₦airaland Forum

dway4ward:
This is where all the knowledge and experience garnered by the NLNG leadership should come in play. Will they take a short-termist decision because of present economic clime? Or will it be a decision in line with their own original market strategy?

Note: typical Nigerian companies always think short-term and is why they typically do not survive generational change.

NLNG management has to define a company strategy and stick to it, else it could precipitate unhealthy organizational practices in the future and ultimately ruin. So many cannot see it, because so many think short term.

I really don't understand you guys.. so you're saying the present economic situation isn't enough reason to reduce the number of intakes or delay the recruitment? Really? How do they cater for all the intakes given the situation? Shell, Chevron etc have sacked so many staff members, does it mean they don't have plans for the future? Or the sacked staff weren't productive? How can you put your company at the mercy of an uncertain future? If your revenue generation declines, you have to find ways to reduce costs immediately. .or you want them to fund the administrative costs from their reserves? .... If in the future things change and they need more hands, they can always employ.. Companies that were earning maybe trillions, now earn billions and you're telling them to act like everything is ok? How many oil companies are recruiting at this time? Many have put theirs on hold.. Oil price is fast declining and you're telling them to incur more expenses? When they should be looking for ways to cut costs. . Besides, they have many productive staff; not like no staff already..

You're just being sentimental if you say the current situation isn't enough reason for delay or whatever.. it's just unfortunate the oil price saga is happening at this time... You guys should just be patient...

tottinova:
E be like sey you no sabi read
He said he persuaded her not to carry the wood buh she insisted.

Really? If she was his gf..she would have allowed her abi?

MadCow1:
Dear TeHN..


If we can locate that guy, I will pay for a Pedal tricycle for him.



cc: R321

I'm also willing to contribute to helping this guy with my little token...when the arrangement is made..

Can't hold back tears...

Europija:
.....But when he calls me at night.he will talk very good with me n laugh n smile...n we will talk like for 1 hour or 2...In his talk it doesnt seem like he looses interest n he still talks about our future

why not visit him and get a clearer picture?

tyconcepts:
Firstly ..... He's not on a visit, he stays here and has for the past 2years.

Secondly ..... Am of the opinion that if you stay in a house you should contribute your quota to the running of the said house, that said I can't clean after him nor cook for him while he sits and fold his arms in the sitting room doing nothing day in and day out ..... NO!

Thirdly ..... We use to be close as in sit and gist and laugh et all. DH was even surprised that we are going down well (DH knows the brother has funny attitudes) and I once told DH he misunderstands his brother. I even played the role of a go between DH and the brother but you don't expect me to keep quiet when he does something wrong simply because I want to be friends with him ..... No way. He hates being corrected and I hate people that can be corrected.

Fourthly ..... I don't hate him else I won't have tolerated him for the past 2years now + I have his mate as my younger brother hence I thought we could flow well from the started. I don't see anything big boyish in the chores he does (wash plate, sweep n iron). Have never sent him to wash my clothes nor Mofe's own neither have I sent him to buy me sweets or biscuit.


You read me wrong!!!

2 years? ? That's a long time o.. Probably misread you. .. but he should be doing something for his life as he is an adult.. isn't he in school?

Ofcourse he should contribute that's why I said he tries considering the chores you mentioned he does.. do you want him to be cooking his own food?

No, you can't keep quite when he does something wrong but correct him subtly.

The chores ain't too big for him, I made my statement because you said the "ONLY THING" he does is just this and that..hence I wanted to tell you that he actually tries. .

The decision lies with you and husband.. I must commend you though, 2years is a longtime. .. This is a case of friendship gone wrong because he has overstayed. .

@ tyconcepts ..why is he at your house? I like defined visits. .

Truth is that you have to overlook some of the things he does..you ain't in competition with him.. You have to know he's a 'big' boy and deserves some respect from you. You really can't be scolding him like a lil child or sending him on errands here and there without courtesy. . Seriously, he tries considering the chores you mentioned he does in your house ..some guys won't even raise a finger... You can't be treating him like a subordinate or something. .

When my brother in law came to our house to spend some time, we were gisting like siblings .. I didn't try to show him class or let him know I'm the boss here, this made feel so welcomed.. He in turn respected himself and would even do some chores without my knowledge because he felt so free..

From the way you write, i could deduce you dislike the guy and you're overreacting ... Seriously, you ain't in competition with him, not in YOUR own house..You're losing your respect by all these bruohaha..This is my opinion.(could be wrong)

However, if you feel his presence is causing harm.. Your husband can always send him home ...

"There was a man who came to repair his car at a mechanic workshop at that time, he left his car and climbed a fence in fear. When we told the man on the fence that the hoodlums had gone and he should come down, he refused.”

