₦airaland Forum

Marxxx:
Mind your language your man!

You're very insensitive!
To use the arithmetic alone to judge someone's capability shows how irrational you're.. is the potential job about solving arithmetics? Even at that, why couldn't you test further? How could judge them because of that!
In your mind now, you don do well? I really pray Karma doesn't visit you because you must surely attend interviews one way or the other. ...

rchilee:
There is nothing at oil mill market...I got my stuffs at Momsi (along artillery), Goshen baby shop (market jinction) & another shop beside First Rivers hospital but it all depends on your budget cos stuffs I got are expensive. A colleague suggested Aba, if you have the strength you can go.

my friend got all her baby clothes from oil mill shaaa...
Thanks for the suggestions. .
Aba sure pass..

Lizypumping:
PreaVA nawa o.. angry and bitter is a very strong word in case you don't know. Bitter for wetin? Nairaland abi real nairacash

Sorry for my choice of words but some people don't just like 'happy marriage' threads, you'll hear comments like: keep it to yourself, liar, bla bla...

But bring a topic like: my husband cheats on me or beats me..they'll all be there having fun and nobody doubts the story...

She made a better comment after people called her to order.. what stopped her from making such comment at first?

Adaobi12:
If you a good sense of humour, you will see that dyt wasnt serious about what she said. Her post is a funny one.

Nothing funny about her posts, it rather sounded angry and bitter. . Except my sense of humour is on vacation?

Make una enjoy una marriages please and if you want to talk about it, feel free..

Idydarling:
I wish mine is like urs, am ashamed to admit this, I don't even wish my enemy to have one like mine

And why are people liking this post? It has the most likes on this page.. what's there to like? Or people are just attracted to negative things?
Many people praised their mums but no likes


It's well idy... better days ahead!

What's his plan after he has quit? Any plan yet?

Vyolet:
Lol, ask a man why he cheated? He would not give any reason na, he will say it is the devil. No point filling any void as well, are you slim and trying to get fat for him or fat and trying to get slim? Watch him go after the very physique you are trying to avoid all for his sake. Big tummy? He will even go for ladies with bigger tummy.

Funny but sad.. a lot of men have no shame...

I must acknowledge there are still exceptions shaa...

ambient:
my dear I don't really know those places .oya send me your list sharp sharpsharp

What about oil mill market on Wednesdays? Heard baby stuffs specifically clothes, are quite cheap there..

Marxxx:
Now you have just striked the nail on the head....what investment have I made? I can't work and run another investment....that is suicidal. I need someone who is emotionally smart someone who is hungry to achieve. Because she will be at the vanguard of anything I venture into but she is not putting up that smart attitude. It goes beyond food or clothing. I told her to take a course or an additional degree but she preferred giving me a million excuses ranging from family to what have you....seems people here don't just grasp my point...its cool anyway....

I think I understand you now... I also need a partner I can make major decisions with and discuss important issues with. .. she seems not to be a go getter, she's ok the way she's. . She's your gf, keep trying she'll come around hopefully. .. Remember she stood by you when things weren't rosy.. You can find ways to reach out to her better. ..
You can sit her down and tell her the big plans you have for both of you, what part she'll play and how you'll really need her good involvement...

I wouldn't advice you leave her because marriage goes beyond thinking big, you need someone who understands, respects and helps u in hard situations..

Your first post was centered on material things, how she didn't buy good clothes et al...hence people's comments

I hope op doesn't end up with an 'indomie' girl..then, come here complaining to us about how she spends money on frivolities, can't cook and can't keep a house tidy. ..

This op thinks the whole relationship revolves around him.. feeling like you've made it, what big investments have you made?

I hope you don't regret your decision shaaa..

Concerning his prospects, you should know whether he's promising or not through discussions, actions et al.. what plans does he have for the future? Or he doesn't talk about it?

Moreso, you shouldn't judge his prosperity based on age... he can still make it..

All the best..

Seems he doesn't 'feel' you anymore. . Just want to be fulfilling his obligations as a husband ... Has he ever complained about your looks or something? What may have caused his loss of interest? Is he undergoing any difficulties? I really hope he isn't going outside

What about including 'sex' everyday on the timetable?

Yomieluv:
my wife works in the island,and stays with her weekdays,and comes home on Fridays to avoid stress,and since her place isn't far from her office.

The only weekend i have with my wife,she's there again.

Haba,make i enjoy my wife na alone.-walk naked,,cuddle her etc,she won't let me do that with her presence. Lol

Aahhh, I understand bro

Since she stays with her during the week days, don't understand her coming again.. However, handle her softly, I'm sure she means good.. maybe ur wife is her only companion, so when she goes on friday, she follows her
She may eventually stop, just give it time.. hopefully she gets something else to keep busy with. ..

Also, you can always enjoy your wife in the room
Except you stay in one bedroom apartment..

However, if you guys decide to curb her coming, your wife should do that, not you.. to avoid misunderstanding. .

Hmmmm, so guys have issues with MILs too?

Does her presence cause you any problems? Or you don't just want to accept her? Thought guys overlook stuffs like this...

MadCow1:
Yes Sir I can. The total cost is even way under my anticipated budget for this cause.

Support for his business was the Grinding machine. We sent the OP to ask the man directly how we could be of assistance and he asked for the grinding machine and to aid with mobility for him.

Everyone is invited to support, I just don't know how we will manage contributions. We need a known, trusted and verified Nairalander or TeHN to assist with managing contributions.

Chaiii, may God bless you and replenish your pocket.... I also love your swift and active approach. .

