Kobojunkiee: Well, let's compare this here with what you claim you experienced. You said you dated a guy and then one day he tried to force himself on you.
Did he force you down, tear off your clothing in order to have his way with you? And when you resisted him, did he use violence against you?
I am trying to understand if there is a pattern here to any of this.
When making statements, try to remove emotions from your comments in order to arrive at a logical conclusion
chatinent: 2021 with life has been the most important thing! How has it been for you? Do you want to share any notable event that happened? What are your plans to end the year?
Even if you aren't hitting your dreams yet, do you want to do what's right or chase the root of all evil...no matter the odds? Benz? Rituals?
Do you want to share sth?
I am not proud of my relationship with God this year but all I can say is that it will end well.
[quote author=ityP post=107451431]Oh. So, as long as a rapist rapes once, it's ok. Are you truly a woman[/quote When you rephrase your question according to the scenario, I will answer you. For the records, I am not yet a woman but a young girl who would soon be a woman.
Kobojunkiee: What you are trying to tell us here is that if a man attempted to rape your sister but failed because your sister fought him tooth and nail, it is OK because it only happened just once?
What I am saying is that if my sister who is in a relationship with someone that she has prayed about and he mistakenly tries to force himself on her,I will encourage her to forgive him BUT if it happens again, then she should cut off the relationship. I use myself as an example, I dated a guy for 4 years without sex, one day he tried to force himself on me, I pushed him, he realized his mistake and stopped. I didn’t break up with him for that because I understood what he felt at that point. Till today, I hold him with high regard
I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.
But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.
I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.
Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.
What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.
Just marry her so that all these arguments of sex will just stop
mrdharkchild: It is written, that a women would leave her family, her God and all that shit and accept her husbands shit and all. Abi Bible Don become irrelevant? It's not the other way round, simp.
Stop quoting the Bible wrongly. The Bible said a man shall leave his father and mother and cling to his wife. The two shall become one flesh.
This one man of God I respect so much, he is humility personified. Good judgment I will say, the era of lying against people who don’t even know you should stop.
You don’t need a registry marriage before a court can grant the affected spouse the things you just listed. Even with traditional marriage, the customary court will still grant the affected spouse the things you just listed.
Vabama: ABUSE OF POWER: Abuja 'Big Man' Flies Girlfriend, Sara Abdul, On Nigerian Air Force Presidential Jet
Abuja 'Big Man' Flies Girlfriend, Sara Abdul, On Nigerian Air Force Presidential Jet While A Small Jet Was Used To Ferry Fly Late Chief of Army Staff Attahiru Into Kaduna Leading To His Untimely Death
Source: SAHARA REPORTERS. I do hope he has flown his wife on that jet
JackDaAlienz: I went to pick her up from uni then drove her to my house. We chilled drank wine then bleeped well After sex I decided to drive her back to school. On our way my back tire brake just lock The wheel stopped rotating. I had to Shell out 10k to repair
2nd time with this same girl yesterday night we had sex This morning I got a message that the items I planned to ship from Canada was cancelled.
Why do I experience these badluck events after having sex with this girl
That’s because fornication and sexual immorality is not good
This aunty should know that these are married men. Make she tattoo her father’s name, brother’s name or husband’s name on her back and leave other people’s husband ejo.
Linadinna: Nigerian Actor And Singer Charles Okocha recently destroyed his friend's car for taking his teenage daughter out on a date and wanting to go sleep with her.
Updatemegist.com learnt that Charles friend had asked his daughter out and took her out on a date and was about going to sleep with her when Charles learnt about it.
Charles who didn't like the idea, attacked them, dragged his daughter out of the car to his own car and destroyed the friend's car.
