imdavid704: So my dad bought this creepy bird home for Christmas, I am even scared of eating it, pls nairalanders are this bird edible for consumption, does it has any side effect after eating.
What's creepy about this bird? Some children are not just grateful jare. Abeg waybill it to me and I will bless your Father for providing Christmas meat for me
HopeSpencer: For 30 years, I practised undiluted Christianity. Don't come here with the story of 'maybe you were not saved' blabla. My life was in shambles.
I ported to black magic after visiting my powerful village kinsmen. To eat was hard before consultation with the dark powers. Then my situation improved for 2 years. During those two years, I stepped up consultation with the dark powers in a bid to stay afloat. Still, I came crashing after those 2 years.
I consulted the oracle again and was told to do sacrifices. I did them but no changes. I looked around for famous spiritualists and consulted them. No changes.
I recently met another powerful herbalist, say herbalist A. He told me what the problem is and the solution. I didn't pay for the solution but I looked for another powerful herbalist B somewhere else who told me same thing herbalist A told me. I then went back to herbalist A and paid for the solution. Herbalist A said I was to bear 3 sacrifices. He told me cost of all the 3 sacrifices and I paid it. On the day of bearing the sacrifices, he prepared only 2 sacrifices, and I didn't question him about the third. Herbalist A later reminded me 2 months later that one sacrifice is pending and he gave me a new cost. I didn't argue with him that I initially paid for 3 sacrifices. I haven't felt any difference and you reminded me of a 3rd sacrifice which I think I already paid for. Imagine, this herbalist A has more than 3 houses and I have none.
The problem here is that my problems look spiritual. I have skills that can't put food on my table.
Go to Mountain of Fire and Miracles Ministry for deliverance
Sebastine1994: I brought this issue to nairaland to straighten out some things, as the first son of the family, I am under immense pressure to defend the tradition of igbo.
my sister wants her Traditional Wedding to happen in the City, I have never seen a city traditional marriage, it sound abnormal to the ear, it seems I am the only stumbling block to this marriage. white wedding can happen in the city but not traditional abi?
truth is that most of our families reside in the city, they grew up in the city, and the cost of logistics is their excuse. please is it right that I should allow this to happen?
I have seen it happen before. There is nothing bad in the traditional marriage taking place in the city. The finances of the parties should be taken into consideration
The splendour and precision put into this wedding planning reminds me a lot of that of Ehi Ogbebor and Ken Bramor's.
4months and 12 bakers for one wedding cake is attention to the wrong details because those who ate it have already excreted it and forgotten what it tasted like. But we will NEVER forget the effort put into this wedding if it ever goes South.
Some of us who discreetly got married without cakes and shared plastic hand-fans as souvenirs are still happily married with plenty descendants but I know some who made sure their wedding was BAAD gan and the talk of the town for months who still have no offspring to show for it and those who gifted cars as wedding souvenirs who were lucky to have a child but don't have that marriage anymore.
I also know some who flew to Dubai for their wedding and few years afterwards, their jumpy marriage made the same person almost jump off 3rd Mainland bridge.
We will be here to see how the show of vanity turns out because Ndigbo have a famous saying that says, "A gbacha oso, a guo mile".
I don't know why people can't wish others well. Is there any rule that says if one spends so much on one's wedding day, the marriage would not last? And vice versa? See eh, whether you spent much or less on your wedding day, if your marriage is anchored on Christ it will over last sef.
In my current city, there's this thing I noticed... it's about guys paying TP for ladies (strangers or not) inside keke? It usually happens if the girl engages the guy in a conversation... It might end in exchanging of numbers. However, they're some stranger cases of the guy just paying for the girl without them even having a conversation!
So, dear lady, has any guy paid your TP before? How did you react?
My observations:
There are actually three types of ladies:
* First, the ones that will just accept and thank the guy without further ado.
* Secondly, the ones that will be smiling and saying "no, no, don wowie, I'm with money. " The guy will then insist and they wii then agree
* Then thirdly, (however, very rare -- the no non.sense ones), the ones that will vehemently refuse: if the guy insists/persists (which is ironic ) the girl will simply reach for her bag/purse and give the driver the money.
