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Guy abeg cover 4me..
Make dis mad woman no c me..

Oshio, abeg tame dat guy 4me..
Make akuku finish am once and 4 all..

Amaechi ke?

Wait make Patience catch U̶̲̥̅̊!!

ultimatetopson: Na overdo go finish ASUU,,,,,I'm just happy I'm finally going back 2 sch....to all who are astill expecting their sch update,,,i pray u guys will do bfor Sat....greatest aauaites!!!!!!!

Stay dia dey deceive urself(ƨ̣̣̣̇̇̇̇)
Pack ur load well σ, na u go unpack am urself..

All na wash, the V.C. has denied this report, claiming tis α rumour..

OP stop spreading fake news and raising people'ƨ̣̣̣̇̇̇̇ hope Fø̲̣̣я̅ nothing..

I know some will still be doubting,,no be Monday??
Una go cum lyk dis my post cum nxt week Monday..

Congratz man!!!

No fhuckup sha..
Cos if yhu du, na we wey dey congratulate yhu go ask Fø̲̣̣я̅ yha eviction..

9ja lo wa σ..

Ever wondered why women cheat so easily? You may know a few reasons behind why women cheat.

Women cheat to fill the emotional void that's empty after a man neglects her, or perhaps the sexual preferences in the marriage are just too different. But experience has shown that women cheat for completely different reasons.

Looking for real life reasons behind why women cheat? Well, these 25 truthful reasons will reveal the real truth.

1. Women get too close to others, too fast. Women build strong emotional connections really fast. It's easy for them to get close to a guy and confuse the bond with love.

2. They love any man who can give them emotional support. It's true. Want to steal a girlfriend, just give her a shoulder to lean on. She'll give you her bed to sleep on.

3. Women favor the gene pool. They instinctively want to favor the gene pool and play their part for Mother Nature by constantly picking other dating and mating potentials.

4. Women fall in love fast. They fall in love too fast with just about anyone who shows affection. They try playing hard to get, but almost always end up becoming really easy to get for potential girlfriend stealers.

5. Women are progressive. They like sprucing men up and working on little man projects now and then. And just when you think you've been perfected by your girlfriend, she'll find another man to perfect.

6. Women love drama and gossip in their lives. It's the truth. Women get bored extremely easily and need constant attention and drama in their lives. Once the man settles down in love, the woman starts unsettling.

7. They're confused about their feelings almost all the time. A girl may love her man generally, but her mood swings ebb and flow like the tides of the sea. She likes her man sometimes, and she bitches about him at other times. Add another man into the equation and it's a teen sitcom.

8. Women are suckers for affection and compliments. Women fall for compliments and flirty touches really easily. When another guy flirts with your girl, she may think she's just having fun. But in reality, she'd be falling for him even if he's just having fun.

9. It's ridiculously easy to make a girl doubt her own boyfriend. All another guy has to do is point a few flaws, talk sweet, touch her in a few places, and she'll start to think her boyfriend's a loser and the new guy is a sex god who's in love with her.

10. Women say they don't want to stray. But yet all they think about is straying. Every time a guy flirts with a girl, she temporarily forgets she has a boyfriend already!

11. Women close their eyes while kissing another guy. Yeah, just shut your damn eyes and say it all happened so fast! Women get physical and then say it was a mistake. Men, on the other hand try covering it up by saying it didn't happen. Women want pity, men forgive them. Men get caught, become a punching bag.

12. Women always think they're in a relationship crisis. When a woman's life's not crackling with romantic and sexual electricity, they always think their relationship sucks. Women say they don't like vibrating, entertaining intimacy gadgets and dildos, but yet they want men to behave like one.

13. Women think they're too good. Almost all women think they're too good for their boyfriend. With that kind of logic, it's easy to stray when a "better guy" comes along to play.

14. Women cheat for the dumbest reasons. Men cheat because they find someone sexy. Women cheat for the dumbest of reasons, to prove a point, to get back at her man, to let him know she's not getting enough attention, to get something they really want and more dumb reasons.