Kalubolt: Good day Nairalanders, I don't know how to place the subject of what transpire ystday but just read and share your thoughts. I am a driver working with one of the e-hailing companies (BOLT). Ystday by 7pm I got a request from Bera estate by Chevron drive to one hotel close to Skymall at Sangotedo. When I got to the pick up zone it was a guy and his babe. They look so young so I didn't know they were married at first. Before picking them I was playing a Phil Collins track (You'll be here in my heart). . When they boarded, the guy said I should change the song to something more upbeat which I did. When we got to Mega Chicken opposite Askamaya Hotel, there was a heavy traffic as usual that comes all the way from Ajah Bridge so we were moving slowly. Before we got to VGC traffic light, hubby's phone rang and he picked it. After the normal hello he asked who's on the line? And the caller answered it's me Aisha cus I got to know when he said whose Aisha. It seems Aisha at the other end was telling him why are you pretending not to know my voice bcus I called with unknown number after you refused picking my lines. Hubby was adamant, pls I don't know you and I am with my wife and he cut the call. . By this time I have reduced the volume of my radio, so wifey was asking him who's that? He said he doesn't know who she was. Wifey said are you sure and he said yes. Not long after the number called again and hubby picked and said pls leave me alone I don't know you. As Wifey wanted to collect the phone from him, hubby cut the call. Wifey was somehow angry but kept her cool. Not long after again same number called again, but before hubby could say anything Wifey collected the phone from him and picked the call. And then put it on speaker for both hubby and me to hear. . She then calmly said hello, I am the wife of the person you are trying to call how may I help you. Aisha too calmly said, pls don't be offended give the phone to the owner he's the one I want to speak to. With this, Wifey provoke and started shouting at her. Who the hell are you to tell me who you want to talk to? All this while hubby moved a bit to my side and was trying to explain to me: driver see me see wahala o, person say him no know you and you dey insist. Which kind problem be this. I didn't say any word to whatever he was saying cus he has distracted me from hearing the main gist between his wife and Aisha. And by this time Wifey has off the loudspeaker and was now listening to the other caller carefully and silently. After some minutes of careful listening she cuts the call and burst into tears. Hubby tried to get close to her and ask what's wrong, she shouted don't touch me. After some more sobbing, she voiced out: Andrew (not real name) why, Andrew why are you doing this to me? We are barely 2 months into our marriage and you have started cheating on me. Andrew retorted back, honey what are you saying? I don't know her, don't believe whatever she's saying, that's a home wrecker. . Wifey replied back while sobbing, you don't know her but she knows your name and your best friend's name you use to hang out with. And you guys even hang out with her and friends just last week, Andrew why, why? Hubby started explaining that doesn't know her, maybe it was one of the girls my friend use to carry along when we hang out. Wifey said she has heard enough and he should just let her be for the time being. With that Wifey place her head at the side glass of where she was sitting and continued sobbing slowly. Hubby now confused and don't know what next to do or say just sat bewildered, I was watching them both from my inner mirror. After about 5 min total silence and us approaching Ajah Bridge, hubby came close to my ears and told me to look for that Phil Collins song I played earlier when I came to pick them. I nodded and proceeded to look for the track on my Playlist and then click it. . As the song was playing, to my surprise hubby started singing along the song to Wifey in an Indian movie style hahahaha. What got me laughing inside myself more was when he sang the part in the song: Don't listen to them Cus what do they know We need each other To have to hold. Hahahaha hahaha, guys honestly I almost burst out laughing here. While the song was about to end, I have already set another track by Celine Dion and R. Kelly (I am your angel). Immediately Phil Collins ended I click that one. Once again hubby sang along and by this time Wifey has stopped sobbing. The next thing I saw was a tap in the head and when I looked back, hubby gave me a thumps up signal. Meaning my head dey there hahahaha. Another thing that amused me was that hubby knows those old school blues words for words, lyrics for lyrics. And me kukuma get them in quantum. . Before that one ended, I slot in Toni Braxton (Breathe Again). With this one, hubby yell softly wow! As I turned back to look at him, Wifey is already lying on his chest while hubby held her gently. This Toni Braxton was the one that kill it the most, when hubby sang the part: I will never breath again without you. Wifey now crying softly again while lying on his chest muttered some words: you know I love you, while do you want to break my? Hubby rubbed her face to her hair and said you know I won't do such. After Toni Braxton I put some other numerous love songs that got them in the mood. As we were almost getting to their destination which is hotel, Hubby told me to give him my account details. I gave him and he said when he ordered the ride, the price was #2300-#2600 so he sent me 3k and said even with the hold up it won't be more than that, but if it's more than that then he will send me another money. Within seconds I got the 3k alert. We got to the hotel parking lots and I ended the trip and it reads #2500. I brought out #500 to give him and he said I should keep it, that he loves my ride and the songs I played for them, I just smiled and say thank you. . They came down and headed to the hotel lobby, I was just looking at them shaking my head and smiling when all of a sudden Wifey turned back and ran to where I was still parked telling hubby she forgot something. As she came, open the door and pretended to be looking for something she handed 1k note to me and told me thank you for everything, before I could say anything she just said bye and left. Me I started my car still smiling and I left, lolz what a way to end the day. See as I take style turn relationship healer hahahaha.......
