₦airaland Forum

Moonland100:
There is always a difference in starting a fight and some people want to fight you and you react.

. He started that fight in the first place by going against the agreement that they had with him before they made him governor.
Though I don't support the Wike and his gang of criminals but he should have known what it implied for him to dare the crooks that made him governor.

gaby:
Lol

Fubara don already sell himself short. Anything wey e dey see from henceforth make e dey face am go.

Obote

. The guy na confirmed mumu governor. You don't have balls to fight, yet you went and started a fight and then start to chicken out like a dumb fool.
I despise Wike and his gang of criminals, but Fubara is just a court jester.
No wonder Wike chose to use him to have a third term as Rivers governor.

Smile4mee01:
I'm a single 39yr old Nigeria guy in diaspora trying to settle down and going to Nigeria to marry is not an option.

I'm an introvert who has been through some childhood trauma in my family and really fear marriage because of what I have seen and how bad it can be sometimes.

However, an old female friend and colleague of mine who we worked together in Nigeria and now in canada recently contacted me and she is also single and not had children. She is doing well for herself and now a citizen there while I'm not. A part of me is concerned about

1. Fertility : I desire children. However, can she have me healthy children @ 39. How many can she have? I discussed us trying for a child , she appears to want a.marriage first. But what gurantees do I have to have children.


Should I be concerned? I dont want to enter one chance.



Please I use God beg you, no insults just advice. Abeg. God bless you.

If you have the funds, IVF is a path you can take.

Zonefree:
Women love marriage than they love themselves.

Yes. And it's because it's an escape route to them, whereby they pass their burdens to the man and now sit back and watch the man sweat it out all the days of his life trying to pay her bills.

immortalcrown:
A stupid assertion.

So, whoever criticizes Wike is automatically a supporter of the kidnapping in Abuja?

Those are the Ogboni cult thugs that Wike is using to run Rivers state to ruins.

EreluRoz:
Akpabio does not have the interest of Nigeria at heart, it shows in all his dealings. Sad

And that's why Tinubu chose him as Senate president.
Tinubu runs government of thieves. He prefers the the thief's and the corrupt.

Bobloco:
Daddy GO is merely telling his congregation what they want to hear

Exactly!!! He knows that modern day christians are full of greed and selfishness and he plays on it.

Donaldoni:

Oyibo too dey get albino version or dem scam de guy?

RichDad1:
Edo state? Make I no talk wetin Dey my mind.

Edo state, Benin the headquarters of yahoo plus boys?

NextUK:
2025 you go hear am cos I know for a fact this is a lie to fool obidient even more

Anambra with his Orient Petroleum commissioned 14 years ago after Peter Pandora. Obi invested billion of Anambra fund is yet to produce a single litre of fuel yet Dangote that was commissioned less than 6 month as already started production.

You are just exposing your folly online.
Orient isn't a refining company. Olodo.

wis3:
Innalilahi wa'inna ilahi rajiun. What is wrong with this country 😩😩😩

. Una Shittyma of a vice president hasn't handled security as he promised during campaign and Tilumbu has destroyed the economy.

Bongadu:
I impregnated my ex girlfriend when I was young and relocated because at time I was young and stupid, I gave her money for abortion but she disagreed on removing it , so I had no choice but to flee as I was irresponsible and poor
My ex girlfriend put to bed months after I left and raised the child living with her parents
I relocated back last year December , I'm trying to get back with my daughter but my ex won't let me be near me even I want to take responsibility and care for my daughter
She's getting me frustrated, I'm thinking of suing her for not letting me be a presence in my daughter's life

Sue for what? Na beg you suppose to dey beg her.
You have no rights whatsoever.

Blitzking:
I agree with
Ac
Food..to bring out her shape
Money for skin care products
I phone? Nah just get her a good phone there are many out there
Car...it adds to the softness of her life
Washing machine/fridge/freezer/microwave/dishwasher very important
Tv/netflix/dstv to keep her entertained
Monthly allowance.

