₦airaland Forum

compton11:
Islam my nigga!

Believe in oneness of God
Be good to your both parents
Be good to orphans, widow, travellers
Pay zakat to the poor
Don't talk human as God

And so on

Theonlysonofher:
While others are celebrating the new year today I am here sobbing because my marriage is at the verge of breaking.

I loved my wife with all my heart but I don't think I will ever forgive her for what she has done to my mother.

I am the only child of my mother. I have three sisters on my father's side.
I am married with two beautiful daughters. my mother suffered from diabetes, bp and high cholesterol. She is on a special diets strictly no salt or too much sugar.

She came to stay with me because the person who was taking care of her wasn't doing her job properly so I had to bring her to my house so I will be monitoring her health.

I have a house help who prepares all her meals with less salt and she also makes sure she takes her medicines on time without fail.
Everything was fine, my mother is not a troublesome person, she gets on well with my wife and most of the time she is in her room resting.

On the 20th of December my house help had traveled to the village to see her people and she will be back in January 4th so my wife and I have to take care of my mother making sure that her foods is less salty and medicines on time.

Since I am always working so my wife had to take most of the responsibility. It is only for a week and fews days until the house help is back.

She had agreed to take care of my mother during this periods of time and I thought everything was fine but I noticed my mother become distant and tired unlike her and I had no idea that she was actually dying and I have never suspected that my wife was maltreating her.

So Thursday being 30th December I was at work when my wife called and asked me to join her at the hospital because mama had a seizure.

I rushed to the hospital and my mother was in a coma state and I asked her what happened to mama, she said mama woke up that morning complaining about shortage of breath and she told her to go back to bed and rest hoping she will be fine by the time she will wake up.
Only for mama to fall off the ground and started shaking with foam coming out of her mouth.

I was in panicked I couldn't stop praying for my mother to get better and I didn't leave the hospital, my wife went home to take care of the children because she has left them with the neighbour and I had spend all night prayer vigil at my mother's bedside and glory be to God my mother woke up yesterday being 31st but the doctor report was not a good news for me.

Actually my mother was poisoned with salt and guess who did it? My beloved wife couldn't bothered to cook a different meal for my mother, she used to feed her the same meal we ate knowing full well that mama cannot eat the same foods as us because we are salt lovers, especially my wife, she love eating too much salt which I have warned her over and over again because it is also not good for her health.

I confronted her, she said she only fed mama the same meals we ate twice only but according to the doctor it was more than two times.

I am hurt that my wife doesnt love my mother or treat her like her own mother because if she truly loved her like her own mother she would have put her diet on consideration and not allow her to eat the same meal as us. I love her mother and u treat her like my own mother.

It pains me a lot when I remember five years ago when her mother was in coma state and she was staying with her at the hospital, she is her only daughter amongst three boys.

I used to visit them everyday after work, I will bring foods and I have even washed her mother clothes with my own hands, I have done with love because she is my mother. I called my mother in law this morning and I have informed her about what her daughter has done to my mother and she couldn't stop apologising and she is very disappointed with my wife.

But see how she has repaid me by hurting my own mother.

She has apologised to me and to my mother, I have forgave her but I don't think I can stay with her again because one day if I become sick or bedridden she might treat me the same way.

Honestly speaking I am not even at home with her and the kids, I am at my cousin brother's house since yesterday I left the hospital and my mother is still in the hospital because she needs more treatment and hopefully she will recover by next week.

I don't feel like going home today and I don't know when I'll go home but I will always be there for my girls because they are the best thing that ever happened to me.

What other advice would you give me on this situation? What are your thoughts? Thank you for reading all I love this community.

Cholls:
My brother that barber's little boy though.... DNA loading...

Gravatar:
Hearken to your roots. If the old ways kept your community healthy and prosperous, stick with them. Don't let anybody teach you how their own deity is the real one, all in the name of "civilization"

Waiting for the intolerant practitioners of foreign religions to arrive and tell us how these people are "worshipping the devil".

Homiesjinxbank:
E good has they arrested that guy

Myexdisturbs:
Stolen wealth

Anambra hosts the largest number of low moral individuals like Andy Uba. Home of ritualists and mkpụrụ mmiri addicts . What a useless state

edego2up:
I married my wife and my father in-law gave us his blessings after that every year ending I use to give my father in-law things like rice chicken and some ingredients for the celebration,
By late last year my in-law died and these things which i use to give my father in-law now goes to my mother inlaw, but the senior brother to my father in-law is now on my neck, anytime he sees my wife,he always is threatening fire and brimstone.

He says that since his brother's demised we have not been visiting him and infact have not received any Christmas gift from US
Meanwhile,in every Christmas i always do for my mother inlaw what i should have done for my father in-law.

I am now confused i don't know who to serve now between my mother in-law and uncle in-law.he is now blowing fire and brimestone

The major matter now is how i can be able to service my mother inlaw and my uncle in-law then my family. I am a low income earner just managing to keep ends meet, see where i now find myself.

