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We all apologise when we get caught, so yes she would do it again. Sex is a strong force and the thing would hardly leave her
however I believe you can do a lot to help your parents marriage by insisting on them seeing a marriage counsellor and going for deliverance..

Your mum might still be sexually active while your dad might not, its hard to balance such. However a marriage counsellor would help to shed light on the matter.

Jackpal:
This is a fact based on what is happening in my family presently.





Around last week Fridays afternoon i saw my mom hiding her phone from me at first, i didn't even bother but when I discovered she was sending messages to a unknown number i started putting notice to it. This happened till late in the night like around 2 am, i was awake and I went to the sitting room only to see her washing clothes in the laundry and simultaneously chatting with someone and this is very unusual of her but my father didn't notice notice anyways.

On Saturday Last week the following morning i heard her making calls that she will be there by afternoon i felt like confronting her but i felt that she might just be going to her place of work. Afternoon came and she said she was going to another town for a naming ceremony we didn't mind. I left the house and i came back around 9pm and discovered that she wasn't back yet so i called her and she told me she won't be coming back that night then i knew she was up to something. I listened to the background very much and I noticed it isn't a party stuff or anything.

On Sunday she came back and I was mad but i just kept mute as i thought that I was not in a position to confront her.

Fast forward to today's early morning around 4 am. I heard my dad's angry voice he was very angry with my mum at first I thought she broke something in the room but i later heard my mum pleading that he didn't have sex with the man. After much contemplating, i went out of my room to the sitting room where they were and i saw my mom holding her phone i sensed that, her act has been exposed. My father left us there and went to his room. I confronted my mom and told her that i knew she didn't go for a naming ceremony the previous week and she was kind of surprised and she asked me how i got to know but I didn't reply her.
My dad came out of his room and asked her to come inside. Like after about two hours, my mom came to call me and I went to their room and dad sat me down and told me that he saw a text message on my mom phone the sender said they were to meet the day before but she my mom didn't meet him. My mom said the man is just a boss at his office and nothing more. So dad told me that I am his witness that if such happens again that he is going to divorce my mom. Well, my mom insisted that she didn't have sex with the man

I have 3 siblings and but they are still small am the first born am about clocking 20 years of age.

What should I do please?

Wait until you have only all Girls, then just maybe you ld understand a bit..

philit22:
Pls what do you say on this?
There is a trend of women retaining their father's name even after they are married..E.g Chisom Obiano gets married to Martins Adesina, She begins to answer Chisom Obiano-Adesina..As a man will you permit this and as a woman do you prefer this and why?

I get your joke o, but a Naija thief comes to kill, steal and destroy. Dont think they deserve a Hug o

A doctor knows someone will always get sick
The Police man knows there would always be criminals
The teacher knows there would always be people seeking knowledge
The landlord is doing us a favour, not everyone will build houses at the same time
For the prostitute, well they have customers, even married ones
The dentist, helps to keep our teeth healthy, even from decay
The mechanic helps with our cars, even when they are new
and The coffin maker sure knows people will die everyday.. he needs not pray about business

Only the thief brings no benefit, and if you have no money to give, you may give something more valuable.

no hug for the thief, both armed robbers or government officials.

EMXTAN1:
1. The lawyer hopes you get in trouble
2. The doctor hopes you get sick
3. The police hopes you become a criminal
4. The teacher hopes you are born stupid
5. The landlord hopes that you don't build a house
6. The prostitute hopes you don't marry
7. The dentist hopes that your teeth decays
8. The mechanic hopes that your car breaks down
9. The coffin-maker wants you dead
10. Only a thief wishes you prosperity in Life!
Abeg Hug a thief next to u

There is a God somewhere...

Yes

OMO1234567:
Ave They Givin Birth

Hey, its daddy GO!!!!!... Love this story, now I must put this on my whatsapp and FB//

We shall win that war with God on our side.

What is left of this country self?.. In saner climes shouldnt Fayose be as quite as a grave yard knowing his hands are soiled just from the recently concluded elections?. is he the only PDP govenor, why are others not making noise or are they as clean as their silence.

