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anselm791:
what is 'the truth' here please?
and you really don't sound like you were once one of us, your approach felt judgemental and that's why I had my defence up.

paxonel:
society is faulty, lets be scriptural.

Only the bible can reveal the truth. It says whoever finds a wife findeth a good thing, not who has done marriage ceremony.

anselm791:
dude, relax. its just sex. everybody is getting some, it doesn't make it any less of a sin, but it also doesn't make it any more of a sin than telling a lie.
we were doomed on arrival, hence Grace, but our obsession with just 'sex' as a sin is what I find appalling.

paxonel:
are bf and gf not married couples?

Whats the difference between bf and gf with the married anyway?

paxonel:
How about casual sex between bf and gf of 18+, is it good or bad?

MuttleyLaff:
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Glory and honour to God for witnessing 2019 which equates to a brand new 365 new days and 365 new chances to do the right thing

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I vehemently wish my above aforementioned neighbours to stop overthinking too much because it's alright not to know all the answers

HAPPY 2019 everyone!

anselm791:
I dont know, but I think if I dont spend the money required to have sex, I might actually give it to the church.

Jamesmatic:
I just had 9 round like a freak...

UceeGod:
It's a certainty, study the book of Revelation. Most people who profess to be Christians will still not repent even after been shown their corrupt ways because their hearts are far from God. May God help us to stay on course.

jesusjnr:
This lovely incredible stuff. Keep it up!

Mikefrik:
Having the knowledge about the act and sin called masturbation is the worst thing that has ever happened to me and I regret having the knowledge. I regret even meeting the person that introduced me to the act. twas in my secondary School days, I had a friend. he introduced me to the act and since then I have not been living a normal life. Am down as I want to serve God but it's drawing me back. I wish I had the power to stop this. I also wish I could see that my friend again- I would give him a beating of his life.

VICOiheaka:
keep quite my friend accept that jesus christ is the word of God made flesh read john 1:1

gisthabit:
Sometimes a job search can be so frustrating, annoying and overwhelming, especially when you are in an urgent need of a job.
It often feels like there is so much you need to do to become employable in so little time.

This is even worse in the current state of our economy where job loss is on the increase and job creation has taken a nose dive.
In this article, we will discover the secrets to get a dream job in the highly competitive labour market.

#1 Apply for jobs that are never advertised

Most of the really great and high paying jobs get filled even before they are advertised by companies.

Generally, the process of interviewing and selecting a qualified and successful candidate is always tasking and tedious when a job position is advertised considering the numerous people that will be applying for a single position.

Companies find it easier to deal with when the applicants are few so most times, to save time and resources they prefer to screen the qualified few that have applied even without advertising the job.

To achieve this you may need to talk or make friends with an insider in the company to enable you to get information as soon as there is a vacancy.

#2 Don't allow yourself to be discouraged by lack of experience

When developing and reorganizing your résumé for the new role or job you want to apply for, think and tailor your current skills and abilities to the job role you will be applying for.

For instance, knowledge of customer relationship, marketing and sales, information technology will be of great relevance in most careers.

#3 Improve and get new skills

In 2019 companies will be needing not just professionals with the regular requirements or certifications but professionals with skills that are necessary for them to function exceptionally well in their chosen career.

To continuously create opportunities around yourself and to remain marketable, there is a need to develop mastery in your chosen field.
Begin the year by learning a new skill, take advantage of the enormous and unlimited information available to you on the internet.

#4 Don’t depend solely on your résumé

No doubt having a good résumé is the first step to get your foot in the door of your prospective employer and sell yourself to them.
But believe me, in 2019 employers are going to step up their game when it comes to hiring new workers by going as far as checking online to see if you have showcased yourself on the social media.

You can create a professional portfolio on places like Facebook, Instagram, Twitter and LinkedIn and showcase your professional values, achievements and worth to your prospective employers.

Another great advantage of social media portfolios is that it increases your chances of getting hired as it announces you to companies that are searching for your skills.

#5 Don’t just work for the money

In a Bollywood movie titled 3-Idiots, Ranchodas Chanchad said the following; “make your passion your profession”, “follow excellence and success will chase you pants down”.

Do a self-searching and discover the work that brings out the passion and inner strength in you and gives it a try. If you belong to the group that works just for the money, the titles and power that comes with career growth them you will never find satisfaction and fulfilment no matter how hard or how long you try.

I give you a great example of someone that followed excellence and fulfilment: I know of a woman, an ex-banker who had a thing for cooking.
She quieted her high paying banking job about 10 years back and went into a catering business where she cooks for people during events. At first, she was just doing it for the fun of it not minding the little money she made as income after expenses.

As time went by, the business grew into a multimillion naira catering and event management business. Currently, bankers cue up in her offices convince her to bring her business account to their financial institution.

If you haven’t seen the 3-Idiots MOVIE, I strongly recommend that you do!

#6 Don’t quit your current job

Never do the mistake of quitting your current job while you are yet to secure your dream job. A bird at hand is worth hundreds in out there.

You can rather invest your time before and after work into doing something gainful.
No one says that you cannot get another short time job that will not affect your main job.
The popular belief that having more than one short periods jobs will burn you out is not true but instead worry, stress, idleness and joblessness will.