15. Women have cravings. That is, chocolates and unavailable traits in men. If her man's not very clean and tidy, and she meets a coworker who's a perfectionist when it comes to being clean and tidy, she'll involuntarily be drawn to that trait. So if a guy wants to lay a girl, all he has to do is show off a trait her boyfriend doesn't have and she'll diveboard into his bed.

16. Women get attracted to any man who makes her feel good. Men usually have affairs only with women who are sexually attractive. So unless the guy is rich or super charming, his odds are slim to have an affair with the girl of his dreams. But women cheat with any loser who knows to treat her better than her boyfriend.

17. She's a gold digger. There's no point here. If you're dating a woman who's more interested in your money and the fun times you give her than she is in you, you can't hold on to her unless you strike oil.

18. Women cheat when they're emotionally vulnerable. Men need booze and a sexy girl to cheat. Women just need to feel vulnerable. They'd feel vulnerable for the smallest of reasons and circumstances. And if another guy makes a move at the right time, he'll be able to sleep with her that very night.

19. Committed women love getting the attention of other men. And when they don't get the attention from a guy they like, they try harder to get a second glance. Why do you think girls go weak for bad boys who treat them like crap?

20. Women don't learn from their mistakes. Women make moves and mistakes, and they regret it. But they don't learn. They know when they're crossing the thin red line with another guy, but they just don't try to put a stop to the guy because "they like the attention".

21. Women cheat when they're unhappy in bed. Do you have a small weeny? Or are you suffering from impotency or erectile dysfunction? That's reason enough to cheat on you, don't you think?

22. Her man's charm is wearing off. If a woman isn't sexually attracted to her man anymore, she'll definitely dive head first into any other sexually attractive man's pants.

23. Women are stereotyped. Most men look at women as cute, walking talking intimacy gadgets. Hey, women can only resist temptation so much. If a woman's constantly being hit on by a million guys everywhere she goes, it's only a matter of time before she succumbs to temptation, wouldn't you say?

24. Once bitten, never shy. A woman may cheat and get over it after a heartbreaking while. But a few months later, the drama starts all over again. Women just like the constant rush of falling in and out of love all the time.

25. Do women really ever want to be happy? Really, a woman could be in a perfect long term relationship with a perfect guy. But all she has to do is meet another great guy who knows how to steal a girl and she'll do his bidding in no time. Perhaps, women think they like being happy when in reality, all they want is to experience bursts of happiness and lots of confusions all the time.

True??

Add yours..

Ain't Linda Ik. or some c'mon bloggers we have in Nigeria and other parts of the world. Am just α free thinker, open minded fellow, an optimist and any other acolades you can add after going through this piece.. Enjoy..

Sometimes ago, one of this great nation's military head on réports that ASUU is likely to go on strike, asked α question which still remain fresh in my memory, he said 'who is that ASUU'? and when the strike eventually began then, he was like c'mon 'bring me that ASUU'..kinda personifying the union..
Permit me to call the long gone head of state α Socrate as he sound st*pid then, but his words now make α hell of sense..

It would not be wise if Jamb in the next exam start asking students the full meaning of ASUU as that is on everyone's lips, both literate and otherwise (even my youngest sibling now knows what that means). Its α known fact that this consists of all the work force in tertiary institutions, universities in particular irrespective of their jurisdiction; federal or state..

Furthermore, we are all very aware that this union has been on strike for time now, since July to be precise and all effort to put an end to this phenomenon by the FG has so far proof abortive (not α fan of both parties anyway) as those concerned-students and their parents, have been kept at the edge of their seat to hear the latest development..

In recent times, we've heard cases of lecturer coming out to say they are tired of the so call strike, the question have been asking myself since then was 'who the hell is ASUU'??

From the foregoing and researches that has been made by me, have come to this realization and conclusion that the so call union in accordance to what the former head of state said some years ago that ASUU is α union of the 'FEW'!! Just like democracy in Nigeria is the government of the FEW, by the FEW and for the FEW..(I stand to be corrected)

If the lecturers are getting tired of the whole strike, the same way the serious students are yearning for the strike to be called off, now who the hell are'THEY'??

