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brownemmanuel43:
This sounds so selfish to me, u didn't care for the uncle's peace of mind rather u are only looking at the angle and selfishness of the woman.
Uncle endured her attitudes bcs all this while, he had being going to work, so there was no room then for the uncle to be exchanging words with her. But now that baba retired, all he really need now is peace of mind before be can join his ancestors.

Lol! Peace of mind that he should have bothered about before staying in the marriage for 30 years, it’s now that he remembers he needs peace of mind. My dear, forget it, if he wasn’t having little peace of mind, he would have divorced her since cos trust me when one’s marriage doesn’t give one peace of mind, the issue transcends to other aspects of one’s life, (the work inclusive)

brownemmanuel43:
This is a very stupid comment

It’s stupid to you because you don’t know the gravity of what is at stake. He didn’t divorce her since when she was younger and another person that likes her like that will go for her, it’s after 30 years when she is already nursing grand children. What makes him think that the lady he is eyeing will be better?

Xj2020:
He is a very principled man. Very religious and doesn't play with his God been a devoted Muslim. Extremely rich and bless with four grown up children with the second of his children getting married in a month time.

He retired from the bank 2 years ago having risen to the pinnacle of his career in the banking industry having served in different capacities for almost 35 years.

Yes, the wife is uncultured and ill-mannered. He knows already and has been managing her all these years.

He is presently in court seeking to divorce his wife and has vowed that nothing would stop him from divorcing his wife.

My question is what could possibly make a man thrown in the towel and walk out of his marriage after so many years together?

I will like to know.

Why didn’t he divorce her since? Is it now that she is no longer appealable that he wants to divorce her? Who does he want to marry her now? Smh!

MyExpression:
The main problem is their INCOMPATIBILITIES.
The man was sincere to point this out but it seems a bit too late.

Same issue I'm having with my girlfriend.
Just last month, we discussed bout our incompatibilities and I expected that to be the point where we would let go, but she pressed on on how she can do this and do that. I still wasn't satisfied coz my needs are still not being met.

She is a good gurl with good character but our difference in ideology is boring us out in the rship.

I don't know how to handle this.

This man's case just put fear in my mind...that might be us in some years time.

She's 29yrs; I'm 32, and it would hurt her to just break up like that.

I hope you have not been sleeping with her? That’s how you guys do, when you have finished sleeping with the girl to your satisfaction, you will now remember that you are not compatible? Anyway, I hope you just took time to understudy yourselves without being intimate sha.

manontree:
This guy called Kpokpogri or whatever his name is, is a disgrace to men. How a man would knowingly do this to a fellow man, even if the man's wife pushes for it, still baffles me. Women are everywhere and you see attraction in someone's wife. Abeg how does this work

That said, the fact that a married woman can open her legs to a strange man without a bother is amazing, disgusting, the highest of lows. So the vow you made in front of God is just mere words. To even bring the husband of your youth to such disrepute with badmouthing while with your adulterous boyfriend is the height of deceit and evil

Always remember, people do reap what they sow

My dear, same goes to married men sleeping with single girls.

I am grateful to God for life, initially, I used to feel sad that things don’t work the way I planned, not until I was hospitalized that I began to appreciate the efficacy of good health that God showers me with. From then on, I chose gratitude to Jesus Christ rather than being a complainer and it has worked and is still working for me.

Oddfinder:
I wonder why they call a lady that gave birth to 3 kids including the first sons baby mama..if u check well now na annie b de baby mama no cap

Na lie joor. Pero is the baby mama cos she is not traditionally or legally married to Tuface.

pocohantas:
“I have a bag of money, foreign currency…”



It is almost Christmas, evil men and women are on the prowl. Let’s all be careful and not drop our guards no matter how they disguise.

Thank God for saving you

Though you owe him, the law abhors self help. Where do you reside? Hire a lawyer

Kylekent59:
Let us assume that after you told your father about him, he was sent packing. After that, would you be happy?

Your dad had spent on him, and it's his time to make your father proud, but you want him away.


I hope you are not about to make a mistake. You sounded like a female because some of them don't reason before taking action.

