DoubleFingers: N/B: This could be a bit lengthy, but please, read to the end.
I have been making preparations since late last year to settle down with my fiancee. I intend going to collect the marriage list this coming April to kick start the marriage processes.
My girl and I are very compatible in almost all ramifications you can think of. Honestly, she's the perfect definition of a supportive wife, well mannered and loyal to the core, just to say a few.
We now lived in different states, but we've known ourselves and have been seeing/dating each other in the same city between December 2016 and September 2019. I even made her to redeploy during her NYSC in 2018, to be close to me because of my intentions for her.
As usual, we've been praying and trying to seek the face of God to get divine revelation.
So on the 9th of this month (March), my fiancee and her mum visited a priest for normal pre marriage talk/counseling. The priest of course asked my girl some questions about me, which she answered sincerely. The priest then advised my girl and her mum to put everything in God's hand and be praying about it.
About a week later (around 16th or so), my fiancée's mother had a dream where my fiancée's hair was cut in the dream. In trying to understand the dream, my fiancee then called her cousin who is a Reverend, and the cousin told her that the dream is a bad dream, that it means "someone is trying to take her glory."
That dream compelled my fiancee and her mum to have two days midnight prayer (19th and 20th precisely) to cancel any bad dream.
Reaching today, my girl and her mum visited the priest again, to let him know about the dream. The priest then asked my girl about her understand of the dream. My girl said it means "widowhood." But my girl's mum was having a different understanding.
In summary, the priest then asked my girl if she had gotten a divine revelation, as to whether we're meant to be husband and wife. My girl said no has not. Personally, I've fasted and prayed severally to God to show me reasons not to marry my fiancee, but I'm yet to see reasons not to.
Honestly, apart from divine validation which I'm yet to get, I'm yet to see reasons why I shouldn't marry my fiancee. And my girl have been worried since this afternoon, thereby getting me worried also.
Now my questions are:
1.) What does it mean for someone's hair to be cut in a dream?
2.) Is it 100% compulsory that one must get a divine validation to have a peaceful and happy marriage?
Please, your honest contributions will be appreciated.
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One's hair been cut in the dream means loss of one's glory. It could be physical, spiritual, marital, business or career, marital or even financial glory. So just pray against loss of glory. You need a conviction that indeed, this man or woman is your spouse. You don't need to have a dream in which you hear a voice telling you this person is not your wife or husband, just ask God for little signs and He will show you
No na. Why on earth will I honor my ex wedding or even invite my ex to my wedding?You are an ex and in the past, why would I still drag you to my future?
AsherAmari: It may be a curse on the parents operating in her life. Another thing is, for any child to be a thief, one of the parents too must have been a thief and have passed it down to the daughter..
Whether its a curse, Spiritual or hereditary, prayer is the only thing that can solve it. So I'll advise you take her to a Bible believing Church, let them conduct a deliverance for her but the parents have to confess if they too were once into such habits.
She can be delivered.
That's very true. I recommend Mountain of Fire and Miracles Ministries for deliverance sessions
WalexyWWE: Hello guys, what a sigh of relief. Thanks to nairalanders for your advice. For those who haven't been following this is the previous thread link
So after what happened yesterday I couldn't sleep, I hardly blinked throughout the night I was looking for all the possible means to get back to this girl and get my money refunded.
The mistake I made earlier was calling her her freinds to ask wether she was with them. Apparently she was with one of those girls but she lied. Early this morning I went to the police station bribed two officers (10k each) and told them I would be needing thier services for some few hours.
I don't care if I spend more sef. I started checking all her freinds house. Started from her best freinds place I caught up with her after about 6 places.
She has spent out of the money she has 54k left with her I took it and I took her phone as well(11 pro max). I don't care what happens if she refunds my money she can come for her phone.
She couldn't say anything, neither could she beg. I figured out it will take a long process going the legal way and she might have spent the money before all the evidence I put up against her will be ready.
Thanks to everyone who contributed I know have her phone and half of the money if she dosent show up within a week I will be selling that phone I swear. And luckily for me all the evidence is there on her phone. She has been mocking me and telling some of her freinds how she stole my ATM card. Victory at last.!!!
Some ladies can't just be trusted. I have a lot of my friends ATM pin but I have NEVER for once gone close to their ATM card even when they leave it in my custody
tommie1: I have an issue bugging me and I need some serious advise because I have been very indecisive so far.
There is a lady I'm seeing. She came to my place a few weeks ago and we had sex, first with condoms and later without condoms.
However, I gave her some money to get postinor when she left for her place the next morning.
That morning, I asked if she got the drug when she called to say she had arrived home and she said "yes".
I called her again that evening to ask if she had taken it and she said "yes".
A few weeks later, she called to say she is pregnant.
As I later found out, at least according to what she said, she took the drug the next day after arriving at her home and not on that day she told me she took it. She gave some flimsy excuse as to why she did it but it does not matter anymore at this point.