These are bunch of SELFISH, SINGLE_MINDED and what my religious leaders call SINFUL being, whose soul aim is to fattening their pockets, this THEY have been doing for some time now using the strike as α tool and hiding on the guise that they are sharing the national cake which to me they've not learn how to bake..

WHO IS ASUU??

P2kull..
@pitarzjerry

Thread Closed..

Tut as much, Chidinma Emi ni Baller..


BTW ï can see badoo'ƨ̣̣̣̇̇̇̇ effect on Ozibosco..
#tinini tini to no ti ni,п̥̥̲̣̣̣(wateva dat means) oya dance 4 me..

Catholics'll be lyk

HAIL MARY..

Hmmm, na d work of the prince of this world..

Grooming and nurturing atheists..

Abeg wey dat Kogi gov convoy
Make the thing cum clear this *things..

Abeg wey day Kogi gov convoy
Make the thing cum clear this *things..

Wetin man no go c 4 NL,,ow dis 1 cum take affect Anambra election..

If ï cum post moi GF pics nao,,yu no go put am 4 FP σ,,
And moi gurl 5n pass dis *one..

No pics, ow we wan take knw ow we go take advice una,,
Atleast make we c una pics so we go dey rememba una face Fø̲̣̣я̅ prayer,,

Well sha,,be urself no go rub to much *moju 4 face cum say na makeup,,if u go makeup @all, do so with sense make dem no cum make_u_down..

This kind post *SMH* no dey get reply..hey
If 2 say na Dike or Osu nao,,henhen, na to dey book space..

*back to post σ je.
Full time?? Hmmmmm..not nao
ï'll rada go 4 α part time..

ugoboss26: Bleep you guys!!!.....I don pack and unpack my box reach 5 times for all these cock and bull blogs/rumours when una dey drop...giving us rumours, now you are dashing my hope out again. If I unpack my box this night again and una come with another yeye story about ASUU might / will / hopefully / probably /considerably call off the strike and yet it proves nothing...Amadioha go fire that hand when una take dey blog nonsense!!!!...#AngryFinalyearstudent#

Na by force??

Report has it that the ongoing governorship election in Anambra State was a non-event at Akpakaogwe, Ogidi as some thugs believed to have been hired by the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) dragged electoral officers to a bush and beat them up.

The affected polling center is in Idemili North local government area.

Several eyewitnesses as well as an electoral officer said the thugs snatched ballot boxes and other electoral materials.

Speaking to journalist, an ad hoc staff of the Independent National Electoral Commission said, "I was here doing the accreditation exercise when a PDP agent came in to ask me for the result sheet. He slapped me several times, and others with him dragged me to the bush where I received more beating."

She added that only a few voters had been accredited before the assault which happened in the presence of security officers. "They slapped me several times and snatched the ballot boxes and papers from us. There was a heavy presence of security officers, but they were just looking and didn't help," she added.

Meanwhile, the counting of election results has commenced in some areas of Anambra State.

SOURCE: http://m.naij.com/news/52187.html

The lecturers have been on an industrial action for four
months now, and during this impasse between the FG
and ASUU, now is when there seems to be a light at the
end of the tunnel. Lecturers nationwide have been
voting on whether suspension or continuation of the
strike after the 13 hours meeting with the presidency
where new offers were made to the striking union.
Dr. Festus Iyayi, a past president of the union between
1986-1988, died in a ghastly motor accident on his way
to Kano for the NEC meeting on wednesday, where he
is going to vote on the continuation of the strike. He, on
his own perspective feels the strike should be
continued and that student should still roam about on
streets, forgetting their matric numbers, all on the fact
that the FG must meet all not remaining one on the
2009 agreement lists. I dont want to know the cause of
his death, and I dont care to know the spirituality of his
death. All I know is that, Dr. Festus Iyayi has just
embarked on an ETERNITY strike alone, a strike that
can never be called off, a strike with no union leaders, a
strike with no NEC meeting, a strike with no 13 hours
meeting with Jonathan, an indefinite strike....
lets just learn that whatever decision we take
concerning our lives determines how we are going to
live it. He decided to continue the strike, and there he
is.as many dat pray 4 us 2 remain @ home God will
take dem away 1 by 1..

