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See what I will tell u bro. I know how terrible this can be. But hear me, two wrongs can't make anything right. Two fires can't quench fierceness.

During this coming weekend, u should be free, take her on a date. Buy her good wine, red wine maybe okay, treat her well, let her drink, tell her how much u love her, how beautiful she is, what she means to u, pet her, play, etc depending on things she like. When she is tipsy, try and ask her what the problem is.. Ask her what u might have done to her. She will talk. From there, u will know how to handle it..

After then, secretly do a DNA test.. As for USA trip, slow it down for now.

GrabHisBalls:
I don't pity some of you when you end up with bad wives. This your wife is everything bad. No character, no home training, no respect for elders, and you want to say you didn't notice any of these while dating even if she's the best pretender in town.

Marriage is for better, for worse. Carry your cross.

The babe was fu cking him well na. Lol

delectablegyal:
sex! sex! sex! if you like sex. click like.

Sex Dey sweet Nigerians too much. Chaii

soberdrunk:
The biggest problem in Nigeria is our mindset, just imagine the level of foolishness these people are displaying just because of ordinary adultery one person is dead and another one homeless, so how does this solve the situation?

I'm sorry, it is not ordinary. Men have done worse in other parts of the world when they found their partner cheating. Women have dome same.

What people don't know is that humans have limit they can take. I don't know why it is too hard for people to quit a marriage.

If u love ur husband brother more than ur husband, divorce ur hubby and peaceful start ur life with his bro.

I have warned people that cheating has spiral effects. I am telling u. Forget forming maturity. Cheating has spiral effects. If u are tired of a person, quit. It is more honourable.

doctokwus:
I really feel pity for any Abuja resident that has experienced this nightmarish times we live in, because the majority saw this upcoming disaster and voted for Buhari to return to Daura.
It pains to see sane minded people experience such tragic event as this attack

Make Una stop all these na. The election was rigged. It wad over rigged. U can't have El rufia, Oshomole, and Tinubu and Amaechi in one party without massive rigging. Never.

The election was rigged started with trader moni. They knew how mentally weak many people are in Nigeria. So trader moni was used and it worked wonders.

They also used massive vote buying and extensive compromising of major players in the election. Many were also intimidated due to their past dirty records and were forced to comply. Someone like Apkabio is a good example.

So, the election was massively rigged and the main opposition party members can't do much becus they are dirty too. If they talk, they will open their records and deal with them.

midolian:
Sowore actually needs help..

This man contested election and lost like his party didn't appear on the ballot paper. After elections, he was accused by party members of massive looting of hard-earned campaign funds. This is the same person who wants to lead revolution.

The m0r0n even wants to set himself ablaze out of frustration...As we all know, suicide is a crime in the Nigerian constitution, so his arrest is in order. You never can tell how many m0r0ns like him would want to roast their skin for few days fame(which of course will come after death)...as the most common kind of followership we have in this country is blind followership.

I don't have a problem with his so called revolution but with the supporters of this revolution. Majority of his supporters are from the condemned end of the country and we all know whatever they support fails in the end..If you are really interested in a positive change, start from your various local governments and states. your local government chairmen and governors are busy shaping their present and future with what is meant to shape your present and future..and all you lots can do is to leave your states to settle in other people's states wherein you complain as if you were sold to them as slaves ...

...And when the government of the day tries to prosecute them, you guys flood social media with jargons as if the country belongs to the criminals you worship...it doesn't even stop there,..you guys even troop out in numbers chanting bunkums like "Our son is being witch-hunted", "Nigeria will burn if our son is not released and bla bla bla"...

Lastly to my misguided brothers from the condemned end, if you really care about this country, you would have thought about revolution when the drunk hat-man was in power, when he and his shapeless wife ran this country like it was a beer parlour...but No, you guys won't! because you benefitted from the rot in the system the most. Now that things are going back to normal, you are thinking revolution...

let's see how far you can go!

A Very useless person. Most useless comment I have ever seen. Very poor in reasoning.. I doubt if u have ever seen outside the walls of this country.

If only those terrorists can hit these guys and their family members, they will understand how painful it is to be useless as leaders..

chiagozien:
NO reasonable igbo man will join in this Yoruba dance of shame called revolution.

I am igbo, I will participate in the protest. Some of u here post like little kids..

Nbote:
Seriously our Police force is embarassing and have become a laughing stock... U have geolocated where dey are being kept but U are trying to b tactical and professional in rescuing dem? And yet U are running ur mouth to d media already to let dem know U know where dey are?

Calm down, it is a mind game, they didn't see anything. They are playing a reverse psychology on the criminals.

Bacteriologist:
If you don't want to be replied to, then quit social media and throw away your phone. Dumbass. Call it what you may but no one owes you an accent your 3-pound brain can understand. Get it? Good boy. Now run along.

I owe no one anything. The driver wad right. If I don't want u to speak in American accent, so get off my business. Simple.

It is like going to china to force Chinese to speak igbo.

U are the biggest mumu ever. I don't think u are even exposed at all. The same problem wrong with some of us when we travel for just few months abroad, we go change accent. Yeye people.

