As a typical nwafor proper that I am...I decided not to let my ancestors down by begging a woman to marry me.
It worked because my own wife proposed to me. The hanty found out she was pregnant and began begging me to marry her to help save face. If you see the way she begged me, you'd know that a desperate lady is shameless.
But as a nwafor who swore that no daughter of Jezebel will use pregnancy to trap me into marriage, I refused. When she saw I was not forthcoming, I don't know what she did with that pregnancy but it somehow vanished and that was when I went and paid her brideprice.
Till this day, I still have the bragging rights. So when I misbehave and she wants to talk, I simply remind her that she was the one who begged me to marry her.
That's unfair of you. Does the bragging make you a better person?
dre11: Atiku’s wife Jennifer relocates as ex-VP takes Moroccan fourth wife, welcomes new son
The relationship was kept entirely from the public, going under public radar even as Mr. Abubakar sought the presidency against Muhammadu Buhari in 2019.
Teju and his wife, Bolajoko, a former beauty queen got married in 2012.
They welcomed a set of twins, a boy and a girl in April 2018.
Happy birthday to him. I remember the Nigerian movie that brought him to the limelight 'Diamond Ring'. That was Nigerian horror movie back in the days ��
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If I truly love you and God forbid you cheat on me, I will forgive you and the relationship is over, but if we're married and God forbid you cheat on me, I will forgive you but we will forever be living like roommates
Nato008: what are u even saying....she was pregnant and he asked her she said is not his....is not like he was running from the responsibility now she is back claiming another thing and u are saying zip up, is like ur own issue is about sex, people having sex in relationship...if that is ur beef abeg shift..
See what you are saying, why didn't he tell the wife before marriage that he dated a girl who got pregnant, when he asked her, she said the pregnancy wasn't his?
Nato008: when u people comment like this....u make us ask this weird question" do u people read without comprehending or read to comment off point "... did u not read where he said the were in a relationship eh, did u read the OP saying he bleeped outside marriage...please read it again b4 u comment and rant biko
Bros, read your comment again, then take a deep breath and read the write up. If he had zipped up while dating, will stories that touch the heart like this, come up?
yankeenowo: HE WAS NOT BORN BLIND, HIS WIFE DID THIS TO HIM
This is Inspector Dan Matakaya Mwaka, a 31 year old police officer. Mr Mwaka was not born with this frightening appearance. What you see is the result of a normal argument he had with his wife.
One day, Dan and his wife had an argument about a house issue. He says it seemed a normal argument like any married couple and later left for work. He had a night shift so he came back home in the morning around 05:30 hours and went straight to the bed to have some sleep.
This is the moment his wife chose to come and pour acid solution on his face. Then she ran away. But it was not enough for her to spoil his face, she also acted horribly so that he couldn't escape the bedroom. She had poured water on the floor and connected it to electricity then locked the door. As soon as Dan stepped on the floor, he was electrocuted and fainted. Neighbour who had herd him shouting for help forced themselves in his house and opened the door to his room, switched off electricity and rushed him to the hospital.
He had screamed so loud for help before his neighbors came and found him in his despair. They rushed him to hospital and luckily his life was saved, but unfortunately not his eyes. Inspector Dan permanently lost his sight and now completely blind.
His wife was arrested, then released later on bail. He says he forgave her but he is not going to abandon the charges against her. He only met her at the court and all she said was that she doesn't know why she did what she did.
This is how a random conversation with a simple disagreement can lead to tragedy. He adds that every single day he lives is a struggle. All because someone could not manage her anger and emotions. Inspector Dan is just one of the many men that have suffered extreme domestic violence at the hands of evil wives. So sad.
Nawa to some parents. Your child still bedwets and you put him in a boarding school? Instead of you to teach him how to control it and stand on his own before sending him to a boarding school? Let justice prevail
ashacot: Ọnye fee eze... Young man from Enugu state gets settled to the tune of N1,000,000 + credit facilities worth N500,000 after duly completing his apprenticeship with his Boss from Ekwulobia, Anambra state. The business owner also offered to accommodate his ex Apprentice until he is able to get his own accommodation They're not even related..
imdavid704: So my dad bought this creepy bird home for Christmas, I am even scared of eating it, pls nairalanders are this bird edible for consumption, does it has any side effect after eating.
What's creepy about this bird? Some children are not just grateful jare. Abeg waybill it to me and I will bless your Father for providing Christmas meat for me
HopeSpencer: For 30 years, I practised undiluted Christianity. Don't come here with the story of 'maybe you were not saved' blabla. My life was in shambles.
I ported to black magic after visiting my powerful village kinsmen. To eat was hard before consultation with the dark powers. Then my situation improved for 2 years. During those two years, I stepped up consultation with the dark powers in a bid to stay afloat. Still, I came crashing after those 2 years.
I consulted the oracle again and was told to do sacrifices. I did them but no changes. I looked around for famous spiritualists and consulted them. No changes.
I recently met another powerful herbalist, say herbalist A. He told me what the problem is and the solution. I didn't pay for the solution but I looked for another powerful herbalist B somewhere else who told me same thing herbalist A told me. I then went back to herbalist A and paid for the solution. Herbalist A said I was to bear 3 sacrifices. He told me cost of all the 3 sacrifices and I paid it. On the day of bearing the sacrifices, he prepared only 2 sacrifices, and I didn't question him about the third. Herbalist A later reminded me 2 months later that one sacrifice is pending and he gave me a new cost. I didn't argue with him that I initially paid for 3 sacrifices. I haven't felt any difference and you reminded me of a 3rd sacrifice which I think I already paid for. Imagine, this herbalist A has more than 3 houses and I have none.
