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Arrewa:
hatred for the Fulanis is a normal culture in the East.

When a herdsmen commit any crime... You'll stereotype the whole Fulanis.

But when your brothers down east commit crimes... You'll all pretend as if nothing happen.

I didn't see you on this thread today.

You'll not comment here cos it didn't happen in zamfara village.

https://www.nairaland.com/6306342/panic-gunmen-kill-siblings-imo#96918767

Fulanis are blessed!!

We have criminals among us doesn't give any brainless goat the right to stereotype the whole Fulanis.

We are great people... The most influential back people in the world.

Every ethnic group has its fair share of bigots, and so does every religion has its extremists. The danger is adopting these irrational or agenda-driven members as the voices of the entire group. Doing so makes you exactly what you seek to fight.

The jallohs are God's own people!! We always win!!

Winning is our culture!!

No you people are marauding murderers.

ToluNazzal:
More...

. Slay queen planting and harvesting yams with jeans trousers and weavon. Isorighhht. But I like you for trying to be productive anyway. ARE YOU MARRIED?

Stopping terrorism is a collective responsibility now but your salary is not for collective spending. Useless COS. What are you being paid for then?

If you are serious with your life, leave her and walk away. If you think you can change a LovePeddler, you are mad and want to chop tears and heartbreak. Abi you wan begin measure prick with the Politicians fuccking her. Guy what you have is a public pussy. If you can't manage that lifestyle, take a walk. Especially if you are the jealous type.

NaijaMutant:
Such a beautiful girl




Does any guy here need her number

. Yes na. Send it asap.

Mouth Gig:
DEM DON KILL AM









ENEMIES OF PROGRESS

. VILLAGE PEOPLE. I DON'T BLAME MOUNTAIN OF FIRE AND THEIR PRAYERS. DAMNNN

jaelz:
So I decided to ask this question here because I have a lady that is overly demanding, I mean I tried pegging my monthly spending for her at 30,000 Naira per month including her hair, light, data and cable TV subscription plus one or two outings and hangouts.

But I noticed she never seems satisfied with my little efforts as she demands unimaginable things from me like buying her iPhone 12 and etc.

Guys pls how do you control spending on your women and how much do you spend on them monthly.

. So you do budget defense on top olosho matter. Yes! You think say na only you dey fuccck am? Dey waste your money. How much budget you get for ya mama, sisters, nieces. Na these ones go assist you if you broke tomorrow.

THIS MAN INDEED IS A BIGGER FOOL THAN I THOUGHT.

costandi:
The MC said, 'Please, go back to your seat if you are not spraying money' Chai!

Riches are vanity, so is poverty. Choose your vanity wisely!

. BROS NA RICHES VANITY SURE PASS.

Aufbauh:
Abaribe has always been a mischief maker riding on the sentimentality and gullibility of his parochial followers.


"Lies run sprints, but the truth runs marathons"- Micheal Jackson

. Mind you, he didn't say buhari has no Igbo aides. He said no Igbo aides working inside Aso Rock. So we need to be sure those guys are Aso Rock guys before calling for his head.

Chii59:
Cry me a river

Igbo boys have used your smelly toto to play bet9ja and you are here talking about who you would date and not date. Who cares about who you date? When you were busy collecting packs of Indomie and removing pant for them, who did you inform?

Chii59:
Igbos are too tribalistic. A hausa man from Kano can marry a woman from kebbi. A Yoruba man from osun can marry a woman from kwara. But an ibo man from anambra can't marry a woman from Imo.
Too tribalistic. Too divided. I don't plan on dating another igbo guy, if not Yoruba or another tribe, lemme remain single.

. This shows how daft and hollow you are. So no man from Anambra is married to an Imo lady? You went round and confirmed it? Social media has rendered many brainless.The sort of empty skulls one meets on this forum is tragic. And a lot of morons are even hitting likes.