YorubaHero12:
Did they just built Onne port today?? Why hasn’t the economic fulcrum tilted all this while.

Seems it’s a curse to you guys to chestbeat over nothing like a village champion.

Guy calm down. Calm down, how do u all take this forum so serious?

FatherCHRISTMAS:
is this really necessary

I know it is not by why are we so bent on looking like people who dont want to look like us?

Bacteriologist:
Stop exhibiting your ignorance. There are Americans who study Yoruba and speak it very fluently. Even at that, no one is obligated by law to speak in local dialect.

U are the mumu here, pls, stay off my mention. I said accent. A mumu who doesnt know the difference between accent and dialect. Shift biko

I want Americans to speak in Igbo or Yoruba accent, then I can take u serious!

My biggest issue is what are we protesting for? This thing should be channeled towards restructuring the country..

Once restructured, the individual nations can now face their leaders..

Sowore should insist in restructuring back to regional govt.

LOVEGINO:
that's our problem, we never celebrate success. What has other useless governors done in their state especially my beloved Kaduna?

I'm sorry bro, but Nigerian followers like u are the reason these old criminals who call them selves leaders Dey use us play football.

What nonsense. How can we be celebrating what they did with our own money and not theirs?

They get paid to work with our money and they still loot it..

NGpatriot:
Breaking the law and destroying public property is not fighting for me because I don't support lawlessness and anti-social behavior.

They want a better Nigeria, but they are the same lawless and destructive anti-Nigerian people.

Demand better from yourself first before demanding the same thing from other people.

Some of you are worse than the people you are trying to get rid of.

I'm sorry, revolutions are always harsh. The govt and politicians in Nigeria don't respect peaceful anything.

If we aren't ready to do things that will hit them hard, they will not let go off power..

wifeesnatcher:
Sowore is becoming unreasonable lately, is this how revolution take place? I thought civilization would have passed through him being in USA for years, now if govt arrest him for constituting public nuisance, it would be tagged political witch hunting


he need to go and sit his asss up, Nigerians can't afford another war this time as this revolution scrab will only lead to genocide and anti Buhari govt.


revolution that ought to start during election, no one will believe your intention as you're a past contestant. I expect much from Sowore, this is a show of shame to me

I'm sorry, u didn't make sense. Opposition parties and oppositions are the best to lead protests..

I am proud of this guy, I never liked him but will like him now. He has decided to stand for what many people are scared of.

If war will fix our problems and make our leaders get sense, no problem. Americans fought bloody wars before they got it right.

dollytino4real:
good fork dey burst man brain

Same as it does to a woman.

dollytino4real:
do ur own leave others to their own

My dear, my take is u guys should also try and show sweet stuff to ur men and not just se x se x all the time..

dollytino4real:
b4 ncor! men take care of women finish

so, we came to this life just to take care of u people?

Abi u guys dont see how other women in other countries also show love to their men?

I dont understand.

dollytino4real:
i like good experience like dis o! all dis NL shiko guys will not see dis one to emulate o!

Did naija men come to this world to be doing everything for naija women?

Which one have u guys done? When did we see something wow done by naija gf for her bf?

imitateMe:
Very true. I know fair hot guys that have multiple gfs. They have no problems getting any lady.

Not hard all. In fact, fair good looking guys are balling. Those girls love making cute babies and fair cute babies are the most admired. They can mainly get that from fair good looking guys. All those babes ranting were mainly dished by fair guys. Fair guys are rarely faithful though.

Just met a babe few days ago and she is already over me. Fair guys hardly ask girls out, just be get close and things will begin to happen.

bdsm:
wrong again. I challenge u to open a thread on this let naira girls vote either fair guys or dark guys

Baba Mi, forget the online opinion, in the real world, fair guys are in hot demand. Just that many girls feel that they are womanizers and everyone boyfriend. And truly, they womanize a lot.

oluwasegun007:
Here we go again....


It has always been about them...


Can we just change this system of government already...

So expensive, stressful and anti-people.

Yes, this is why I laugh at those fo ols who fight for these leaders. If some of these broke people who shout and support these leader could be made to see how well their kids live, they will understand that their kids alone can snatch their babes from them, knack their babes in their presence and even send them to jail with a compromised police system.

bleeped up nation with nothing, ever nothing good coming out of it collectively, except ur individual hustle. The system of govt is wack.

iamvictorbassey:
I actually did not want to comment, but I had to come back and do in order to enlighten some of us.

Apologies, this write-up is gonna be lengthy.

I read here as a lot of us say suicide is not the option, bla bla.
First you must understand that we have different break points and life experiences. What will make me might break you.

I don't come from a very very poor background, so I'll not come here to talk about experiencing one deadly hardship. I come from this Nigerian kind of average family, where we don't sleep hungry, we have never hawked to feed, never gone to beg in someone's house, didn't have a video cassette player but you dare not leave the house else you die , until we finally got ours, sometimes no meat in the food and we were fine, until cars started coming in etc. If you know this kind of background, then we're together.
But this does not take away the fact that there were very hard times when we'll mind our business and cook rice, Palm oil and tomatoes. When we'll not have Christmas clothes and no one will know. It was terrible but mum was supportive and always told us it'll get better. We'll be tired of clothes, cars, houses etc. And so it is today.