So, NL ladies, which type are you?
I say thank you, God bless you, smile and face my front
I told my wife that I don't wish to have another baby, because 3 is okay by me, but she insisted that she wants another baby, she has been on my neck for the past few days because of this issue.
We have 3 (three) beautiful babies already - 2 boys and a girl, which is ok for me. I ain't financially strong, and I don't want to bring any child into this world to suffer.
married and matured folks please help me out. Thanks
If she insists on having another baby, tell her the nature of your finances, if she still insists, then tell her that she would foot the bill of the incoming baby!
Adebami895: Nairalanders!!! I Need Your Advice Please
Good day, my fellow nairalanders. permit me for the blunders, this is just the way I can put it.
I have this pretty and honest girl am currently dating, she is 18 while am 21. We have been dating for 8 months now. My parents knows her and her family knows me as well except her dad. She is really into me and I love her dearly too. I have been in relationships but this current relationship seem to be different because I have never been in love to this extent. Despite the richer and well to do guys disturbing her for relationships she still stick to me.
Although I never make her lack anything even when she never requested for it. she loves me so much that she can’t do without texting and calling me daily, sometimes she even tells me to send a selfie of my self so that she can see my face. This girl is just one of a kind and God knows I truly love her and I will love to marry her if things continue this way. She runs a small business online and am even planing to surprise her with some cash next year to make the business grow. I love it when a lady is hustling.
The problem am having right now is that she is a Virgin, We normally engage in pre-intimacy, although am not satisfied with that, but since I truly love her I just have to wait till she is ready. So recently she finally told me that she is ready to get disvirgined. We have already make a date for that and I have already make plans on booking a 5 star hotel room to make it special and memorable.
I started having second taught this morning that I should not disvirgin her yet because I will be leaving for school next year to further my education while she will start processing admission to gain entry into tertiary institution of her choice, with this reason I felt if I got her disvirgined she might meet some bad peers that will make her engage in some sort of negativity and definitely she might become a hoe or she might be craving for sex while am not with her, but i felt if she is still is still a Virgin she will have my fear in her heart and be for me only.
Should I disvirgin her? or still let her be a Virgin. Am confused, I just don’t want to loose everything. I don’t want to later end up a looser in the relationship. Please nairalanders I really need your advice!! Bashing is welcome as well.
My little advice is to let her be. Just keep showering her love but don't disvirgin her. It may make her go wild with ecstasy and you won't be there to satisfy her cravings, then she will start sleeping around with other guys in school which will eventually hurt you when you find out
sapphiere: By male, I don't mean your dad, brothers, cousins or uncles. Those ones can make sacrifice.
I mean a male friend.
Mine, the most expensive gift I ever received from a male was a BlackBerry phone in 2011
Mine was a gold rolex watch. Funny enough, I didn't know the value of it but whenever I wore it, people would always comment that I was wearing a quality watch. God bless him
ogohiochola: My friend and his wife got married since 2015 and the Marriage is blessed with 4 Children but there's no True love, he feels nothing for her and she's like a stranger.
What can he do?
Op are you sure you are not the one? All these my friend this, my friend that. Op never leave your wife, pray to God to renew the love you once had for her
Freelane33: SORRY mates . I WILL NEVER LISTEN TO ONE SIDED STORY .TELL US WHAT YOUve DONE WRONG THAT WARRANTS THE ACT
Even if she has done anything wrong, cheating is NEVER a solution. If you are tired of the relationship, it's better you break up with the person than cheating on the person
tutudesz: The Clark-Fuludu Bekederemo family of Kiagbodo Town, Delta State, wishes to announce that Emeritus Professor of Literature and Renowned Writer, Prof. John Pepper Clark, has finally dropped his pen in the early hours of today, Tuesday, 13 October, 2020.
Prof. J. P. Clark has paddled on to the great beyond in comfort of his wife, children and sibbling, around him.
The family appreciates your prayers at this time. Other details will be announced later by the family.