^^^^ chaaiiii

ThankGod one has been apprehended, he'll lead the security to their hideout. .

lilmax:
Once again since the man is not the victim then “mind your buisness“

So his family isn't his business? ?

simpleseyi:
So, your biological father has now turned to a mere " this man" just because he has another wife. Do onto your father what you want your children to do unto you.

JUST?


Op, just confirm the story first before you take any action.

FullOfShame:
I really want to. It's just so difficult. I've actually started and then the disappointment in their voices makes it hard for me to tell the whole truth

They sure will be so disappointed. .put yourself in their shoes ..
Just talk to any member of your family who you're closest to, the person may now convince others. ..

However, you have to make some strict resolutions. . What you make of your life today is what you reap tomorrow, remember your parents won't be there forever .. Be more serious. . All the best..

Hmmmmmm

You deserve some strokes of koboko and some days at tb joshua's deliverance room...


Anyway, you have no choice than to beg your parents again except you want to be a dropout. .

daveson07:
Nl no dey carry last,,I swear all your advice entered the better part of mah body,mature minds do still exist
tank y'all my fellow Nl,,you've all make my day,,i'm gonna do as u said with pleasure...tnx

You really sound like a good person. . Just help her since it would take nothing from you... You can never lack....

Remember to do proper marriage rites for your babymama.. All the best...

Are they demanding the whole money from you? If the whole, I wouldn't advice you do that.. This is money you want to use and build yourself(including family). . What happens after you give it all out? You start staying at home again?

Are your parents incapable of paying the fees or they just want the money to come from you?

Tell them you have already engaged the money in a business. . And yes, try and put the money in a good business(I suppose you have a good plan already), you can help with your brother's tuition et al from the proceeds. ...

no be same school you go come dey jobless now? Entrepreneurship is wonderful, don't let them kill your dream biko... Dont give out the whole money...All d best

TheRealAdonye:
I hail you back, Ma'am

Frontseat go dey empty for a while o.

cool... Make e no dey for long shaa, lol..


Happy birthday macmaster01 ... God's blessings. .
Been a while! !

dt4omoh:
Debbie,God bless you for the good work.Pls do u ve any opening for fresh/graduate trainee job?Thanks.

Read up, there's an entry level job there..

Weldone Debbie. .

Heineken:
Debbie you're a good girlWoman. I go marry you. Lol

Person wey don get children na you wan marry.. make oga no catch you oo

True

When she tells you "Nkechi, if a guy touches you, you'll get pregnant" .. You'll be running from your male classmates

When she tells you, "I took first position all through school"

You guys broke up and he moved on.. Being in a different state helped him move on so fast...
Don't even think about breaking his marriage, you have to move on too... There are wonderful guys out there; they'll probably come around. ..

Apply the lessons learnt in making your next relationship better. ..


Again, please don't go communicating with him, allow him to have his marriage in peace. .

davide470:

Chaiiii... it's well sister. . Be strong, you'll pull through ok? You're in my prayers. . *hugs*

davide470:

E383:
Hi mom.

Hi uncle


Therealadonye , I hail ooo ..
Meanyl, hope na babe wey dey this thread go occupy the front seat

ibolomo:
a few hours after fertilization, for identical twins, a single egg divides in to two (twins) and if the seperation is faulty or there is incomplete seperation, conjoined twins ensue.

so it's not what one has control over?

Lero15:


I know say na you start this cassanova thing. I remember.

Still wondering how I won this award... Or how una vote me

..

You're just jovial, the award is for fun..

boman2014:
whhatt da hell

Hopping from one girl to the other .... Mtcheeeew

Lalasticlala , biko bia .. our sister here has been 'scammed' by a 'hustler' ....

Lajibade ^^^, just move on.. He used you to get to the US ... Too bad, he would have just officially ended the marriage instead of keeping you in the dark ....

Depends on the kinda relationship you have with him..
Is he also the kinda person that likes seeing his employees succeed?

If you must involve him, make sure you have exhausted other means shaa..

veevean1:
no leave no transfer, am fine dear

Good to know

ElDeeVee:
Well, they'll definitely disappoint.
It's a Chelsea day.

Let's see who wins .. will come bk to holla you after the match

Can't see the dirt

Op, indicate where the dirt is and reupload...

He probably yearned to come to the USA and you were just a means... Just move on..

How did they issue him a visa with that certificate? I guess he's probably hiding the genuine one from you. .

However, don't you communicate with him? You can get the truth from him...

E383:
I go let you know how far. For now, we no dey see road do any other thing. As I speak, I face paper.
Will keep you posted. How is our boss?

Eeeeyyaa, I understand. .it's well..
He's doing good...