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Me sef no understand NFT,

siofra:
I just say make I tell una.

Never leave a good woman because she mistakenly slept with another man Thank you

troll lol

Idaytesj29:
It can only be true or false, either way. She feels you can be her helper to relocate her to a developed country with your baby or not.

Decide in your mind that you will help her relocate abroad, cos she believe you can afford it. I think so too.

Relocate her to Canada or US or Australia or New Zealand. But not the UK where you and your family reside.

She just want you to help her get a better life.

I see no big deal in that, if you can her attractive enough to f...u...c...k her, you should be able to pity her enough to help her.

You may feel you don't owe her that kind of help, but you should consider doing it to help her future children, which one may be yours or none.

Na so which kain logic be that. So because you sleep with every women doesn't mean you have to migrate them.

If she has proof then this won't be a debate. If she can sleep with a married man, then what else can't she do.

Born2Breed:
Admin of the same whatsapp group. I give u yansh oh!!!!

Guy stop this gay yarns nau

Iyaebe:
A cheat should expect anything and everything thrown at him

You haven't answered question, you just deflected. I don't expect you to hold women accountable anyway. you are heaviy biased as usual

Iyaebe:
The same thing applies to a married man who is immatured enough to lay with a single lady but wants to run from the consequences.He should own up and do his responsibilities,that’s it.

So why is it hard for her to give him a Pregnancy report stop being naive, your gender is not some saint either,

Iyaebe:
So you are this wicked? Not even minding the emotional trauma she’ll pass through

Iyaebe you are naive, if she is matured enough to lay with a married man, she is matured enough to deal with the consequences, she needs to woman up and bear it. Plus you ladies are cunning. This is not an uncommon tactic.

They wan run my guy street, all these broke ladies.

Born2Breed:
Do you want to run away from your responsibility.?

This is the wages of adultery. Settle her and let her be.

This is just £3,000 and that's fair enough.

lol quit dreaming, no report no money. What do you take men for ?

finson:
Good day all,

I was working in Lagos as expatriate. I am married and she was fully aware at the beginning of the relationship.

I had sex with my gf on the 6th day and I pulled out.

I told her that month that my contract has been terminated by my company and I have to go back to my country.

On 27th day I met her (5 days before leaving the country) and she asked me if I am sure that I pulled out on time when we had sex last time and I told her yes and she told me that she is asking the question because she has not seen her period.

When I left the country 2 weeks later I chatted her and I asked if she is doing well. She told me that she is not fine. I asked "why ?" And she told me that she is pregnant. I was very surprised and I called her. That day she told me that she was just joking with me she is not pregrant and we talked about everything.

Last week she told me that she is pregnant. She shared with me a test results on a paper where the date of the pregnancy perfectly matches with the date we had sex.

She told me that if her family is aware of the situation they will disowned her and she immediately shared with me some requirements to apply for a job in UK where 2 million NGN are required and she asked me for support. She also deleted the image of the tests results.

When I asked her to share with me she told me that she does not want me to be in trouble if my wife see that document in my phone. I insisted to get a copy and I told her that she can be assured I will not keep it in my phone. She shared back the document after cropped the letterhead. I insisted to get the full copy and she sent another one after striketrhoughed on her name.

I told her that I don't think in Nigeria the only option available for a woman who gets pregnant is to travel to UK even if her family will disown her. I understand that the situation is not comfortable but there could be other options. Even this process to go to UK can be unsuccessful, and if it is the case, this amount of money would have been lost.

I am not from Nigeria and this story seems suspicious to me. I am currently abroad, there is no way I can verify what she is telling me. I don't also want to open it some of my friends there.

To be honest, I never planned after I left the country to cut communication with her or to support her. But I prefer to support her whenever I have the opportunity to do. I don't know now if this story about the pregnancy is true or not.

If you have any experience in this kind of situation please share with me. Any advice is also welcome.
Please don't judge me.

tell her you are not sending a dime until you see a Medical Hospital report or a Lab report. some of this ladies knowlingly play on the intelligence that there would be less hesistation to want to get rid of it especially with the fact that you have a wife. it's most likely a con.

emmyN:
Sounds creepy for me. You got monitoring spirits, and they read your diary too

Yeah I know, sadly I have jot my thoughts down, it's a compulsion for me

Ayrastarr:
Your pics is in your Profile tho.

