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Nurudeen06:
Oh

May God help them out

Na God help them collapse the economy with massive looting and recklessness?

MsJackson:
Hello my uncles and aunts.

I'll make this as brief as possible. I teach in a school where the owner uses his father's compound, back flats. His family lives in front apartment.

Some months ago, last year precisely, i had an issue with his sister, last born, and i decided to avoid her totally to prevent future occurrence. I face my job and do it well.

We the teachers observe that the family always call their son to report any issue, especially if we faltered in some cases. It was getting too much.

So on that day, exactly two weeks ago, we were asked to oversee the students sporting activities, done in front of the school compound. I was walking out with my colleague and we were discussing something we both saw on social media, about gistlover. The sister overheard it and believed we were talking about her, calling her gistlover.

She walked up to me and confronted me in a harsh manner. I tried explaining to her that we weren't referring to her, but she wouldn't listen and before you know it, we were exchanging words. I said a lot because I was angry that she singled me out to confront, when we were two discussing the issue.

She was telling me to get out and i was sooo angry that I used the f word on her. Later, her parents came back and she reported me to them. Without calling to hear my side of the story, they both told their son to send me away. The mother even said that wherever she saw me, she would strip me naked. Their son my boss came, me and my colleague were called to say what happened,we did, then my boss told me to go home and stay put for a while.

After a week,he called and told me my services were no longer needed, that he made his own private investigation from the students and they confirmed I used the f word on his sister. I am not innocent. I admitted my fault, but he refused to temper justice with mercy. He promised to pay me for this month, but my reputation is stained. AGAIN.

Considering the fact that I had some issues with a previous school two years ago, very close to this one. There I resigned on my own. Now everybody is looking at me like I am a bad person. I AM NOT. I try to be sooooo nice and polite, but people always take advantage of that to look down on me. I am extremely humble to a fault, even hubby says I present myself as mumu to people too much.

Is it a crime to be of small stature? I am 39yrs of age and this girl I had an altercation with, she is in her early 20's. I felt so disrespected because of how she confronted me, even poking her fingers in my face in the presence of the students, so I lost my temper. I didn't mean to. Now people are looking at me somehow. I don't feel like waking up in the mornings because I wonder how I would face the day.

I NEED A JOB, that will help me heal from this trauma. Graduated 11 years ago, Chemical Engineering, University of Benin. But I still don't have a good job, I have been teaching to hold body, but I am fed up.

The salary is sooooo small, compared to the work load I was handling. I would love to work in a good company, but nobody, no one is willing to give me a chance. I am depressed daily. God should just use a good person to help me, wipe my tears. Sorry for the long write-up.

You were not fired. God pushed you into a higher ground. Dig in my guy and come back with testimonies.

Adeleketoyin:
My people please I need your advice.

I'm having a lil loggerhead with my Fiance.

My fiance works in a company, which doesn't give him time to come home or live in his rented apartment for long.
I currently run a confectionery shop in my father's house.

My Fiance however wants to have a joint account with me when we get married soon in this my confectionery business. According to him, he'll support me, to help him get free in the future to stop his salary work and probably start another business without affecting the family.

But I don't want to have any joint account or partner with anyone in this my confectionery business. I want my business without any check or partner.
He's insisting on joint account to run the business and its getting into our relationship.

Please what do you advice?

This your story is one-sided and incomplete. I feel there are things you are holding back. You look too clean in this story.

Notwithstanding, if this your story is as clean as you claimed, which I strongly doubt, all you need do is convince him the benefit of any business having independent account. Let him know that you planned to register the business as LLC and by law, such firm must have a separate account different from the shareholders/owners.

Assetinvestor:
If you truly believe he betrayed your people then justice demands you all should come out and throw your weight behind Peter Obi since he not only comes from same South, but specifically from the side that hasn't ruled yet.

Anyone saying that Okowa betrayed South only to openly or tactically support Tinubu is the worst betrayer ever. Such sadistic soul did not only betray South but also betrayed his conscience and the destiny of Nigeria and generations yet unborn.

Peter Obi has made monumental mistake by choosing Doyin Okupe as VP. Someone with almost zero influence.

Baabu320:
@powersurge. Thank you very much
To my pocket range the request fee is too much and do you have a computer schoon or institute where they can learn?

Nop.

RSQLPython:
Are you open to consulting jobs? I am looking for smart data scientists or analysts to work in my new consultancy company. It will be a contract position and compensation is going to be on a project by project basis and dependent on the difficulty of the task. Let me know.

Please send me an email. greatmaxon@gmail.com

almarthins:
Abi trash! Na people like Una dey end up sacrificial cow for those black magic people. I no need to stress my self.

This is error of judgement. How u confused sacrifice or murder with juju working or not speaks volume about your reasoning. That someone murder someone for "his gods" or for some sort of sacrifice means juju is working?