The truth is that even if you don’t tell your Dad, sooner or later he will get to know so it’s best you tell him in order to avoid future heart attack

So sorry for the pains. That’s why I don’t fancy fixing. But are you sure that the person who fixed your nails did not use super glue instead of the normal glue for nails? You need to find out cos a lot of them do that.

Itiaba007:
Please I want to be convinced wether smoking is a sin or not. Please back up your opinion with bible verses thanks.

Yes, smoking is a sin. The Bible in Exodus 20 , said thou shall not kill, the Bible didn’t specify whether it’s yourself or another person, so it’s all encompassing; by smoking you are gradually killing yourself which invariably means you have disobeyed the commandment of God

Botking:
The thing is, Marriage now is based on condition's, If you don't have these conditions marriage is not for you.

That's why we have single people everywhere, not that they like being single, but because they have not met the condition

If you avoid sexual immorality, there will be no issue of illegitimate kids anymore and less fight over wealth at the death of the man

Buy her a car, make we hear word

Please give me her number, I have someone who would be interested in her since you no like better thing

Antoeni:
https://www.correctng.com/we-cant-reach-her-friend-raises-alarm-after-tega-deactivated-her-ig-account/

Are you sure it’s not another method to trend? Cos BBnaija crew always like to trend by all means. Anyway, hope she is safe.

Handsomejok:
I have a big problem � I separated with my wife because she was a witch and the cause of my downfall. I had the custody of our daughter who is now 1 years 6 months old.

After getting rid of the witch I taught my business will be better than before but no. Things become even hard for me I started experiencing body pain and unknown sickness and we have been to church where I was told my daughter Is a witch her mother has given her the mission to kill me.

After prayers and fasting my health is getting better now and I have been to 2 different churches just to confirm that my daughter is a witch and yes it is true. I have packed her stuffs and i took her to her mother but she is doesn't stay there anymore and I don't know her new address. I am not a wicked person but I don't want her in my house because I don't want to harm her and regret it. What do I have to do with a witch?

You are not serious, if your wife and child are witches, you as the head of the house, can’t you dewitch them? They are telling you that your wife and child is a witch so that you will throw them away? It’s so sad we have weak, lazy and powerless Christians around

Kingosytex:
A Nigerian man identified as Opeyemi, has narrated how a Baptist church asked him to take off his earring while he was on a groomsman duty in the church.

According to Opeyemi, he left and waited for his friend who fully backed his decision at the wedding reception and there is a mixed reactions about his decision as many wondered why he could not just

Opeyemi, narrating the encounter, he said that he was at a Baptist church in Lagos as one of the groomsmen for his friend’s wedding when he was asked to pull off his earrings, adding that he left the service immediately for the reception as he would never follow such dogma.

He, therefore, used the opportunity to lambaste Nigerians version of Christianity. When people told him that he ought to have honoured his friend and acted accordingly, he said his friend was in full support of him.



https://m./974335622741759/permalink/1962791210562857/

He is not serious, everyone wants to trend by force

WhiteIverson:
Paternity fraud started when Joseph fathered the son Mary gave birth to, who we all know as Jesus the Christ. And Joseph decided to play along.

In summary, the Bible is to blame for all this.

It’s a very BIG LIE, Joseph was aware that Jesus Christ was not his child even before Jesus Christ was born. Read the Bible again so that you will not mislead people

obembet:
Source: https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=1542334589478875&id=100011070468754&sfnsn=scwspwa

Lol! The lady isn’t feeling fine. When you were imposing another man’s child on your hubby, you never remembered his mental and emotional health? Mtcheew! I said it, 98% of humans can’t take what they dish out to others

Holiness2100:
https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/uknews/16252540/lorry-driver-slams-panic-buying-driver/amp/

E be like say the woman get Naija blood in her. Naso people go dey feel their jerrycans with fuel while people who just need to fill their tank won’t get fuel

MALIGNANTGuest:
I have told you she can cheat.
No man ever stops a cheat.
No woman ever does that too.
However, if she wants to do that she can do that from her FATHER'S APARTMENT and not mine.
She will have to leave my house first, so as to have unrestricted & uninterrupted access to diccks & ccocks

Lol! Saying the same thing over and over again. You can’t stand your wife cheating on you period and not all these play on words you are doing

MALIGNANTGuest:
I don't have issues with my WIFE cheating at all but if she must do it, that has to be from her Father's compound & not mine, since I'm the one who brought her into my coffers.