RIP Dr. Festus Iyayi

God'll surely locate you..

Person wey pass you don pass U̶̲̥̅̊ 4 dis world..

The guy don push U̶̲̥̅̊, γ̲̣̣̥ U̶̲̥̅̊ cum go ask am γ̲̣̣̥ hin push una..??
































Una be mate..??

Make God take am too lah,,
Na him 9ja dey wait σ...

3rd World War- Jesse Jagga ft. Femi Kuti
Redemption- Jesse Jagga





This two gat Me..

Nomski0: How do you make someone 'fall out of love'@ OP

You simply double_date OPENLY..

American journalist narrates his experience of going by bus from Lagos to Abuja.

People told me I was insane for going on that journey. Two Nigerians I met, from Lagos, described it to me as "the deadliest drive in Africa." But they only told me later. The day I embarked on a bus ride from Lagos to Abuja, Nigeria, I had no idea of any of that. And on the morning of Aug. 25, everything seemed to be going as smoothly as could be expected.

I was in Nigeria to take photos with my reporter and friend Connor Adams Sheets, who was set to arrive later that day in Abuja on a fellowship with the International Center For Journalists. But I had flown into Lagos, and needed to find a cheap way to get 475 miles (650 km) northwest to the Nigerian capital. I decided on the bus.

After haggling with the guy who organizes the rides and agreeing to pay the arbitrary sum of 4,680 Naira (about $29), I boarded the bus at the muddy, hectic lot that passes for the Lagos bus depot at about 6:30 a.m.



The word "bus" was extremely generous; it was nothing more than a 13-seat rusting white Toyota Coaster -- or "Toaster," as the locals called it -- minivan that was packed by 7 o'clock.

Every inch of ratty upholstery but those taken up by my wiry frame was occupied by Nigerian travelers, mostly sullen adult males who were not making the trip for the first time, who waited with me. And waited. In true Lagos style, the driver didn't show up until 8:30.

By then, the aisles were stacked so high with luggage, bags of clothes and even an old, crusty microwave oven that I couldn't even see the woman sitting across the narrow aisle from me. I had to convince the driver not to bungee-cord my bags to the roof.



Not-So-Easy Riding

Once we were off, we had to endure a full hour of Lagos' infamous "go-slow" traffic jams before the chaos of the city faded from view.

The next three hours were pretty hassle-free once you got used to the insanity of dodging craterlike potholes at upward of 80 miles per hour.

Most of the time was spent careening past dense, oppressively wet jungle. But occasionally we slowed down to pass through small villages where hawkers would run alongside us, shoving bags and trays of fruit, nuts and trinkets in the open windows, in mostly doomed attempts to make a few naira off the city folk.

We came upon our first roadblock around 11:30, and it was a fairly easy stop. Only five cars ahead, a few soldiers -- or maybe they were cops, you can usually never tell for sure which are which in Nigeria -- with AK-47s slung over their shoulders peered in the windows before waving us on.

We stopped a few times along the way to urinate or grab some fiery "food is ready" (Nigerian for fast food) and every so often the G-force of the van's pothole-evading maneuvers threw me against the window glass, but we were making good time.

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The driver had estimated that the trip would take about eight hours, and it seemed like we'd be in Abuja in time to have a drink or two before dinner.



Confrontation

I hadn't anticipated how many checkpoints would be ahead in Boko Haram-era Nigeria. Terrorism is a daily concern, and the government has clamped down hard.

I counted a succession of 10 military roadblocks over the course of the journey, which stretched to 13 claustrophobic hours, and it seemed that each stop was more intensive than the last.

The men with the oddly painted AKs -- a blue stock here, a yellow barrel there, as if each piece was from a different war -- started asking for ID and suspiciously examining my passport and visa. At the fourth checkpoint, they opened the door and scanned the interior of the bus, eyeballing me but eventually letting us proceed.

A couple dozen miles after that stop, we passed a semitruck that had rolled off the road, spilling its contents into the brush.

Shortly thereafter we came upon checkpoint 5, the worst one. There were about 30 cars in line when we pulled up, and cement blocks placed in the road, Iraq-style, to make sure you couldn't blow through the stop.