No be wife una wan marry, na slayqueen una wan keep for house.
Una dey too like to slave for women.
I know a lot of lightskinned ladies that are doing well in their marriage without their husbands slaving for them.
You guys problem is that you enter a relationship or marriage with the wrong mindset that you should be living to slave for a woman in order to keep her happy and continue to be yours.
Marry a woman of sound values and character even if she's dark or light skinned, and don't believe that because a woman is beautiful you should kill yourself for her.

KLEINBASS:
Nigerians are a problem to the world.

You are just displaying how dumb you are because you didn't read and understand the post.

SmartPolician:
The FG cannot punish everyone for the sins of a few people. I think they should ban Nigerians from studying in those countries, going forward.

As for now, the deed is already done. Allow current students to finish their courses or transfer them to Nigerian universities.

Tinubu and APCs mode of handling issues.
Take decisions and begin to make findings later. You now begin to reverse your decisions because it's a propaganda driven government, they don't think before acting.

maasoap:
Groom absconding during marriage ceremonies in South East is not new. If you are embarrassed with stories like this, tell your elders to stop the practice

Says someone that doesn't know the road to the southeast.

money121:
Nigerian Man Escapes Through The Bush During Wedding Ceremony In Imo State Over Too Much Billing

There was a mild drama as bridegroom escaped through the bush out of engagement ceremony in Imo State due to extortion.

According to Igwe Chibueze Ogadimma who shared the post, he paid N1,500,000 to cater for food, tents, chairs and a public address system.

He was also made to set aside N100,000 as the bride price that the two families had agreed on.

Biobelemoye David was asked to add N50,000 to the bride price because he had already impregnated the girl.

He was slapped with a N10,000 fine for making a detour to the wrong path and ending up in a different homestead other than the girl's.

He was also asked to pay N15,000 to appease the elders who had become tired of waiting for his arrival.

Drama however ensued when twelve girls covered in loose robes from head to toe were paraded before Biobelemoye David and he was asked to guess who his fiancée was.

He pointed at the wrong woman and that led to yet another fine of N15,000.

The decisive moment specifically was when the elders demanded for a refund of the total sum of N850,000 to repair the father's old car that knocked engine

Fuming with anger which he tried his best to hide, Biobelemoye David excused himself to visit a nearby bush to urinate and disappeared!

He switched off his phone and was last seen at a driving heading to Bayelsa State from Imo

SOURCE: https://gistmeloveblog.com/nigerian-man-escapes-through-the-bush-during-wedding-ceremony-in-imo-state-over-too-much-billing/

FAKE STORY. LIES. IT'S EVEN SOUNDING STALE

FanRong:
I'm sorry, this post is going to be a long one. But you're saving a soul if you read through and advice candidly.


My story
We've dated for 6months and we've lived together for the 6months.

On our 3rd month, I found her interesting and told her I'll like to marry her. She accepted but no engagement ring or anything to show. We just accepted by word of mouth.

Since then, I've worked towards it. I've told her to call her mum and eldest brother(dad is late) to relate my idea and understand their feeling since it won't be that easy to marry. (same state, but my people and her people are highly selective in marriage)

After several persuasion, and threat that I'll throw her out if she doesn't relate the circumstances to her family, she called the mum. And again I had to force her to call the eldest brother. She claimed she did. And that's enough. I'm ok.

Meanwhile, there's this guy(her ex) she claims helped her when she came to Lagos. It was when I started accommodating her that I found out in her chats that she was living with this guy, but lied to me she was living with her Aunt and the aunt's husband was harassing her sexually and she wants to leave. She later told me the guy, though provides for him but has never had sex with her, even when she was living in his house. These stories doesn't move me since everyone, who is not a virgin has an ex. So I forgave all that and we moved on.

She wasn't everything I need in a women, but I told myself I could train her the way I want. We continued adjusting to each others likes and dislikes.