Signed: Prof. C. C. Clark, for the family. Mr. Ilaye Clark, for the children.
Emeritus Professor of Literature and Renowned Writer, Professor John Pepper Clark is dead. The poet is the younger brother of former Federal Commissioner for Information and South South Leader, Chief Edwin Kiagbodo Clark. In a statement signed by Prof. C. C. Clark, for the family and Mr. Ilaye Clark, for the children and made available to Vanguard Tuesday, Professor John Pepper Clark died in the early hours of today.
Sometimes, I blame the ladies, they know that the guy has no plans of taking them abroad, some even know that the guy has a white wife and yet go along to marry him, later the feeling of loneliness sets in. When they see their friends going for family outing, the feeling of jealousy sets in
Missis: Assuming you are married to a man who works as self employed selling some wholesale items that fetch him 70k every month and you have three kids with him.
Meanwhile you the wife work in a private institution earning 60k as well as selling things online that fetch very little like 10k to 15k everymonth.
So you have adviced him to get something else doing to augment your joint income because the money both of you make is barely enough for both of you and three children. You suggest you both need to add more sources of income to your present jobs to move ahead in life and advance, send your children to better schools, maybe build a house, to just upgrade yourselves generally.
So after suggesting different jobs for him he refused to do anything else except his wholesale business because he believes one day he will suddenly make it big from selling his market.
You give up and start your own third business which is part time catering and start making some considerable amount of money from it so you buy new clothes, shoes, nice snacks for your kids from time to time.
Your husband sees all this and tells you to also buy gifts for him from your 'plenty' money. Tells you to not buy new things for only your kids but you should buy also add his own.
How will you react please?
This isn't a made up story please. It's very true, I just want to know if the way I responded was reasonable or if I was wrong.
Nothing wrong. Generally, both parties are to buy gifts for each other na
SecretSpy666: Greetings Nairalanders, I want to seek for you peoples opinions regarding my family challenges.
I'm from a broken home. My parents divorced when I was a child of two years. I'm the only child from their union. My father and mother abandoned me and remarried to other spouse each. I passed through hell growing up with relatives who insulted me with all kinds of names and I was treated like a slave to their own children.
Because of public outcry about my dehumanizing treatment, my father came to village and took me to the city. It was from fry pan to fire experience as my father's new wife was maltreating me. At a point, my father asked me to leave his house that since my arrival, he don't have peace with his wife.
I packed to the house of a relative and work in a block industry to help myself. Most times, I slept in a CAC church close to the relative house as the two-room apartment is not enough for his family. My mother never care if I was alive. She never call me nor reply to letter I sent through someone to her. I continued working in the block industry and started a part time programme. I completed the part time programme and did my NYSC and master degree. I got a job with University of Ado Ekiti with the help of a course mate, managing myself now and surprisingly my mother and father started calling me often.
Both of them have 6 children each with their respective second spouse. Mother want his son to come and live with me, I refused and my father too have been requesting for financial assistance which I also refused. I don't want to have anything to do with both of them. My father's daughter recently called me to help her with school fees, I bluntly told her to ask her mother what she did to me and caught the call. Since then, she never call.
I'm alone and have just two friends. I don't have family. All of them calling now are just looking for what to get from me, not that they care about me. My mother never call me once to ask about my welfare even when I sent my phone number to her through her relative. I wrote WAEC, completed degree course before she started calling me and it is only to request for one thing or other. I'm planning to get married without telling them and build a separate family.
It's a pity you have to go through all these. Just forgive them but have nothing to do with them because if there's another chance for this to happen again, they will still treat you the same way. Humans don't change
sampete: Sometime ago last year, I gave my girlfriend some money to startup a restaurant business and she has been managing it well without issues.
She was doing so well that in no short time the business expanded, clean working and classy looking environment. Her workers were quite trained and they were neat as regards the preparation of the food they sell.
Trouble started last week. I got a frantic call from one of my Girlfriend's workers and she told me my babe got arrested by the police with some of her workers, she was the only one who eluded them.