Valid point

Iyaebe:
Maids are there sha so don’t subject your wife to slavery

I cook too nau, but you must enter the kitchen too. I don't get the big deal. I clean the house, cook and do everything. Only a lazy person has issue understanding this, it's being an Adult. If there's a maid then she has to take role in other things. I can't stand a lazy person doing nothing.

Iyaebe:
Now you are talking, don’t worry about washing plates, I go even wash underwears join as long as I see you are really trying as a husband and I’ll also get you gifts time to time.I can give my all to a good and responsible man who also appreciates my own sacrifices.

You get, that is why I say all these feminist thing is on Twitter and NL, Nigerian homes everyone plays a role and that works for us. African men are providers and the wives must make his life easier.

Iyaebe:
I don’t have problems washing plates and functioning perfectly in my domestic duties but no man should ask me to be a provider and share bills,you guys think it’s easy taking care of the homefront abi? I as a person wish to have a functional home no matter what it will cost me,I will never raise children that’ll be a menace to the society,non of my kids will be found wanting in the ills of the society and I can’t achieve that if my husband asked me to start hustling like him all in a bid to share bills.When and if I get married, I owe my husband and kids total care,peace of mind,raise good and excellent kids for him and makes sure he’s happy,just achieving all these will make me fulfilled,it’s not about money for me.Remember I never said I won’t assist him when there’s need to.Get my point please.

Aunty some of us don't issues paying bills, and some of us already hustle to take care of the family but that plate you must wash is my own.

@Iyaebe

Also pick a side and stay.

you usually say you hate guys who do feminist and share the bills, so if the guy is traditional and paying the bills, where do you think your azz is supposed to be ?........................................Kitchen

Abi you are now feminist in this thread now. Pick a struggle aunty or uncle

Iyaebe:
Kikikikik you are still this confused because I don’t support the brainwashed modern day slavery you guys dishes out on this forum.Youll be disappointed for a long time and hope you’ve left akure because I don’t know what you are still doing there if you don’t have ulterior motives,thank your stars I don’t have your fiancées number

As long as you don't pay bride price or have the ability to marry someone, all you've said is theory feminism. You will enter a man's house and still wash plate las las. Your predecessors did it before you and you shall follow suit.

I wanted to create a thread for Elden Ring players, so we can discuss builds, where to farm and hidden paths ?

PSN: rustless-dance3

Oshe bonding over semen.

englishmart:
The time and money I spent going to school, if I invested same into learning a trade, I would be $2m more or less than Cubana. After which I will buy two PhD's in business I can't defend

Like you can imagine the BS, you spend all that money just to earn a pittance.

Xilsbridalhouse:
Iyaebe is just catching cruise here lol how do you take her matter serious?

Btw, these are irrelevant issues and this is why we need the Holy Spirit for directions when facing situations like this. I cook fine, you cook fine...when there is love, it matters not but I understand we are humans and sometimes these things gets to us, but when you think about it, there are more serious issues in life and this shouldn’t give you headache. Forgive and let go, be at peace with everyone and enjoy life.

*he

Most jobless trolls on NL tend to be male, if she is female then I am dissappointed

Stargurl20:
Typical 'Nigeria's men' mentality. I'm not amazed.

Yimu position of husband carries no respect anymore that's why. he says he does 80% of the chores, at least pretend to hold your gender accountable. If this happened in your son's home,your gender will be the first to flip out

Stephen2324:
What made you lose feelings for someone you loved most?

We were discussing something and she insulted me in a way that I knew there was no coming back from, broke it off, She said she was angry and didn't meant it, but she has an explosive anger and besides there were better women so why should I stick it out. very rude something

Update

you won't believe it, she reached out to me on IG but she is blocked, wtf this is what i get for bringing this up


Update 2

Wow I'm blown away she apologised and hasn't had peace because I blocked and ghosted her after what she did. I swear after that day. I didnt have any malice against her. This is an interesting turn of event and weird. I just sent her prayer and moved on because they say I'm messing with an ex.

3 years and the moment I mentioned it , she reaches out to me. Be like say my NL profile don cast