In developed countries, people do more than one job and still lead a normal and healthy life.

There are several short time or side jobs you can do side by side your main job, read my post on Top paying online business you can do in 2019.

#7 Show sincere gratitude in your current place of employment

Most people love working with thankful, humble, sincere and honest people who give their all to in anything they are assigned to do.
If you have been slacking in your current job, do yourself good by stepping up your game, go the extra mile to do your very best.

Note that the key to happiness is solely in your hands and has nothing to do with your company or bosses. So stop being an emotionally disengaged staff.

#8 Get off social media and back in the game of work

Yes, you need to exercise some level of self-discipline over the use of social media. Once you have uploaded your credentials, get back out into the real world and get back to work.

Social media isn't a job, it is just a tool. Limit your time on social media to maybe during break hours. A teacher doesn’t live for his pen. He or she puts it to work writing things.

Aristotle the great once said, "You will never do anything in this world without COURAGE. It is the greatest quality of the mind next to honour,"

Dr Mae Jemison, who is the first African American female astronaut said, “Never be limited by other people’s limited imaginations,”

The power to choose lies in you, don’t waste your time irrespective of where you are working instead focus on your job and manage it.

Find something you love and start doing it.

If you love writing – get your writing pad and kick off.

If you love to do graphic design – explore the creativity in you.

If you enjoy doing web development – practice and play around with different projects.

Remember practice makes better!!!


Source: http://gisthabit.com/8-top-secrets-to-land-your-dream-job-in-2019/

Remman:
Any person that emerges is God's will for us.

obembet:
I know that every moment should be the best one since you are required to live them to the fullest, but there are some who always stand out.

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We are 100% sure that one Nairalander will still ask the OP, 'how was your night' after reading this!

post=74312023:
JESUS IS LORD FOREVER AND EVER .

GOOD NEWS!

Mobilia:
Yes it absolutely is....
Truly humbled...thank you for your blessed threads also...
I've been reading them...
I'm so ready for 2019..
May God bless you, brother, even more in this new year...which, of course, He will...

alBHAGDADI:
Except a man be born agaim is different from repenting of sins. Being born again is the same as believing in Jesus. Repenting of sins is not writen I'm the Bible as a requirement for heaven.

bloodofthelamb:
Jesus has become unprofitable to you, if you think/believe that you have to tithe to get that breakthrough you seriously need.
Jesus has become un profitable to you, if think/believe that you have to give a tenth of your income in other for the devourer to be rebuked.

Jesus has become unprofitable to you if you think you have to fast to get God to answer your prayers.

Jesus has become unprofitable to you, if you think/believe you have to do some certain things(like being in the gathering of the saints) for God to love and accept you. Breaking News: God have given you all of his blessing, favour and love in Christ Jesus without you asking for it or fasting and praying for it. Believe it and enjoy it!

Don't make JESUS CHRIST unprofitable in your life through wrong thinking and believe system. Much love!
Jesus is all we need from God and He has been given to us freely. Please do not put a price tag on the grace and gift of God.

Immorttal:
thanks for understanding me, not a religious person though, didn't rule out the possibility of a creator. 100% sure there is a creator, whether he wants us to acknowledge him as God is another thing. and in all his creations, none has a monopoly over another.

Immorttal:
Good move by freeze, until we move away from the rot called religion we'll never see utmost progress. Religion beclouds the mind, it removes reasoning out of a person. How university graduates thinks they are giving their hardearned cash to God and not to a pastor baffles me, ya'll have been played.

Immorttal:
Good move by freeze, until we move away from the rot called religion we'll never see utmost progress. Religion beclouds the mind, it removes reasoning out of a person. How university graduates thinks they are giving their hardearned cash to God and not to a pastor baffles me, ya'll have been played.

Moreoffaith:
She lend it bro.

KikBuhari2Daura:
In 2015 When Mr Buhari was contesting for President said ‘Boko Haram will be a Thing of the Past if You ELECT Me’.

In 2018 Buhari is now saying ‘Boko Haram will be a Thing of the Past if You RE-ELECT Me’.

Buhari fooled you in 2015, shame on him. But if he fools you in 2019, the shame will be on YOU! Reno tweeted .

The statement came on a day Boko Haram took the second largest city in Borno state and hoisted it's flag after sacking the MNJTF in Baga.

Buhari has kept the underperforming service chiefs in office beyond their retirement ages a situation that has greatly reduced the morale of troops and offcers according to media reports .

Here is what Nigerians are saying about Buharis statement in Uyo Yesterday

Source :
https://twitter.com/renoomokri/status/1078899302980698112?s=19[/quote]At least before Buhari, BH feared soldiers. Now, they eat our military for breakfast.
Buhari has a good intention, but the power to achieve it, is not his.
We need a Christ-powered president.
I wish Osinbajo swapped with him as President. Nigeria will certainly experience turn around.
Not every one who call themselves Christans are Christ-powered. They quenched the Spirit a long time ago. A true Christian president in Aso Rock will turn Nigeria around and establish peace, unity and prosperity in all the states.
It won't be Him achieving this but Christ in Him, the hope of glory.

Buhari has good intentions but the forces in Aso Rock are beyond him. Atiku would most likely perform worse.
Yes, Nigeria's problem is spiritual.

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