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FindX:
The business son tire me. After this year, I will close up all my branches.

By "sex" here, do you mean only penis-vagina sex or all forms of sexual acts?

Rosement:
I am getting depressed that why I asked this question. I need advice on how to make my relationship work without sex, that's all.

Same question I've been asking but never got an answer to. And this one is even better: divorcing in peace. It's more baffling when they not only fall out of love but become sworn enemies.

Sechee:
In as much as this looks funny, it's actually not. Why do people fall out of love with who they were once madly in love with

Another one. Lol.

Onliie:
it's not his fault you can't see beyond your nose

Guy, I pity the people who look up to you. You're such a disgrace. What nonsense is this for Bleep's sake?

TarOrfeeek:
When sensible and gentle men toast women, they disregard them and claim those men are 'creepy.'


They want a real man. A man who knows what he wants (whatever that means)

And so, they callously serve rejection to the simple, nonviolent and extremely gentle man. Denying him a chance to procreate in this earth.

When the typical Alpha, violent, boxer (who obviously knows what he wants) comes around. They do everything within their power to bag him.

And when they do, and things go from Alpha wet my pants - Alpha psycho wacko.


They bring the news to FP NL so that all of the rejected men who were simple and kind can come and type RIP or Eyah or Chai or OMG.

Or whatever the Bleep women want men to say.

But really, who says Eya! to the several other men that wanted to marry Barrister and were rejected so she could have the Real Man?

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Nicklaus619:
Nigeria ladies are so shallow-minded.
That was how I was innocently picking and dropping one lady in my department in the office with my car, the very day I bought my car and start driving it to work, we actually stay one estate apart and I thought it wise since she ain't mobile, let me be helping her, of which my fiance knew and was was cool with, fast forward to after 3 months of constant picking her in the morning and dropping her after work at her gate,

Aunty approached me one day and was like
Nick what do you really want from me because u can't be doing all of this and not wanting something in return?

I was so pissed and disgusted by her foolish comment, but i did not answer her though, I just smile at her, dropped her at her gate as usual and drove home, immediately I got home, aunty has called me like 4 miss call, I eventually retuned her call and she started apologizing for speaking out of tone, I told her not to worry that everywhere good, but that was the last I drove her in my car, up till date she still apologizing, but I no longer give a fvck, most Nigeria ladies thinks every guy always want to toast them. well I shocked her, because my girlfriend is 100 times more endowed and beautiful than her, what could I be wanting from her biko

Bro, I understand why you're pissed by her comment, but I don't think you should blame her much. Her behaviour was most likely influenced by experience. A lot of guys suddenly become nice to ladies they like to have a thing with without outrightly stating their intention. And when they finally do and get turned down, our dear nairaland people would blame the lady for being greedy by enjoying the goodies while pretending not to know the man's intent. Weird, I know, but this happens a lot. And I don't think this lady knew about your fiancee and had probably started developing feelings for you so she decided to know your mind, though maybe her presentation was f..u.cked up. In your shoes, I'd seat her down and explain to her that I have no ulterior motive and against what society says, some men can still be good to ladies for no other reason aside from being good people. She'd respect you and appreciate your help a whole lot more after such a discussion. I have this issue with ladies myself, and just recently I had to help a lady understand this difference after I noticed she'd started to read meanings to the little assistances I give her. She felt very embarrassed and won't stop apologising. We're cool now though.

Bro, I understand why you're pissed by her comment, but I don't think you should blame her much. Her behaviour was most likely influenced by experience. A lot of guys suddenly become nice to ladies they like to have a thing with without outrightly stating their intention. And when they finally do and get turned down, our dear nairaland people would blame the lady for being greedy by enjoying the goodies while pretending not to know the man's intent. Weird, I know, but this happens a lot. And I don't think this lady knew about your fiancee and had probably started developing feelings for you so she decided to know your mind, though maybe her presentation was f..u.cked up. In your shoes, I'd seat her down and explain to her that I have no ulterior motive and against what society says, some men can still be good to ladies for no other reason aside from being good people. She'd respect you a lot and appreciate your help a whole lot more after such a discussion. I have this issue with ladies myself, and just recently I had to help a lady understand this difference after I noticed she'd started to read meanings to the little assistances I offer her. She felt very embarrassed and kept apologising. We're cool now though.

Nicklaus619:
Nigeria

Ok, thanks

WoundedLamb:
Software Engineering

Your course?

WoundedLamb:
Can't remember but it was almost one month counting from the time I actually started searching cause I'd earlier gone on vacation to cool off after my final exams. Some of my classmates were picked by on-campus recruiters that arrived after I had already traveled. I felt bad but today, I'm happy things went that way. Years later, I was back in search of talents.

Avoid me with this cheap, "if it were your sister" blackmail. Where in my comment did I praise the accused (yeah, because we're not sure what really happened yet) driver? You lots read and are too much in a hurry to reply, with no intention of understanding, in a desperate bid to look smart/woke. If something is wrong, it is wrong, irrespective of the gender of the perpetrator and/or victim.
Ok, if the victim in this case were your brother, would it have been fair for him to be assaulted, given that it won't fit your "women are victims" narrative? Since assault (according to you) is only wrong where a woman is the victim.

pozehnani:
Mr "Jabberwocky" if it were your sister, would you still say this same thing?

Stop being biased and say things the way they are. It was very wrong of the shameless man to lay a finger on those ladies. He should be taught a serious lesson. Period!

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I hate these selfish standards most you ladies push for. You say something reasonable only to ruin it with "a woman". What is "never physically abuse a woman"? Do men deserve to be abused? I hear "never hit a woman" and some other jabberwocky every day, and I wonder if it's only wrong to hit someone if they're female. Let's collectively condemn whatever is wrong, without setting double standards.

pozehnani:
This lady is more than 200 naira. She should have just paid to avoid all these.