I WONDER WHY MADUKA WOULD ASSOCIATE WITH ARTHUR EZE? ARTHUR EZE ISN'T LIKED IN ANAMBRA BY THE MASSES OUTSIDE OF HIS HOME TOWN UKPO. ALL THE POLITICIANS HE HAS TRIED TO FIELD OR BACK HAVE ALWAYS FAILED. PETER OBI CHASED HIM FAR AWAY FROM THE SEAT OF POWER. OBIANO DOESN'T WANT TO SEE HIM AT ALL AND THE MASSES DON'T GIVE A FUCCCK ABOUT HIM. MADUKA WHO IS A MAN OF THE PEOPLE GOING THERE SHOWS HE IS POLITICALLY NAIVE AND HAS TERRIBLE ADVISERS. STAYING FAR AWAY FROM ARTHUR EZE WOULD HAVE HELPED HIM BUT NOW HE HAS GONE TO DIG HIS GRAVE. ARTHUR EZE FACTOR WILL MAKE HIS CANDIDATURE AN UPHILL TASK IN ANAMBRA.

Afikoo:
Good morning Nairalanders. I sure know you all fine.

I am writing this with heavy heart.
I know we have super rich people here who rose from poverty to riches.

This life isn't balance. Done with school. Been working as security administrator in my church and I earn 80k. I have been planning on getting married. Have met my fiance Parents, they were happy. I have engaged her she is happy. All of a sudden the elder brother who isn't around is angry that I haven't spoken to him about my intention. I have earlier tried his line severallly and it isn't going through. Had to chat him and he told me I am not serious that I should grow up. A bullet in my heart.

Her mum has suddenly changed and is accusing me for not calling her always.
This whole drama has gotten into my babe now she is talking about us suspending our marriage plan and try improving our income. (She is learning a skill)

I am fed up. Have suspended everything now. I have tried everything since I left school last year to improve my income. Apply for jobs here and there. Is just not cutting in.

Please, share your experience on how you were able to get out of this average life as a Nigerian.

Advise me and others still struggling to rise up.
You can recommend jobs for me.
I studied history and Diplomatic Studies.
Have some certification in Leadership and human resource. Trust me, I can deliver on anything legal. I have the capacity, but haven't gotten the opportunity.

Patiently reading.

. Go and thank God almighty that you dodged a lethal bullet. You stepped into a family of entitled mofos. Work to improve your income but not because of them. Her brother is forming for you, her mother is giving you hassles and the girl has joined the chorus. You want to marry from the family of people that will use nagging to send you to your early grave. Your girl isn't helping matters and she has no mind of her own. Go and improve your life and look for a girl from a family that will allow you to grow in peace. Don't go and marry heart-ache and head-ache.

Igbochief001:
When u are igbo and u work for the government ...never ...I repeat never break the law for anyone ...cause they would always use u as a scapegoat when the time comes

. Read before you comment or do you lack ability to comprehend? The killer is Hassan, a northerner; and the victim is Ifeanyi, an Igbo man newspaper vendor. So the person facing disciplinary action is a northerner, not an Igbo man. Are you IPOB?

SafeArch:
This is the most disturbing part of this entire article

. That's wrong. He just became a senator recently. Even this is his first term. If you say as governor, but even before becoming one, he was already a billionaire but out of greed, still tampered with the Treasury.

If you offend her, all those their ritualistic dark prophetts will organise better village people on top your matter. They will use your pictures to do enchantments on your head. If you cheat, they will use village people format to lock your preeq, e no go function again. No go destroy yourself oooohh.

Adefemi504:
But how many 9ja trained ladies can muster the courage to be the first to message a guy and ask about friendship?

. The problem with naija girls na shakara. The purpose is for you to be the chaser so that they can put all their bills on your head. Naija girls are not looking for a relationship, they are looking for financial sponsors that will carry their load and foot all their bills.

AerialMapper:
Why don’t they put these Hisbah to proper use; let them go after bandits instead of going after alcohol!

Alcohol is the least of your problems in Katsina o! 12 ASPs are currently with the bandits; hisbah is destroying alcohol.