The main reason i am nolonger at ease is because these tribe are mainly known to practice witchcraft especialy the very family.

Please nairalanders what should I do now to save my head and the head of my loved ones.
If you love jokes kindly skip this Post for this is a very serious matter.

Even now my mind is telling me to devorse her and life goes on, will this decision also affect me? infact how, how, hooooooowwwwee?

God1000:
This is unholesome and unacceptable, what is Rivers state government and the federal government doing about this ugly situation?

otokx:
Oil theft and illegal refining is the cause of this soot in the Niger Delta.

TrackerXL:
Why not show were you got this from.
I won't be quick to judge anything with the mischief you people post on SM this days.

Souzin:
Please help me out.

I have an issue in my relationship and it's getting me really pissed.

So let me say this, I have only dated two persons, one sometime in 2016 and this new relationship that's been at it for 2 years.

My girlfriend seem to think it's cool for her to hangout with guys that are toasting or want to sleep with her.

These are the same ppl she calls friends, not ppl she has known for long oh but ppl she just met and want to sleep with her.

NOTE: my gf has really big ass, big enough it causes stares when we go out.

So you can imagine the number of advances she gets.

I really want to know from people, guys, do you allow your girlfriend hang out with such ppl?

Ladies, you do entertain such invites? why?

Omooba77:
Politicians will be thinking of giving one satchel of omo, salt, rice and N500 as palliative.....Common railway coaches we can not build....

backbencher:
Union Bank's problems predate the mannequin's arrival in Aso rock

Like since 2009

Equal2DeTask:



I can easily identify an Ebonyi indigene...

YeyeGbami:
They go buy am back or carry their house.

JovialJune:
Nice one, for all those ones cheast beating that Lagos is no mans land, keep helping us develop our land okay, dont go and develop your state, when we are ready to do sakamaje just like what is happening in Magodo, you will cry, the wise should see this as a warning and borrow sense.

sweetonugbu:
And this one should be counted as achievment?.

Alaigbopress:
Just imagine
A refinery that is domiciled in the South will have Engineers from North working on it. No Catchment Quota for even host community. This is the type of Nigeria some people are ready to die for.

Gravatar:
Una go just dey post nonsense. Say na medical student. To start with, wetin concern dental technologists and medicine?

You just fabricated an entire story from nowhere.

Sanchez01:
Comments on this thread best capture why the political class will always ride on the masses. Portable is not out of line in any way. His approach may be crude as he is perceived to be uneducated and rough but there is no denying that Poco Lee has been milking him.

Poco Lee's name comes first while Portable and Olamide are regarded as featured acts in the song. This is not a common mistake but a well calculated attempt at profiting off someone considered to be unenlightened, ignorant and uneducated. The song was done with by Portable and Olamide but Poco Lee's name found its way to the track name. He is neither a DJ, nor an executive producer.

Royalties, awards, recognitions, and other accolades the song will get in the nearest future will all go to Poco Lee because the track name suggests he owns the song but Portable is the one getting the recognition.

The Nigerian music industry might be a 'dog eat dog' affair but this is unprecedented. The Dollar issue is of no concern to me but Poco Lee is definitely not helping this Sango act. Unfortunately, he will be kicked back to where he crawled out from but this whole charade gives an idea into how label owners and industry helpers lift artists to their doom—they make the money while they leave the fame to the artists and even control how much the artists take home.

Modified. I am relieved that there are still reasonable people like you in the country. The comments I was reading above was already making me sad at the level of reasoning of people in this country who see nothing wrong in fraud and robbery, and see it as an abomination for a downtrodden to demand for his rights.

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cherishmichael:
See confirm country this is what they call country, But go and watch the one a Nigerian female soldier proposed to a cop Guy or cop guy proposed to a female soldier anyone sha!! they just disgrace the both of them giving nonsense law nonsense rule.

Wazobia2216:
This kind person tell you say she need husband

younglleo:
thanks for this, i thought the sooth was minor issue, ignoring it and on the final stages of moving to ph!
But thank you

younglleo:
ph wey i dey plan relocate to next year!

ovieigho:
Pocket is dry !

Same fate will befall MC oluomo if PDP wins Lagos state

muykem:
17 flyovers you said. Abia state need to borrow this man after his tenure in Ebonyi state.

Kriss216:
The People that have been with the Presidency for years, what are their benefits?

Are they in any way better than the Igbos?

Anambra has been with APGA for years, aside Lagos and FCT,(No Man's Land), tell me the State doing better than Anambra.

Katsina is with the Presidency....same Katsina is the headquarters of bandits.

We don't need your Presidency.. what we need is a safe and sane environment where we can do our business, excel , buy or build big houses, buy big cars, pepper Umuekwensu and enjoy life to fullest before we meet our Maker.

majamajic:
So baba still dey perform for ozza room , at this our conditions