It was a rare moment of stillness on the route, so I pulled out my vintage Canon film camera and started snapping photos out the window. A soldier ambled by and I took what I thought was a stealth shot, but when he slammed the butt of his fist against the back window and yelled something at the driver in a language I assumed was Yoruba, I knew I had been caught. You can't take photographs of cops or military personnel in modern Nigeria.

The driver slammed on the brakes and then reached back to open the sliding door as the soldier ran around the right side.

When he got to the open door, he pointed at me and we stared one another down for a couple seconds before he barked, "white man, get off," then "bring that camera with you."

Knowing he had seen me photographing him, I had already torn the film out of the camera, and was holding the exposed roll up to show him as I disembarked.

"What am I going to do with that?" he asked dismissively. He seemed to be unfamiliar with film, and he snatched my camera out of my other hand and walked back to stand with his comrades.

I was dumbfounded and terrified, so I figured, "whatever, it's a loss," and got back in the van.

The driver, however, wasn't going to allow such disrespect, so he pulled off the road and told me to come with him. Despite my vocal protests, we walked back to where the soldiers were resuming their car searches and explained that I was an oyibo -- white person -- new to the country and that I didn't understand the rules. I apologized, they argued in a Nigerian language I assumed to be Yoruba, and finally the camera changed hands again.

"If we catch you doing that again, we'll lay you out," the soldier told me, pointing the barrel of his assault rifle at a spot on the ground.

But we won that round, and within minutes we had passed the roadblock and were back on the pockmarked open road.

We saw another accident aftermath during the long stretch before the sixth checkpoint. A minibus very similar to ours had flipped over, and people were still arguing about it on the side of the road. There was another totaled car, still smoldering, just past the seventh checkpoint.



Flattened

After we passed the ninth roadblock without incident, cement blocks started to pepper the roadway even when we were far from any soldiers. We were nearing Abuja, the nation's capital and a popular terror target.

We slowly weaved our way through them, and the lead-footed driver would floor it whenever we came to an unimpeded stretch.

Then the inevitable happened. The driver, trying to dodge a massive canyon in the road, veered into the rocky median, where we were met by the unmistakable sound of a tire bursting. We had a flat just an hour from our destination.

At first the driver carried on as if nothing happened, perhaps trying to will away the problem. But the front-left tire eventually collapsed further, spewing fetid smoke into the air as we drove.

Eventually we stopped. The driver came back with a look of consternation on his face, but in Nigeria there's no equivalent of the American AAA to rescue you -- or at least, he certainly wasn't a member -- so we plodded on at 20 miles per hour for another several miles.

The tire continued to burn, and by the time we reached a rundown truck stop, I was choking on the light-gray smoke, feeling as though I was breathing in solid chunks of noxious rubber by the end.

When we finally parked, my fellow passengers and I vaulted out of the bus, gasping for air, and sprawled out on the ground a few feet away from the death trap we were all eager to leave behind.

The driver miraculously found a replacement tire within minutes, rolled it over, and had us back up and running within a half hour. After another 30 minutes we had reached the relative civilization of Abuja, and I felt a wave of relief at having escaped the harrowing drive mostly unscathed.

But there were still two more checkpoints to clear, and speed bumps of varied size. We cleared the smaller ones easily, but the bigger ones jolted us, sending my head crashing into the van's ceiling and side window.

At the last roadblock, a soldier popped his head inside the van and asked me where I was coming from. I said Lagos, and he responded, shaking his head, "Why would you do that?"

I was nauseous, sore and tired when we pulled into the makeshift city center of Abuja. Traffic was sluggish and the fumes were strong, but when I finally got out of the van and arrived at my hotel via cab, it was as heavily fortified as any of the stops along the road from Lagos. A man with an AK-47 waved me past the steel gate.

"Welcome to Abuja," I thought, and walked inside.

http://m.naij.com/news/51668.html

The strike of Academic Staff Union of Universities (ASUU) has entered its fourth month, and lecturers of the government-owned universities will on Monday hold a referendum to make some decisions.