I can't divorce my MOM.
I can't divorce my DAD
I can't divorce my SISTERS. However,
...the word Divorce is reserved for only WIVES.

Lol! That means you have issues with your wife cheating. If you don’t have issues with your wife cheating, then she should be able to to cheat anywhere, be it in your home or her father’s house. Most guys can’t take 20% of what they dish to others smh

Op, I feel your pain. It’s best you go to God in prayer.

MALIGNANTGuest:
MOST WOMEN become complacent and laxed the moment they secure marriage.
They forget the nitty-gritty of marriage.

The only way to keep them on their toes & in check is to make them compete favourably among themselves, this you can do by getting another wife rather than divorcing her outrightly.
WOMEN hate competition.
They dislike competing among their peers.
OUR Forefathers knew this and kept them in check by marrying many.

I made sure I passed the message to my WIFE before wedlock, that any day she decides to run a parallel government in our house, I will have no choice but to make her compete among her peers

Lol! Your wife is calm, if you jam babe wey tear, na the two of you go dey cheat at the same time, nothing go happen

Congrats to him

post=106103062:
Update From . COM

A deeper Life Church member, Awoh Liberty, was dragged after he went about posting a photo of a female Corps member wearing a skirt instead of the trousers stipulated and issued by the NYSC, Reports.

From The Information Gathered By , The Photo which he posted on various Christian Facebook groups on Sunday, reads: No to Lucifer's Perception. No to Satan'd Deception. We the female say no no no to trouser."

The post generated varying reactions on the groups with few in support while many argued that it's not possible to engage in physical activities in orientation camps while wearing trousers.

One Emmanuel Emeng described the post as "Phariseeic in behaviour with a tint of fanatism"

"This uniform is an occupational clothing na, all things are lawful but not all are expedient na. Wear the trouser, you never commit sin. Dont be like the unbelievers who are not enlightened"

Toochukwu Ben Anefo, wrote: Dear poster I put it to you that you are using the time you would have used to preach salvation, the love of Christ, righteousness to advertise frivolities. Wearing trousers or skirt is not the way to eternity with God. Only Jesus. Preach him alone and allow the Holy spirit to do his work. Shalom."

See Photos As Obtained By Below:

Source: BLOG

Ahap! They should allow them wear skirts, after all, female Officers are allowed to wear skirts too.

Iamagoodgirll:
So I came across this post in a group

NL guys have you experienced this?, also share your view.

I NEED ADVAISE FROM A MALE READERS:

And no, my story is not made up. It’s for real, actually very real. I am a top executive of a very successful conglomerate my father founded. I resumed the job early this year when I returned from the U.K after completing my MBA.
As a result of my job, I usually find myself frequenting places I ordinarily wouldn’t want to- Ikoyi club, society weddings, conferences, etc. I’m a geek for the most part, and something of a recluse. I would rather stay in my house at the end of day and watch TV. When I became Deputy CEO of the company, I realized that I had to start hanging out at these places to build a social circle, mostly for business reasons. I am not a very sociable person, but with the help of my more outgoing cousins, I have been able to build a pretty decent network of Lagos ‘big boys’ between January when I returned and now.

During a conference in Lagos this year, I was approached by a young lady banker. She was working in the Marketing department at one of these banks, She’s pretty young- about 7 years my junior. I’m 28; this lady is about 21. You know how young these graduates are these days.

Anyway, she walked up to me and started persuading me to consider opening up a bank account with her bank and told me all the benefits of the account, etc. She looked so innocent and desperate, and practically begged me for an opportunity to see me again so that she could convince me. I ended up giving her my complimentary card. I usually don’t just give out my card like that, but I did.
Three days later, when I was hanging out with my new-found friends and my cousins at a bar at one of the Hotels on the Island during the early evening, this girl called me and reminded me who she was. She said she really needed me to open an account, and that she was eager to convince me on why I needed to open an account. My friends noticed I was talking to a girl on the phone. You know how guys are; they teased me and asked me to just play around with her and invite her for drinks.
I asked her to come over to the Hotel, and surprisingly, she said she would be there in 20 minutes. The branch she worked in is on the Island, so she apparently took a Bike and came to meet us. This was about 6pm. The girl came, and my friends all saw her. They smiled and talked among themselves in hush tones, and I talked briefly with her for like 5 minutes and told her I would make a decision on banking with her or not. She was desperate from what I could see, and she was eager to get my account.