Driver too is a scammer, if not he would have taken the usual/normal route but because he wanted to rip the ladies he decided to take a longer route to inflate the fare. He should be taught a lesson or two never to physically abuse a woman.

Wow! Congratulations again bro. To be sincere, I was silently worried about you, given the horrible tales from some people here.

ebuka10box:
2 years

Congratulations bro. Though I don't know what this means. Has your visa validity been extended? How long?

ebuka10box:
just got my Emirates I.d

It's no good reason. I don't support abuse in any form (not the selfish, one-sided "never hit a woman" nonsense though). Just saying her defense wasn't necessary, as it's obviously faulty.

Rikkely:
Let's assume her parents is poor ... is that enough reason for the boy friend to go her place and slap her?
let someone try that shit with my daughter and see if he will live to tell the story nonsense with ingredients

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I'm just curios. If your parents are richer than his, what gave him the effrontery to harass you and your sister in your house? Why are you scared of him and looking for a way to delete the post instead of having your parebts fight the battle for you?

Valenciabaddie:
Pls Its clearly stated that I want "Matured" comments .... Not comments from bitter people ... If anyone is a gold digger then the guy is The gold digger because my parents are richer ...

The Roman Catholic Church does not pay ransom.

jeff1993:
na wa ooooo ...

This Kidnappers know that the catholic church is very wealthy and can pay ransoms without flinching thats why they keep kidnapping priestd

Do you have a financially stable suitor? If yes, better leave that struggling man to sort himself out. But please handle it with maturity. Don't ghost him. Have a discussion with him. Marriage should be the last thing on his mind now. I'd expect he's even the person trying to quit the relationship given your age and the situation of his finances.

willingheart:
I'm truly in love with this guy. We are happy together, We understand each other perfectly. With him I'm � myself, No pretence. Same with him. He's everything I want in a man, but the problem is that: he doesn't have money. He keeps trying, but things are not working. no job and he's from a family where everyone are on their own facing their challenges, no support.


He's 35yrs this yr and I'm 30 already. He wants to get married, but he can't afford it.

Lately, I buy almost everything for him, to support him.

Age is not on my side, yet the only man I love and that loves me can't afford to marry me. If we're married, it will be easy for me to share everything with him without my family members putting eyes.

My Aunt called me stu.pid that i should accept a financially stable man instead of being with a man who can not afford to take care of me.
I have little money I saved to support my wedding as well, but he have nothing.

Married people in the house please help.
I want to have direction plan for my life coming year.

Marrying the one you love or the one that's financially stable. What's your advice and opinion?

Lol. I love the way people misquote the bible. The woman doesn't have to love her husband, neither does the man need to honor/respect his wife. Wow

fannybaby:
The bible already has the answer. Wives honor your husband and husband love your wife....

It is your husband that is suppose to love you. If the financial stable guy loves you, please go for him.

If the other guy have some change tomorrow, he won't still give you money to run the house

Awesomefoodie:
Good morning and compliment of the season. I met one Alhaja yesterday she said there is a live-in maid Job available in Dubai and salary is 100k when converted to naira. She also said the Visa is 500k and I have to deposit 200k. It will be processed withing 3 weeks and I would resume work straight from the airport. She said I should send her via WhatsApp, my international passport, a passport pic and a portrait pic of me showing my full stature on a white background.

Pls is this real, plus is the salary for live-in maid Job 100k or more than? I hope she is not planning on using me for continued monthly business.

First, you should ask yourself why this Alhaja you've just met is so interested in "helping" you. In. Most cases, such offers end in hot tears. Beware.

Some people's stupidity is annoying. I'm not a home owner, but it's annoying seeing tenants who believe they can do and undo because they paid rent. How much be your rent compared to money wey erect the building? "I paid 500k for rent" And so? To have paid 500k, the house owner definitely didn't spend less than 5m to finish the house. Why then do you think he has to bow to you cos of your "meagre" rent?
True some rules are outright unreasonable and inhumane, but provided you signed up for it you have no right to complain. Unless the rules came after you paid rent.

Neoteny:
YOU don't give THEM the audacity?

Because you own the property, right?

Depends

Hello all. I want to flash global rom on my chinese version redmi note 7. I have unlocked bootloader. And I have another note 7 (global rom) I want to copy the rom from. How do I go about that, please?

Thanks

GrandMufti:
miui. blog/any-devices/install-miui-fastboot-rom/

Remove space

For step 13, just select 'clean all' , not 'clean all and lock'

I have a China version RN7 with Chinese ROM, and I wish to replace it with global ROM. I'll appreciate if someone could point me to any resource that will help. Thanks

40secondsMan:
Wtf? 6ft is tall oga!

Leave him alone na. I'm 6ft 2" too, and I know I'm tall. How many people are 6ft 2" tall?

Cooking gas cylinder? If yes, were you using it with the direct burber attached to the top of the cylinder? I'm scared now.

trippleKAY:
16 November 2016... My gas exploded. At 11:45pm .
Even though I was burnt, God saved my life that night. It could have been worse but I saw God in display that I can't even explain. since then I promised to serve him in spirit and truth

It's not "nerves"; it's madness instigated by society. They do such because they're aware that society will always praise women who assault men as "brave", while also ensuring they protect the woman from retaliation from the man. It is just what it is.

Eulalia:
Some women got the nerves. Like seriously, what would make you raise your hand on a man? I can hardly do it to a fellow girl like me how much more a man.

Hello, Yenefer.

Yenefer:
RIP to the death and quick recovery to the sick. Strange and dark time