. ABIOOO. BANDITS ARE RAVAGING THIS MUMU DEM BUT IT'S CANS OF ALCOHOLIC BEVERAGES THEY ARE PUSHING AFTER.

Kestolove:
Evans the notorious kidnaper na Igbo man from anambra state that cannot even speak English but gain millions of naira from illicit business.dats all I know abt him

. Haaa. I thought you had something up your head. I didn't know it's a coconut head.

CilicMarin:
It's obvious he wasn't efficient....WELCOME ENGINEER DAVE...

Igbo Presidency, We Stand!

. AND YOU PEOPLE BELIEVE IT? APC GIVE PRESIDENCY TO IGBO? EVEN PDP DON'T WANT TO DO THAT. IF APC OR PDP WILL GIVE IT'S DEFINITELY NOT UMAHI. ANY PARTY THAT GIVES HIM ANYTHING WILL FAIL WOEFULLY. HE DOESN'T HAVE THE PEDIGREE AT THE NATIONAL LEVEL. WHO WILL HE DISPLACE TO TAKE IT?

Skynet45:
https://thenationonlineng.net/hurray-ASUU-wants-prompt-pay-for-endless-strikes/

. YOU JUST WROTE RUBBISH. IN SANE SOCIETIES IS IT ASUU THAT SHOULD AGITATE FOR UNIVERSITIES TO BE RUN PROPERLY AND FUNDED PROPERLY. ASUU HAS REFUSED TO BE MUMU LIKE OTHERS. THAT'S THE DIFFERENCE. YOU PEOPLE ARE GETTING USED TO THE MENTALITY OF THE COWS IN CHARGE OF GOVERNMENT AND THAT IS WHY YOU ARE ACCEPTING ABNORMALITIES AS NORMAL, THEREFORE YOU CRITISIZE ASUU AND SIDE WITH THE GOVERNMENT.

sapphiere:
Men are greedy in nature. They want all to themselves.

. THE MAN IS A VERY NICE MAN. HE IS SHARING PALLIATIVES TO WOMEN.

[quote author=Righteousness89 post=96097580]The Major Problems and Challenges of many ladies today is rooted in these things..

Many of you don't even need Prayers!
The Moment you do away with these Garment of Confusion, your Problems will Disappear..[/quote. MY BROTHER TELLI THEMOOOO.]

pansophist:
For the female version, please click the link https://www.nairaland.com/6253429/traits-man-should-observe-woman

Do you feel a sense of security with him? Do you trust in his ability to navigate the chaos of life reasonably? Would you want your son to be like him? Does he have potential and is he working on something that compounds? Within the months/years you've known him, which tangible and intangible positive changes have you noticed? Do other people respect him, especially those that know him closely? How does he treat his first family, especially his mother? Does he have a good relationship with his father? How does he relate with his siblings? How does he deal with anger?

Do you respect and adore him deeply as an expression of your love? Has he done anything to prove beyond doubt that you are his first lady? How does he treat you in public even if you didn't act right? Is your fight his fight? Do you feel protected and safe with him? If he is gone from your life right now, what will you miss? How has your life improved since you’ve been with him? Does he integrate your affairs in his future plans? Does he introduce you to people that are important to him? Does he give you stuff?

Can you be real with him? Is he a doer and does he take on his masculine duty honourably? Does he armor/upgrade himself to be stronger to overcome problems and seeks solutions instead of chickening out? Does he have a sense of responsibility to your affair? Are you deeply convinced that if for some reason, you cannot work (e.g. pregnancy), that he is capable of reasonably being the pillar of your sustenance? Does he have a hustler mentality of conquering the world and bringing home the bacon, and more importantly, does he understand this as his primary responsibility with grace?