That being said I guess you'll agree with me that we are products of our experiences, either directly or learnt from other people's.

When things got better for us I thought it had gotten better for everyone, not until I was admitted to the university. I realized how bad it was to waste food we usually did at home. I saw people wait around just to steal other people's complete pots of food. Some people while they could not feed themselves misfortune was still adding it's own salt to the injury by taking away the Dad. I remember a friend whose Dad died and he had no transport to go home. I helped those I could and left those I couldn't. You don't know what people are going through in this country.

Lemme expressly state this that if you're reading this write-up then you're okay because 1.) You had money to spare to buy a phone that can browse 2.) You could even afford data. Then! You're somehow fine, because if you're not, in the proper priority list of life you'll not but data instead of food. The opportunity cost will always put food at advantage.



See, things are very hard for some people. I mean very hard. I set out to start my own business and I've never managed any before, it was difficult I ended up being indebted. Imagine I didn't have people to save my as.s imagine what would have happened when the owners come asking. Don't forget that ability to get loan is because I have guarantors who can handle that risk. Imagine I don't have? It's even better when you're hustling and you see a future in what you're doing. Some people don't even know what they're doing. Some people are trying to get out of one mess, and they are failing into messier messes.

In this country, to open a common barbing saloon will set you back about 70K. Where do you expect some Nigerians to get it from?

Sat with Dad one night and we spoke at length till about 2am on how their generation failed us by refusing to make appropriate provisions for us. And he told me things that shocked me.
We spoke about how he was contemplating CBN and other Federal Government jobs, how copers used to be rushed and picked from camp with official vehicle as soon as they close camp. Talked about a lot and I asked him why they refused to keep such for us to start with at least. Why they allowed the greedy take everything and become so unshakeably strong? Now it's difficult to change the narrative. Every average youth you see will say "abeg Nigeria don spoil no be me go change am abeg. Make I thief my own dey go" or "baba I wan leave this country like dis. If e just set like this, I don lost". We rather prefer to be second class citizens in another country than stay back fix this mess and be first class citizens here. It's very pathetic though.

I believe in tackling problems from the root. Majority of suicide is caused by lack or lack related problems. Forget about those who do it for love I'm not interested in them this night. When there is lack of provision, everything becomes a do or die affair. Survival becomes competitive. Those who can't meet up must die even in the jungle. Those with power and influence instead of helping to create eveness they set out to steal and stash for their generations unborn. If only we know the repercussions of modern day misappropriation of public funds and the time bomb it is, we'll protest this guys without sentiments. But they've come to understand that we can't be untied so they thrive in our religious and tribal dis unity. We're still here rallying support for the same caliber of thieves in different School uniforms. How sad!

Until death penalty is issued for misappropriation of public funds exceeding 100,000 we'll not get it right. "Person "will keep on stealing "People's"money and getting away with it. Then sink those who cannot partake, into depression which will lead to more suicides.

Lastly, I know we all want to make it. Good! Fine! But understand that when we finally make it, the children of the poor whom basic amenities have been deprived will not allow our children to ever live in peace. Whether we're the cause of their problem or not, and
irrespective of how we finally make our money.

Perfect write-up. Someone is planning a protest soon and I hope we will all understand and join. In this country, we celebrate stupidity beyond human comprehension. I am still shocked at how we celebrate our politicians who have destroyed this country. Nigerian leaders are so lucky. They are lucky because the civil war dealt with the mental state of Nigerians. If u know how these politicians steal eh. In fact, it js like stealing is in our blood.

This one no be country na. They are just playing here..

The only Nigerian leaders know how to do is preach unity by fire by force without addressing the core issues..

Nigeria is a very poor country. If u take away ritual money, fraud and stollen money, the country is poorer than u imagine.

The whites u are showing us know how to hold their leaders accountable and aren't poor.

AverageAnnie:
So true dear... And she looks like someone who wants such pampering everyday,more reason she got married to him.

which pampering? abeg, forget that thing, the babe mother used her to make money. It is all about money. If u guys find broke guy wey dey pamper u, wont u run?

Naija babes, always supporting foolish something

trioti:
They are killing Nigerians in South Africa and still want to frustrate our proudly Nigeria network? No way! Say no

we are really funny in Nigeria o. Sometimes i wonder how we reason sef.

Wait, how many times have we protested over the killings of Nigerians happening in Nigeria? If we can fix our own house properly, others will respect us.

Lebanese, Indians, chinese companies are using our staff like slaves right in our own country, have we protested ? Have we attacked them?

No, over 67 Nigerians were slaughtered by Boko Haram few days ago, did we protest? No! But we want south africa to respect us? hahahaahahaha very funny set of citizens.

Nigerians shaa know how to place priority on wrong things!

Them go soon cast canada for all Nigerians now. That was how we cast other countries including south africa, Malaysia.