A quick Google search will show you scores of those arrested by the police who were singing like the canary birds for their crimes.

Obviously you have not gone far. There was a group in Ikorodu some years ago. These folks conjured scam so elaborate, the least they got was NGN300m. They swindled politicians seeking political offices. Their shrine was so elaborate that "they kill at least one hunchback person per week in it". The killing was done in the presence of the politicians. Except the hunchback person they "killed" every week was the same person. His name was Tunde. The guy still stayed in my mom's street till today. We grew together on the street. He got NGN200k per every death.

They have model of cars that would come out in the coming year in their shrine with names of some of the heftiest politicians.

I didn't say this to say whether juju exists or not. I grew up in the village. I had seen phenomenal that I could not explained. Then again, I was a little boy. That I could not explain it doesn't mean it's spiritual. The idea is to put on our thinking cap and STOP viewing everything with the lens of juju.

almarthins:
Wetin person like you sabi?
When devil wan catch u for corner, e go first make you think say him no dey exist. Until that fateful day, before Ur eyes go open.

If u belittle JuJu, well na u do Ur self. Real JuJu dey, fake one dey. May u live to tell the story

Do you have concrete proof of this? Not stories of what someone said pr some magic and abracadabra performed by someone around you.

Do you have with you now someone that was shot with AK47 or someone that enter Europe without visa bit through juju. Do you have with you humanoid evidence of Mama Ogene, yoir neighbor who turned to half man half cat ?

There was $100k prize tag on someone who can performed anything extra ordinary, nobody came out.

I am not saying there is or there is nor. But do i hv unrefutable proof to back it up or it's just the usual stories?

Rastaramsey:
You go like come Benin make I carry you trabaye....

Una go just dey form another thing for nairaland....

Your yeye trabaye work nahin British pursue your Oba commot palace go die for exile? Make una dey rejoice in ignorance in 21st century.

damitrillz:
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I can't drop number here o. But you can send mail greatmaxon@gmail.com

money121:
Make e no reach here ooo
Edakun

What are u saying? People are dying in Nigeria as if we are in war time you are saying"make e no reach here". Is there bigger war than the clandestine ones going on in Nigeria?

Baabu320:
Two of my siblings are in need of a computer institute or Computer center around Idimu / Ikotun axis where they can learn UI/UX and Data Analytics

If you have any lead or information kindly post it to help me oo

I can teach data analytics. But it has to be virtual. As a practicing data analtysts with 4+ years experience, no computer institute can teach them what I can. I will take them for 3 months and provide guidance gor them for another 6 months until they get their first job.

My leave is next month July. I have one month leave. I could use that one to do physical with them before I switch to virtual afterwards.

I will teach the Excel up to VBA level, Python Programming, all Python libraries for data science and modeling, Machine learning, Power Bi, Tableaux, Introduce the to R Programming, SPSS, and SQL. I will take them through practical labor market tactics and interviews.

PS: this is not cheap. You are looking at 400-500k

I thank God that blacks and Arabians are not the only humans on earth.

Election is around the corner and tensions are getting high. I will split my view into two, the present and the future.

The Present
1. Atiku: The southern stance against northern candidate for 2023 has obviously crumbled as many southern leaders are already hustling for VP slot under a northern candidate.

People like Ikpeazu, and Okowa (and perhaps Obaseki) sold the southern chance for VP slot. Something that is now biting them in the as*.

Atiku currently has no hinderance to his chances at the polls. And if he ends up choosing Wike, his chances will increase significantly. Because Wike has more political strength and alliances than Okowa and Ikpeazu combined.

2. Tinubu: Tinubu is a tactician with extensive political tentacles. His emergence as the APC presidential flag bearer against the wish of Buhari has shown his influence in the party.

However, the APC is riddled with controversies. Especially in VP selection. He's between the devil and the deep blue sea. Nigeria population is almost 50-49% between the two major religions. Any group that downgrades that in the 21st century MIGHT be playing with fire.

3. The Third Force: I spent over 3 hours last week looking for my PVC. I am going to vote for one of the people in this category ( name held). However, I personally feel that none of these folks have the chance at the presidency if they continue working separately and throwing tantrums at one another.

To win presidential election in Nigeria, you will need at least 4 zones. Apart from having the majority votes (which I don't see any of them having), you must have at least 25% of the total vote cast in at least 24 states of the federation. The author of the law did that in their wisdom to ensure that nobody would win the election on the account of his tribe, religion or population.

In a perfectly sane society, one of the third force folks ought to be the president of Nigeria. Again, no society is perfectly sane. And there are factors that determine emergence of a person as a president.