He is the brave one, now he will answer, cause come 2019, Soldiers would be all over Ekiti waiting for him, he wont escape in the booth of a car this time around. Pity his wife

where your treasures are there your heart also will be. most of the things Pastor flashes this days would be consumed by fire on the last day. Cars, jets, crew, fancy clothes, nice wrist watches, yachts even fine girls.. but for those things that wont be consumed we don't see him talk much about. But this are end times anyway, so more of same to come..

Whao, no wonder he made a N2B donation to GEJs re-election campain

if being nice implies sending text 10 times daily, opening the door when you go to places, buying flowers and all those Romeo and Juliet things. Then women don't like nice guys.

Research and studies have shown time without number that most women are drawn to bad guys. At least you want a man with some spice, action and is definitely unpredictable. Steady is boring is what women say. And even if you seem to enjoy the stability initially for a while in a relationship, most women always end up wanting a bit more in no distant time. I think it has to do with the fact that women like confident men and a man in control, and nice predictable dudes just dont seem to depict confidence nor power.

ForeverYoung197:
I have no time for mellow drama. This guy 2 is a no no for me. If everyone can have it, I DON'T WANT IT.

Do you know how many lives have repented just because the word of God was there at the right time when they were about to go deep into sin. God is a holy God, and wants people to turn from their sins. If they don't hear or see the gospel how will they change. its those that frequect hotels for unrighteous acts that need the bible more.

isbish:
As Muslims, we strongly hold the Qur'an in high esteem and holiness so much so that it is strongly encouraged to be purified especially via ablution before even carrying it. Islam forbids Qur'an being used, portrayed and even read in places that aren't suitable i.e. not holy or pure enough to be exhibited. Hotels are used by many different people and Hotels are especially known to harbour prostitutes. Qur'an can't and should bot be placed in Hotel rooms where men and women engage in fornication, adultery or even when people meet to discuss and do all kinds of evil. However, as a Muslim, you can go along with your Qur'an to the Hotel to read if you so desire, provided you won't be there to fornicate or do any bad and evil activities.

NB - People that need the Qur'an to read can always go the nearest Mosque to get one. Qur'an aren't found in Hotels even in the North because it is not encouraged. Qur'an is for Mankind not Muslims alone. It contains Allah's words in its purest form devoid of any Man's input. Even Prophet Muhammad (S.A.W) doesn't have a single input in the Qur'an. Every verse of the Qur'an were revealed to Him i.e. the Prophet based on the condition of the time. If the Prophet was in dilemma, lost as to what to do in taking action or God wants a specific message passed to the people at, HE, God reveals it to the prophet and he in turn transmit or pass the message to mankind. This informs why Muslims call Prophet Muhammad (S.A.W) the messenger of Allah.

What makes you think this is not the FG releasing him back to the ND, GEJ hates this man and has some personal beef with the man else why keep him for so long. Now these present government wants to take their chances..not sure how it would work, but I dont think he just woke up and escaped.

richidinho:
You beat me to this
We are wiser now

FG Obviously let him go, perhaps to save face and get the Niger delta avengers to cut some slack.

eeya

I pay tax every month even though I hate it, so why shouldnt she, if shes owing tax, then she should pay up simple. After all how much us 75m to someone like her.

Court Order to freeze someone that is being investigated for frauds account?... bros. that cat be possible nah and even you know it, with these endless injunctions how can that sail in Nigeria.

toposi4naija:
Mr Falana...yhu tried....lol I forqot yhu are now an APC member


this is why I keep saying there is nothing like human right activist.... They are only after their pocket

FG can't just freeze Fayose's account.... There should be a court order

Eeya, she took the bait, Fayose is a sinking man looking to cling to anything. She should learn from Prof Jega and Her husband Buhari. Silence is really the best answer for an orubebe or Fayose. It kills them that no one replies them despite the noise making but now you have given him attention and he is going to relish it.

I think shes a very pretty woman...

isan:
U only have a cute girl like when u marry a yoruba guy ....................marry a yoruba guy today

Hmmm... Interesting view and I agree with you.

ziggy3579:
Dia marriage no fit last because na blood money their papa take raise dem. Money meant to make millions of life better their yeye parents go use greed embezzle am, how their pikin life wan take sweet?

He is their president too you know, they have a right o make their grievances known..

Karm16:
I hope they find Buhari, so when they find him, what will they do?