The problem here is that my problems look spiritual. I have skills that can't put food on my table.
Go to Mountain of Fire and Miracles Ministry for deliverance
Sebastine1994: I brought this issue to nairaland to straighten out some things, as the first son of the family, I am under immense pressure to defend the tradition of igbo.
my sister wants her Traditional Wedding to happen in the City, I have never seen a city traditional marriage, it sound abnormal to the ear, it seems I am the only stumbling block to this marriage. white wedding can happen in the city but not traditional abi?
truth is that most of our families reside in the city, they grew up in the city, and the cost of logistics is their excuse. please is it right that I should allow this to happen?
I have seen it happen before. There is nothing bad in the traditional marriage taking place in the city. The finances of the parties should be taken into consideration
The splendour and precision put into this wedding planning reminds me a lot of that of Ehi Ogbebor and Ken Bramor's.
4months and 12 bakers for one wedding cake is attention to the wrong details because those who ate it have already excreted it and forgotten what it tasted like. But we will NEVER forget the effort put into this wedding if it ever goes South.
Some of us who discreetly got married without cakes and shared plastic hand-fans as souvenirs are still happily married with plenty descendants but I know some who made sure their wedding was BAAD gan and the talk of the town for months who still have no offspring to show for it and those who gifted cars as wedding souvenirs who were lucky to have a child but don't have that marriage anymore.
I also know some who flew to Dubai for their wedding and few years afterwards, their jumpy marriage made the same person almost jump off 3rd Mainland bridge.
We will be here to see how the show of vanity turns out because Ndigbo have a famous saying that says, "A gbacha oso, a guo mile".
I don't know why people can't wish others well. Is there any rule that says if one spends so much on one's wedding day, the marriage would not last? And vice versa? See eh, whether you spent much or less on your wedding day, if your marriage is anchored on Christ it will over last sef.
In my current city, there's this thing I noticed... it's about guys paying TP for ladies (strangers or not) inside keke? It usually happens if the girl engages the guy in a conversation... It might end in exchanging of numbers. However, they're some stranger cases of the guy just paying for the girl without them even having a conversation!
So, dear lady, has any guy paid your TP before? How did you react?
My observations:
There are actually three types of ladies:
* First, the ones that will just accept and thank the guy without further ado.
* Secondly, the ones that will be smiling and saying "no, no, don wowie, I'm with money. " The guy will then insist and they wii then agree
* Then thirdly, (however, very rare -- the no non.sense ones), the ones that will vehemently refuse: if the guy insists/persists (which is ironic ) the girl will simply reach for her bag/purse and give the driver the money.
So, NL ladies, which type are you?
I say thank you, God bless you, smile and face my front
I told my wife that I don't wish to have another baby, because 3 is okay by me, but she insisted that she wants another baby, she has been on my neck for the past few days because of this issue.
We have 3 (three) beautiful babies already - 2 boys and a girl, which is ok for me. I ain't financially strong, and I don't want to bring any child into this world to suffer.
married and matured folks please help me out. Thanks
If she insists on having another baby, tell her the nature of your finances, if she still insists, then tell her that she would foot the bill of the incoming baby!
Adebami895: Nairalanders!!! I Need Your Advice Please
Good day, my fellow nairalanders. permit me for the blunders, this is just the way I can put it.
I have this pretty and honest girl am currently dating, she is 18 while am 21. We have been dating for 8 months now. My parents knows her and her family knows me as well except her dad. She is really into me and I love her dearly too. I have been in relationships but this current relationship seem to be different because I have never been in love to this extent. Despite the richer and well to do guys disturbing her for relationships she still stick to me.
Although I never make her lack anything even when she never requested for it. she loves me so much that she can’t do without texting and calling me daily, sometimes she even tells me to send a selfie of my self so that she can see my face. This girl is just one of a kind and God knows I truly love her and I will love to marry her if things continue this way. She runs a small business online and am even planing to surprise her with some cash next year to make the business grow. I love it when a lady is hustling.
The problem am having right now is that she is a Virgin, We normally engage in pre-intimacy, although am not satisfied with that, but since I truly love her I just have to wait till she is ready. So recently she finally told me that she is ready to get disvirgined. We have already make a date for that and I have already make plans on booking a 5 star hotel room to make it special and memorable.
I started having second taught this morning that I should not disvirgin her yet because I will be leaving for school next year to further my education while she will start processing admission to gain entry into tertiary institution of her choice, with this reason I felt if I got her disvirgined she might meet some bad peers that will make her engage in some sort of negativity and definitely she might become a hoe or she might be craving for sex while am not with her, but i felt if she is still is still a Virgin she will have my fear in her heart and be for me only.
Should I disvirgin her? or still let her be a Virgin. Am confused, I just don’t want to loose everything. I don’t want to later end up a looser in the relationship. Please nairalanders I really need your advice!! Bashing is welcome as well.
My little advice is to let her be. Just keep showering her love but don't disvirgin her. It may make her go wild with ecstasy and you won't be there to satisfy her cravings, then she will start sleeping around with other guys in school which will eventually hurt you when you find out
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