I feed her this 6 months, provide comfortable shelter, buy her things she needs,(not want). Told her I'll do more and open a shop for her, if we get married, but she still confronts me asking why should I wait till after marriage? . I didn't allow the words move me cos Its my decision and my money and also, I'm used to gold diggers.

A good number of times, I see her as being selfish. If things doesn't benefit her, she'll not get bothered even if I'm involved.

Just this week, It became obvious to me that she argues everything I request her to do. From 24th Dec, we've been on holiday, we're always at home.
1. I'll wake her up at 9 and ask her to prepare breakfast for the family, she'll prefer to roll on the bed than do it. I'll finally have to do it myself so I can get things done and get busy.

2. I detest girls on eye lashes. I've repeatedly told her how I dislike it, but when she went to fix herself for the Christmas, she fixed the eyelashes, Contrary to my demand.

3. I got her some sneakers to upgrade her fashion style and look smarter, instead of the usual slippers and sandals she wears.
When we prepared to go to the beach few days ago, I requested her to put on the sneakers to look more fashionable, but she refused buttressing that she must wear what she wants, sandals.

4. Few days ago, we had a heated argument and she said that if I'm not happy that she's living with me, that she can go, afterall, she has somewhere to stay. I asked her to go and she immediately called that her ex bf to come to my house. I immediately swung into action, took all her belongings out, before the ex will arrive, at the same time, retrieving the items I gifted her.
While she was struggling to have her gifted items back, our neighbours heard the struggle and had to come and settle for us. She apologized and I forgave her. we were back into the house.

5. Just yesterday , we left home together, and I locked the door and I took the keys with me. We walked down the street together to the Busstop, I have almost no friend and seldomly greet. But there's this my ex girlfriend by the roadside, she saw me and yelled my name, I went to greet her and my Fiancée picked offence, left me without waiting for me. After that I chased her and told her it's nothing because I've told her everything about this ex.
Before we could get to the Busstop, she demanded for the house keys and I gave her since she might come back earlier than me.
We couldn't say bye. The anger was clear on her face and we parted ways.

After about 15mins, I got to where I wanted to make payment for the items I picked only to notice I am not with my transaction phone. I was confused where could I have kept it, the seller insisted I may not have come to his shop with the phone, and the phone rang as I called with my second phone. so I had to call my Fiancée for assistance since she's with the keys.
At first, she said she was still around the Busstop but when I told her I needed her to go home and confirm my phones whereabout, she said she can't go back that she has gone far, shouted on me and hung the phone.

I called and called and called, but she didn't pick. Many thoughts ran into me. Who took this phone? My money? , my phone? , my sim card? . I had to find my way and trekked back about 4km to the house since I had no cash with me. And finally saw the phone ringing in my house. I was relieved.

The way she shouted to me on the phone got me unbalanced, I felt she would be fire if I get this girl as a wife.

We finally traveled to our home state today and I paid the bills for the traveling. My major plan of traveling was to see her people and do the needful before I mistakenly get her pregnant. But I'm seriously contemplating of canceling this plan and throw her out come January. I need peace.

Dear nairalanders, I'm really in the middle of the deep blue sea and the devil.

I need mature and candid advice please.
Should I continue with the marriage plans or the redflags are obvious?

Hmmmmm You want someone to tell you before you end that disaster that's waiting to happen?
You are walking into a major disaster with your eyes wide closed.

Lonestar124:
Miracle no dey tire Jesus

Congratulations to them

His bank account isn't physically challenged. That's why.

Mhizzard:
where una dey cross path with this kind ladies

It's not fairy tales. Myself I have had to deal with that situation on more than four occasions.
One was sending me nude videos of where she's bathing and opening the thing for me to view well.
It was a long time personal decision I made to God not to touch someone's wife that kept me from doing the forbidden.
I don't know what's wrong with married women.

favor914:
Ignorance Indeed na curse & the irony is that they will be laughing & gloating @ themselves in their ignoramus, because to them oblivious Agbadorians were told by some myopic things say na Governor dey pay legislators?

