₦airaland Forum

IvarDboneless:
What will be the best approach to this matter. My Neighbor needs advice...mind you the said guy is a kinda stubborn and wayward and he is the second son of the family.
The wife went to spend a holiday at the family house where it happened.
Advice Advice Advice...

I go beat brother tire, my own wife that I will pay bride price over

If not Tech, I'd prob go into Video Production and Content Learning. But the answer yes, but won't be as bouyant though

Janina:
Have been a guest on this platform ... so I decided to open an account ...
Am a 20 years old lady ,

my parents exspecially my mom said that I shouldn't have a boyfriend..that if someone is coming for me it going to be Marriage anything apart from marriage should be cut off.
so I decided to stick with what she said... cos I love my parents parents very much I don't want to break their heart..
But has anyone have an experience like this

Give them 5 more years and they will start asking for bf/husband

eazzzy1:
Not being able to pay the bills is different from knowing it’s not your duty to pay the bills. Confidence and respect are not bought by paying bills, they come with who you are as a person. If I had a million dollars, would I feel less confident because my wife picks a $39 bill at a restaurant?

This is how you set a standard and when you can’t meet up due to unforeseen circumstances, your partner starts cheating on you. You lose so much self esteem because it was all tied up to your ability to pay bills.

Nothing bad with a man being generous, but when a woman’s love and respect is bought, there’s always someone else willing to pay more than what you have for it.

Like I wish I could get you a bottle of beer for that statement

CUMIN:
Everything you need to know is on the internet. Why do you need someone to teach you.

I think Nigerians are lazy when it comes to sourcing for information, the internet has everything one needs.

Eya lover boy pele

Iyaebe:
Will join at the right time

Sure, and it makes sense too, later

Iyaebe:
Remember I’m watching you,you must not go astray.

Omo you post alot just going through your posts, and in every 3mins you have a post in a thread since 9am. You sure you don't want to join Upworks lol

DrLevi:
Well there are friends, family and/or colleagues that care about you

Doesn't seem to justify the cost of a relationship for what is readily available elsewhere, for cheaper, with less mentally wrecking effect that tends to comes with terrible relationships

Or maybe I'm just slow with these things

You will see what I mean in the future, it's all a phase. I had the same views too way earlier on Nl

DrLevi:
Interesting take at the bolded... Would love if you could shed more light on that.

Asking as a single guy

Personally ,I feel much more happier in a relationship than alone, cuz i mean you have someone who cares about you.

Candidlady:
@bolded

That line always get me pissed! Met Jan said yes Jan had sex same Jan

Abeg where una dey meet em this girls...

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have you had sex with her?

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you shouldn't be scared people actually CHANGE!!! But if you can't handle it iwill advice you to end the relationship

Most people want to be in a relationship, I don't blame them, a relationship makes sense than being single.

folake4u:
Wahala.

She doesn't want to admit that she likes light skinned men

Iyaebe:
You are an emotional person, be strong and keep been good

Lol weirdo giving advice. I'll pass but wish you well though

Iyaebe:
Eiya your babe has gone,you better don’t try anything funny,I’m watching you

You're a weird person

If you watched Suburban Commando , you are an OG, the rest add uncle to my name.

Yes it went well, She got married to someone she loves, and i was happy for her. I took my L and moved along

Arizonaz:
This is true I can resonate with you. But I haven't tried LOuD. I want to break free from that circle. I relapse after some weeks when I'm stressed.

it's normal, try taking up exercise, if you don't it helps. I still relapse too so no biggie, with time, we will outgrow it. but ur username lol

Does anyone know about Akure and how fast it is ? lagos is too crowded. Thanks

Olumighty123:
qtguru sorry that I had to mention you on a dead thread, I've been a follower of your diary. I saw where you wanted to give your Samsung phone out, thought maybe I could be lucky enough to have it,.im a crypto trader but due to how the crypto market is these days, I've been down financially, plus my phone's been acting all up, my Samsung s8 would sometimes stuck on start up and it takes forever to come up.. Pls help me in whatever way you can.

I have promised someone. I think you should flash your Samsung S8 with a different ROM, go to the phone section they will advise more.

It never bothered me, payday was coming so why should I get emotional. In the corporate world you're going to work with calibre of strange people, if you're emotional they will say you have no leadership trait.

When they shout, I'll close work and head to beer parlour and be thinking of my future and which company to jump to.

Arizonaz:
At the bolded, does it make you lose track of your goals?

I believe it is a dangerous addiction that can make one just coast along with life. Speaking from experience, when I smoked Loud I would work and read, but if it was SK i'd just want to eat and sleep or be lazy.

I gave up alcohol after I stupidly was stressed and drank alot without eating anything, it was a terrible night is all I would say, I've stopped now. mostly water and lemon

I have experience contributing to Open Source

I wrote a theme and modules for ImpressPages

and also submitted a Pull Request to someone's module in Processwire and was mentioned in the newsletter


The easiest way is picking a code and understanding it, I mean the source code. I read alot of React / Angular and Svelte source code, and when you see what they do, you start to have more understanding.

e.g React Devtool is not that complex to build, but I thought it was until i read the source code. Currently I forked the Svelte Dev tool because I want to fix something.

The more you read their code, the more you get their line of thought.