I quickly rushed down to meet up with her as she wasn't coherent on phone. Getting there, she told me that earlier that day one of their regular customer came in to eat. According to her, the guy looked sick. He went on to ask for swallow and they served him.
Midway into his meal, this guy brought out some drugs to take and then he finished his meal. Table was cleared but the guy remained seated. Then few minutes later, he was observed to have laid his head on the table, eyes closed and they thought he was sleeping, not knowing the guy has passed off.
After like 30 minutes, one of my babe's worker decided to wake him to leave so that other customers could make use of his chair as everywhere was filled up. She raised the alarm when she tried to wake him and he was not responding. The guy was quickly rushed to a nearby hospital where he was pronounced dead.
Two hours later, my Girlfriend's restaurant was raided by the police on the suspicion that he poisoned the guy. All the food she cooked that day were seized and taken away for testing. And she and her workers have been in jail since and all efforts to see her has been unsuccessful. They won't let me see her and they won't tell me the results of their investigations so far.
I just don't know what to do. The food they claimed was poisoned was served to others and no one complained of even stomach pains not to speak of dying. I even ate from the food earlier that morning.
The way the whole case is going is so confusing and murky and it seems the guys family are well of and they are looking for someone to blame, innocent or not.
So guys, please what do I do? My girlfriend is all alone, no notable family to speak of, who could come out to help. Her parents are late and she isn't close to her relatives. I'm all she's got.
So sorry for this. Which State is she based so that we can know what to do
[quote author=emapeteum post=93879578][/quote]I no get strength to argue with you. But just take time and read your Bible, Christ did not come to abolish the Old Testament. Even Christ who said we should pray for our enemies did not tell us the exact prayer we should pray.'Pray for your enemies' is an ambiguous statement. God is a God of mercy and also a consuming fire, (people forget that easily)
emapeteum: I think Daddy Freeze attacked on certain doctrines of churches around has actually exposed the hypocricy of our pastors.would Christ respond the way our pastors responded to Freeze criticism? A food for thought!!!
My dear, calm down and read your Bible very well. Read about Prophet Elisha when he commanded bear to eat up the children that abused him, yet when he was buried, his corpse raised a dead man! There's nothing hypocritic about it, it only goes to show that Pastors are humans, you can't keep biting them and expect them not to react. We need a deep understanding of the Bible
NCAN911: My uncle na business man he only comes home at night! I am serving him.. We go to shop by 8 and comes home by 5:30 or 6
It's a pity. There's no excuse for infidelity but most men should know that buying and taking care of your wife without supplying her emotional needs can cause these. Some men believe that once they provide for the woman, they don't need to solve her emotional needs but it doesn't always work like that. May God help us
DebbieBianca: Daddy Freeze has shared lovely photos of his family, where his father, mother, wife and a child were seen, in respect to what the founder of Salvation Ministries in Port Harcourt, Pastor David Ibiyeomie said about him.
Recall that Pastor Ibiyeome on Sunday had threatened to kill Daddy Freeze for insulting Bishop David Oyedepo.
According to Pastor Ibiyeome, Daddy Freeze was insulting Oyedepo because he had no father and that if he had one, he should show his picture for the world to see.
Ibiyeome said Daddy Freeze had no wife as the one he has had left him.
Pastor Ibiyeome said that the day Daddy Freeze insults Oyedepo, "I will deal with him and arrest him. Who gave birth to you? Do you have a father? Show us his picture."
“Oyedepo will not talk but I can’t be alive and you insult my father. I curse the day you were born. I will tear you into pieces you bastard. He is insulting him because he has no father. “You can never insult a father if you have one, be warned. A man whose wife left him, has no good job, will be insulting my father and people will be laughing online. I will never be alive to see such and do nothing again.”
Daddy Freeze to prove Pastor Ibiyeomie wrong decided to post pictures of his family and loved up video of his parents.
E pain am eh. At least someone has 'freezed' Daddy Freeze mouth for a while. Make internet rest small on top religion matter wey he dey carry for head. Pastors are humans too, talking bad about them in order to trend it's a no no.