You don't know how the system runs
The governor releases their allocation to the state legislative service and they're paid from it. Fubara has since changed the head and secretary of the state legislative service and transferred them out, sending in another persons.
He has since withheld release of funds to the state assembly. Didn't you hear the speaker loyal to Wike complaining about the governor's withholding of funds?
The governor is in control of the legislature. That's why he could demolish their offices without informing them.
You are the ignorant one here. The legislature isn't independent in Nigeria. The governor is in charge of appointments to the legislative staff commission that runs the the state legislative service.

senatordave1:
This is the authentic house holding a valid plenary

When month finish and they don't see salary alert, na im dem eyes go clear well well

Pakute:
Which right thing is he doing?, baba just dey save face. EFCC has declared Agunloye wanted which means Tinubu has already dusted baba's file, OBJ know say Tinubu no go look e face when security go come embarrass am for Ota, that is why e dey try submit himself jejely. All enemies of Tinubu must collect.

you are just an informed mumu. If you know the history of this matter, you wouldn't be writing this rubbish. That's if you read at all.

fuckJones:
it wrong to overtake police or any military convoy, don't try it next time, they can shoot you.

By the laws of the country it's not wrong. He didn't go fowl of any law whatsoever.
However in Nigeria, our Police behave anyhow and take laws into their hands and make unlawful rules for the citizens.

dre11:
• Company says NNPC to supply next four cargoes in three weeks

• Final shipment to come from ExxonMobil.

• Refinery to load 2,900 trucks a day at its truck loading gantries

• Dangote, Okunbor excited by significant milestone achieved

• Tinubu optimistic of increased investments from SPDC

• Insists all obstacles to investments now being removed by his govt



https://www.thisdaylive.com/index.php/2023/12/09/dangote-set-to-flood-african-market-with-refined-petroleum-products-sending-jitters?amp=1

FLOOD? AS in really flooding Africa with refined fuel?
Let him flood Nigeria first.
You people and this your deceptive hyping of lies.

Newsmic:
https://politicsnigeria.com/nigeria-is-not-fixable-as-i-thought-labour-party-senator-kingibe-admits-video/

Your narration that Ireti is the sole labour party senator in the Senate shows that you are too ignorant to be writing politics.
Anambra state has two labour party senators, Enugu two, Abia one and few others.
This is too dumb to be an error.

Biodun556:
Tribalism seems to be poor man's disease

. Yesooo. Especially the broke ones on nairaland.

tsdarkside:
they only come to nigeria for the dollars....

nothing else....
when we tell una this foreighn companies are doing nigeria no good,una will not listen....

. Do you have your own companies that manufacture what they do and can create the employment they create and add the value they add?
You are saying this to defend your useless APC agbado government that you supported.
If you establish a business, won't you want to repartriate your profits home?

Offkey:
Igbo people and chest beating.kai🙄😂

What has this got to do with IGBOS and how do you know he's Igbo?
And where's the chest eating there?
This nairaland is just a land of demented tribal bigots.

bigpicture001:
this is so much as to the ratio of 8:2. this is a well paying sector of the economy and guyz also hustle for jobs and again there as much men as graduate as there are ladies..

...but why are our banks employee sex discrimination so high and alarming to the very unbalanced ratio...?

any reason people..?

You are terribly wrong. And even coming to the public space to write something that doesn't have any statistical backing.
You are wrong when you use real data.
This your 8:2 ratio, please where did you get it from?

YourMrBoo:
Omg 😱 See finishing...

Politics aside, he told Ifeanyi Uba the truth. Chronic debtor to Amcon and so many banks indebted to with bad loans.
If not for crossing over to APC, his trial would have resumed last month.

Kloenboi:
Having your family beside you is very important for your MENTAL wellbeing

. They just want people to come and slave for them. Even family you can't enjoy again.
Anyway they do this because they know people are desperate.