Just as he gives you the carrot, does he also give you the stick? Does he correct you when you're veering off behaviourally? Does he let you fall into the belly of the dragon because he doesn't want to offend you, instead of correcting you to get back on track? Does he hold you accountable? In order words, does he have the balls to call you out when you're straying afar? If you're adding weight for example, does he constructively bring that to your attention with the assurance that he still loves you nevertheless but encourage you to be better?

Does he have deadly vices such as porn addiction, gambling, alcoholism, philandering and more? If you show him the mirror, does he admit faults or deflect it? Is he actively working to be better and conscious of the society you live in, making sure he makes the best decision to make your family life better? (Eg moving to a new city/state/country due to security, economical viability etc), does he chooses what happens in his life or lets life happen to him? Is he masculine? Can you trust him?

Is he your resting place? Do you feel feminine and beautiful in his arms? Does he reassure that your fears, vulnerability and hope in the future are in control? Does he deserve your faithfulness? Will you without hesitation, gladly tie the rope of your existence with his, and become stronger together? Does he do masculine things like changing the car tires and repair stuff? Does he have an outlet where he releases his negative energy such as sports? Is he metacognitive? Are your future plans harmonious with his?

Is he a true leader (to be understood as being competent, not tyranny)? Is he progressive in the sense that he fully supports your growth and a landing place for you to refuel and relaunch into your pursuit of success and fulfillment? Does he let you give opinions and also take charges of areas you are competent in? Is it a big deal for him to prepare your favourite dish and give you a nice treat? Do you find yourself naturally submitting to him, because he deserves it? Does he use your vulnerability against you instead of making you feel secure in it? Does he understand what it means to be a man, and his responsibilities towards you and your future kids?

A man that truly loves and sees a future with you will naturally do all these things, and even more to keep you. Do not ever try to convert a manchild to do all these, it will be a disaster. Women are usually clouded by emotions, but this is a time in life you have to use your head. I wish you good luck in your pursuit of happiness.

Pansophist.

. YOU DID A VERY NICE WORK HERE. I AM A MAN BUT I CAN TELL YOU THAT IN MY ENCOUNTER WITH GIRLS, LESS THAN A PERCENT OF THEM CONSIDER THESE POINTS YOU PUT UP. THE REST NA MONEY, SIX PACKS AND YOUR VIBES. I DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT VIBES MEAN.

ebenezer202l:
is this one a human being?
Your comment is so irritating.
cc MsAllison AchalugoNwa LZAA Imhotep.

. It can only be irritating to supporters of treasury looters.

Macrofrancis:
Are you confused about if what you are getting is true love or is he just after your body?

Women are beautiful and trust me, their physical appearance is the first feature that attracts an admirer. But what if this admirer is just interested in this outer look and doesn't care about other features, read to find out.

1. His best topic when talking with you is 'your body'
To a large extent, this is the most noticeable sign that he is only interested in your body, but people ignore this. When all he talks about is your enticing shape, how big your boobs and booty are, watch out, he is after your body.

2. He touches you inordinately
If you man is the kind of man that touches your private parts carelessly for fun, sometimes even in public, it is a sign of no respect for those parts (your body) and it sure shows he is after your body.

3. He never talks of marriage.
Has he ever spoken of marriage to you or does wave off any topic relating to marriage?
A guy who desires more than your sexual gifts show a mild intention of making your relationship lead to somewhere lasting. It doesn't matter what number marriage is on his to-do list.
He will always chip in talks of marriage if he wants the relationship to lead somewhere.

. Very hollow and lacking of in-depth substance.

HandmadeD:
How did we get here as a people

. My brother so bad that it's a disabled agency that is providing and rehabilitating our injured and bundled off soldiers. THERE WAS A COUNTRY.

AccessME:
One of the most sophisticated House Speaker Nigeria ever had. He made me fall in love with white native style and dressing that that year.

Happy Birthday Bankole. May u accomplish more height in life!

. This pro-establishment speaker? He didn't represent the youth well. He was just a paddy-paddy speaker. What is sophisticated about him. Even Gbaja is far better than him in standing with the people, though it's the core establishment people that enthroned him.