The Future
This is my personal forecast. Unfortunately, it's against my wish.
1. I feel APC will crumble due to this VP thing. No matter whom they choose, people will decamp to PDP and sabotage the party because it would go against their interest. The Senate majority leader is an example of what is to come. Even if people don't decamp, after Tinubu choose his VP, it would take just one propaganda to set the system against him. Buhari does not have the political strength of people like OBJ to handle a party like APC. And if people like El Rufai and the likes don't get their way (Moslim-Moslim ticket), chances are they will sabotage Tinubu. If they do, another problem looms.

2. Atiku MIGHT win the election because he would get sympathy votes. His a northern Moslim. And his choosing a southern Christian. Again, emphasis on MIGHT.

3. The third force will not win the election. They lack the structure, the finance, political tacticians etc. If they go to the polls separately, all of them will not have up to 20% of the total vote cast. If they form a coalition (which I doubt), it took CPC and AC many national defeats to realize that their individual strength is like a drop in the mighty ocean, they will create SIGNIFICANT headache for the bigwigs. For one, they will make having 25% in 24 states VERY difficult for any winner.

parkervero:
Boss mustapha and Yakubu Dogara are there make tinubu pick either of them

El Rufai and the likes will push APC into destruction. I heard the dwarf said he did Moslim-Moslim ticket in Kaduna and it worked. I am just laughing.

Anyways, APC is at a very very tight corner. The choice of Tinubu, a southern Moslim brought lots of challenges to the party.

If APC chose a northern Moslim, there will be a massive mobilization against them. If they choose a northern Christian, Atiku will floor them. This problem would have been avoided had Osinbajo won the primaries.

If the third force could swallow their pride and form a coalition, now would have been the time to make significant noise.

The other looming problem is for the winner of the election. I don't see how anybody whp wins the election would have 25% of the votes in 24 states as stipulated by the law. 2023 will ve very interesting.

symbolofhope:
Good day Nairalander, i held A B.eng in civil Engineering about 5years ago, did nysc in a manufacturing company, i didn't get the required site experience expected of a civil engineer during nysc, afterwards did some free lance site Engineering works, later got a contract job in a top commercial bank, now am confused, tried integrating myself into the IT WORLD, taking courses on data analytics, and the likes but finding it difficult almost a year now, I did not understand anything, please advise me

Y are you digressing into analytics? Is it because of what you heard or you have passion for it? There is no free lunch anywhere.

Sit yourself down and write down what you have passion for. Then come back here and ask questions about them.

ArewaNorth:
Farouq Kperogi is a bonafide PDP member that is why he could go any length to defame APC members and other reputable politicians to pave way for his Atiku. If Farouq is truly sincere about his writings, Atiku deserve more bashing from him than others but the fact that he worked with Obasanjo in a team saddle with the responsibilities of media and press made him very sentimental.
Southerners are left with difficult choice between two Muslims Presidential aspirants, one from their region and the other is from the tribe most of them so much despise and a Muslim Northerner.
You guys need to know that religion favours only elites in Nigeria but not masses in steering the affairs of this Nation. Buhari is a Muslim Northerner who under his watch banditry cost about half of lives that Boko Haram killed. The number of Muslims killed in Sokoto, Zamfara, Kebbi, Niger and Kaduna State is very terrible and extremely alarming and he has done nothing as a Muslim.

Osinbajo is a Christian but only condemn killing of Christians not from the deep side of his heart but because he wants to remain relevant in the eyes of Nigerian Christians, his being VP couldn't save lives of Christians killed across the Nation. VP can't play any role to change President's decisions or inactions, and in Nigeria the VP will prefer to be part of the sharing team than depend the atrocities committed on members of his faith!

Therefore, it is left for Nigerians especially the Southerners among Atiku and Tinubu to choose someone who can protect not only Christians but Nigerians and Nigeria.
This religious game won't solve our problems but keep pushing us into state of confusion!

Ur stvpidity knows no bound.

gloryhomemaker:
Hey, everyone come and celebrate with me!

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Carrots
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Rosemary leaves
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VCNg63PYuqo

This is fantastic.

booblacain:
This talk of Notherners will not vote a Nothern Christian is just rubbish talk.

They said it in Abuja early this year. The issue is the political strength of those that said it.

Hoelujohn:
If it's my name and Tinubu's name that was submitted, I am sure that Buhari will settle for me. That is how hard it is for Buhari to support Tinubu

Assuming Buhari is sane and reasons logically. But we all know that contrary is true.

Chapii:
Okowa, Wike, Makinde and all the Southern Politicians in PDP will regret why they did not work for the emergence of Peter Obi as the PDP candidate.

His name is IFEANYI, talk about his betrayal first. Makinde worked for Wike (a southener). IFEANYI worked for a northerner.