At this moment, we are considering removing the baby.
While I have been very indecisive, she has agreed to go with whatever decision I take and has spoken to a doctor who will do it this Friday.
However, I am unsure as of this moment if I want to go on with this because even though I am done with uni, I do not think I have gotten to that point where I can shoulder more responsibilities.
I am self employed and somewhat financially okay but not in a way that I can take care of three people, particularly a baby. I was okay as of 2019 until COVID came and turned my life upside down last year.
And believe me, I was really glad I was not married as of last year because I went through hell. Serious hell. The lockdown finished me.
I am slowly recovering (very slowly) and still trying to figure my way out through life and rebuilding what I lost but I am afraid that having the burden of a woman and baby at this point may derail me.
And I really do not know who to turn to when I am unable to provide for the both of them.
What do you guys think? Do I go on with this or just let the baby be?
Do not remove the baby. Just start preparing to get married to her.
Ghengiskhan: I believe you are the wicked one here for trying to make him look bad.
Here is my reason: If Mr Richard said pay me #160,000k one time payment and I give you a #80,000k job, will you call him wicked or look for the money ? Instead he said pay me monthly installment and you are here calling him wicked. In this Buhari regime that even government employment is for sale. Obviously Mr Richard is no Santa but that doesn't make him wicked
Oga are you sure you are not like Mr Richard or even the Mr Richard?
As a typical nwafor proper that I am...I decided not to let my ancestors down by begging a woman to marry me.
It worked because my own wife proposed to me. The hanty found out she was pregnant and began begging me to marry her to help save face. If you see the way she begged me, you'd know that a desperate lady is shameless.
But as a nwafor who swore that no daughter of Jezebel will use pregnancy to trap me into marriage, I refused. When she saw I was not forthcoming, I don't know what she did with that pregnancy but it somehow vanished and that was when I went and paid her brideprice.
Till this day, I still have the bragging rights. So when I misbehave and she wants to talk, I simply remind her that she was the one who begged me to marry her.
That's unfair of you. Does the bragging make you a better person?
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If I truly love you and God forbid you cheat on me, I will forgive you and the relationship is over, but if we're married and God forbid you cheat on me, I will forgive you but we will forever be living like roommates
Nato008: what are u even saying....she was pregnant and he asked her she said is not his....is not like he was running from the responsibility now she is back claiming another thing and u are saying zip up, is like ur own issue is about sex, people having sex in relationship...if that is ur beef abeg shift..
See what you are saying, why didn't he tell the wife before marriage that he dated a girl who got pregnant, when he asked her, she said the pregnancy wasn't his?
Nato008: when u people comment like this....u make us ask this weird question" do u people read without comprehending or read to comment off point "... did u not read where he said the were in a relationship eh, did u read the OP saying he bleeped outside marriage...please read it again b4 u comment and rant biko
Bros, read your comment again, then take a deep breath and read the write up. If he had zipped up while dating, will stories that touch the heart like this, come up?
yankeenowo: HE WAS NOT BORN BLIND, HIS WIFE DID THIS TO HIM
This is Inspector Dan Matakaya Mwaka, a 31 year old police officer. Mr Mwaka was not born with this frightening appearance. What you see is the result of a normal argument he had with his wife.
One day, Dan and his wife had an argument about a house issue. He says it seemed a normal argument like any married couple and later left for work. He had a night shift so he came back home in the morning around 05:30 hours and went straight to the bed to have some sleep.
This is the moment his wife chose to come and pour acid solution on his face. Then she ran away. But it was not enough for her to spoil his face, she also acted horribly so that he couldn't escape the bedroom. She had poured water on the floor and connected it to electricity then locked the door. As soon as Dan stepped on the floor, he was electrocuted and fainted. Neighbour who had herd him shouting for help forced themselves in his house and opened the door to his room, switched off electricity and rushed him to the hospital.
He had screamed so loud for help before his neighbors came and found him in his despair. They rushed him to hospital and luckily his life was saved, but unfortunately not his eyes. Inspector Dan permanently lost his sight and now completely blind.
His wife was arrested, then released later on bail. He says he forgave her but he is not going to abandon the charges against her. He only met her at the court and all she said was that she doesn't know why she did what she did.
This is how a random conversation with a simple disagreement can lead to tragedy. He adds that every single day he lives is a struggle. All because someone could not manage her anger and emotions. Inspector Dan is just one of the many men that have suffered extreme domestic violence at the hands of evil wives. So sad.
Nawa to some parents. Your child still bedwets and you put him in a boarding school? Instead of you to teach him how to control it and stand on his own before sending him to a boarding school? Let justice prevail
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Christianity Etc › Re: This Dream My Fiancee's Mother Had Is Bothering My Fiancee And I. by Prettychild(f): 9:58pm On Apr 01, 2021
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