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Hi ya,

Good to av u on. Did u say enjoy..u'll become an addict sef. Ave a lovely time.

Aloha,

Welcome on board. Enjoy ur self.

so goldenoc, u mean u can marry ur cousin or bood relation? Or r u trying to say we r in the time of Adam and Eve, thus making it right? Pls this is the 20th century and is known by the word INCEST.

The major problems of all sorts of ailments affecting the north arises because of this very issue cos their diseases continues to circulate round them

mamba:
it's the women that accept and agree to date them knowing they're married that are actually stupid.

ijebuman:
Completely agree, Some women will know that a man is married and still go out with him, hoping he dumps his wife for her.

I agree to an extent.

But again, why is the man going around looking for girls to date in the first place. Haba look at it form the other point of view. That means he is not satisfied with what he's got. Don't think d babes want to marry the chap. At least not in all scenarios o. Majoriy are interested in the financial benefits derivable. And many men have fallen prey well-giving up colloquial assets just to make these babes theirs.

If the guy can stop soliciting, the girls will not have patronizers abi.

So invariably both parties are stupid, don't u think?


[quote author=hot-angel link=topic=3433.msg116914#msg116914 date=1133410193]Those MEN are stupid.[/quote]spoken like a true chick.

mamba:
i have the same problem like you have, there's this model chick i've been toasting for like a year now & she's not even said yes or no. anyway, i'm not ready to store semem in my balls waiting on the girl to say yes, so i'm dating other chicks & know she'll say the word when the time comes. i'll advise you to relegate her to back-up & date other girls without commitments till she's ready for you.

mamba abeg make we hear, r u sure u were u not dating other girls while u were toasting her thats why d girl hasnot agreed to date u.


@Adesodgi
Pls if she ain't down wiv u , she doesn't dig u period. As a babe i know, after 11 years, haba, all the thinking shd av been done through the years. So catch the drift and MOVE ON. If u choose to hold on then good for u, but remember a word is enough for the wise.

mamba, pray u no meet woman wen infact the love ehn, na God u go dey beg and she no go sabi cook

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Scorpio:
hmmmm!

i say hmmmmmmmmmmmmm wiv u

Yep the chick does look like Janet but the whole Jackson family are lookalikes- thats if shes a Jackson sha. But if she's fake,

gosh those who found her must have searched well o. As per Janet denying the girl if she's really her child, thats Janet's loss,

considering the bad aura around that their family. Infact on the other hand, why would she deny her own offspring when she

doesn't have any. Any way pple u know the Jackson mara coupled with their fame makes them do strange things.[/color]

Don't know him but i know when angelica came out, it was an instant hit everywhere. So guess he's good.

hello hausa-ites, or what am i mearnt to call u pple sef. Pls this ain't a hausa forum o. Guilty parties pls take note.

mamber if u love a girl and she can't cook, will ur relationship then end?

Tell him sista, tell him

London may be well organised and all but men the cold no get part two. Infact en its God's grace how blacks cope. The crime rate is high cos every tommy, dickinson and Haruna lives in lodon, and every one is not employed with alot of pples papers having expired and all that.

But they do av lovely shops sha

omon:
Tell me where racism and racist murder still take place...London of course. It is as dangerous as lagos

Agree wiv you on dat.

come timmy man, i thought u said u wern't ready for marriage abi. But it seems most of the post r directed at u. So if prospero no yarn , u know for even know how far. Na wa for u o.

Bro u need to boster up some confidence o before u go meet the girl.

Wish u luck

Infact the expectations are certainly beyond any ones comprehension. One major one is that the fellow should be boxed up finacially..u know what i mean. Ever ready to give once asked ..and he will be doing alot of that.

American accent ke..Being abroad does not necessarily mean been in the states, the person could be say coming from anywhere as far as nigerians are concered.

Wherever he is coming from accent ni, accent ko, na accent na in person wan chop? Leave that one,his available financial resources will totally cover up their mouths.

Though having an accent may matter only when the person has lived outside the country for a while, however that shoud be the least of his worries..believe me.

lol...says who..no wonder

Whats up lovvy?

Rhoda,

As far as i'm concerned , we both don't understand ourselves and may never do. All i know is that, a christian is a christian as long as u are a follower of Christ Jesus. Whatever the name u ascribe to urself, good for u.

So what r u saying, that if people are able to disprove u, u'll change?

I really do not think it always is. But i think it depends on the individual involved and what he likes.

pie1ect:
Food does not even play any part as far as my own heart is concerned. Don't know about other guys, but I cook very well for a man anyways, so she'll have to find something other than food if she's interested.

@pie1ect

Good for u bro

playboy:
The only way I know to a man's heart is good sex!!!

Spoken like a typical male .

casper:
the issues with people in london is that;

1; the girls are after being citizens, so they have to go after white men in deception and after getting what they need, they COMOT

2; the boiz, are after IKE and so they believe one day wife will come and they cannot just be spending money one any girl like that, money they suffered for.

u people involved in the business will understand what i am talking about as in "suffer for"

No 1. TRUE
For No.2 abeg which one is IKE, cos i ain't heard of it.

obviously elbaron, if u didn't believe otherwise, u'd not av put up the post. Disprove what? I leave pple to their beliefs cos i know it won't change what they believe in. Will proving anything change what u believe..NO.. i do not think so. Well if it would then i'm sure others will try and do that.

Mistakes do happen and i praise u for not having an abortion . The thing is u r looking after ur kid and thats a good thing. As for Niger men, my sis, i understand ur plight. I think men will see the child as u been more attached to the child than to them.

But i know if a guy really loves u, he'll accept ur child no matter what. As well when u go into a relationship, open up and explain the facts to the person. Whoever aint down with it will at least have an early exit out of both ur lives.

As per the guy who left, I don't think the guy was right for u or else it would av worked.

My view though. Take kare.

You know, that will be the real "I found love on Nairaland"

@ balogun,
i think its both ways. Its difficult finding that one person that'll meet ur criteria. But i'm sure there's someone out there

U don't seem to understand been in a denomination? There are pentecostals as well as baptists-diff denominations but they all fall under one umbrella of "CHRISTIAN". It has nothing to do with my post to Kenya.

And moreover i believe Kenya's reference was to christianity so what does that av to do with denomination again?

Infact Sir k, u r right.

No one saying it is.

Pls what does a 5 yr old know bout love? Except he's mixing with the wrong click or just watching crap on t.v. At that age they only ave friends they really like. Thats what i think