Proudlyomonna:
They are shouting power should shift down south,to which region exactly
Why can't He endorse a SE presidency to tell the world He is truly Just and Honest about His power must come to the South
I stand with Peter Obi,but if it doesn't go to him,then let the North keep it till we are ready to do this Justly and rightly
Half honesty is equal to dishonesty.

Which SE candidate is contesting in APC currently? Or do you want him to leave his party and endorse someone in another party? While Makinde was throwing his weight behind Wike, Okowa and Ikpeazu were busy sabotaging him in support of Atiku. How many SE governor has declared support for Peter Obi? You people will not remove the logs in your eyes yet you will be seeing the moth in another.

Good evening good people of Nigeria (except Tinubu and Atiku).

I will like to know what it would take to develop a SECURED FinTech platform (website only).

And if you could do such thing, you could also indicate (note I am not giving you a job YET).

DamnnNiggarr:
My entire family which includes my brothers' wives and their kids and my sisters' families was once a peaceful and an enviable large family but right now, the devil wants to destroy the family through our wives.

My wife and my younger brother's wife who were once greatest friends are now mortal enemies, they don't talk nor regard themselves as humans, this enmity has lingered for long despite me and my brother's efforts and that of my entire family, both extended, to resolve the issues between them, over the years but all to no avail.

It becomes worse by the day as we have tried everything humanly possible that is within our reach to quell the situation, but no success.
It is that bad that as I'm typing this, their enmity is starting to effect me and my brother's relationship, as my younger brother no longer calls nor chats me as he normally does. Even if I called nor chatted him, he won't pick up and neither the missed calls nor the chats would be returned.

I want to try something different, a totally different approach in tackling the situation, that's why I brought it here. I don't want anything to come in between me and my brother nor my family. I don't want anything to happen to neither my brother's wife nor my wife because the heart of man is evil, that's why I'm seeking for a resolution to the ugly situation.

please all your opinions will help a great deal in approaching it from a different perspective.
please save my family.

*Modified*
Obim, My wife is actually the cause of the whole drama,
She accused my brother's wife of having extramarital affair with me due to how close I was with her as a result of the love they(my wife and her) had for each other. It lead to a very heated quarrelling and the lady vowed never to forgive my wife in her life time and my wife whole heartedly accepted the conquest. Obim said if that will keep her away from me that it's a welcome development.

Now, how it's affecting my family is that my kids no longer go on vacation to their place likewise their kids no longer come over to my house during vacation and many more troubles it has caused my entire family.
Initially, My brother understood that it was one of the wahalas associated with women but I'm surprised and confused about his recent change in attitude.

1. From your story it's obvious your wife was at fault.
2. You are there begging the issue instead of calling your wife and set her straight in strongest of terms. How do you expect your brother's wife to flow with your wife when she has not REMORSEFULLY accept that she was wrong?
3. You and only you can set the record straight. Because it appears to me that you are romancing your wife's ignoramus.
4. If things continue, it's only a matter of time before the family pull completely apart-even extending to you and your brother.
5. Uou claim to want to do the right thing. The only way you can do the right is by doing the right thing. Do you know the weight behind your wife saying you are having affairs with your brother's wife? In some places, that allegation would be investigated BY ALL MEANS NECESSARY. And might lead to banishing either your wife or your brother's wife (depending on who is wrong). Such careless utterance (provided it's not true) ought to have gotten decisive action from you. But no, you are there looking for non-existent solutions.

gulfer:
Then they should only parade after investigation and complicity is established. What's the essence of this news when I do not see the face of the criminal I'm expected to be wary of. That law is not right and should be modified

Until you are paraded for doing nothing.

ikpumbe:
The person that covered their face is a criminal.. how can you cover their face.

There is a recently enacted law in Lagos that prevent police from parading suspects on media.

I am happy that Lagos made that law. because parading suspect is dehumanizing. We have seen on several occasions when police paraded innocent people. Even went as far as putting guns in their hands only for the court to acquit them. But they have ruin their lives and images in the society.

Until a man is convicted by competent court, it's unpalatable to parade him on media

Malory:
Another stale propaganda from the Russia hating OP. Maybe Russia denied him Visa in the past

Una no just won get sense

Onyi22:
You r crying over a broke Nigeria guy who is not worth your tears, next time go for Money not Love

And if we check u now, u no get ordinary spoke.

Kingcalls:
U are a fool...women are no different from kids ...when they tell them not to do certain stuff, they rebel and call u misogynistic... now look at her life, una de illusion ontop equality... now, was the guy called out?? Which man go take u serious again.... when they tell them that girls are validated by sexual exposure, they start to scream, my body , my life .... sorry for urself

Mumu said "a very very long time ago". How old be d mofo? Dem don give her script to come read for us.

madridguy:
The State government should consider us with no other means of transportation.
We cannot be trekking day and night.

These rogues beat and burnt a human being alive.