Local chapters of the Union in each campus have invited members for the crucial meeting during which they will be briefed on the outcome of the 13-hour long meeting ASUU Executives had with the President Goodluck Jonathan and other officials of the Federal Government.

The briefing will be followed by voting in favour or against the continuation of the strike.

Though some members of the union are still sceptical about the promise of the government, there are indications that the referendum will favour ending the strike.

According to a union member, referendum is always conducted before a strike is embarked upon or called off.

The ASUU embarked on a strike to demand the implementation of the 2009 agreement with government on July 1.

http://m.naij.com/news/51673.html

The fact is, the course of true love never runs smooth, so here's a few tips to ensure he falls for you as much as you have for him.



1. Eye Him:

Not of your breasts or bottom or any other body part, but of your eyes. Locking eyes with a guy doesn't just tell him you're interested, it can even make him feel like he's falling in love with you. Why? Because it's the behaviour of loved-up couples. By encouraging him to gaze into your eyes by maintaining eye contact with him, you can lead his brain towards the idea of love.

2. Be Like Him

There's no need to start shaving your chin or scratching between your legs, but focusing on the ways in which you're alike can help create a mutual attraction. We may not realise it, but we have a natural tendency to go for people who not only have similar interests and backgrounds to us, but also use similar facial expressions. Researchers found that we're more likely to go for people who look similar to us because we perceive certain facial attributes as clues to personality. Laughter lines, frown lines, wide smiles, restrained expressions are all indications of what a person is like - sociable, friendly, shy, emotional - so we seek out people who look as though they'd be compatible with us.

3. But Don't Go Too Far

The reason for this one is simple: he'll know, you'll know and it doesn't bode well for the future. Adapting your behaviour slightly is one thing, but faking aspects of your personality or pretending you're really into golf, when in fact it bores you brainless, will just lead to trouble. Sometimes, however, you might find yourself enjoying things you didn't before simply because you hadn't tried them and that's fine. So feel free to try the things he does, but if it doesn't feel like a good fit, drop it. Instead, encourage him to try doing the things you enjoy and see how that works.

4. Hang Around A Lot

This sounds counter-intuitive but it's not. Familiarity doesn't breed contempt (unless he doesn't like you in the first place, in which you're kind of doomed, sorry). In fact, the more time you spend together, the more he'll like you. Advertising works in part because it repeatedly exposes you to a particularly product. It's the same with people - the more time you spend together, taking for granted that there's some mutual attraction to begin with, the more you'll grow to like each other.

5. Now Disappear

Okay, not off the face off the earth, but just enough to remind him how much he loves spending time with you. New couples often go through a stage where they're living in each other's pockets. Then there might come a period where the excited feelings level out. Before that happens, take a step back and be a little less available. Spend more time with your friends (they've been feeling neglected anyhow!), see your family, work late a few nights. This isn't about game playing but it'll give you a greater sense of control of your own emotions, and help to heighten his.

6. Ask For His Help

We all like to feel needed. The reason is simple: if someone needs to ask your advice, needs you to help them shift a bed, needs you to make them feel better, helping them makes you feel good about yourself. Feeling needed can also make someone insecure feel safe - after all, if you need him, you're less likely to run off with some other guy, right? In this day and age when women are fiercely independent, a man can feel less able to give her what she needs - other than sex, what does he have to offer? So by relying on him a little - and letting him rely on you too - you're allowing the bond between you to deepen. A good step towards falling in love.

7. Be Confident Too

Yes, guys like to feel needed. No, they don't want to feel as though you might collapse into a boneless snivelling heap if they're not around. A woman who knows what she likes and makes every effort to get it is very attractive. In fact, when a woman like that needs a man it makes him feel all the more valuable - because it's as though she needs him specifically, rather than just any old guy.

8. Have A Laugh

More than wanting to be seen as strong, clever or tough, men want to be the funny one. And the reason is simple: women love a man who makes them laugh. When people seem to be enjoying our entertaining banter, it makes us feel confident. And that, in turn, makes us feel good, sexy even. If, each time you see a guy, you leave him feeling great about himself, he'll begin to associate that feeling with you. You're halfway to making him fall in love with you.