When she left, my friends all laughed mischievously and told me in plain terms that I had to sleep with the girl. They went on talking about how all these bank marketers sleep with different men before getting deposits, and insisted that I must not be any different. Now, I’m not a virgin; I’ve had my own fair share of sex in the past, but I’ve never been one to take advantage of a girl. I knew she was desperate as she had a target to meet up to, or something of the sort. But when you’re a guy hanging out with guys, it’s pretty difficult to be the odd one out. All my friends made me promise that I’d sleep with the girl. I promised; I didn’t want to look like some geek. And I’m really trying to feel among these guys.

To cut a long story short, two days later, when I was in my office, this girl called me and tried persuading me to bank with her. As she was talking to me on phone, I asked her jokingly: “What are you willing to do in order for me to open an account with you?”

She hesitated and then she told me: “Anything you want sir.”

Gbam! That was my cue. I asked her to meet me at one hotel for drinks later that evening. I asked my PA to book a room for me at the Hotel. She came to meet me. We had drinks, we chatted. She told me that her bosses had ordered her to deliver N10million to the bank that month, and that so far, she hadn’t gotten anything. Her job was on the line, and she had only just started working there 3 weeks before. I asked her to follow me to the room. She did. I slept with her.

Surprisingly, it turns out she was doing it for the first time. She was actually a Virgin. The bed sheet was stained with her blood and all that stuff, and I was just amazed. I thought being a marketer and all, that she would have been sampled many times. But no, she was a virgin. When we finished, she was shy of looking at me in the eye. We didn’t talk much. I gave her money for a Taxi, and gave her the name of the Finance director of the subsidiary I am in charge of. I asked her to meet him the following day to open up a corporate account. I instructed the guy to open up an account worth a few hundreds of millions- probably enough to meet her target for the next 2 years if there is such a thing in commercial banking circles. I don’t know how these banks work.

Anyway, she called me and thanked me profusely for saving her job. My friends now know I have slept with her, and I have solidified my place among them as a ‘bad’ guy.

The issue is this: I haven’t been able to stop thinking about her. It’s been like six weeks now. I haven’t called her since then, even though she keeps sending me text messages asking after my wellbeing and thanking me for banking with her. She deals directly with my Finance guy so we don’t talk money ever. But I think about her every day. I think I actually have feelings for her, and the idea that I was her first makes me feel like she should belong to me. I’ve never been a Lady’s first. I’m actually going crazy with thoughts about this girl.

Am I crazy? Should I call her up and ask her out? How would that feel? How would she react? Also, considering that my friends all see her as the bank ‘LovePeddler’ would it be a good idea to still ask her out? How will my friends see me? I’m not looking for sex from her; I’m looking for something real, something intimate. I want something that’d last- probably forever.

I’ve never felt this way about any other lady in a really really long time. What should I do?

First thing first, you are very wicked, how could you stoop so low because of what your friends say? If you wanted to help her, help her without hurting her. For her to sleep with you shows that she was desperate, who knows how long she stayed jobless before getting the job or how many people are dependent upon her? Man you messed up big time. It’s best you give her some dignity by not telling your friends that you slept with her.

No na! This is all shade of wrong. Leaving him when he needs you most is a NO! Where’s your conscience na?

pennywys:


Damn this 2baba get mind ooooo
As in him get mind fuccck person daughter she born three times and abandoned her haaaaaa

Na who want marry mother of 3 again

Him just ruin her life

My brother, na she ruin her own life. After first pikin, the man no marry you, you know kuku get sense find your square root.

Pour anointing oil and continue your day’s job

ofiko123:
Really is that true??

Yes O! And it was fun �