Does that not make two of us, as your brain has equally been programmes (which I m sure you have none) to see no wrong in the failure of a man that ruled your life for 6 years with nothing to show for it.

Nevertheless I like my own brain washing, cause at least GEJ now knows that power lays with the people and not the rogue ministers you surround yourself with.

DonCortino:
your brain (if you have any) has been permanently programmed to blame GEJ at any instance, even if its about why the chicken crossed the road.
your brainwashers did an excellent job!

See them with strong serious hard faces, no one laughing uncontrollably, about their newly acquired lands, cars, Jets and Girlfriends, as they were doing during GEJs era. Na work una come do now... Well done

Whao, now thi sis sooooo coool... at least some really proud news about Nigeria. I think I like this KIng, Oni making us proud..

Take it easy, you need to be comfortable with your self when a friend seems to ignore you..

tushgirl:
Good day all,
I met a guy around February,initailly someone gave him my bbm pin so we were chatting but I wasn't into him then(because I haven't seen him then),i would always ignore him or reply sometimes....i. Began to feel something for him toward April ending so the chat and calls were regular...we started dating and the relationship was going on smoothly,we met and I fell in love immediately...my feelings for him was so strong,i told him him I felt and he told me same too.

We were suppose to meet last week but he suddenly text me and told me about a meeting he was to attend so I accused him going to see other girls and not the said meeting.
I told him my mind,how I felt he is a womaniser,i said many things but I never insulted him,i later called and apologise even when I know he might have been with another girl that weekend....i have been begging this guy since Friday,he said he had heard bit he refused to ping or call me
I'm not exaggerating but I get admires everyday..i have someone seeking for my hand in marriage,a very comfortable person.

Nb:This guy don't have much,but I still don't c care.

Pls talk sense into my head,insult me,i want to forget about him totally.



Mods help a sister out

Cheaters

Hehehe, the guy cant think that far, leave him, sey when he used to play ball as a kid, when boys retrieve ball, na head them they put am. Nevertheless, I still blame the adult who took time to snap pictures of boys risking their lives when he/she could have being helping. If anything happened to them now, he would have said he wasnt there.

tunshe:
The kids are wiser than this adult ^^^.

Common sense should have taught you that the boy threw the ball out to ease his ability to climb up.

If you jumped in to believe a list that left out all the PDP governors that have rulled nigeria since 1999, and the king pin of corruption GEJ, then you are a learner. Where is Obori on that list, na wish is an insult to Mama Peace, ORJI Kalu and co.

blackberlin:
No wonder this Buhari administration doesn't care about dollar scarcity. 99% of them are APC public office holders, and they have more than enough dollars to last 10 generations. . . Sai Buhari, Sai Baba, APC- $hange!!!

Aregbesola the Babalawo of Osun state has $513 million in the US alone but he can't pay workers' salary. Shey u see why Nigerian politicians end up dying of cancer. . . Who knows how much these people have in countries like S.A, the UK and the Caribbean Islands?

Nigeria is officialy a buffet, serve yourself!

PS: I won't be surprised if they say the FBI connived with PDP to ruin Buhari's administration, they are highly professional liars!

Seun, lalasticlala, ishilove, frontpage banger!

Hello House,

I have developed some keen interesting in data analytics of late and I have chosen to direct it to sports, I have just recently concluded on what I can call a "sports investment tool" which quite remarkably has been doing well with the leagues in asia(considering that most leagues in europe are out of season), so I directed its use to the euros and not only did it predict that the france/romania game would be both teams scoring, it predicted the scores accurately.Now that could be a fluke, so I want to know how well it gets

So I am going to be running the experiment on the EUROs while it lasts and I would be making daily picks as the games progress to see how well my tool performs.

Games for 11th JUne 2016 are as below;

Albania - Switzerland
Score: 1 - 1
BTTS: YES
Handicap: Albania +0.5


Wales - Slovakia
Score: 0 - 1
BTTS: NO
Handicap: Slovakia 0.0


England - Russia
Score: 1 - 1
BTTS: YES
Handicap: Russia +0.5

Mr Femi should be replaced, he is not doing a good job at all.

She really dont have power, she can only train, pray and watch. Only God can change people and make them into considerate and focused people