No wonder people say ladies have fish brain! It’s a pity she married a player
brownemmanuel43: This sounds so selfish to me, u didn't care for the uncle's peace of mind rather u are only looking at the angle and selfishness of the woman. Uncle endured her attitudes bcs all this while, he had being going to work, so there was no room then for the uncle to be exchanging words with her. But now that baba retired, all he really need now is peace of mind before be can join his ancestors.
Your argument still sounds selfish to me. What makes him think that the next one he would marry, will not be worse than this one? I am still saying it, he should have divorced when she was much younger, not now when they have been married for 30 years. So what now happens to her?
brownemmanuel43: This sounds so selfish to me, u didn't care for the uncle's peace of mind rather u are only looking at the angle and selfishness of the woman. Uncle endured her attitudes bcs all this while, he had being going to work, so there was no room then for the uncle to be exchanging words with her. But now that baba retired, all he really need now is peace of mind before be can join his ancestors.
Lol! Peace of mind that he should have bothered about before staying in the marriage for 30 years, it’s now that he remembers he needs peace of mind. My dear, forget it, if he wasn’t having little peace of mind, he would have divorced her since cos trust me when one’s marriage doesn’t give one peace of mind, the issue transcends to other aspects of one’s life, (the work inclusive)
It’s stupid to you because you don’t know the gravity of what is at stake. He didn’t divorce her since when she was younger and another person that likes her like that will go for her, it’s after 30 years when she is already nursing grand children. What makes him think that the lady he is eyeing will be better?
Xj2020: He is a very principled man. Very religious and doesn't play with his God been a devoted Muslim. Extremely rich and bless with four grown up children with the second of his children getting married in a month time.
He retired from the bank 2 years ago having risen to the pinnacle of his career in the banking industry having served in different capacities for almost 35 years.
Yes, the wife is uncultured and ill-mannered. He knows already and has been managing her all these years.
He is presently in court seeking to divorce his wife and has vowed that nothing would stop him from divorcing his wife.
My question is what could possibly make a man thrown in the towel and walk out of his marriage after so many years together?
I will like to know.
Why didn’t he divorce her since? Is it now that she is no longer appealable that he wants to divorce her? Who does he want to marry her now? Smh!
MyExpression: The main problem is their INCOMPATIBILITIES. The man was sincere to point this out but it seems a bit too late.
Same issue I'm having with my girlfriend. Just last month, we discussed bout our incompatibilities and I expected that to be the point where we would let go, but she pressed on on how she can do this and do that. I still wasn't satisfied coz my needs are still not being met.
She is a good gurl with good character but our difference in ideology is boring us out in the rship.
I don't know how to handle this.
This man's case just put fear in my mind...that might be us in some years time.
She's 29yrs; I'm 32, and it would hurt her to just break up like that.
I hope you have not been sleeping with her? That’s how you guys do, when you have finished sleeping with the girl to your satisfaction, you will now remember that you are not compatible? Anyway, I hope you just took time to understudy yourselves without being intimate sha.
manontree: This guy called Kpokpogri or whatever his name is, is a disgrace to men. How a man would knowingly do this to a fellow man, even if the man's wife pushes for it, still baffles me. Women are everywhere and you see attraction in someone's wife. Abeg how does this work
That said, the fact that a married woman can open her legs to a strange man without a bother is amazing, disgusting, the highest of lows. So the vow you made in front of God is just mere words. To even bring the husband of your youth to such disrepute with badmouthing while with your adulterous boyfriend is the height of deceit and evil
Always remember, people do reap what they sow
My dear, same goes to married men sleeping with single girls.
I am grateful to God for life, initially, I used to feel sad that things don’t work the way I planned, not until I was hospitalized that I began to appreciate the efficacy of good health that God showers me with. From then on, I chose gratitude to Jesus Christ rather than being a complainer and it has worked and is still working for me.
Oddfinder: I wonder why they call a lady that gave birth to 3 kids including the first sons baby mama..if u check well now na annie b de baby mama no cap
Na lie joor. Pero is the baby mama cos she is not traditionally or legally married to Tuface.
So sorry for the pains. That’s why I don’t fancy fixing. But are you sure that the person who fixed your nails did not use super glue instead of the normal glue for nails? You need to find out cos a lot of them do that.
Itiaba007: Please I want to be convinced wether smoking is a sin or not. Please back up your opinion with bible verses thanks.
Yes, smoking is a sin. The Bible in Exodus 20 , said thou shall not kill, the Bible didn’t specify whether it’s yourself or another person, so it’s all encompassing; by smoking you are gradually killing yourself which invariably means you have disobeyed the commandment of God
Crime › Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by Prettychild(f): 10:37am On Nov 09, 2021
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