How do we go about making our own lil donations in order to support madcow? Wish tehn can step in..
Cc:
TeHN, kunle75, tomiwa6501, Arsenate vivaciousviv Dexema jaybee3, r321, Agarawu23 mistarsam Aminat508 aminho uscofield HateU2 babadem2much doublecheif fuke Yomieluv vicraven HaneefahRN
FreeWorld23, allcomage ANBAKO thorpido babamajor Maogunners gozi542 rocoh mira4u babythug

MadCow1:
Wait.. I just got a response from the wheelchair company. Lemme call them.

By next week, we will close out this issue bro.

Thanks for your time.

Hi, can you handle the purchase singlehandedly?
Asides the wheelchair, what about the support for his business?

Let us know so that we can also support. .. cheers. .

^^^^^^ keep your advice to yourself. . Leave other men to do what's best for them.... Some men are happily married. ..

Women this, women that, as if all men are saints. ..as there are 'bad' women, there are also 'bad' men. . It's a pity you've been meeting the 'wrong' ones.. Maybe, when you change your mindset, you would get someone better!
Also, those women you call bad are some other person's choice!

Probably a mistake. . Nobody is beyond that, happens once in a while....

kilokeys:
she verbally abused u

U physically abused her..

U guys are even jore

Dude.. U need some space too.

The op verbally and physically abused her joor.. They were exchanging words. ..

She must still be shocked and emotionally down... I don't blame her. .

You guys exchanged words together, why raise your hands? Cos you feel you're stronger? No respect whatsoever.

You know the stuffs she loves, do those.. she'll come around.. and please don't try it again.. she's not a child..

cruzita:
u should have steered clear the moment u saw she was in NAGGING MODE that's what men do .but since the deed has been done just buy her an iPhone 6 and a car,take her on a shopping spree and everything will be normal. BUT REMEMBER DONT TRY THAT AGAIN

What nagging mode? Didn't you see where the man said that he said terrible words to her too? But decided involve his physical strength...
I wonder how couples say terrible things to themselves though .. words spoken can't be taken back, would always linger...
@iphone and car

DonChippy:
To be honest, i have really considered that but i'd prefer to have an pen relationship where i would at least have some level of freedom.
Marriage sometimes make me feel like i would be a prisoner to a woman who wouldn't allow me to admire or have a rapport with any other woman i find attractive. Very few would allow that while the wedding ring feels like restricting chains.

You are right Sistercaro but it is only a matter of time before society starts to judge someone like me for remaining single.

So this is your problem? Hope you'll also allow your wife admire and have rapport with men she finds attractive? So many of you want to have your cake and eat it.. keep a 'good' woman at home while living single outside. . Whenever you decide to marry, I hope you get a woman that fits you wella..

Keep running from your responsibilities, your eyes go clear when your friend's kids are already in the Uni...

Nkasiobi87:
thank you.honestly he has tormented me a lot just because I refuse to acknowledge his relationship with the mistress. but I post this because I think this is the last abuse I will take from him. I have been participating in lifting up the church, all the books and activities the church can boots of today are all my deeds.it hurts that some are blaming me of becoming pregnant it happen because I don't want him to say that am not playing my role as a wife to him which is why he is thinking of another woman. I once belive in endurance that is why no matter what he did I endure but this is to much and is after my kids now.I have a meeting with the church members tomorrow regarding this issue I pray God guide my words. thank you all I really appreciate all the response.

Same church members that slap and torment you are the ones calling you for meeting?

Don't you both have parents?

Cammo:
That's the problem. I hope to marry her.

Pay her bride price oga... but please don't impregnate her yet.. pregnancy alone is a big work, wonder how her studies would fare with pregnancy. .

Also, does she want to marry you? Or you want to take advantage of her situation?

OnyiloG:
I just received a text from Excel inviting me for oral assessment at Excel Corporation scheduled for 2nd Feb. 2016 at Unity Bank Complex, PH. Pls can anyone brief me more about the Legal guarantee of this interview? I'm confused. Thanks

GNLD ....
https://www.nairaland.com/2381191/signs-gnld-job-invite
https://www.nairaland.com/2654389/interview-invite-frm-excel-corporation.plz

People always taking non-issues seriously; giving relevance to unimportant things. .

Since you were already in front, she would stay at the back...no biggie.. doesn't stop me from being his wife..
if going out together, the couple would be in front but since you were there already, all these moving to the back et al is so irrelevant to me. ..

callola:
i dont wear mine, but i have seen alot of married men wearing wedding ring. Its a choice. Being married is not on the ring but in the heart

I hope you don't ulterior motive?

Happy birthday to him.. wish him a successful life..


See as he use his mouth dey grab the cake

Rukkington:
I don't av any of d ailment u listed buh av not been able to conceive..... I will start ovulation either today or tomorrow.. Is it advisable to use it after ovulation as I dunno if God will say yes dis time
I av been TTC for 4 months nw

The scan you did, was anything seen? Were you diagnosed of any ailment? If No, I really wouldn't advice you start taking all these before you disrupt your cycle et al.. 4months is a short time, you'll get pregnant soon.. one can only be classified as having issues with pregnancy after one year of trial... Please don't start taking drugs over nothing, except your doc diagnosed you of something. .

Lalasticlala , show this guy some love before he swears for you. .

"God is not like the moderators of nairaland …"




Wish you a very fruitful marriage bro... Nothing like living together as siblings or friends. . Even when one farts, the other chases him/her out of fun
Having a great sense of humour makes both of you see many issues as non-issue.. don't run a 'military' home, be playful... Also, knowing that your wife/husband can never want to hurt you deliberately makes you forgive easily. .. go out together. ...

Above all, pray together. .God first! !

Oyibo people

They value animals a lot. ..