Zealoy: Hello guys pls I will like some advice from mature minds here, there's this girl am dating she's very pretty, sexy and hard working, she loves me so much that each day that she didn't hear my voice it will seems to her as if the world is coming to an end
The problem is I didn't love her equally the same way she loves me, initially I only wanted her for sex but she's getting too attached to me, and there's one certain man of God that warmed me to dump the girl am dating, which is her, my problem is how am I going to let her go without actually hurting her feelings cuz I know quite alright that she might hurt herself if I end the relationship between us. She's dangerously in love with me and I fear it will end in tears for her.
You are very wicked! Why did you ask her out first since you know that your Pastor must approve your relationship? That's how people bring curses on themselves!
Whiteball: It's a bit lenghty so bear with me.I'm in my late 30's very very eligible for marriage but still single.Alot of friends in my circle are married but up close and personal stories coming out of their camp and experience av had in d past isn't encouraging ,so i just wanna have a baby mama(These lady's arnt loyal).
Pressure from Family n friends to settle but am not giving in. so this particular friend of mine(now a true definition of born again- i wont mention name) changed my mindset and promised to help me get a 'good wife material' through his fiancee.
I yielded and i reluctantly gave him d permission . I'v never met his fiancee one on one bc she stays in a different city and each time she comes visiting her guy am always busy but we speak on phone.She gave my number to her friend (my hookup) we got talking but i told her point blank that am a christian but not a born again like ur friend fiance -i club i drink socially but i dont smoke,to my surprise she told me same here! (hmmm red flag bc i was expecting otherwise since her friend was a born again). I told her no problem.
This week my guy's babe visited town ,i was very busy still but was able to meet them at d park when she was travelling back. she was already inside d bus when i drove in. she came down from d bus to greet me since passengers were still boarding ,she's beautiful i must confess with nice curves but was wearing all those long born again gown and holding a bible .I told my guy despite leaving 'd world' for us he still got good eyes,we laughed and joked she told me her friend(my hookup) is prettier i said wow cant wait to meet her.
Something strange happened,i noticed an old time friend in d bus which this babe was boarding we shared pleasantries and exchanged number he asked if my babe was travelling with them i told him she's my guy's fiancee not my babe he complimented her beauty also.
A minute later she said she doesn't wanna travel with this bus which they have already paid for again, she will rather wait for d next bus that her spirit isn't in line with d bus .. I was confused and asked her to explain she said she doesn't want to go wit this one bc she's having a strange feeling concerning d bus but i should allow my friend inside d bus already to travel with them its fine -It didn't make sense to me,if u think this bus will have an accident i should at least alert my friend to come down too she said i shouldn't worry.
My guy waited for her fiancee to catch d next bus while i left for work.
The next day was weekend and i decided to go visit another friend(lets call him guy B) of mine so we could hangout . It's a big compound with plenty room n parlour self contain.when we were about leaving the compound together i saw an eye catching figure come out from another apartment wearing bump short,transparent shirt that was revealing all her breast going to dry clothes on d ropes...Behold it was my friend's fiancee!!!.
I was shocked bc yesterday nite i called my friend to confirm if his fiancee finally got a bus and had arrived her destination he told me yes and thanked me for showing up and for my concern. Someone that was suppose to b in another part of Nigeria was in another part of d city ? . Immediately she turned and saw me,she was shocked n her clothes fell off her hands. I didn't say a word i just walked straight with my guy B to my car .
She ran towards me and drew me privately and said i should keep it privately she will explain on phone .my guyB confirmed to me that she came in last nite and that's her boyfriend apartment i refused to tell him anything tho.
The reason why she left that initial bus begin to make sense to me now.
I need advise please ,ordinarily i will look the other way but the guy in question is my very good guy and a born again christian engaged to her,weeding is two months away. The lady also according to him is supposedly a born again but this dressing stated otherwise... tho i didn't catch dem 'doing' oh.
Hmmn! Please save a life and tell your friend. What if she is pregnant for someone else or even have STD, will you be happy if your friend get such infection? Please tell him, at the long run, he will be forever grateful to you
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) the girl will simply reach for her bag/purse and give the driver the money.