forge a life with the one they love . It's not a favour to either party, so I can never understand purpose of the list. It makes it look more of a commercial activity , where the buyer expects to derive maximum utility from goods purchased .

byvan03:
I don't see how giving out a list and a few farm animals = honour for any woman . I really do hate the concept of bride price, a tradition that neither had usefulness nor purpose .

crackhaus:
Hmmm, this your list is inconclusive.

Our so-called Nigerian feminists still dey give list and collect brideprice before person fit marry dem na...why the confusion?

Your Category 5 should be:

[size=18pt]THE POST-MODERN CONFUSIONIST[/size]