9. Be A Good Friend

This one should be a no-brainer but for some reason it often gets ignored. Playing hard to get, teasing him, acting fragile are all ways you can try and 'trick' a man into a kind of love. But the fact is that if you want a man to care about you deeply, friendship is the key. At work, with friends, men are often 'on guard', being competitive and so on. When they're with you, they need to feel safe - game playing might help hook a guy in the first place, but it gets extremely tiring. Being supportive, listening to him, making him laugh, helping him feel good about himself and life in general - these are the things that make him really value you. And the more he values you, the more he loves you.

10. Feed Him

The way to a man's heart is through his stomach. It's such a cliché and it feels pretty sexist too. Why should a woman have to feed her man? And why can't he feed YOU grapes instead? Well, the fact is everyone - man, woman, dog or cat - loves to be fed. This isn't something that's peculiar to men, but it is a sure-fire way to make anyone feel loved. It's about being taken care of, partly, but it's also because being hungry for food is such a basic primal thing. If someone brings you a freshly prepared platter of tongue-tingling delights is it any wonder we love them more?

11. Love Him

Love is a two-way thing. You can't expect him to love you if you don't really love him in the first place. What does that mean? Sometimes we want someone to fall in love with us because we need to feel wanted, but in reality, we're not actually in love with the person ourselves. Ask yourself how you feel about this guy. Do you accept him for who he is? Value him and the fact he's in your life? Do you appreciate all that he does for you? Feel as though he's your best friend, someone you can rely on in all things? If not, you may just be wishing to be loved without being willing to love yourself. But the two go hand in hand.

12. Love Yourself

This is both the first and the last step in getting a guy to fall for you. Because if you don't truly love yourself, he will find it difficult to fall in love with you. Think of yourself as the number one prize - because to the right person that's exactly what you are. To get to feel that good about yourself you need to learn to appreciate all the good things you have to offer. And by that we don't mean your bootilicious behind, your come-to-bed eyes or any other thing you can see in the mirror. It's also not about the new and expensive things in your wardrobe, your skills at work or the fact you can Azonto better, it's about loving who you are as a person. Knowing yourself, knowing that you're sociable, witty, kind, insightful, cool under pressure, empathetic, whatever, is the first step in loving yourself. Then let him see your best attributes as often as you can. Put yourself in situations where you can shine and he'll soon see the light.

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As leaders of the Academic Staff Union of Universities (ASUU) meet with President Goodluck Jonathan today, the union has said the President lacks the right to arbitrarily reopen the universities, which were shut down following the union's national strike.

ASUU was reacting to reports that the President had directed the reopening of universities with or without ASUU.

Its Chairman at the University of Calabar (UNICAL), Dr James Okpiliya, spoke yesterday with journalist in Calabar, the Cross River State, on the matter.

He said: "The President has no right to reopen schools. In the first place, he did not close the schools. ASUU also did not close the schools. If he likes, let him direct the vice chancellors to reopen the universities. But the issue is that academics will not return to the classrooms until all the issues in the 2009 agreement as well as the Memorandum of Understanding (MoU) between the union and the Federal Government are sufficiently implemented.

"In the military era, the Head of State never used force to resolve its impasse with the union; not now, when we are in a democracy. If he opens the schools, he can come and teach in the universities. If he uses brute force, as it is rumoured, he can as well return to the classroom to teach.

"I advise him to sit down sincerely with the leadership of ASUU with a view to resolving the knotty issues in the implementation of the 2009 agreement and the MoU. These are the main issues in contention in the current struggle.

"I believe Mr President has not been adequately briefed; that is why he has been insinuating that the strike is political. The meeting should, therefore, afford him the opportunity to hear from ASUU himself with a view to resolving the issues.

"Remember the strike itself would not have been avoidable if those who midwifed the negotiation of this agreement had it captured in the previous budgets. But because they failed to put the financial implication of this agreement in the budget since 2009, we find ourselves here today.

"The only thing that can bring about normalcy is when the issues in contention are resolved."

The ASUU has said no amount of threat of forceful reopening of universities will end its nationwide strike.

The union said the government's threat would only be counter-productive rather than achieve the intended goal.



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